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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
Definitely
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"met a few like that, doesn't mean they're good for me.
You obviously haven't. 
and why not? just means i haven't decided to hate them yet."
That ONE person. Not the entire
Queue at the dole centre. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"met a few like that, doesn't mean they're good for me.
You obviously haven't.
and why not? just means i haven't decided to hate them yet.
That ONE person. Not the entire
Queue at the dole centre."
i don't go to the dole centre so i wouldn't meet anyone there anyway. think they're called job centres now as well. |
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
Yes, three of the bastards.
It's difficult |
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
Yes. Its a glimpse of hell |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
i have lots of people whom i love utterly in this lifetime, that i feel this way about x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and I'm grateful the Universe gave us a brief moment together. There is no sadness or pain just an acceptance that we can't be together.
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i have one of those as well |
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?
Yes, three of the bastards.
It's difficult "
Mind you, I thought this was about sex... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and I'm grateful the Universe gave us a brief moment together. There is no sadness or pain just an acceptance that we can't be together.
i have one of those as well"
so have I......... Bittersweet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have. Unfortunately circumstances prevented us from being able to be together. Heartbreaking when we had to break up, but I don't regret what happened between us at all. I look back on the great memories and they always make me smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them."
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best."
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have somebody whom, when I see them, a lump catches in my throat. I tend to avoid her for the most part. We've not spoken on 3 years and I don't intend on speaking to her. We separated for a reason and I'm not one for punishing myself. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it."
Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away.
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Then there was no choice, wallowing in regret is simply an indulgence.
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
Sadly not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it."
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out."
Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yah I have. My ex. Sadly he couldn't keep it in his pants and done the unthinkable. He fucked my sister. We have a 2 kids together so still have to see him and still kills me everytime. While I do hate him for what he done at the same time all my old feeling for him are there. I was crazy about him  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
Sometimes the price is too high and can't be paid. Being selfish doesn't always lead to getting the happiness you sought by making the choice. It can be braver to walk away.
Then there was no choice, wallowing in regret is simply an indulgence.
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Personally, I'm not wallowing in regret. We have lives that move on and we want only the best for each other. We're adults. It doesn't matter how long the gap is between conversations, we pick up as though the conversation had no pause.
I didn't read the OP as being about wallowing in anything.
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in |
"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
Yes the ex wife !!!
Get the same felling as aways if I ever see her !!! Hate ! Resentment and the urge to kill  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out.
Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions. "
People have varying levels of dificult though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out.
Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions.
People have varying levels of dificult though."
True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out.
Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions.
People have varying levels of dificult though.
True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are."
yeah. i understand where i come in peoples priorities. like i'd never expect to be put before someone elses kid or family or someone important.
but if people neglect me for lesser stuff they can fuck right off.
ah that feels better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out.
Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions.
People have varying levels of dificult though.
True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are.
yeah. i understand where i come in peoples priorities. like i'd never expect to be put before someone elses kid or family or someone important.
but if people neglect me for lesser stuff they can fuck right off.
ah that feels better."
Noted laters |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out.
Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions.
People have varying levels of dificult though.
True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are.
yeah. i understand where i come in peoples priorities. like i'd never expect to be put before someone elses kid or family or someone important.
but if people neglect me for lesser stuff they can fuck right off.
ah that feels better.
Noted laters "
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't cling to sentiment and "what-ifs", if people really want to be together, nothing will stop them.
Circumstances can stop people doing what their heart tells them to do. I followed my head and it's been for the best.
That's a clear choice, and once made, time to move on. If people really want something, nothing stops them, if they don't really want it, they'll find an excuse to not do it.
You've obviously never been in a difficult position. It's never black and white like you are making out.
Lol. I most certainly have, and I know exactly what it's like to make difficult decisions.
People have varying levels of dificult though.
True, but if someone is really that important to you, then you will put all else aside for them. And if you're not prepared to do it, you know where your real priorities are."
Exactly. My family and friends, surely where everyone's priorities should lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you know your feelings will never change? "
You don't. There is no guarantee that anyone can give that their feelings don't change. Very valid point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. "
No, they're selfish and thinking only of themselves, which is what you should be doing, rather than thinking you're not worthy. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. "
or they're not worthy of you?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
It's a nice thought isn't it. This takes a lot of honesty to have someone like that.
Or that's how I see it anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away.
No, they're selfish and thinking only of themselves, which is what you should be doing, rather than thinking you're not worthy."
It's not how my mind works at the moment but appreciate the comment |
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"A couple of guys have taken a little piece of my heart with them when I've been vulnerable. I honestly believe that I'm not worthy of a long-term lover or friend on here... they all fuck off, move on, leave or move away. "
Everyone is worthy, don't let it come back on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a lucky girl, I go to sleep on his chest every night. Can't imagine ever not loving him or have him provoke the feelings in me that he does 
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"No, I don't let people get close enough.
Stfu I love you 
Slut
Want me to love you too?
Is that the love between a man and a woman or a man and a fiiine Cuban cigar?
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Oh see I do love getting my lips around a cigar on special occassions.
I'll love you like a cigar, that ok with you? |
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"No, I don't let people get close enough.
Stfu I love you
Slut
Want me to love you too?
Is that the love between a man and a woman or a man and a fiiine Cuban cigar?
Oh see I do love getting my lips around a cigar on special occassions.
I'll love you like a cigar, that ok with you? "
Where did I put my lighter...?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who you know, regardless of how much time and difference there goes between you, and regardless of circumstances, that when you see them again, your feelings for each other will never change.
Have you found them yet?"
Yeah he used to bully me at school and I still fuckin hate him.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, after a year of being fbs, he got back with his wife...hey ho !
If you just had a FB relationship we're you really expecting anymore? "
we had both take about it , so yes maybe |
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Yes. My old 2 door Sierra Cosworth that I sold in 1998 then sat in it after it being in storage for 16 years. Not only has it quadrupled in value since I sold it, but it felt like I'd grown and extra penis again!!! Now she lives in dubai. Bastard hindsight.  |
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