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Is picky the new genuine?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
Feel free to discuss if you like. I've had my say "
Some are not that picky when it comes to NSA though as we have seen. It is generally men and it distorts this site I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can see how picky they are from their veris. If they've been with some hideous chuds then you know they're lying! Also, if they have no veris, it's not because they're picky...  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
Feel free to discuss if you like. I've had my say "
nope.... i am picky...
my body my rules my vetting process...... |
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"I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
Feel free to discuss if you like. I've had my say "
I would discuss as I am picky, I promise I would because I am genuine but unfortunately due to being a professional I am just too busy. Apologies for this I am not a time waster I promise |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Nothing to discuss OP; you said it already. Anyone who thinks that being on a swinging site means you don't have peccadilloes, preferences, likes, dislikes, limits, common sense or any other personality traits that make you a discrete individual lacks a basic level of empathy and I wouldn't want to meet them because we would have no affinity. Or maybe I'm just being picky; who knows? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think most of us on the previous thread were going by the definition as indicated by the OP.
As in we don't just fuck people because they think you'll have great sex but we do what everyone does and fuck those we want to.
I don't think saying you only fuck those you are attracted to is being superior or whatever - it's just stating you have a preference and likes and dislikes like everyone on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now. "
I think I'm similar.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now. "
See, you genuinely come across as picky. It must be horrendously difficult and a real problem. I can empathise with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now.
I think I'm similar. "
About time you two got together  |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
Feel free to discuss if you like. I've had my say
I would discuss as I am picky, I promise I would because I am genuine but unfortunately due to being a professional I am just too busy. Apologies for this I am not a time waster I promise "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion...  "
It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
Feel free to discuss if you like. I've had my say
I would discuss as I am picky, I promise I would because I am genuine but unfortunately due to being a professional I am just too busy. Apologies for this I am not a time waster I promise "
ah....but are you a fun person looking for fun with likeminded individuals? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now.
I think I'm similar.
About time you two got together "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
Feel free to discuss if you like. I've had my say Some are not that picky when it comes to NSA though as we have seen. It is generally men and it distorts this site I think. "
Are these men having sex with women you don't find attractive? Is that why they aren't picky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves."
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now. "
Looking for a partner for life is different to me.
I've been single for 7 years and not found anyone I'd consider for a relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are people who are genuinely more picky than average. I think they are different from the people who simply like to say they are picky because it seems elite or cool.
Personally, I don't think I'm picky. I figure I'm attracted to a fair number of people and not attracted to a good number, as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I've discovered something that riles me even more than someone describing themselves as "genuine"....it's picky! Everyone trying to outdo everyone else on how "picky" they are so they can prove how superior and undesperate they are....is making me feel a bit nauseous! At the end of the day we all have selection criteria it doesn't make you picky. It's a natural selection process. ...survival of the fittest and all that... It just means you are doing what comes naturally!
Feel free to discuss if you like. I've had my say Some are not that picky when it comes to NSA though as we have seen. It is generally men and it distorts this site I think.
Are these men having sex with women you don't find attractive? Is that why they aren't picky?"
Yes frequently and yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? "
Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now.
Looking for a partner for life is different to me.
I've been single for 7 years and not found anyone I'd consider for a relationship.
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I fuck people I wouldn't date. The criteria for me are different. I was far more "picky" when I was dating than I am on here. But I think a good number of people have the same criteria so it can be more difficult for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive "
But I don't find you attractive. Am I being picky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now.
Looking for a partner for life is different to me.
I've been single for 7 years and not found anyone I'd consider for a relationship.
I fuck people I wouldn't date. The criteria for me are different. I was far more "picky" when I was dating than I am on here. But I think a good number of people have the same criteria so it can be more difficult for them."
I have men I've been fucking for years I'd run away from if they wanted a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
But I don't find you attractive. Am I being picky? "
I'm aware attraction is subjective but I'm also aware being very unattractive can be universal. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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My only way of finding a sexual partner is on here, and yes I have gone 9 months without sex because I haven't met someone to have a connection with....if that makes me picky or selective then so be it, I don't care , I'd rather go without as I have done and will no doubt continue to do so! Roll on month 2 and probably month 3 as well and so on and so forth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
But I don't find you attractive. Am I being picky? I'm aware attraction is subjective but I'm also aware being very unattractive can be universal. "
Do you mean physically unattractive? Like being fat or old? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
But I don't find you attractive. Am I being picky? "
Nope. I'm not conventionally attractive. But I have never felt that those who do find me so are less picky, whatever that means. I have what my friends consider slightly odd tastes at times so I'm sure it goes both ways. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive "
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience "
No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned."
