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Honest initial expectations

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm pretty new to the site but have enjoyed chatting to a few people with a view to meeting when they're comfortable to but I see lots of posts asking why people can't get a meet which essentially seems to translate to "why isn't everyone jumping on my cock"

So I'm just wondering what people's expectations were when they joined the site and why

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I expected to shag everyone on the site, 10 yrs on and there's only another 97,643 to go

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

We never have expectations, that way you can't be dissapointed.

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By *ilvercharmCouple over a year ago

Our gate

I just enjoy the threads so much now, couldn't stop laughing at one the other day. There's some stunning people on here but also some funny ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I joined here to fulfill my sex life. It's working out better than I could of ever imagined. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had no expectations. I joined with an open mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I expect I'll be here posting shite today. I don't look no further than that.

Anything else is a surprise to me and everyone else.

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By *orwegian BlueMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Following from my experience on an ALTernative site, I expected it to take a year or two to become established on here...and I was warned about a clique....no one will talk with you they said...

It's turned out far better than that, just a few months on and as for that clique, I cannot say I've come across it yet but if I do, I promise I'll wipe it off...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've enjoyed it. Not met as many men as on my previous site, but a bad experience there has made me more wary.

I chat to some lovely folk though who tolerate my oddness, so it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I joined this site not expecting to meet anyone and so far I've not been disappointed.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I didn't have any prior to joining as I wasn't aware of fab and had not been on other sites. I thought in the first weeks of joining I would have a few good fucks and that was it because I realised I was very much a desired demographic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I expected there to be lots of rude, disrespectful, entitled men. I wasn't disappointed.

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By *ild-1Woman over a year ago

york

I honestly didn't know what to expect. I've had a couple of very successful meets and hope to have more so all is good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We expected to fulfill lots of fantasies , and have lots of sex with lots of people . And we have so all good

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple over a year ago

nr chester

We actually only joined for a bit of a naughty giggle, you know the kind of stuff, post a few pics, try and spot your neighbours

So oh my goodness me, fab has truly outweighed our expectations

we have found a kink in both of us, we've made amazing new friends, we love our new social life and our fecking fantastic favourite club, and I ( Mrs) bloody love the forums

So I suppose no it's not what we expected, but not in a bad way

Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had very low expectations upon joining, as I the other site I was on was more proactive in organising group socials etc ..

but as joining fab coincided with me moving to Wales, I thought I'd never meet anyone so I have been pleasantly surprised that people will travel a long way to meet me, and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I expected to be sat here like a lemon, twiddling my thumbs, with little or no interest from anyone and thought I would probably be UNLOS after a week.... I was quite wrong

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Joined initially as part of our couples account with the intention of using it as an information source as we took our first steps into *this* world - then started going to clubs and our use of the site evolved into using the forums and keeping in touch with people we'd met.

We then set up solo profiles to run alongside the couples one, and for my part started that side off with fairly low expectations of actually meeting anyone as a solo male who is attached (albeit here with the knowledge of my partner), and have been pleasantly surprised to find that may not be the case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me. "

Me too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

No great expectations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Following from my experience on an ALTernative site, I expected it to take a year or two to become established on here...and I was warned about a clique....no one will talk with you they said...

It's turned out far better than that, just a few months on and as for that clique, I cannot say I've come across it yet but if I do, I promise I'll wipe it off..."

ALTernative site, nice word play. Have to get back there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me.

Me too

This was one time I didn't mind being proven wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My expectations aren't really high. My geographical location isn't great for one thing. My demographic appeal another.

So actually no major expectations maybe pleasant surprises

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me.

Me too

This was one time I didn't mind being proven wrong. "

I'm actually surprised anyone wanted to talk to me.

I'm more pessimistic than you both do it seems.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me.

Me too

This was one time I didn't mind being proven wrong.

I'm actually surprised anyone wanted to talk to me.

I'm more pessimistic than you both do it seems.

I was surprised anyone wanted to talk to me, especially after spending time on dating sites and getting no resposne, I thought it would be much the same here.

Turns out people would rather fuck me than date me. I still don't know how I feel about that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me.

Me too

This was one time I didn't mind being proven wrong.

I'm actually surprised anyone wanted to talk to me.

I'm more pessimistic than you both do it seems.

I was surprised anyone wanted to talk to me, especially after spending time on dating sites and getting no resposne, I thought it would be much the same here.

Turns out people would rather fuck me than date me. I still don't know how I feel about that. "

Yeah, I'm one of those that are good enough to fuck but not good enough to date. I know exactly how it makes me feel. Like shit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I joined as a means to escape my life as it was then. Xxx

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me.

Me too

This was one time I didn't mind being proven wrong.

I'm actually surprised anyone wanted to talk to me.

I'm more pessimistic than you both do it seems.

I was surprised anyone wanted to talk to me, especially after spending time on dating sites and getting no resposne, I thought it would be much the same here.

Turns out people would rather fuck me than date me. I still don't know how I feel about that. "

Not your fault that. You should feel like the wrong people are approaching you, i reckon.

I do alright for dating, seems like most guys do just date with the intention of fucking you though. Do know a lot of guys on dating sites only approach me coz i'm on fab and they think i'm an easy fuck. I block all these guys. And if they even read my profile on here i'm not fucking anyone on fab even...why would they think a dating site changes anything?

As for OP, i expect to be making more friends this year.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had very little expectation, I thought I'd get bored quickly because I really didn't think anyone would want to meet me.

Me too

This was one time I didn't mind being proven wrong.

I'm actually surprised anyone wanted to talk to me.

I'm more pessimistic than you both do it seems.

I was surprised anyone wanted to talk to me, especially after spending time on dating sites and getting no resposne, I thought it would be much the same here.

Turns out people would rather fuck me than date me. I still don't know how I feel about that.

Yeah, I'm one of those that are good enough to fuck but not good enough to date. I know exactly how it makes me feel. Like shit.

I realise that I am mostly the problem when it comes to dating, but at people want to fuck me, which is a bonus I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm pretty new to the site but have enjoyed chatting to a few people with a view to meeting when they're comfortable to but I see lots of posts asking why people can't get a meet which essentially seems to translate to "why isn't everyone jumping on my cock"

So I'm just wondering what people's expectations were when they joined the site and why

I find people jumping on my cock a bit painful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not your fault that. You should feel like the wrong people are approaching you, i reckon.

As for OP, i expect to be making more friends this year."

I've found with dating sites that there are very few people who interest me. And then the few that do have to then be interested in me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for that everyone . More sensible and honest than I was expecting haha

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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Not your fault that. You should feel like the wrong people are approaching you, i reckon.

As for OP, i expect to be making more friends this year.

I've found with dating sites that there are very few people who interest me. And then the few that do have to then be interested in me too. "

yeah i suppose so. i feel like people on dating sites only approach me for NSA sex, and that's not what i'm looking for at all on there.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I only really joined the site to meet ladies which has proven to be quite unsuccessful

I've been distracted by some lovely guys though

As for expectations, I keep them low after a few 'timewasters', that way I can't be too disappointed!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought I would find a local lol, but now I just use the forum, it is comedy gold

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