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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I doing something wrong!! 4weeks on here and not a thing (give up)"
Welcome to instashag.com sorry your not having as much luck as the rest of us on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously why do so many people think that they are guaranteed to get meets quickly when they are on here?
Because I did 
To be fair so did we lol "
For some of us it is Instashag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haaa haaa joys of a newbie i have been on off here since i was 23 and am still learning key is not to expect anything and have a laugh once people know ur serious u might and i mean might get a meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heres some tips.
Read the profiles carefully, dont just look at photos and the title of the profile. Pick something in the profile to start a first message with.
Dont send cock pics unless the photography is stunning (shadow and silhouette are good creative tricks) Never use flash! ew ew ew
Dont get pissed off if the person dosnt reply. l get loads of messages, not because im especially attractive but because there are so many guys per couple/female looking for the same thing.
I feel bad for guys on here sometimes. I have the rule of not meeting without good photos or at least one verification from another TS. but thats me.
I cant speak to you personally and why the hell would you want my advice anyway, so im speaking to the room here, but lm sure you will meet someone if you can get their attention.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been chatting to the sexy op and we are going to meet up soon hopefully it's just we live far apart and I'm ill at the moment but once I am better he had better watch out lol. |
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"Am I doing something wrong!! 4weeks on here and not a thing (give up)"
I can only speak from our personal experience.
You've put no effort into your profile so we are unlikely to give you a second look.
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
Torfaen/Gwent |
Considering you asked for advice on your profile on another thread and have completely ignored it so far (green arrow is a good friend)
Why are you surprised? And as others have said, 4 weeks isn't that long. It's not tinder or POF or any other dating app. And with the ratio of men to women, we get to be picky and guys who whine after a few weeks that they're not getting laid are an instant turn off, for me anyways. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
this is a swingers site not a sex site
the difference being, you actually have to make the effort to be social, get known face to face and have a decent attitude, to be successful here.
yes a few people are here to just fuck, but its not the majority, most want to know you as a person, have a connection, have similar preferences etc
people aren't interested in the im here, im entitle, or, im going to whinge and sulk, method of attracting attention.
no one wants to meet a miserable sod.
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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This is not Instant Fix!
You've only been on 4 weeks! It can take months to get a meet.
Your profile is three short lines and says nothing about you or what you seek.
You don't accommodate but don't say why.
There's no facial pic.
Look at all the other similar threads on the Forum pages to get an idea of how much effort you need to put in to get any form of result.
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"I heard someone on the wireless refer to Fabswingers as insta-shag. Made me smile."
Wireless Internet I assume you are referring to, listening to a podcast?
Or has something happened to the space time continuem and I should be in the garden building an Anderson shelter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to be brutal OP, but a week ago you asked for help to make your profile stand out. You were given good advice and chose to ignore it and left it how it was when you asked and made no effort.
So you're pretty much getting what you deserve for your efforts...nothing. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
You had 7 responses to your last thread, and 35 to this one, so things are improving.
However, seriously your profile needs a lot, and I mean, a lot of work. 3 very short lines, 2 interests, and one pic.
Sit down and work on your profile if you are really serious. If not, then don't moan.
Good luck OP xxxxx Suzi |
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