The women get burned? How? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
But I don't find you attractive. Am I being picky?
Nope. I'm not conventionally attractive. But I have never felt that those who do find me so are less picky, whatever that means. I have what my friends consider slightly odd tastes at times so I'm sure it goes both ways. "
So, why doesn't that apply to other people on here? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"You can see how picky they are from their veris. If they've been with some hideous chuds then you know they're lying! Also, if they have no veris, it's not because they're picky... "
I rely on the lying toads as a hideous chud.  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
But I don't find you attractive. Am I being picky?
Nope. I'm not conventionally attractive. But I have never felt that those who do find me so are less picky, whatever that means. I have what my friends consider slightly odd tastes at times so I'm sure it goes both ways.
So, why doesn't that apply to other people on here? "
It does. That's kind of the whole point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
The women get burned? How? "
See it on the forums all the time it is like Dear Deidre on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's way much more fun to have a very broad spectrum of what works for you in this lifestyle .
When we first started some 5 years ago , we only wanted to meet hot bi females , or hot bi female couples . We spent more time looking , chatting and wasting time on this limited perspective than I care to think of .
Anyway , now we enjoy meeting pretty much all types of people , and the meets are just as much fun , if not more so !
This may not be for everyone's taste , especially singles looking for love , but for us it works perfectly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned."
You come across as a woman hater
You have no control over how people behave - if said "naive" women get "burned" then it's their drama.
And to answer the OP I think the word picky and how it's used on here is far less irritating than genuine!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
The women get burned? How? See it on the forums all the time it is like Dear Deidre on here."
Is that anything to do with being picky, or making the wrong choices? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
But I don't find you attractive. Am I being picky?
Nope. I'm not conventionally attractive. But I have never felt that those who do find me so are less picky, whatever that means. I have what my friends consider slightly odd tastes at times so I'm sure it goes both ways.
So, why doesn't that apply to other people on here?
It does. That's kind of the whole point."
You're saying people aren't being picky, because they fuck people you don't find attractive. How do you know they aren't picky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
You come across as a woman hater
You have no control over how people behave - if said "naive" women get "burned" then it's their drama.
And to answer the OP I think the word picky and how it's used on here is far less irritating than genuine!
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Well you are very much mistaken, more of a man hater I'd say. I don't like seeing it happen some women are like sheep and there is wolves out there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm obstinate, and therefore if you want to meet me, you have to tolerate that to some extent.
Does that make me picky?  "
no. It makes you an awkward cunt |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned."
Personally I think you like to twist peoples comments to how you think! I think you have a certain mindset in mind and set out on a path to try and prove it, no matter how warped it is, just to 'make out you are right' you continue with this huge chip on your shoulder, I'm sorry if someone hurt you in the past but GET OVER IT! If you were a woman you would be described as a bloody bunny boiler!!! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I'm obstinate, and therefore if you want to meet me, you have to tolerate that to some extent.
Does that make me picky?
no. It makes you an awkward cunt"
It's all part of my (limited) charm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky. "
There is none.
And people are attracted by different things i.e. Body size and shape, or faces, or job, car, how much money they earn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
You come across as a woman hater
You have no control over how people behave - if said "naive" women get "burned" then it's their drama.
And to answer the OP I think the word picky and how it's used on here is far less irritating than genuine!
Well you are very much mistaken, more of a man hater I'd say. I don't like seeing it happen some women are like sheep and there is wolves out there."
Yes I can see by your shadow pic that you're so genuine |
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over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
The women get burned? How? See it on the forums all the time it is like Dear Deidre on here.
Is that anything to do with being picky, or making the wrong choices? "
Yeah making wrong choices like trying to find a relationship on here in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
You come across as a woman hater
You have no control over how people behave - if said "naive" women get "burned" then it's their drama.
And to answer the OP I think the word picky and how it's used on here is far less irritating than genuine!
Well you are very much mistaken, more of a man hater I'd say. I don't like seeing it happen some women are like sheep and there is wolves out there."
Are these the unattractive women who are having sex with the hot men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
The women get burned? How? See it on the forums all the time it is like Dear Deidre on here.
Is that anything to do with being picky, or making the wrong choices? Yeah making wrong choices like trying to find a relationship on here in my opinion. "
Not to do with being picky though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky. "
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think being picky (and getting away with it!), is a bit of an ego boost.
Just my opinion... It is an ego boost for the 1's who don't really have a leg to stand on as they are not remotely attractive themselves.
