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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I am looking for a local FB. You guys that have one. How did it happen ?"
I have more than one fella we chat daily by media apps meet regular and I am apart of there life and they are apart of mine .
I am totally non pushy fella in the beginning of the friendship .plus I give freely of myself I don't worry about wether things will progress from the talking stage to the meeting stage .i just enjoy the banter.
My advice would be don't push don't over step let things develop at a natural pace not a force pushed one .
Be totally open from the beginning with everyone who's company you enjoy and things will progress .
I meet one lively lady from Liverpool and her best friend three times a year in London .i meet another lovely lady every 6 weeks for a meal and more .i meet another lively lady when ever her work load allows .the one thing in common with them all is we keep in daily contact .
All three friendships are over three years old and I'm hoping all three will last my life time .
Wishful thinking maybe but I really do hope so that's how much meaning the relationship have to me  |
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Well, through the years... luck has played a large part, opportunity... turnover 
I dunno. I have 2 people currently I would define as fuck buddies and those are on-going, non-emotional regular/semi-regular sexual associations. You need to click as a partnership but understand its limits.
Both were accidents. One stalked me for 6 months and the other I met in a place soooo unlikely I'm surprised we know each other.
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over a year ago
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My current fwb I broke my rules for and didn't expect a response let alone us becoming a regular thing...messaged him to tell him I loved his pics (without seeing his face) he replied...shocked me by asking if I would like to play sometime...2 days later we spent his day off together and have been seeing eachother almost every day since...that was almost 5 months ago  |
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"I met someone. And then I met him again. And then I met him again. And then I met him again. And...you get the idea. "
Yeah, that happens... but fuck buddy status is a bit more than 'someone I knock off occasionally'.
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"I met someone. And then I met him again. And then I met him again. And then I met him again. And...you get the idea.
Yeah, that happens... but fuck buddy status is a bit more than 'someone I knock off occasionally'.
No?"
Absolutely - but that's how it happened. You could now intersperse that with texting and going for drinks and going for cups of coffee but it basically started from meeting someone for one coffee with no expectations. |
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My first was a slightly terrifying young woman when I was in my late teens. As she bluntly put it to me, I like sex and she liked, so while we were staying together why not help each other out?
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