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"Lets say you have six months left and you have to make arrangements, now or never. Where would you prefer to die? Hospital, hospice or home?"
At home of course, where I was born but only if it's easier for my family. |
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Hospital.
I wouldn't want my children to forever remember our family home as the place that their mum passed away.
I would prefer hospital over hospice as I'm hoping whatever takes me makes it quick. I don't want a long, drawn out illness that has me facing death for a prolonged period of time.
Eve. X |
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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 11:44:46]
Hahaha this made me spit out my coffee.
You're easily pleased."
What part of my statement suggested I was pleased? |
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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 11:44:46]
Hahaha this made me spit out my coffee.
You're easily pleased.
What part of my statement suggested I was pleased? "
The caffeinated spittle. |
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Now for me home , however I'd probably choose hospice as I know what a strain it is caring for someone terminally ill at home. It retains your relationship with your family differently rather than making them be carers which doesn't come naturally to everyone. |
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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 11:44:46]
Hahaha this made me spit out my coffee.
You're easily pleased.
What part of my statement suggested I was pleased?
The caffeinated spittle."
I lost coffee and gained nothing but this conversation. Pleased doesn't come into it. I am furious. |
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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 11:44:46]
Hahaha this made me spit out my coffee.
You're easily pleased.
What part of my statement suggested I was pleased?
The caffeinated spittle.
I lost coffee and gained nothing but this conversation. Pleased doesn't come into it. I am furious. "
But you laughed before you ejaculated coffee juice from yer gob. Next you'll be telling me you didn't actually spit your coffee out. |
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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 11:44:46]
Hahaha this made me spit out my coffee.
You're easily pleased.
What part of my statement suggested I was pleased?
The caffeinated spittle.
I lost coffee and gained nothing but this conversation. Pleased doesn't come into it. I am furious.
But you laughed before you ejaculated coffee juice from yer gob. Next you'll be telling me you didn't actually spit your coffee out."
Ah fuck, I knew it couldn't last for ever. I'm gonna level with you, I had a cup of tea. And I didn't even smile. I'm just so very alone. |
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Probably at home for me. Though I'm not sure it matters as long as I was with the people who made my life what it is. Watched family members die in all three, the hospital was by far the worst. |
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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 11:44:46]
Hahaha this made me spit out my coffee.
You're easily pleased.
What part of my statement suggested I was pleased?
The caffeinated spittle.
I lost coffee and gained nothing but this conversation. Pleased doesn't come into it. I am furious.
But you laughed before you ejaculated coffee juice from yer gob. Next you'll be telling me you didn't actually spit your coffee out.
Ah fuck, I knew it couldn't last for ever. I'm gonna level with you, I had a cup of tea. And I didn't even smile. I'm just so very alone. "
Dude, man hug. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/17 11:44:46]
Hahaha this made me spit out my coffee.
You're easily pleased.
What part of my statement suggested I was pleased?
The caffeinated spittle.
I lost coffee and gained nothing but this conversation. Pleased doesn't come into it. I am furious.
But you laughed before you ejaculated coffee juice from yer gob. Next you'll be telling me you didn't actually spit your coffee out.
Ah fuck, I knew it couldn't last for ever. I'm gonna level with you, I had a cup of tea. And I didn't even smile. I'm just so very alone.
Dude, man hug."
Finally some action! I knew creeping in these forums would work |
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"Fooking weird post for a swingers site ffs  "
It doesn't seem it to me. The short time I've been here, there appears to be a pretty good attitude to life.
Death is a pretty important part to life, so I expect people here to have a pretty good attitude to that also.
Talking about it is quite important, and it's sometimes easier to get things clear in your mind with strangers...
It's a question you are likely to come across at some point, if not for yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can honestly say I've never wondered about where would be the nicest place to die - but peacefully, in my sleep would be good.
Doesn't bother me because I'll be dead afterwards and will neither be pleased, nor upset. |
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best place to die for me would be falling off a mountain, building or from an aircraft. So cool to enjoy the feeling of the fall but miss out on the landing 
But primary choice would be none of the above, I was diagnosed terminal in 2004 and given 6 months to a year... last I checked I still have a pulse. |
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"At the age of 99, in my own bed, shot by a jealous lover please.
Everyone here will 'die' at 99  "
Yes but they will then be reborn aged at 89 with a similar profile and images asking for veris  |
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"Personally I think I might just swim out into the North Sea as far as I can manage.
Then relax..."
Sounds like a plan. I have been told that drowning is not the worst way to go nor is hypothermia. I have nearly drowned twice and had hypothermia once and although it didn't end terminally, I think that one or the other might be better than stretching out the misery doped up on morphine in either of the three Hs. |
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"Lets say you have six months left and you have to make arrangements, now or never. Where would you prefer to die? Hospital, hospice or home?"
Fucking hell.
Just slit your wrists already. 
Who even thinks like that?... |
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"Lets say you have six months left and you have to make arrangements, now or never. Where would you prefer to die? Hospital, hospice or home?
Fucking hell.
Just slit your wrists already.
Who even thinks like that?..."
Probably people a little older than 30!
However, by ex-father in law died alone in hospital early this morning, as no-one could get there in time (he was ok-ish yesterday)...
Just to cheer you up a little more.
;-) |
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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Lets say you have six months left and you have to make arrangements, now or never. Where would you prefer to die? Hospital, hospice or home?
