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When someone you know messages you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Two choices.
You can be adults about and discuss. Or you can block each other. "
What if said person was out of my preference range and was on my facebook with about 200 mutual friends lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Run for the hills.
Someone I worked with was a member and messaged me through Fab. We didn't work very closely so only kind of knew each other, but she then always wanted to chat about Fab when I saw her at work, it all became very awkward and left me feeling exposed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Two choices.
You can be adults about and discuss. Or you can block each other.
What if said person was out of my preference range and was on my facebook with about 200 mutual friends lol"
Well, consider that that person is also here for carefree sex with strangers. You discuss it like adults and agree to keep each other's secret. We've done it with friends outside of fab who are on here. We steer clear of each other here. We don't mention it when we meet in social circles. If you're good friends then it's not that difficult to talk about it rationally and in a mature way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had it on a site I used to use. We are actually distantly related. I just blocked him and eradicated the pics he sent from my mind. "
This is where mind bleach is a Fab essential.
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I've messaged a lady, where I fitted her preferences, but never had a reply. Normal situation for a single man.
Later found out that we worked together at that time (different departments, same building)
She's changed jobs and spoken to me since. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One of my neighbours is also on fab So what . We are Bothe discreet about it . Did laugh when we realised but by then not much we could do . It's only a problem if you make it one . "
thats true. I dont want to divulge too much in the forums but its a bit more complicated than that. But as said theres not alot i can do now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has only happened once, I had an inner WTF for 5 minutes & then blocked him."
........un related but dam there you looking lovely n rocking them biker boots n cheerleader get up ......very underrated look lol .....met a couple last minute Friday with my partner she whent on that tip as we were at my place n last minute so it ended up stockings n Basque n biker boots ....hot as foook lol x
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This happened to me, I saw they had viewed us a few times and they eventually sent a message. It was at that point I realised they didn't know so I messed about with them abit letting them know I clearly knew them and kept giving them clues as to who I was. I have known the guy about 9 years and he's on my facebook etc. I just messaged him and said this part of my life is private... He said same but was more shocked that I was actually on here ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never happened to me but if it did I would love it not see the problem as that's y we are all on here. Just as long as it's discreet and safe no problem |
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