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over a year ago
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Why are people so picky these days when it comes to making friends which would lead to hot wild kinky sex with one another? How picky are you and way. Because I am not picky I like all types of females and couple but if it happy to come a reality for me it would be a first in uk.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole. |
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confused really. You answered your own question. They are picky because these are people they are gonna have sexy with. If it was joining a book club then we'd care about how much a person loves books, but it's fucking so we care about physicality. Makes sense, why would you want to have see with someone you don't really want to have sex with? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i'm not too picky but i won't fuck just anyone. i do need to know i will enjoy meeting the guy based off his interests and personality...and mine change all the time.
you can be picky coz 100s of guys approaching you for sex, plenty of them shit at being attractive but a fair amount are good at being so. |
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Reasonably picky.
I only chat/meet with people who hold my interest. They can be not my usual type as long as I find something interesting about them. If they bore me within the 1st few messages I am gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very picky. If I'm not attracted to them it's a no go. If I think I'll look stupid sat in a pub with them then it's a no go. But I also need to attraction to go from looks to personality. I'm not here just to fuck I enjoy the experience. Random fucks are just boring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole."
Surprisingly even some men think like this too. It is even harder for men aswell we can't just lie down and take it we have to get hard. Some guys on here must have amazing imagination.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole. Surprisingly even some men think like this too. It is even harder for men aswell we can't just lie down and take it we have to get hard. Some guys on here must have amazing imagination."
You mean men can be picky too? And have to find the person attractive.
I thought all men just approached this site as Fabwillingholestobefilledswingers. Mind. Blown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that none of them are prostitutes or gigolos might have something to do with it. People who fk anything are usually either paid, d*unk or desperate. XXX |
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We know what we like and we know what we don't.
If there is mutual attraction with a couple we will fuck with them, if not we wont.
If Mrs likes a guy she will fuck him, if she doesn't she wont
If that is classed as "picky" then so be it.
Also come on, let's face it, most couples on here can more than afford to be picky when it comes to single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole. Surprisingly even some men think like this too. It is even harder for men aswell we can't just lie down and take it we have to get hard. Some guys on here must have amazing imagination.
You mean men can be picky too? And have to find the person attractive.
I thought all men just approached this site as Fabwillingholestobefilledswingers. Mind. Blown."
Yes they are a rare breed. These guys who just fuck anyone have a lot to answer for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact that none of them are prostitutes or gigolos might have something to do with it. People who fk anything are usually either paid, d*unk or desperate. XXX"
I always make sure anyone I meet gets very d*unk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact that none of them are prostitutes or gigolos might have something to do with it. People who fk anything are usually either paid, d*unk or desperate. XXX"
It is called clinical nsa.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm picky. It's not a bad thing op. I need to be attracted to someone on here.
But I have grown fond of people who I didn't at first find attractive.
Does this make sense?
Personality is more appealing than looks sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole. "
This for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole."
This! It just wouldn't happen. I won't let someone touch me unless I think they're sexy and make me horny.
So yeah, I'm super picky and also shallow I guess. I can afford to be though, I have sex on tap at home with my gorgeous husband and so it has to be a yummy face to tempt me ha ha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm uber picky and make no apologies for it. I'm not looking to make friends and chat to people, I only want NSA sex.
And even if I find a guy who I find physically attractive, mentally stimulating and who sets my knickers on fire, I still might not shag him. Because I'm not desperate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could've had countless meets if I wasn't picky... But alas I haven't had even 1 
But that wasn't just because I'm picky. I just knew deep down it wasn't for me
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I think the internet has increased this. In the old days you used to go to a pub or club meet someone who on paper might not be your Absolute ideal, but they're sexy and you're getting along well.
These days with filters and searches you just narrow your field right down to your ideal.
I think it was Dustin Hoffman who said he regretted judging people by looks and only talking to those he thought as attractive because of all the possibilities of great friendships he could have had ifnhebhad of been more open to more people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the internet has increased this. In the old days you used to go to a pub or club meet someone who on paper might not be your Absolute ideal, but they're sexy and you're getting along well.
These days with filters and searches you just narrow your field right down to your ideal.
