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over a year ago
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I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many people would say accommodating is a huge factor to if you get a meet on here?
If you are single guy, it can be a deal breaker for a lot people."
I am starting to notice this ,,,especially if the woman doesn't accommodate they expect the men to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will be. I don't tend to want to go to people's houses anyway, I much prefer going halves on a hotel, but I've seen many profiles that won't consider anyone who won't accommodate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone."
That's fair enough hotels aren't for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer to do the accomodating so it does not matter to us if people can't accomodate.
Although we do have to make sure that our meets are not allergic to cats or dogs before they turn up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found that my 'can't accommodate' status does impact the meets I have.
I don't meet as my daughter and her mum have free access to my home in an effort to keep things as normal(ish) as possible for her.
I once had a meet round and my ex and daughter came round unannounced, it was very awkward, but changing my MO on here is the right tact to take rather than rearranging my daughter's life for my kicks.
It does suck though when you've been chatting to a lovely woman and suddenly you're don't that as you don't accommodate they are no longer interested.
C'est la vie though right |
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It will cut down some of the potential meets that you could have, where those people want a partner who does accommodate. There are some concerned about people cheating too, as a reason why someone isn't able to host others.
Focus on those that you match with and ignore issues not under your control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone."
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will cut down some of the potential meets that you could have, where those people want a partner who does accommodate. There are some concerned about people cheating too, as a reason why someone isn't able to host others.
There are so many valid reasons that a person can't accommodate, because they have a partner/spouse will only make up a certain percentage of this. People are very quick to assume that when a person, especially a single male. says they can't accommodate, it's because they are cheating"
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"It will cut down some of the potential meets that you could have, where those people want a partner who does accommodate. There are some concerned about people cheating too, as a reason why someone isn't able to host others.
There are so many valid reasons that a person can't accommodate, because they have a partner/spouse will only make up a certain percentage of this. People are very quick to assume that when a person, especially a single male. says they can't accommodate, it's because they are cheating"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone."
Great profile, had be chuckling along. Now if only there was some way to resolve our neither accommodating issue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will only accommodate for people I know and trust, so if its a new meet then I would insist on either them accommodating or on going halves on a hotel... |
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over a year ago
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"I will only accommodate for people I know and trust, so if its a new meet then I would insist on either them accommodating or on going halves on a hotel..."
If they want to meet you, they should pay. I would always pay and never expect a lady to go halves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all about splitting costs if things go that way, for me at least
Me too. I don't like to be bought. "
This exactly, when it comes to playing, money should be the furthest thing from the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone.
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year "
Regular to me is at least once a week, and I don't know many who can afford a hotel once a week. I know I can't. |
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"It's all about splitting costs if things go that way, for me at least
Me too. I don't like to be bought.
This exactly, when it comes to playing, money should be the furthest thing from the bedroom"
I've had meets where I've paid or they've paid, but we usually even it out with the other one bringing wine or buying dinner. |
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over a year ago
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"I will only accommodate for people I know and trust, so if its a new meet then I would insist on either them accommodating or on going halves on a hotel...
If they want to meet you, they should pay. I would always pay and never expect a lady to go halves."
I'd rather pay my half, as chivalrous as that kind of offer would be. I'd rather be on a completely even footing and not feel/have it implied that I'm beholden to someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will only accommodate for people I know and trust, so if its a new meet then I would insist on either them accommodating or on going halves on a hotel...
If they want to meet you, they should pay. I would always pay and never expect a lady to go halves.
I'd rather pay my half, as chivalrous as that kind of offer would be. I'd rather be on a completely even footing and not feel/have it implied that I'm beholden to someone"
Up to the individuals I suppose but it's not chivalrous, just brought up to be a gent. I wouldn't feel that the lady was under compliment to me or expect anything. I would always have a few drinks before hand too and I would pay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone.
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year
Regular to me is at least once a week, and I don't know many who can afford a hotel once a week. I know I can't."
I must be lucky and meet those with money then.There are plenty of hotel rooms for only £40, that's only £20 each person. Bargain at half the price for a good few hours of sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone.
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year
Regular to me is at least once a week, and I don't know many who can afford a hotel once a week. I know I can't.
I must be lucky and meet those with money then.There are plenty of hotel rooms for only £40, that's only £20 each person. Bargain at half the price for a good few hours of sex "
Not round here there aren't  |
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over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone.
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year
Regular to me is at least once a week, and I don't know many who can afford a hotel once a week. I know I can't.
I must be lucky and meet those with money then.There are plenty of hotel rooms for only £40, that's only £20 each person. Bargain at half the price for a good few hours of sex
Not round here there aren't "
Another reason 'Up North' is better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""How many people would say accommodating is a huge factor to if you get a meet on here?""
everyone here it seem if you can't there no chance in meeting it twice as hard.. |
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""How many people would say accommodating is a huge factor to if you get a meet on here?""
I meet at home. However, I do not meet those that don't accommodate. No one has to justify or explain, I use it as a filter: I can't go to yours, you're not coming to mine! |
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over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone.
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year
Regular to me is at least once a week, and I don't know many who can afford a hotel once a week. I know I can't.
I must be lucky and meet those with money then.There are plenty of hotel rooms for only £40, that's only £20 each person. Bargain at half the price for a good few hours of sex
Not round here there aren't
Another reason 'Up North' is better "
Was thinking of moving up north but would be way too cold for me cold enough down here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all about splitting costs if things go that way, for me at least
It's the only way. I wouldn't want or expect the man to pay. Not fair at all."
Booking my train now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone.
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year
Regular to me is at least once a week, and I don't know many who can afford a hotel once a week. I know I can't.
I must be lucky and meet those with money then.There are plenty of hotel rooms for only £40, that's only £20 each person. Bargain at half the price for a good few hours of sex
Not round here there aren't
Another reason 'Up North' is better
Was thinking of moving up north but would be way too cold for me cold enough down here lol "
Soft southerners tut tut |
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over a year ago
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"I think it does unfortunately.
I can't accommodate so I can understand why others can't but I'm not a fan of hotel meets because I'd rather meet someone regularly rather than just have a one off fuck with someone.
You can still do regular in a hotel. They have rooms available 365 days a year
Regular to me is at least once a week, and I don't know many who can afford a hotel once a week. I know I can't.
I must be lucky and meet those with money then.There are plenty of hotel rooms for only £40, that's only £20 each person. Bargain at half the price for a good few hours of sex
Not round here there aren't
Another reason 'Up North' is better
Was thinking of moving up north but would be way too cold for me cold enough down here lol
Soft southerners tut tut "
I may visit one day probably in the summer lol |
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""How many people would say accommodating is a huge factor to if you get a meet on here?"
everyone here it seem if you can't there no chance in meeting it twice as hard.."
Because you got to be a model male to have fun with and able to accommodate with i find unfair on other who could be just as serious as those who can accommodate down side most hate hotel meets sorry only being honest.  |
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