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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've just had a epiphany moment. Was reading the dom sub thread and it got me thinking about my sex life, past and present and where things originated from and I've realised in quite regimented and boring. I can't just go with the flow, it's as if I have a checklist and need to do xyz before I can get my mind turned on. It's quite strange.
Do people have some certain special moves or like a set routine to get them going or need to do particular things when they have sex?
Interested to hear, I'm gonna have a think for a moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fuck off  don't give me ideas I regiment my life enoght as it is.  xxx"
No but it's like do you have a little routine before you get to the sex, like do you have to have a bit of a kiss and then wank or suck him off and then you're able to be turned on for sex?
Really think back to all the times you've had sex and do they have a running theme?
Mine is anyway! Think I need new experiences! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No, I don't have a specific regime I need to go through. In general I'll happy to go with the flow.
But in a perfect scenario I really enjoy when a guy kisses and lightly touches my back for a little while before sex. I don't know why, but it gets me more turned on than anything else. Followed up with me giving him a bj and I'm a happy woman.
But that's just a strong preference - not a required regime like you're asking about. |
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Sort of next question then in my quest to understand shit.
Are there people that have had or are still in relationships with people they met when they were in their late teens? Like I was with the same guy from age 17 to 26 and not done that much fucking with other people for the last 7 or so years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fuck off don't give me ideas I regiment my life enoght as it is. xxx
No but it's like do you have a little routine before you get to the sex, like do you have to have a bit of a kiss and then wank or suck him off and then you're able to be turned on for sex?
Really think back to all the times you've had sex and do they have a running theme?
Mine is anyway! Think I need new experiences!"
When I was with gaz I was on top most of the time. He was crap at foreplay and he was a very lazy lover. So I'd go on top so I could manipulate him as I wanted to. Had some mind blowing orgasams that way. Now I'm mostly wankin, ash always trys to get me to stay on my back but I get way to horny for the orgasams so I end up begging him to let me ride my dildo and pillows. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sort of next question then in my quest to understand shit.
Are there people that have had or are still in relationships with people they met when they were in their late teens? Like I was with the same guy from age 17 to 26 and not done that much fucking with other people for the last 7 or so years. "
Yeah. I met Marc when I was 18. He was my first and I never had sex with anyone else until I was 26.  |
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"Sort of next question then in my quest to understand shit.
Are there people that have had or are still in relationships with people they met when they were in their late teens? Like I was with the same guy from age 17 to 26 and not done that much fucking with other people for the last 7 or so years. "
Yes - met at 18 and I haven't done much fucking of any kind for years. I sort of get what you mean about things happening in a certain order so I don't think it sounds that weird. |
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"I've learned to keep blow jobs to a minimum until they actually fuck you. Else they go off like a roman candle and i end up frustrated. "
This made me laugh!
I do have a little routine which can be changed depending on the lady.
I like to learn how she likes to be touch so I can satisfy her.
Also use toys or ice. Again you got to find out what they like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sort of next question then in my quest to understand shit.
Are there people that have had or are still in relationships with people they met when they were in their late teens? Like I was with the same guy from age 17 to 26 and not done that much fucking with other people for the last 7 or so years.
Yeah. I met Marc when I was 18. He was my first and I never had sex with anyone else until I was 26. "
That's similar to me then. So do you think all the sex you had with Marc formed and shaped you sexually?
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"I was with my first boyfriend from 18 until 27, he was 4 years older than me and dirty as sin so i was lucky in that regard. "
Yeah even though we were both the same age it was like we were each other's living sex dolls. I think we were like those people that should never ever meet because they bring the worst out in each other. It's mad that we were exactly the same age born on exactly the same day 5 hours apart!
Like the shit we used to do is unwell and looking back and knowing what I'm like now and all the attributes a guy has to have and all the things I need to happen in order for me to be turned on I think it's damaged me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sort of next question then in my quest to understand shit.
Are there people that have had or are still in relationships with people they met when they were in their late teens? Like I was with the same guy from age 17 to 26 and not done that much fucking with other people for the last 7 or so years.
Yeah. I met Marc when I was 18. He was my first and I never had sex with anyone else until I was 26.
That's similar to me then. So do you think all the sex you had with Marc formed and shaped you sexually?"
Probably to an extent. He's open minded and I think it helped make me open minded as well.
But I don't think my sex with him has shaped everything I'm into. I enjoy things he doesn't and the same goes for him. He helped shape my outlook but not every specific within that outlook. I'm sure I could explain it better but the ability is escaping me at the moment. |
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"Sort of next question then in my quest to understand shit.
Are there people that have had or are still in relationships with people they met when they were in their late teens? Like I was with the same guy from age 17 to 26 and not done that much fucking with other people for the last 7 or so years.
Yeah. I met Marc when I was 18. He was my first and I never had sex with anyone else until I was 26.
That's similar to me then. So do you think all the sex you had with Marc formed and shaped you sexually?
Probably to an extent. He's open minded and I think it helped make me open minded as well.
But I don't think my sex with him has shaped everything I'm into. I enjoy things he doesn't and the same goes for him. He helped shape my outlook but not every specific within that outlook. I'm sure I could explain it better but the ability is escaping me at the moment. "
But what if he did all the things you like and then after him it was hard to find guys that could satisfy you the same way? Hmmm it's a little bit different as you're still together so can still have all the good sex with him alongside new experiences. Like I massively dislike my ex now but have to tolerate him because we share a child but the only good thing about him was the sex.
Only 1 person since him has been able to give me that same oooh yeah this is good feeling. You know the London guy the guy who tried to fuck me with his testicles guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sort of next question then in my quest to understand shit.
Are there people that have had or are still in relationships with people they met when they were in their late teens? Like I was with the same guy from age 17 to 26 and not done that much fucking with other people for the last 7 or so years.
Yeah. I met Marc when I was 18. He was my first and I never had sex with anyone else until I was 26.
That's similar to me then. So do you think all the sex you had with Marc formed and shaped you sexually?
Probably to an extent. He's open minded and I think it helped make me open minded as well.
But I don't think my sex with him has shaped everything I'm into. I enjoy things he doesn't and the same goes for him. He helped shape my outlook but not every specific within that outlook. I'm sure I could explain it better but the ability is escaping me at the moment.
But what if he did all the things you like and then after him it was hard to find guys that could satisfy you the same way? Hmmm it's a little bit different as you're still together so can still have all the good sex with him alongside new experiences. Like I massively dislike my ex now but have to tolerate him because we share a child but the only good thing about him was the sex.
Only 1 person since him has been able to give me that same oooh yeah this is good feeling. You know the London guy the guy who tried to fuck me with his testicles guy. "
I can understand your frustration. I think your case is fairly unique. I guess all you can do is keep looking out for someone who fits the bill. Although I think you'd do well to try and be a bit more flexible. Challenge your mind more to be open to something different.
If you truly can't then just stay the course and look out for that one person who meets your requirements but isn't your ex. |
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A spot of penguin Racing and few rounds of smurf juggling warms things up nicley I think .when cold .;)
No really ,
... just go with the flow... 