I think it was Dustin Hoffman who said he regretted judging people by looks and only talking to those he thought as attractive because of all the possibilities of great friendships he could have had ifnhebhad of been more open to more people.
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I think I'm more open to different people on here than I ever was in real life, so the reverse is true for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the internet has increased this. In the old days you used to go to a pub or club meet someone who on paper might not be your Absolute ideal, but they're sexy and you're getting along well.
These days with filters and searches you just narrow your field right down to your ideal.
I think it was Dustin Hoffman who said he regretted judging people by looks and only talking to those he thought as attractive because of all the possibilities of great friendships he could have had ifnhebhad of been more open to more people.
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Don't get me wrong, I'll make friends with anyone! Most of our veris are from chatting away to folk at parties and clubs. We are really friendly and can find common ground with most people but as for playing..we need more than just a great chat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard to find people I'm attracted to off line. Admittedly it's even harder to do so on fab which is why I rarely meet. I don't sleep with people who I don't fancy, ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the internet has increased this. In the old days you used to go to a pub or club meet someone who on paper might not be your Absolute ideal, but they're sexy and you're getting along well.
These days with filters and searches you just narrow your field right down to your ideal.
I think it was Dustin Hoffman who said he regretted judging people by looks and only talking to those he thought as attractive because of all the possibilities of great friendships he could have had ifnhebhad of been more open to more people.
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Beer goggles at the end of the night and the standards will drop. Not many on here are looking for friends, they are looking for playmates. Attraction is paramount or should be. You can't convey other attractive qualities online like you can face to face so it is all about aesthetics. |
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over a year ago
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"I think the internet has increased this. In the old days you used to go to a pub or club meet someone who on paper might not be your Absolute ideal, but they're sexy and you're getting along well.
These days with filters and searches you just narrow your field right down to your ideal.
I think it was Dustin Hoffman who said he regretted judging people by looks and only talking to those he thought as attractive because of all the possibilities of great friendships he could have had ifnhebhad of been more open to more people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are picky.
It's all down to choice. We will meet and play with some and others we won't.
We know the same applies to us, some people will meet and play with us and others won't.
It's a personal thing and subjective. Being picky or choosy doesn't make it a bad thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole.
This! It just wouldn't happen. I won't let someone touch me unless I think they're sexy and make me horny.
So yeah, I'm super picky and also shallow I guess. I can afford to be though, I have sex on tap at home with my gorgeous husband and so it has to be a yummy face to tempt me ha ha.
Eve. X"
Is Adam as picky, or do I have a chance there  ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole. "
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have. "
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't. |
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have.
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't. "
What about people who say they are picky but aren't?
So confusing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole.
This! It just wouldn't happen. I won't let someone touch me unless I think they're sexy and make me horny.
So yeah, I'm super picky and also shallow I guess. I can afford to be though, I have sex on tap at home with my gorgeous husband and so it has to be a yummy face to tempt me ha ha.
Eve. X
Is Adam as picky, or do I have a chance there ?"
I've already marked you bruh
Haha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have.
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't.
What about people who say they are picky but aren't?
So confusing.
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They had a relapse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole.
This! It just wouldn't happen. I won't let someone touch me unless I think they're sexy and make me horny.
So yeah, I'm super picky and also shallow I guess. I can afford to be though, I have sex on tap at home with my gorgeous husband and so it has to be a yummy face to tempt me ha ha.
Eve. X
Is Adam as picky, or do I have a chance there ?
I've already marked you bruh
Haha.
Adam "
Marked me? What the hell Adam, I'm not a water hydrant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do people quantify 'picky' anyway. Surely pretty much everyone is picky.
There must be very few people that would fuck absolutely ANYONE and EVERYONE that asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have.
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't.
What about people who say they are picky but aren't?
So confusing.
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How do you know they aren't being picky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are people so picky these days when it comes to making friends which would lead to hot wild kinky sex with one another? How picky are you and way. Because I am not picky I like all types of females and couple but if it happy to come a reality for me it would be a first in uk. "
do you mean picky as in adding people as friends, even if you have never laid eyes on them?
if so, then apart from all my other criteria, I am happy to be classed as picky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have.