If I don't find you attractive, does that mean the women who do aren't being picky, and I am? Not necessarily, I am conventionally attractive
God you just do not give up do you and clearly have a dislike of the women on here, I would have a think about deleting my profile if I were you, as you are clearly not having an enjoyable experience No I like women, I just think some are naive to how this works and they up getting burned.
Personally I think you like to twist peoples comments to how you think! I think you have a certain mindset in mind and set out on a path to try and prove it, no matter how warped it is, just to 'make out you are right' you continue with this huge chip on your shoulder, I'm sorry if someone hurt you in the past but GET OVER IT! If you were a woman you would be described as a bloody bunny boiler!!!"
I've not twisted anything you just think that because I touch a few nerves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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l do think you make good points. Being ''picky'' in itself isn't an indication of how uninterested and unphased you by Fab. Strongly asserting it online is, in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most people are picky and like to think the any hole's a goal types are in the minority. To me it goes without saying that people are picky and personally I find people who make a big deal of it somewhat annoying. It just smacks of "I'm on a swinging site but I'm better than you and will judge you for sagging anything even though you probably don't". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can see how picky they are from their veris. If they've been with some hideous chuds then you know they're lying! Also, if they have no veris, it's not because they're picky... "
This is so bloody rude. "some hideous chuds"
Not everyone is going to find you or the women who have left you verifications attractive, but I hope they are never as insensitive or rude as you have been. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm someone who might be described as picky but I don't see it as being superior over anyone else. I see it as some kind of malfunction and a hindrance. I've been single the best part of 8 years because I'm so particular. If I could get these stupid ideals out of my head I'd probably be in a loving relationship by now.
Looking for a partner for life is different to me.
I've been single for 7 years and not found anyone I'd consider for a relationship.
I fuck people I wouldn't date. The criteria for me are different. I was far more "picky" when I was dating than I am on here. But I think a good number of people have the same criteria so it can be more difficult for them."
This probably explains my failure at online dating .
Women are so picky there I never get a reply as opossed to here. |
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Is there a possibility that the rise in pickyness has coincided with the government 5p charge on bags? Since folk are too tight to pay 5p to put a bag on their head, they have to pick partners that are visually acceptable.
We have threesomes, so our costs have increased to 15p (we both don a bag as well as our play partner, that way it isn't an issue if one bag falls off) , but we never charge a prospective partner for her bag.
If you are too tight or struggling to afford bags, you can use pillow cases, although they aren't 100% visually safe. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there a possibility that the rise in pickyness has coincided with the government 5p charge on bags? Since folk are too tight to pay 5p to put a bag on their head, they have to pick partners that are visually acceptable.
We have threesomes, so our costs have increased to 15p (we both don a bag as well as our play partner, that way it isn't an issue if one bag falls off) , but we never charge a prospective partner for her bag.
If you are too tight or struggling to afford bags, you can use pillow cases, although they aren't 100% visually safe."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there a possibility that the rise in pickyness has coincided with the government 5p charge on bags? Since folk are too tight to pay 5p to put a bag on their head, they have to pick partners that are visually acceptable.
We have threesomes, so our costs have increased to 15p (we both don a bag as well as our play partner, that way it isn't an issue if one bag falls off) , but we never charge a prospective partner for her bag.
If you are too tight or struggling to afford bags, you can use pillow cases, although they aren't 100% visually safe."
ah...fuck it ! I think you have a valid point! ! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there a possibility that the rise in pickyness has coincided with the government 5p charge on bags? Since folk are too tight to pay 5p to put a bag on their head, they have to pick partners that are visually acceptable.
We have threesomes, so our costs have increased to 15p (we both don a bag as well as our play partner, that way it isn't an issue if one bag falls off) , but we never charge a prospective partner for her bag.
If you are too tight or struggling to afford bags, you can use pillow cases, although they aren't 100% visually safe.
ah...fuck it ! I think you have a valid point! !"
I had to give the man I saw on Friday 5p for his bag. True story.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky. "
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?"
oh yes. This is the fab forum. We like to be picky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?"
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is being picky the bad thing or stating you are picky the bad thing here ? "
nothing is bad. ...just a bit perplexed by those proclaiming to be picky when actually they just find certain people attractive. I disagree that that is being picky. That's all. I was pondering. |
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over a year ago
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I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is being picky the bad thing or stating you are picky the bad thing here ?
nothing is bad. ...just a bit perplexed by those proclaiming to be picky when actually they just find certain people attractive. I disagree that that is being picky. That's all. I was pondering."
Superiority complex. There's a hierarchy of people having sex with strangers.
Everyone else will fuck anyone that breathes.