Fucking hell.
Just slit your wrists already.
Who even thinks like that?...
Probably people a little older than 30!
However, by ex-father in law died alone in hospital early this morning, as no-one could get there in time (he was ok-ish yesterday)...
Just to cheer you up a little more.
;-)"
Really sorry to hear that; x |
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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"At the age of 99, in my own bed, shot by a jealous lover please.
Everyone here will 'die' at 99
True but most of them will be at least 110 if they go by their birth certificate age  "
That is because everyone here was 'born' at 18  |
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"Can I add another H hotel so I can haunt the corridor in a white sheet going wwwooooooo. xxx
Not the Shag-a-lodge at T5  "
Nooo, it would have to be a big old one. You can't haunt a horrible modern hotel! |
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You're suggesting there you die of an illness or in your sleep....
I don't want either, I want to go in a blaze of glory doing some thing stupid and crazy |
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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can I add another H hotel so I can haunt the corridor in a white sheet going wwwooooooo. xxx
Not the Shag-a-lodge at T5
Nooo, it would have to be a big old one. You can't haunt a horrible modern hotel!"
But the big old ones have prissy people in them; the shag-a-lodge has the horny crowd from AbFab |
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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It would depend what ever was easier for my family, which, I guess would be a hospice. Definitely not in hospital, after the end of life experience, we had with my lovely Mum  "
I am sorry to hear that; x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"It would depend what ever was easier for my family, which, I guess would be a hospice. Definitely not in hospital, after the end of life experience, we had with my lovely Mum
I am sorry to hear that; x"
Ah, thank you Josie! Xx |
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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You're suggesting there you die of an illness or in your sleep....
I don't want either, I want to go in a blaze of glory doing some thing stupid and crazy "
Yes, hypothetically, a terminal illness where they can predict with a +/- three month accuracy
And no cheating; suicide is not an option |
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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"best place to die for me would be falling off a mountain, building or from an aircraft. So cool to enjoy the feeling of the fall but miss out on the landing
But primary choice would be none of the above, I was diagnosed terminal in 2004 and given 6 months to a year... last I checked I still have a pulse."
Anything over 30 beats per minute qualifies for a meet here |
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I spent three weeks living in a hospice with my husband before he died. We had been married for 25 years. We were given a room with a double bed and every night I lay next to him and cuddled him. On the last night I fell asleep for two hours and when I woke up he had died but at least he knew I was with him. The care and compassion a hospice provides is far above what you would ever expect and I am eternally grateful to St Gemma's Hospice Leeds.
Sally |
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By *osie OP Woman
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"I spent three weeks living in a hospice with my husband before he died. We had been married for 25 years. We were given a room with a double bed and every night I lay next to him and cuddled him. On the last night I fell asleep for two hours and when I woke up he had died but at least he knew I was with him. The care and compassion a hospice provides is far above what you would ever expect and I am eternally grateful to St Gemma's Hospice Leeds.
Sally "
I am really sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing; x; nobody can halt death but you were there with him and he knew
We are all going to die but it is not something we like to think about much. Ultimately, our loved ones are going to be left with the good or bad memories; not the person dying
Personally, I would like to die whilst I am still able to take care of myself and not when I become a burden on someone. Perhaps a hospice is the best place. I just wanted to hear views and I am sorry that it brought up sad memories for you |
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I live alone but wouldn't want someone finding an unexpected decomposed mess. It will depend on my circumstances, home life, predictability etc. I'd prefer a peaceful, comfortable death, wherever it is, so home is probably first choice.
But friends have to confiscate the computer, so family don't find all of my sexual data. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I spent three weeks living in a hospice with my husband before he died. We had been married for 25 years. We were given a room with a double bed and every night I lay next to him and cuddled him. On the last night I fell asleep for two hours and when I woke up he had died but at least he knew I was with him. The care and compassion a hospice provides is far above what you would ever expect and I am eternally grateful to St Gemma's Hospice Leeds.
Sally "
That's a poignant ending for you both, very sad but also so moving that you got to cuddle up with your husband each night and was with him when he passed and he knew that, which must have been a great comfort to him. Sounds like the hospice was the best place to be. Thanks for sharing. Xxx |
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Out of the 3 options most definitely in a hospice. ..having had a family member in a local hospice for 3 weeks it's the best option in my opinion. Caring, considerate and compassionate staff made things so much easier to deal with x |
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"Out of the 3 options most definitely in a hospice. ..having had a family member in a local hospice for 3 weeks it's the best option in my opinion. Caring, considerate and compassionate staff made things so much easier to deal with x"
That's great to hear, thank you! X |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Lets say you have six months left and you have to make arrangements, now or never. Where would you prefer to die? Hospital, hospice or home?
Fucking hell.
Just slit your wrists already.
Who even thinks like that?...
Probably people a little older than 30!
However, by ex-father in law died alone in hospital early this morning, as no-one could get there in time (he was ok-ish yesterday)...
Just to cheer you up a little more.
;-)"
Ah, sorry to hear that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent three weeks living in a hospice with my husband before he died. We had been married for 25 years. We were given a room with a double bed and every night I lay next to him and cuddled him. On the last night I fell asleep for two hours and when I woke up he had died but at least he knew I was with him. The care and compassion a hospice provides is far above what you would ever expect and I am eternally grateful to St Gemma's Hospice Leeds.
Sally "
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