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't. "
Because being picky means different things to different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have.
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't.
Because being picky means different things to different people."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are people so picky these days when it comes to making friends which would lead to hot wild kinky sex with one another? How picky are you and way. Because I am not picky I like all types of females and couple but if it happy to come a reality for me it would be a first in uk.
do you mean picky as in adding people as friends, even if you have never laid eyes on them?
if so, then apart from all my other criteria, I am happy to be classed as picky "
i do not know it only being friendly banter that all since moving back to UK 21 years ago and last 4 years on the web trying to make friend |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I meet rarely. I don't want to waste my time and someone else's meeting someone I don't have a sexual frisson or rapport with when it might be my only meet in months. That's not picky, that's just good risk/reward analysis and logical time management. |
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There's a difference to finding someone attractive enough to have sex with and being picky.
Reminds me of Seinfeld where George would find some kind of fault.
There's been plenty of people, this ginger girl back in school springs to mind who I initially didn't fancy but over time I really start to fancy them. Happens loads at work too! |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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Do you mean they have to be breathing and have a pulse as well..or is that being picky....lol.
why up the standards, when it is just so easy to demolish them
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have.
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't.
What about people who say they are picky but aren't?
So confusing.
How do you know they aren't being picky?"
How do you know they are? |
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I was picky but I am set in my ways. There's very obvious similarities between all the people I've slept with and if you put them all together, it would look like an identity parade. Dark hair, bushy eyebrows and certain jaw lines. I also like guys to be a lot taller than me and have a big penis. I also like a sense of humour but a dark one, can't be too fluffy or wet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I meet rarely. I don't want to waste my time and someone else's meeting someone I don't have a sexual frisson or rapport with when it might be my only meet in months. That's not picky, that's just good risk/reward analysis and logical time management. "
yes. ..this exactly. Picky would be not moving away from very very specific requirements. I doubt many of those claiming to be picky actually are that picky otherwise they would never meet anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say I was picky but I am set in my ways. There's very obvious similarities between all the people I've slept with and if you put them all together, it would look like an identity parade. Dark hair, bushy eyebrows and certain jaw lines. I also like guys to be a lot taller than me and have a big penis. I also like a sense of humour but a dark one, can't be too fluffy or wet. "
See. ..from what you've said previously I'd say you were an example of picky! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole."
Perfect, same goes for me. She won't enjoy it and neither will i if attraction isn't there. I don't want to put my ego (yeah thats his mame lol) through that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very picky. If I'm not attracted to them it's a no go. If I think I'll look stupid sat in a pub with them then it's a no go. But I also need to attraction to go from looks to personality. I'm not here just to fuck I enjoy the experience. Random fucks are just boring "
Yes yes they really are, i had an experience very recently like this. Met an old female friend the other week the same day i was round hers and i'd had work. The music was on far too late. She'd had way too much i was beyond bored. Still id been there too long and didn't want to let her down say went ahead with the effort. Not my best day or hers to say the least, yes picky. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole. Surprisingly even some men think like this too. It is even harder for men aswell we can't just lie down and take it we have to get hard. Some guys on here must have amazing imagination.
You mean men can be picky too? And have to find the person attractive.
I thought all men just approached this site as Fabwillingholestobefilledswingers. Mind. Blown."
No i wouldn't say that all. It may just be sex but chemistry is important. Interestingly i wonder how many men have faked it...i know i have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm very picky. If I'm not attracted to them it's a no go. If I think I'll look stupid sat in a pub with them then it's a no go. But I also need to attraction to go from looks to personality. I'm not here just to fuck I enjoy the experience. Random fucks are just boring
Yes yes they really are, i had an experience very recently like this. Met an old female friend the other week the same day i was round hers and i'd had work. The music was on far too late. She'd had way too much i was beyond bored. Still id been there too long and didn't want to let her down say went ahead with the effort. Not my best day or hers to say the least, yes picky."
yes. You sound incredibly picky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm picky, but at the same time I have extra marital sex when I'm available, so there's no real need to not be picky. I fuck the guys I enjoy fucking, and I don't really have time for more sex than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say I was picky but I am set in my ways. There's very obvious similarities between all the people I've slept with and if you put them all together, it would look like an identity parade. Dark hair, bushy eyebrows and certain jaw lines. I also like guys to be a lot taller than me and have a big penis. I also like a sense of humour but a dark one, can't be too fluffy or wet.