**I** am picky. |
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over a year ago
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest "
You're lovely. Not "the likes of me".  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is being picky the bad thing or stating you are picky the bad thing here ?
nothing is bad. ...just a bit perplexed by those proclaiming to be picky when actually they just find certain people attractive. I disagree that that is being picky. That's all. I was pondering."
Aaaah I see
Thanks for clearing it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!"
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
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over a year ago
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest "
Are they the ones who won't leave you a verification, in case they are found out? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest "
yes I've had guys message me from the forum. They wouldn't dream of doing it publicly. ...it's always one of the popular ones in the who do you fancy threads ...makes me even more disinclined to meet forum users . .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest "
You are most definately right with this observation . So many say one thing on the forum , yet when it comes to the reality , they think and say say completely the opposite .
What's more , we are often the ones to say it how it is , and get private messages congratulating us for being just that .... and offers to meet from the so called picky ones all the time too ! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
Are they the ones who won't leave you a verification, in case they are found out? "
Or ask you not to leave them one, claiming they have 'stalker issues.' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
Are they the ones who won't leave you a verification, in case they are found out?
Or ask you not to leave them one, claiming they have 'stalker issues.' "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
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The thing is, there's not an actual right or wrong answer. Picky actually means to be selective. To me, that's having a long list of criteria no matter how many guys match it. |
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over a year ago
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
Are they the ones who won't leave you a verification, in case they are found out? "
I haven't met them so I have no idea. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well"
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal."
Well I'd say picky is not simply having a set selection of traits you look for but selecting within those that pass that standard.
Its not picky to say "I'll only sleep with somone i find attracrive, witty and smart"
It gets picky when you have a dozen attractive witty and smart people but only time to meet say 2 and you have to narrow it down ever more harshley.
Or even if you have time to meet them all but not the inclination for that many partners.
A lot of people seem to get wound up when others are in that positon, be it jealousy or some other personal reason.
But you can see it happen quite a lot on here |
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
The thing is, there's not an actual right or wrong answer. Picky actually means to be selective. To me, that's having a long list of criteria no matter how many guys match it. "
Yes it is. But some people think they are picky and others are not, because they don't fancy the people who they had sex with. We all pick who we have sex with; some have more stringent criteria. |
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest "
It appears to be the done thing in the forums,to say one thing in public, joining in with the popular consensus & message the complete opposite |
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over a year ago
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well"
Oooh it has a name? ? Without even trying. ....I was just laughing at people tripping over themselves trying to be the most picky |
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
It appears to be the done thing in the forums,to say one thing in public, joining in with the popular consensus & message the complete opposite "
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal."
Not really.
Everybody has things that perplex them, and they can do this without fitting the usual, boring pop-psychology bullshit.
I find the notion that people who claim to be "professional" might only want to socialise with others who also claim the same thing to be particularly baffling. It doesn't mean I'm somehow jealous of them. |
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
It appears to be the done thing in the forums,to say one thing in public, joining in with the popular consensus & message the complete opposite "
Yep, but I'm picky so I turn them down |
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
It appears to be the done thing in the forums,to say one thing in public, joining in with the popular consensus & message the complete opposite
Yep, but I'm picky so I turn them down "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal."
ha. ..I'm not riled really. ...just thought I'd add it to add weight. ..nothing much in here riles me. ...just thought it would resonate with others as they 'get riled" over people being genuine etc |
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over a year ago
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
Oooh it has a name? ? Without even trying. ....I was just laughing at people tripping over themselves trying to be the most picky "
Don't worry others are doing the same about you.
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
It appears to be the done thing in the forums,to say one thing in public, joining in with the popular consensus & message the complete opposite "
Yes. It's happened with me as well when some guys profess a love of a specific body type very different to my own then message me. I don't know if they can tell that my ability to read extends beyond private messages to the forum as well. |
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
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I still don't consider myself as picky, I think I have issues and that's the difference. I'd say on here I only want guys much taller than me with dark hair, handsome faces, certain jaw lines, a penis that's a minimum 7inches in length with decent girth and I uphold that. I say it behind closed doors, I only message and converse with those people, on a social I will ask the guy to flop his penis out before I consider meeting him again. I've tried meeting guys that are absolutely stunning looking with the height and the good body but then the penis isn't the size I like and I've ended up crying afterwards in frustration at how weird I am. I don't take pride in being picky. Even when presented with the height and good looks and big penis, I'd still bomb him out if he had shit taste in music or didn't laugh at the same stuff as me or get my humour or make me laugh. It's like if all superficial boxes are ticked a whole other load of criteria pops up. It's not a good thing being like this. I'm getting older and I'm still single because of it. |
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
Oooh it has a name? ? Without even trying. ....I was just laughing at people tripping over themselves trying to be the most picky
Don't worry others are doing the same about you.
