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over a year ago
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"Obviously people have preferences but what about list of demands? Is it off putting? Does it make you think the person is a bit of a tool? "
I just block them who are so up their own are as I never going to want to meet them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aslong as thier demands are not in a SHOUTY aggressive way it doest bother me. When I was meeting my pro had a list of things I desired in the hope that I'd find someone who could offer those things to me. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm all for people clearly explaining exactly what they offer and expect on their profile.....
It makes it much simpler to gauge potential compatibility and appeal,,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather see a list of demands that will help us to decide whether to meet them or not. It's better than nothing on the profile and we indulge in guessing games or yawnsville ping pong messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha"
That's just hard luck. Don't focus on those who exclude you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha
That's just hard luck. Don't focus on those who exclude you. "
yea i was only joking its not actually about an experience its juat a few profiles ive seen have these demands and i think wow you dont want much do you? Then their other half is the exact opposite |
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It'd probably put me off because I'm a 'go with the flow' type of person and prefer not to feel like a performing monkey ticking off one thing after another ... but presumably that approach must work for some people otherwise they wouldn't make such a list?
It's not so much profiles that bother me but when you get similar lists of demands in a message even though you haven't exchanged a single word with them yet! *That* sort of arrogant entitlement really does get my back up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha"
Even women who aren't remotely attractive have this. They all seek 'Exceptional males' it's laughable. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha Even women who aren't remotely attractive have this. They all seek 'Exceptional males' it's laughable. "
Nah, some of us munters are happy with the unexceptional. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha Even women who aren't remotely attractive have this. They all seek 'Exceptional males' it's laughable.
Nah, some of us munters are happy with the unexceptional. "
It doesn't falsely inflate every woman's ego then.  |
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha
That's just hard luck. Don't focus on those who exclude you. yea i was only joking its not actually about an experience its juat a few profiles ive seen have these demands and i think wow you dont want much do you? Then their other half is the exact opposite"
What is difficult to understand. The female half of the couple wants someone who is different than her partner to fuck her. That's the point isn't it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously people have preferences but what about list of demands? Is it off putting? Does it make you think the person is a bit of a tool? "
It makes me think they're acting like spoilt brats. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha
That's just hard luck. Don't focus on those who exclude you. yea i was only joking its not actually about an experience its juat a few profiles ive seen have these demands and i think wow you dont want much do you? Then their other half is the exact opposite
What is difficult to understand. The female half of the couple wants someone who is different than her partner to fuck her. That's the point isn't it ?"
Ive messaged people who's description of a person I match to the letter, and hey guess what... apparently I'm not their type... lol  that's the mad world of fab. |
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I can't see any problem with a list of demands.
Some people are on here for fantasy sex not just any old sex they can get.
If I was feeling a particular penchant for a one legged blonde with a Somerset accent I would put it on my profile and see what response I got.
If it works for them I can't understand the criticism .
Some people are choosy some are less so. |
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha
That's just hard luck. Don't focus on those who exclude you. yea i was only joking its not actually about an experience its juat a few profiles ive seen have these demands and i think wow you dont want much do you? Then their other half is the exact opposite
What is difficult to understand. The female half of the couple wants someone who is different than her partner to fuck her. That's the point isn't it ?
Ive messaged people who's description of a person I match to the letter, and hey guess what... apparently I'm not their type... lol that's the mad world of fab. "
You obviously don't match to letter otherwise you would have met them.
There was something about you that didn't fit their criteria. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What aboit a list like this
Must be 6ft plus
Must be vwe 8+
Must be muscular
Must have hair on the head
Ect ect
Basically all the things im not hahaha"
Could be worded better. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easier to see if you fit what someone is looking for if they state it on their profile but the way they put what they're looking for can be done in a way that doesn't make them appear demanding and up their arses.
The profiles that basically come across that they will fuck anyone can be just as off putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally offputting. I wouldn't bother messaging them. How many guys you had lie about their height?"
Loads, but it's rare for them to lie by more than a couple of inches so I take that into account when deciding if they're tall enough.
Stated height up to 6'0 - subtract 2 inches
Stated height 6'0-6'3 - subtract 1 inch
Stated height 6'4 - probably true
Stated height 6'5 and upwards - start adding inches because they're probably understating it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally offputting. I wouldn't bother messaging them. How many guys you had lie about their height?
Loads, but it's rare for them to lie by more than a couple of inches so I take that into account when deciding if they're tall enough.
Stated height up to 6'0 - subtract 2 inches
Stated height 6'0-6'3 - subtract 1 inch
Stated height 6'4 - probably true
Stated height 6'5 and upwards - start adding inches because they're probably understating it. "
Interesting there is a science to it.  |
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