See. ..from what you've said previously I'd say you were an example of picky! "
Maybe a little. That's why I only meet once in a blue moon and when I do find someone that ticks all the boxes I want to keep them around for a while. That's also what brings out my crazy side, the guys I do like and want to have sex with are so fucking rare and hard to find that one I do come across one it's like MINE gimmie, mine mine mine, and then all hell breaks loose. I put rare cock not just on a pedestal but in a fucking museum of rare beasts that can only be entered on a leap year using 2 halves of a scarab joined together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty picky i dont see why i should shag somone i don't find attractive and thus wouldn't enjoy because of pity or whatever other reason.
"Not fussy" just kind of screams desperation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the comments have fun all you fun loving females and couples..
But go fuck yourselfs single guys? 
They can party with the tv's. "
Whoop ^_^
The drag queens do know how to party!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively picky. But that's kind of a meaningless word, because attraction is subjective and some of those who other picky people have fucked, I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.
Exactly. I've looked at who these picky people have fucked and I definitely wouldn't have.
And vice versa, I'm sure some of the people I find attractive they wouldn't.
What about people who say they are picky but aren't?
So confusing.
How do you know they aren't being picky?
How do you know they are?"
We don't,that's the point. |
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over a year ago
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"Why are people so picky these days when it comes to making friends which would lead to hot wild kinky sex with one another? How picky are you and way. Because I am not picky I like all types of females and couple but if it happy to come a reality for me it would be a first in uk. "
Because we can be. Next. |
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over a year ago
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"Why are people so picky these days when it comes to making friends which would lead to hot wild kinky sex with one another? How picky are you and way. Because I am not picky I like all types of females and couple but if it happy to come a reality for me it would be a first in uk. "
I like all types of men but that does not mean I fancy all men
If I don't fancy somebody I have no interest in talking as it will lead nowhere and I'm here looking for sex, if I just want a chat I'll phone a friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No charity fucks from me....though I wouldn't mind accepting some! "
Oh go on then I'll sponsor your a quid a minute to shag me, money goes to a charity of your choice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are people so picky these days when it comes to making friends which would lead to hot wild kinky sex with one another? How picky are you and way. Because I am not picky I like all types of females and couple but if it happy to come a reality for me it would be a first in uk.
do you mean picky as in adding people as friends, even if you have never laid eyes on them?
if so, then apart from all my other criteria, I am happy to be classed as picky
i do not know it only being friendly banter that all since moving back to UK 21 years ago and last 4 years on the web trying to make friend "
maybe i should call it quits because it seem my thoughs on being picky is spot on when seeking fun here he he |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm really picky. I only fuck those I'm attracted to, regardless of how great someone thinks the sex could be between us. If I'm not attracted to the person, the sex will be crap. No one wants to fuck a dry hole."
Couldn't of put it better myself |
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I'm picky. Despite being told that fat women shouldn't be and to accept whatever offers they are given  (. I have to have some attraction to the guy, personality and intelligence. Skills help too . I'd rather use a dildo than shag someone who didn't appeal to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i only meet and play with guys im attracted to so yes i am picky"
Everyone should be picky. Sex with someone you aren't attracted too doesn't work.... just ask my ex lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No charity fucks from me....though I wouldn't mind accepting some!
Oh go on then I'll sponsor your a quid a minute to shag me, money goes to a charity of your choice "
Well I won't turn my nose up at £3 for the brucelee78 vodka fund!