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
It appears to be the done thing in the forums,to say one thing in public, joining in with the popular consensus & message the complete opposite
Yes. It's happened with me as well when some guys profess a love of a specific body type very different to my own then message me. I don't know if they can tell that my ability to read extends beyond private messages to the forum as well. "
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By *eliWoman
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal.
Not really.
Everybody has things that perplex them, and they can do this without fitting the usual, boring pop-psychology bullshit.
I find the notion that people who claim to be "professional" might only want to socialise with others who also claim the same thing to be particularly baffling. It doesn't mean I'm somehow jealous of them. "
Perplexed by something is different to riled - one is an indicator of a confused emotion, another an indicator of irritation. Nor did I mention anywhere about jealousy so I am not sure why that's been brought up. Your post isn't a response to my post so I can only see it as being quoted incorrectly.
My point is that the OP has riled herself up about something that didn't really exist to rile herself up about. |
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"I think it's the done thing to be seen as being picky on the forums.
You see it on threads where men will only state in the forums the hot women they want to meet when by private message, they're sending the likes of me messages asking to meet.
It makes me laugh to be honest
It appears to be the done thing in the forums,to say one thing in public, joining in with the popular consensus & message the complete opposite
Yes. It's happened with me as well when some guys profess a love of a specific body type very different to my own then message me. I don't know if they can tell that my ability to read extends beyond private messages to the forum as well.
This post was wirrten by marc wasnt it? "
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
I still don't consider myself as picky, I think I have issues and that's the difference. I'd say on here I only want guys much taller than me with dark hair, handsome faces, certain jaw lines, a penis that's a minimum 7inches in length with decent girth and I uphold that. I say it behind closed doors, I only message and converse with those people, on a social I will ask the guy to flop his penis out before I consider meeting him again. I've tried meeting guys that are absolutely stunning looking with the height and the good body but then the penis isn't the size I like and I've ended up crying afterwards in frustration at how weird I am. I don't take pride in being picky. Even when presented with the height and good looks and big penis, I'd still bomb him out if he had shit taste in music or didn't laugh at the same stuff as me or get my humour or make me laugh. It's like if all superficial boxes are ticked a whole other load of criteria pops up. It's not a good thing being like this. I'm getting older and I'm still single because of it. "
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal.
Not really.
Everybody has things that perplex them, and they can do this without fitting the usual, boring pop-psychology bullshit.
I find the notion that people who claim to be "professional" might only want to socialise with others who also claim the same thing to be particularly baffling. It doesn't mean I'm somehow jealous of them.
Perplexed by something is different to riled - one is an indicator of a confused emotion, another an indicator of irritation. Nor did I mention anywhere about jealousy so I am not sure why that's been brought up. Your post isn't a response to my post so I can only see it as being quoted incorrectly.
My point is that the OP has riled herself up about something that didn't really exist to rile herself up about."
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over a year ago
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal.
ha. ..I'm not riled really. ...just thought I'd add it to add weight. ..nothing much in here riles me. ...just thought it would resonate with others as they 'get riled" over people being genuine etc "
Why did you start the post then and use language to indicate that you were? If nothing much got to you, surely you wouldn't start a thread about it. I mean, you commented on the original thread the same as you did in the OP - it didn't get much response so you started a thread about it? That's not the actions of someone who doesn't let things get to them.
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
I still don't consider myself as picky, I think I have issues and that's the difference. I'd say on here I only want guys much taller than me with dark hair, handsome faces, certain jaw lines, a penis that's a minimum 7inches in length with decent girth and I uphold that. I say it behind closed doors, I only message and converse with those people, on a social I will ask the guy to flop his penis out before I consider meeting him again. I've tried meeting guys that are absolutely stunning looking with the height and the good body but then the penis isn't the size I like and I've ended up crying afterwards in frustration at how weird I am. I don't take pride in being picky. Even when presented with the height and good looks and big penis, I'd still bomb him out if he had shit taste in music or didn't laugh at the same stuff as me or get my humour or make me laugh. It's like if all superficial boxes are ticked a whole other load of criteria pops up. It's not a good thing being like this. I'm getting older and I'm still single because of it. Are you fussy about cats? "
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
I still don't consider myself as picky, I think I have issues and that's the difference. I'd say on here I only want guys much taller than me with dark hair, handsome faces, certain jaw lines, a penis that's a minimum 7inches in length with decent girth and I uphold that. I say it behind closed doors, I only message and converse with those people, on a social I will ask the guy to flop his penis out before I consider meeting him again. I've tried meeting guys that are absolutely stunning looking with the height and the good body but then the penis isn't the size I like and I've ended up crying afterwards in frustration at how weird I am. I don't take pride in being picky. Even when presented with the height and good looks and big penis, I'd still bomb him out if he had shit taste in music or didn't laugh at the same stuff as me or get my humour or make me laugh. It's like if all superficial boxes are ticked a whole other load of criteria pops up. It's not a good thing being like this. I'm getting older and I'm still single because of it. Are you fussy about cats? "
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
The thing is, there's not an actual right or wrong answer. Picky actually means to be selective. To me, that's having a long list of criteria no matter how many guys match it.
