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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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It's a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
I believe we are as much what others see us as as we see ourselves. If arrogance is the term used for you by more than a couple of people you might want to reappraise your view of confidence. Or, just ignore it and carry on being happy and confident in yourself.
I'm often accused of being up my own arse so at times I must be.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "
without knowing you I couldn't possibly make such an informed opinion...
but generally speaking, I think men who think they are dominant are often just overbearing or arrogant..
obviously that's just my opinion |
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "
Yes some people do mistake confidence for arrogance but its quite easy to tell the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "
I think it depends on what your idea of confident is
Yes i do think some people mistake confidance with arrogancy, some people are to arrogant to realise they are arrogant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but generally speaking, I think men who think they are dominant are often just overbearing or arrogant..
obviously that's just my opinion
I agree though  "
oh god me too
Most Dom men have no idea what being Dom is |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "
Confidence can sometimes be interpreted as arrogance, it all depends on how it's delivered. |
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think?
Yes some people do mistake confidence for arrogance but its quite easy to tell the difference."
I usually think confident people just get on quietly with things allowing others to form an unbiased opinion about them whereas arrogant types draw a lot of attention to themselves and make sure everyone else is left in no doubt about what they're doing, how 'good' they are at it etc. |
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Barack Obama – confident
Donald J Trump – arrogant
Jason Bourne – confident
James Bond – arrogant
Steve McQueen – confident
Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant
Madonna - confident
Lady Gaga – arrogant
Stevie Wonder – confident
Snoop Dog – arrogant
Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident
Kim Kardashian – arrogant
Lionel Messi - confident
Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant
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If we're expressing ourselves and behaving in a style that others perceive to be something like arrogance, then it's potentially great to get such feedback.
There's no right and wrong but it's valuable to get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "
I'm awesome. |
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"Barack Obama – confident
Donald J Trump – arrogant
Jason Bourne – confident
James Bond – arrogant
Steve McQueen – confident
Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant
Madonna - confident
Lady Gaga – arrogant
Stevie Wonder – confident
Snoop Dog – arrogant
Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident
Kim Kardashian – arrogant
Lionel Messi - confident
Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant
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Haha. That's ace.
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"Barack Obama – confident
Donald J Trump – arrogant
Jason Bourne – confident
James Bond – arrogant
Steve McQueen – confident
Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant
Madonna - confident
Lady Gaga – arrogant
Stevie Wonder – confident
Snoop Dog – arrogant
Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident
Kim Kardashian – arrogant
Lionel Messi - confident
Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant
Haha. That's ace.
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It's pretty good but Lady GaGa is far from arrogant and Scarlett Moffat ( Gogglebox ) isn't exactly confident more ignorant of her own ignorance.
Tickles me how gogglebox people get gogglebox after their name. Happens often. Granny-Crumpet (FabSwingers ) |
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think? "
I think this PaFiveCal..........
If you've 'just been told' I mean JUST been told, i'm assuming it's by a total stranger on a swingers site via the message system.
No context, no knowledge of either of you and too many possibilities.
Why worry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I come across as arrogant, do some people mistake confidence for arrogance, I know I'm not the best thing since sliced bread. What do you think?
without knowing you I couldn't possibly make such an informed opinion...
but generally speaking, I think men who think they are dominant are often just overbearing or arrogant..
obviously that's just my opinion"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why worry what strangers on a sex site think?
Be yourself, some will love you, some will hate you, as they do me, but don't change just to suit others."
Better being loved by a some and hated by others than having everyone think you're just alright.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why worry what strangers on a sex site think?
Be yourself, some will love you, some will hate you, as they do me, but don't change just to suit others.
Better being loved by a some and hated by others than having everyone think you're just alright. "
Damn right |
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"Barack Obama – confident
Donald J Trump – arrogant
Jason Bourne – confident
James Bond – arrogant
Steve McQueen – confident
Sean Penn , Christian Bale, Vin Diesel, Idris Elba - arrogant
Madonna - confident
Lady Gaga – arrogant
Stevie Wonder – confident
Snoop Dog – arrogant
Scarlett Moffatt (Goggle Box) – confident
Kim Kardashian – arrogant
Lionel Messi - confident
Cristiano Renaldo - arrogant
Haha. That's ace.
It's pretty good but Lady GaGa is far from arrogant and Scarlett Moffat ( Gogglebox ) isn't exactly confident more ignorant of her own ignorance.
Tickles me how gogglebox people get gogglebox after their name. Happens often. Granny-Crumpet (FabSwingers ) "
That was what i thought about scarlet. She's very insecure. As for lady gaga. I saw an interview with her once and she was sooooo arrogant. Not answering normal questions. Really taking her time to answer some, to point i was cringing. The things she was saying made me think who the hell does she think she is. So I'd have to disagree with that one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure the op meant what do you think in general terms but we were arrogant enough to think he was alluding to himself  "
Yes, I'm generalising, it was just something that occurred to me, I am happy as I am and know that when people take the time to know me, that actually, I'm a nice guy, I think its good to get peoples perspective, debating is good, mass debating not so good lol  |
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