If I can go again I might even
manage to double my money! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i only meet and play with guys im attracted to so yes i am picky
Everyone should be picky. Sex with someone you aren't attracted too doesn't work.... just ask my ex lol"
lol i think thats y my last relationship was sexless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very picky. If I'm not attracted to them it's a no go. If I think I'll look stupid sat in a pub with them then it's a no go. But I also need to attraction to go from looks to personality. I'm not here just to fuck I enjoy the experience. Random fucks are just boring
Yes yes they really are, i had an experience very recently like this. Met an old female friend the other week the same day i was round hers and i'd had work. The music was on far too late. She'd had way too much i was beyond bored. Still id been there too long and didn't want to let her down say went ahead with the effort. Not my best day or hers to say the least, yes picky.
yes. You sound incredibly picky "
Hahaha The point still stands, one night stands and random hook ups aren't all that and i did have a thing for her back in the day. |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
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" Because I am not picky I like all types of females and couple but if it happy to come a reality for me it would be a first in uk. "
Perhaps people find this approach unappealing, you're not making anyone feel very special... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a long think about how I'm attracted to people. And I honestly don't have a type.
I imagine how those people who admit to being shallow, would be able to explain how they'd find attraction if the didn't have their eyesight to rely on first.
Imagine being without your sight and have to rely on your other instincts to find someone sexually attractive.
I know it irrelevant now. Because we all see beauty here. I see paintings nature etc.
But to find someone sexy here. I look at pics first obviously.
But if I couldn't rely on that. It's their personality.
Being picky is a whole bag of things for me. If I like you. I like you.
Just a thought I had.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a long think about how I'm attracted to people. And I honestly don't have a type.
I imagine how those people who admit to being shallow, would be able to explain how they'd find attraction if the didn't have their eyesight to rely on first.
Imagine being without your sight and have to rely on your other instincts to find someone sexually attractive.
I know it irrelevant now. Because we all see beauty here. I see paintings nature etc.
But to find someone sexy here. I look at pics first obviously.
But if I couldn't rely on that. It's their personality.
Being picky is a whole bag of things for me. If I like you. I like you.
Just a thought I had.
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Sorry but I do have my eyesight to rely on thankfully and I only want to meet extremely physically appealing people. Call me shallow, cause I probably am. But hey-ho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a long think about how I'm attracted to people. And I honestly don't have a type.
I imagine how those people who admit to being shallow, would be able to explain how they'd find attraction if the didn't have their eyesight to rely on first.
Imagine being without your sight and have to rely on your other instincts to find someone sexually attractive.
I know it irrelevant now. Because we all see beauty here. I see paintings nature etc.
But to find someone sexy here. I look at pics first obviously.
But if I couldn't rely on that. It's their personality.
Being picky is a whole bag of things for me. If I like you. I like you.
Just a thought I had.
Sorry but I do have my eyesight to rely on thankfully and I only want to meet extremely physically appealing people. Call me shallow, cause I probably am. But hey-ho! "
Aren't we all! But it's our own subjective view on appealing, for the most part.
But ah well, at least I get to perve on your lovely bum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am picky, I don't see the fun in meeting someone that doesn't interest me physically or mentally.
I guess I have a "type" to some extent but I do stray from it if someone intrigues me enough! (mrs) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to all who commented may you all have great time reading my forums when i post them and great fun in real life too best wishes to all even to those who did not like me |
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Analogy!
I go to a library... it's FULL of books! And I mean floor to ceiling! I'm damned if I'm going to read ALL of them, instead I will choose the ones I'm interested in. The ones that have an attractive cover or engage me by the first chapter, or the one someone has recommended. So, my friend.... happy reading! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a long think about how I'm attracted to people. And I honestly don't have a type.
I imagine how those people who admit to being shallow, would be able to explain how they'd find attraction if the didn't have their eyesight to rely on first.
Imagine being without your sight and have to rely on your other instincts to find someone sexually attractive.
I know it irrelevant now. Because we all see beauty here. I see paintings nature etc.
But to find someone sexy here. I look at pics first obviously.
But if I couldn't rely on that. It's their personality.
Being picky is a whole bag of things for me. If I like you. I like you.
Just a thought I had.
Sorry but I do have my eyesight to rely on thankfully and I only want to meet extremely physically appealing people. Call me shallow, cause I probably am. But hey-ho!
Aren't we all! But it's our own subjective view on appealing, for the most part.
But ah well, at least I get to perve on your lovely bum "
Thank you and do perve away! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a long think about how I'm attracted to people. And I honestly don't have a type.
I imagine how those people who admit to being shallow, would be able to explain how they'd find attraction if the didn't have their eyesight to rely on first.