Yes it is. But some people think they are picky and others are not, because they don't fancy the people who they had sex with. We all pick who we have sex with; some have more stringent criteria. "
You're completely right with that last part. The other parts are down to people being judgemental and having different views on what they find attractive, I suppose.
Anyway, I don't think there's anything wrong with being more selective, picky or fussy. |
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal.
ha. ..I'm not riled really. ...just thought I'd add it to add weight. ..nothing much in here riles me. ...just thought it would resonate with others as they 'get riled" over people being genuine etc
Why did you start the post then and use language to indicate that you were? If nothing much got to you, surely you wouldn't start a thread about it. I mean, you commented on the original thread the same as you did in the OP - it didn't get much response so you started a thread about it? That's not the actions of someone who doesn't let things get to them.
I'm confused. "
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky. "
If I come across a guy or gal that is drop dead gorgeous, yes there is an attraction but if they can't string a sentence together and has a pissy attitude as well...leaves me dry as a bone then. They might as well look like something the cat chucked up. Full package does not mean gorgeous and huge cock for me, it means funny, respectful, flirty, on top of nice looking... That is sexy in my book. Now all that said I don't think that makes me picky, just have a combo of push buttons.
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal.
Not really.
Everybody has things that perplex them, and they can do this without fitting the usual, boring pop-psychology bullshit.
I find the notion that people who claim to be "professional" might only want to socialise with others who also claim the same thing to be particularly baffling. It doesn't mean I'm somehow jealous of them.
Perplexed by something is different to riled - one is an indicator of a confused emotion, another an indicator of irritation. Nor did I mention anywhere about jealousy so I am not sure why that's been brought up. Your post isn't a response to my post so I can only see it as being quoted incorrectly.
My point is that the OP has riled herself up about something that didn't really exist to rile herself up about."
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
I still don't consider myself as picky, I think I have issues and that's the difference. I'd say on here I only want guys much taller than me with dark hair, handsome faces, certain jaw lines, a penis that's a minimum 7inches in length with decent girth and I uphold that. I say it behind closed doors, I only message and converse with those people, on a social I will ask the guy to flop his penis out before I consider meeting him again. I've tried meeting guys that are absolutely stunning looking with the height and the good body but then the penis isn't the size I like and I've ended up crying afterwards in frustration at how weird I am. I don't take pride in being picky. Even when presented with the height and good looks and big penis, I'd still bomb him out if he had shit taste in music or didn't laugh at the same stuff as me or get my humour or make me laugh. It's like if all superficial boxes are ticked a whole other load of criteria pops up. It's not a good thing being like this. I'm getting older and I'm still single because of it. "
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
I still don't consider myself as picky, I think I have issues and that's the difference. I'd say on here I only want guys much taller than me with dark hair, handsome faces, certain jaw lines, a penis that's a minimum 7inches in length with decent girth and I uphold that. I say it behind closed doors, I only message and converse with those people, on a social I will ask the guy to flop his penis out before I consider meeting him again. I've tried meeting guys that are absolutely stunning looking with the height and the good body but then the penis isn't the size I like and I've ended up crying afterwards in frustration at how weird I am. I don't take pride in being picky. Even when presented with the height and good looks and big penis, I'd still bomb him out if he had shit taste in music or didn't laugh at the same stuff as me or get my humour or make me laugh. It's like if all superficial boxes are ticked a whole other load of criteria pops up. It's not a good thing being like this. I'm getting older and I'm still single because of it.
You're looking for perfection, so you're looking for flaws. I do that myself. I always find a flaw. "
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"I'm still not convinced I see the correlation between finding someone attactive and being picky.
I don't think there is. I think finding someone attractive in order to have sex with them is just human nature, and being picky is finding them attractive plus a whole heap of other attributes.
If someone said, I want to find someone attractive, over 6 foot, VWE and athletic body. I'd say that was picky.
What if 100 men, all fitting that description, mailed them and they had sex with each one. Still picky?
