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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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If you met sumone and started a relationship with them wot wood you do.......
(1) leeve fab if you met sumone and started a relationship with them ?
(2) stay on fab and bring them along with you and be a cupall ?
(3) stay on fab and not tell them ?
For me its (1) |
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Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical? |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?"
Onistley im using it as a free dateing site.
Hints my profile layout and I Onley meet with a social 1st.
Not that its worked yet. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?"
Not really, at this point in my life I'm not looking for a relationship, so this suits me just fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?"
Not really as one can have multiple partners but be not be polyamourus.
Love trumps multiparter fun.
Unless you can have love and multipartner fun then win win.
Way i look at it is fab is like taking your car on a track day you can have all the fast paced fun you like, but relationships is like the road still fun to be had but there's other people to consider now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the person I've done number 1 with my last relationship as he wasn't into this sort of thing but I joined this site before in a previous relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be number 1 but they would have to be literally my soul mate. I've had a. Ad experience and will not give up my life as it is now unless it was for THE ONE
I'd prefer a swinging lifestyle partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?"
Why is it hypocritical? Swapping isn't mandatory.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 or 2, depending on the person I meet, although I'm not looking for a relationship.
I might leave the site and have a swinging relationship with them too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?"
Signing up here isn't a life sentence to non-monogamous sex. Some couples leave and give up too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?
Not really, at this point in my life I'm not looking for a relationship, so this suits me just fine"
This for me too. |
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?"
We did 
Following in from my earlier thoughts something else came to mind. For those who would leave, would you hide your profile to come back to if it didn't work out or leave completely? Also, would you tell your new partner about your past on here? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?"
i'm on another site looking for a relationship. the guys have to pay a fair bit to message the women so seems better than here in that they are actually wanting relationships. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 or 2, depending on the person.
Where my last lover was concerned, who I've known for years, he did know about Fab and he even helped with photos. And about letting someone know - on my old Tinder profile I explicitly said I was on a swinging site.  |
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?
We did
Following in from my earlier thoughts something else came to mind. For those who would leave, would you hide your profile to come back to if it didn't work out or leave completely? Also, would you tell your new partner about your past on here?"
I think if you didn't let them know that would not be a good start.
Hence why my first answer would be 2. with 1. as the fallback position.
Obviously being open about things up front would make 3. somewhat difficult!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe in monogamy and reject the idea of 'The One', and if I got with a guy from here who wanted to do that I'd tell him no. I'd want to open his eyes to the joy that is group sex, I'd encourage him to sleep with other women in the same way I would want him to encourage me to sleep with other men.
The only way that it could really work if he was devoted to me, would be for him to become my cuckold, but I recognize in that relationship there wouldn't be much equality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't believe in monogamy and reject the idea of 'The One', and if I got with a guy from here who wanted to do that I'd tell him no. I'd want to open his eyes to the joy that is group sex, I'd encourage him to sleep with other women in the same way I would want him to encourage me to sleep with other men.
The only way that it could really work if he was devoted to me, would be for him to become my cuckold, but I recognize in that relationship there wouldn't be much equality. "
Nicely said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?
We did
Following in from my earlier thoughts something else came to mind. For those who would leave, would you hide your profile to come back to if it didn't work out or leave completely? Also, would you tell your new partner about your past on here?"
Start a new thread. Interesting questons. 
I'd hide. No chance I'd tell them about being on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?
i'm on another site looking for a relationship. the guys have to pay a fair bit to message the women so seems better than here in that they are actually wanting relationships."
Does it make them think they are entitled to sex though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?
i'm on another site looking for a relationship. the guys have to pay a fair bit to message the women so seems better than here in that they are actually wanting relationships.
Does it make them think they are entitled to sex though?"
What about the paid site supporters on fab? If they're paying for a service does that mean they expect sex? I know I don't, but I'm sure there are some men who definitely do. Entitled men are the worst kind of men in my opinion. |
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?
i'm on another site looking for a relationship. the guys have to pay a fair bit to message the women so seems better than here in that they are actually wanting relationships."
That sounds like a good idea! !Which site is that I wonder. ..  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I think another question it brings up would be would u get into a relationship with someone from here?
i'm on another site looking for a relationship. the guys have to pay a fair bit to message the women so seems better than here in that they are actually wanting relationships.
That sounds like a good idea! !Which site is that I wonder. .. "
none you've heard of probably.
i've kept this one to myself. so far only old men messaging me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm waiting for Jim's mum
there's a queue
But my charm will win me through 
you're tall - she will see you easy enough
I'll just pick her up and carry her away spiteing all others as I go "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?
Not really, at this point in my life I'm not looking for a relationship, so this suits me just fine"
This |
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Initially I would hide my profile and just loiter around the forums. In time I would hope to be on here as a couple but if that wasn't an option I would leave if it was "the one". I certainly wouldn't hide the fact I've been on here.
I'm a big believer in honesty and couldn't cheat. I could quite happily stay on here with a partner's full knowledge and blessing but wouldn't sneak around behind their back. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"Initially I would hide my profile and just loiter around the forums. In time I would hope to be on here as a couple but if that wasn't an option I would leave if it was "the one". I certainly wouldn't hide the fact I've been on here.
I'm a big believer in honesty and couldn't cheat. I could quite happily stay on here with a partner's full knowledge and blessing but wouldn't sneak around behind their back."
yep. This is my thoughts too. Am not looking for " the one " but I don't think monogamous relationships are for me. |
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?"
No...this site is for everybody....who are you to tell people how they use this site.......as long as they are honest about what they are looking for and their status...... |
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"Just to throw a cat among the pigeons, this post throws up an additional question.
Fab is a site primarily dedicated to those who wish to live a non monogamous lifestyle. Do those answering 1 not think that their being here is somewhat hypocritical?
No...this site is for everybody....who are you to tell people how they use this site.......as long as they are honest about what they are looking for and their status......"
Please point me to where I was dictating how others use the site!
Jeez some special, delicate little snowflakes can get offended by nothing |
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"I would keep my fab profile but put it in hiding and just not come on here. It's what I've done in the past. Saves losing all the veries and starting again "
Exactly what I done and I was honest about it. Unless it's what me and the other person wanted I think it's easier to hide the profile and see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've said before that the only thing that would make me leave is if I got myself a little boyfriend. I'd want to stay for the forums and if I met him from here he'd have to delete his account or at the least hide it and give me his login details, (yes I'm insane and such a catch) Out of respect for my hypothetical boyfriend I would leave here completely if he wanted me to, or if he was fine with me hiding my profile and just staying for the forums, I would do that.
If I met a guy from outside here I would just hide my profile and only use the forums here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be a couple with Lib if he wasn't so damn fussy. I clean, I cook I'm good on the plough, have a vagine and some knockers but nooooo.
Lib, stop being so damn fussy."
I know right, so damn fussy it's as if he has a brain and a mind when we all know men are just cocks that need a place to park. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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Im a bit surprised how meney people have piked (1) I thort I wos the odd 1 out.
I wos sort of expecting lots of (2)s
And to Thos hoo piked (3)
..... Well......
Im not Shor wot to say to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be a couple with Lib if he wasn't so damn fussy. I clean, I cook I'm good on the plough, have a vagine and some knockers but nooooo.
Lib, stop being so damn fussy.
I know right, so damn fussy it's as if he has a brain and a mind when we all know men are just cocks that need a place to park. "
I probably just need to stop fapping so much. |
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