Imagine being without your sight and have to rely on your other instincts to find someone sexually attractive.
I know it irrelevant now. Because we all see beauty here. I see paintings nature etc.
But to find someone sexy here. I look at pics first obviously.
But if I couldn't rely on that. It's their personality.
Being picky is a whole bag of things for me. If I like you. I like you.
Just a thought I had.
Sorry but I do have my eyesight to rely on thankfully and I only want to meet extremely physically appealing people. Call me shallow, cause I probably am. But hey-ho!
Aren't we all! But it's our own subjective view on appealing, for the most part.
But ah well, at least I get to perve on your lovely bum
Thank you and do perve away! X"
Oh I will. Thank you for giving me the go ahead. It's unfortunate I'm too far away, even when I am back up north. I hope you have a great meet tomorrow night. X |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales |
I wouldn't consider myself as picky but I'm not attracted to men...
So I guess that only leaves approximately 5 to 10% of Fab to choose from... bearing in mind that probably three quarters of those don't find me attractive or viable because we're miles apart...
So I guess that narrow's it down to about half a dozen people!  lol |
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My friends come in all shapes, sizes, colours etc. My sexual partners do not. If someone has a false sense of entitlement, believing joining Fab guarantees sex with whoever they want then that comes under get over yourself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're picky because it's our right to be. I'm sure as hell not going to let someone I'm not attracted to touch me intimately, it's my body and my choice. If someone doesn't like that they'll be blocked and we'll talk to the next person in our inbox lol   |
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i am picky compared to some women on here, whats the point of wasting my time meeting men if im not going to like them or enjoy myself, after a few bad or not very good experiences i have become a lot more wary. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Very picky, there has to be the right chemistry.
Cannot think of anything worse than meeting a lady who is so up their own arse looking for a coherent thing to say....
If I'm going to dance, we have to have the same rhythm. |
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One man's meat and all that. Just because I don't find a certain person sexually attractive doesn't mean I'm somehow superior in my tastes because another person thinks they're the dogs bollocks.
A lot of misplaced snottiness displayed by some, claiming to be picky whilst on a sex site trawling to shag strangers...Please! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"One man's meat and all that. Just because I don't find a certain person sexually attractive doesn't mean I'm somehow superior in my tastes because another person thinks they're the dogs bollocks.
A lot of misplaced snottiness displayed by some, claiming to be picky whilst on a sex site trawling to shag strangers...Please! "
Damn and their is me thinking it was a swingers site looking for likeminded people....  |
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"One man's meat and all that. Just because I don't find a certain person sexually attractive doesn't mean I'm somehow superior in my tastes because another person thinks they're the dogs bollocks.
A lot of misplaced snottiness displayed by some, claiming to be picky whilst on a sex site trawling to shag strangers...Please! "
Some people arent as picky as others and some havnt got very good taste in men or women come to that, just because you are on a swingers website doesnt mean you have to have sex with everyone who offers. If someone thinks anyone who meets me hasnt got very good taste in women i certainly dont let it bother me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter how good a personality...you can't fuck a personality......we fuck who we choose to fuck based on sexual attraction ,body shape ,colour and aroma ...it's not being picky ..it's being human and having the freedom to choose .... |
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"One man's meat and all that. Just because I don't find a certain person sexually attractive doesn't mean I'm somehow superior in my tastes because another person thinks they're the dogs bollocks.
A lot of misplaced snottiness displayed by some, claiming to be picky whilst on a sex site trawling to shag strangers...Please!
Damn and their is me thinking it was a swingers site looking for likeminded people.... "
You can call it whatever you like: bottom line people meet for sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm picky because I know what I like and what I want and when I'm ready I'll go and get me some if they are willing
An excellent strategy !!"
I do like to plan ahead and have a strategy you see I don't want to mislead anyone |
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"No matter how good a personality...you can't fuck a personality......we fuck who we choose to fuck based on sexual attraction ,body shape ,colour and aroma ...it's not being picky ..it's being human and having the freedom to choose ...."
My point!
We all have a preference it doesn't make us "picky". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One man's meat and all that. Just because I don't find a certain person sexually attractive doesn't mean I'm somehow superior in my tastes because another person thinks they're the dogs bollocks.