On Fab? That 100 was probably in with 900 other messages of people without those attributes. So yeah, I reckon so...
But, there's nothing wrong with being picky... plus, it's all gonna be subjective, anyway!
Ignoring the other 900, because they don't fit the criteria, do you think fucking 100 men, just because they do fit, is being picky? Because I don't. Being picky would mean finding something wrong with most of them, even though they fit the visual criteria.
The thing is, there's not an actual right or wrong answer. Picky actually means to be selective. To me, that's having a long list of criteria no matter how many guys match it.
Yes it is. But some people think they are picky and others are not, because they don't fancy the people who they had sex with. We all pick who we have sex with; some have more stringent criteria.
You're completely right with that last part. The other parts are down to people being judgemental and having different views on what they find attractive, I suppose.
Anyway, I don't think there's anything wrong with being more selective, picky or fussy. "
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal.
Not really.
Everybody has things that perplex them, and they can do this without fitting the usual, boring pop-psychology bullshit.
I find the notion that people who claim to be "professional" might only want to socialise with others who also claim the same thing to be particularly baffling. It doesn't mean I'm somehow jealous of them.
Perplexed by something is different to riled - one is an indicator of a confused emotion, another an indicator of irritation. Nor did I mention anywhere about jealousy so I am not sure why that's been brought up. Your post isn't a response to my post so I can only see it as being quoted incorrectly.
My point is that the OP has riled herself up about something that didn't really exist to rile herself up about.
Who says it doesn't exist?
You?
Are you omniscient?"
No, I'm not. If I was I would understand how you managed to latch on to my post and yet failed to actually address my post. That could actually be handy.
I think there was a misinterpretation of a previous thread which lead to the start of this one. Unless of course there was no correlation and the subject happened to pop into the OP's mind? I don't see 'picky' used in profiles very often. It's not like professional usage. |
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"I belive the op is demonstrating "virtue signaling" here quite well
I don't understand why the OP is so riled? Is it off the back of the other thread? As I've already stated, people were clearly going off what the OP set out as being his view on picky. It's really not that big a deal.
ha. ..I'm not riled really. ...just thought I'd add it to add weight. ..nothing much in here riles me. ...just thought it would resonate with others as they 'get riled" over people being genuine etc
Why did you start the post then and use language to indicate that you were? If nothing much got to you, surely you wouldn't start a thread about it. I mean, you commented on the original thread the same as you did in the OP - it didn't get much response so you started a thread about it? That's not the actions of someone who doesn't let things get to them.
I'm confused. "
I started the post because I could. I didn't need your permission. I was amused by everyone trying to claim how picky they were like it was a competition. That amused me. I thought by saying I was riled it would gain attention and some couldn't resist commenting. I was right. Thanks |
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I find something I like in every guy I meet now if I could just put all those things together...
Main thing is brain. Guy I met off here he's gone a bit crazy now cos he makes profiles to stalk me but I get that. If I'd fancied him we would've got on perfectly. I tried real hard to fancy him and was absolutely gutted when I first met him after chatting non stop for a couple of months, I'd started to fall for him on his personality but it couldn't carry me that last hurdle to loving the dude. I need someone to get me. This guy I'd say something that was a little off the wall and I'd say hmm I sound crazy and he'd just say shit like all the most interesting people are crazy! Nothing I did put him off. Like the first time he was supposed to meet me when I bought all the nibbles and sticky chicken skewers and wedges and frozen woo woo cocktails and shit, he bombed me out for the World Cup football. I lost my shit, can you imagine what I was like, someone standing me up, ME!! I was like I'll fucking come to your house I'll kick fuck outta you blah blah blah and he just took it on the chin and said sorry and then met me the next week, subsequently that's where it ended as I didn't fancy him. But that's the kind of person I need. So it's brain first, someone who understands that I am a bit fiery but so loving underneath. Then I need the big penis because it's aesthetically pleasing and I like it, I just like them, they're nice to hold and fuck and throb, they're just nice. I like the height on the guy and I like the face to make me happy when I look at it. It's a combination of things. I'm not picky, I'm not looking for perfection because a perfect person would not suit me at all. |
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I'm confused.
I started the post because I could. I didn't need your permission. I was amused by everyone trying to claim how picky they were like it was a competition. That amused me. I thought by saying I was riled it would gain attention and some couldn't resist commenting. I was right. Thanks "
I didn't say anywhere about needing permission; it's a forum and no one does - it was a genuine question asking why. Using riled was a clever tactic when your previous post was ignored. I really don't see how it was like a competition or the upset over it but I guess I'll never truly understand the forums! |
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I'm confused.
I started the post because I could. I didn't need your permission. I was amused by everyone trying to claim how picky they were like it was a competition. That amused me. I thought by saying I was riled it would gain attention and some couldn't resist commenting. I was right. Thanks
I didn't say anywhere about needing permission; it's a forum and no one does - it was a genuine question asking why. Using riled was a clever tactic when your previous post was ignored. I really don't see how it was like a competition or the upset over it but I guess I'll never truly understand the forums! "
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I'm confused.
I started the post because I could. I didn't need your permission. I was amused by everyone trying to claim how picky they were like it was a competition. That amused me. I thought by saying I was riled it would gain attention and some couldn't resist commenting. I was right. Thanks
I didn't say anywhere about needing permission; it's a forum and no one does - it was a genuine question asking why. Using riled was a clever tactic when your previous post was ignored. I really don't see how it was like a competition or the upset over it but I guess I'll never truly understand the forums! "
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I find something I like in every guy I meet now if I could just put all those things together...
Main thing is brain. Guy I met off here he's gone a bit crazy now cos he makes profiles to stalk me but I get that. If I'd fancied him we would've got on perfectly. I tried real hard to fancy him and was absolutely gutted when I first met him after chatting non stop for a couple of months, I'd started to fall for him on his personality but it couldn't carry me that last hurdle to loving the dude. I need someone to get me. This guy I'd say something that was a little off the wall and I'd say hmm I sound crazy and he'd just say shit like all the most interesting people are crazy! Nothing I did put him off. Like the first time he was supposed to meet me when I bought all the nibbles and sticky chicken skewers and wedges and frozen woo woo cocktails and shit, he bombed me out for the World Cup football. I lost my shit, can you imagine what I was like, someone standing me up, ME!! I was like I'll fucking come to your house I'll kick fuck outta you blah blah blah and he just took it on the chin and said sorry and then met me the next week, subsequently that's where it ended as I didn't fancy him. But that's the kind of person I need. So it's brain first, someone who understands that I am a bit fiery but so loving underneath. Then I need the big penis because it's aesthetically pleasing and I like it, I just like them, they're nice to hold and fuck and throb, they're just nice. I like the height on the guy and I like the face to make me happy when I look at it. It's a combination of things. I'm not picky, I'm not looking for perfection because a perfect person would not suit me at all. "
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"I find something I like in every guy I meet now if I could just put all those things together...
Main thing is brain. Guy I met off here he's gone a bit crazy now cos he makes profiles to stalk me but I get that. If I'd fancied him we would've got on perfectly. I tried real hard to fancy him and was absolutely gutted when I first met him after chatting non stop for a couple of months, I'd started to fall for him on his personality but it couldn't carry me that last hurdle to loving the dude. I need someone to get me. This guy I'd say something that was a little off the wall and I'd say hmm I sound crazy and he'd just say shit like all the most interesting people are crazy! Nothing I did put him off. Like the first time he was supposed to meet me when I bought all the nibbles and sticky chicken skewers and wedges and frozen woo woo cocktails and shit, he bombed me out for the World Cup football. I lost my shit, can you imagine what I was like, someone standing me up, ME!! I was like I'll fucking come to your house I'll kick fuck outta you blah blah blah and he just took it on the chin and said sorry and then met me the next week, subsequently that's where it ended as I didn't fancy him. But that's the kind of person I need. So it's brain first, someone who understands that I am a bit fiery but so loving underneath. Then I need the big penis because it's aesthetically pleasing and I like it, I just like them, they're nice to hold and fuck and throb, they're just nice. I like the height on the guy and I like the face to make me happy when I look at it. It's a combination of things. I'm not picky, I'm not looking for perfection because a perfect person would not suit me at all.
Theres' no such thing as a perfect person, don't worry. "
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"I'm not classy and therefore I'm not picky "
I'm not classy either. Does that mean I'm not picky? Fuck. I'd better answer "yes, please come fuck me" to all the people in my inbox now. |
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"I'm not classy and therefore I'm not picky
I'm not classy either. Does that mean I'm not picky? Fuck. I'd better answer "yes, please come fuck me" to all the people in my inbox now. "
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"I'm not classy and therefore I'm not picky
I'm not classy either. Does that mean I'm not picky? Fuck. I'd better answer "yes, please come fuck me" to all the people in my inbox now.
you realise what you've done now don't you? ?"
I've gotten 4 new messages already and it's too late to delete the post.
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Just a fan of rubenesque women here curves are my weakness, sure a slender lady is interesting, but the shape of a pretty curvy lady, tatoos are a bonus, i think it is beautiful. Not being picky but god damn! woo! |
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