A lot of misplaced snottiness displayed by some, claiming to be picky whilst on a sex site trawling to shag strangers...Please! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No matter how good a personality...you can't fuck a personality......we fuck who we choose to fuck based on sexual attraction ,body shape ,colour and aroma ...it's not being picky ..it's being human and having the freedom to choose ....
My point!
We all have a preference it doesn't make us "picky"."
I think I said that 3 days ago. ..no one listened to me either@! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm picky because I know what I like and what I want and when I'm ready I'll go and get me some if they are willing
An excellent strategy !!
I do like to plan ahead and have a strategy you see I don't want to mislead anyone "
Oh of course; plans are good |
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over a year ago
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"No matter how good a personality...you can't fuck a personality......we fuck who we choose to fuck based on sexual attraction ,body shape ,colour and aroma ...it's not being picky ..it's being human and having the freedom to choose ....
My point!
We all have a preference it doesn't make us "picky"."
but some men have a problem with the fact that we can pick and choose our preferences, so they say we are picky when actually we are not, we just choose not to pick them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm picky because I will only meet people I'm super attracted to. If I wanted to fuck people I'm not physically attracted to, then I may as well leave Fab, go on the game and get paid for it!
I'll pick all the way on my freakin fucking Fab journey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the comments have fun all you fun loving females and couples.."
Have great weekend everyone from a unlike man maybe i'm joking that the only i can keep my smile |
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"One man's meat and all that. Just because I don't find a certain person sexually attractive doesn't mean I'm somehow superior in my tastes because another person thinks they're the dogs bollocks.
A lot of misplaced snottiness displayed by some, claiming to be picky whilst on a sex site trawling to shag strangers...Please! "
That second paragraph...what?? What business is it of yours? |
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"No matter how good a personality...you can't fuck a personality......we fuck who we choose to fuck based on sexual attraction ,body shape ,colour and aroma ...it's not being picky ..it's being human and having the freedom to choose ....
My point!
We all have a preference it doesn't make us "picky".
but some men have a problem with the fact that we can pick and choose our preferences, so they say we are picky when actually we are not, we just choose not to pick them "
Not being picky equals ...go any nightclub grab first person you set eyes on and banging it bareback down an alley ....just in case guys are not aware it's always the female that decides like it or not ..we cannot make anyone fancy us that doesn't |
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over a year ago
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"We'll be as picky as we like. There's no way we're shagging someone we're not attracted to.
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Just read your profile ,can't message you as a single guy but maybe able to offer some help on the sciatica situation having been through it myself drop me a message ...it's cool know you don't do single guys purely medicinal so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day people like what they like! Some say they are picky but in reality they know what floats their boat you cant slate anyone thats not afraid to state what they like in my opinion people that like anything are the type of people that are desperate for anything the type of person that says any hole is a goal! In my opinion that is wrong i wouldnt put my cock anywhere near anyone that didnt turn me on simple as that |
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"One man's meat and all that. Just because I don't find a certain person sexually attractive doesn't mean I'm somehow superior in my tastes because another person thinks they're the dogs bollocks.
A lot of misplaced snottiness displayed by some, claiming to be picky whilst on a sex site trawling to shag strangers...Please!
That second paragraph...what?? What business is it of yours?"
Where did I say it was my business?
I'm making an observation and offering my opinion. I find it laughable for any of us on this site to adopt a sense of pseudo superiority about how picky we are, how we only play safe etc when in essence given the opportunity we fuck strangers for fun because we're in heat/like the rush/bored with partners etc.
Blimey, some even post how they resent their own kids if they get sick and spoil their chance of fucking a stranger they "picked!"
As I said, one man's meat and all that!
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"At the end of the day people like what they like! Some say they are picky but in reality they know what floats their boat you cant slate anyone thats not afraid to state what they like in my opinion people that like anything are the type of people that are desperate for anything the type of person that says any hole is a goal! In my opinion that is wrong i wouldnt put my cock anywhere near anyone that didnt turn me on simple as that "
I suppose it is a matter of semantics.
We do like what we like. Some say preferences, others picky. |
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