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over a year ago
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Make it? As in successfully arranging meets?
I won't make it.
I'm not interested in putting blurb on my profile. Meet me or talk to me if you want to get to know someone. That why I'm in the forum.
I don't send out messages to strangers that are not in the forum. I did that once. I didn't get a reply.
So my network of people I will get to know is limited and reduced even further by the distance we live apart.
Other reasons too.
But I don't think I'm alone with these things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What volume of people here want make it, however well they improve their profile and pics? Someone for absolutely everyone? "
I've had lots of good feedback over my profile so I'm happy with that. I have to come to realise it's ether messages or my face pic which people don't like. I'm hoping its the former 
Although I would like to meet someone on here, I can't say I'd be too bothered if I don't. More women in the world then just the ones on Fab |
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"What volume of people here want make it, however well they improve their profile and pics? Someone for absolutely everyone?
I've had lots of good feedback over my profile so I'm happy with that. I have to come to realise it's ether messages or my face pic which people don't like. I'm hoping its the former
Although I would like to meet someone on here, I can't say I'd be too bothered if I don't. More women in the world then just the ones on Fab"
That's a good way of looking at it I think. I'd not expect people to just try to get all of their sexual partners from here, when there's a huge world out there. |
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"What volume of people here want make it, however well they improve their profile and pics? Someone for absolutely everyone? "
Tired eyes today - I meant 'won't', as you all seen to have deduced. There are perhaps other typos  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are plenty that won't make it those are usually the ones who end up in introductions asking why cant they get meets, and advice on their profile, but three weeks later they have taken none of the advice so they start another thread asking the very same thing again...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet wise, we won't fair well
1. We list ourselves as gay
2. We have a significant age gap
3. We are of very different builds
4. We have a very definite look in mind for our meets
5. We won't meet at the drop of a hat
6. We have a pretty specific meet in mind
7. We don't compromise
I think if you come here with an open mind that your type of meet might not happen, you are in a much stronger position than if your only reason for being here is to meet.
That is why a lot of guys come here and leave disappointed and frustrated : because they approach the site with expectation and entitlement without actually working out what their target audience seek and how they operate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is "
Supply and demand |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is "
Pretty much. They might not be offers you actually want to accept, but you'll get them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is "
It is the way it is ,but a man has to be vain to believe he's good looking (my view) I've always been of the belief to one I'm ugly to another I'm ok ...we all like different things I'd never call anyone ugly we are what and who we are ,are we not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most they will fail will be men.
Most don't help them selves. Don't hinder themselves (inc me)
Some spoil it for the rest with their behaviour.
It not confined to just men I know. But with the site so over run with male members, the numbers will add up to dudes coming and going so to speak.  |
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"Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is
Pretty much. They might not be offers you actually want to accept, but you'll get them. "
Yeah and sometimes 5000 offers from bellends and unsuitable people is worse than none. |
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"Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is
Pretty much. They might not be offers you actually want to accept, but you'll get them.
Yeah and sometimes 5000 offers from bellends and unsuitable people is worse than none. "
shame that's probably true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is
Pretty much. They might not be offers you actually want to accept, but you'll get them.
Yeah and sometimes 5000 offers from bellends and unsuitable people is worse than none. "
But from your pics, it would suggest you are quite a well put together woman, thus your inbox is bound to be busier
I can, however, understand anyones frustration at receiving so many unsolicited and unwanted approaches
Despite being two gay guys and quite choosy ones at that, we still receive several messages a day - none of them so far have matched what we are looking for
Well OK one, but we wouldn't meet because he stated he wouldn't ever be able to meet when we could cos his wife would wonder where he was |
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"Another contentious point is :
If you come here as a not very good looking man, your chances of a meet are slim to none, but
Come here as a not very good looking woman and the chances are you will still get offers
Sorry, that's just the way it is
Pretty much. They might not be offers you actually want to accept, but you'll get them.
Yeah and sometimes 5000 offers from bellends and unsuitable people is worse than none. "
And they'd clog your inbox up,to the extent that no 5001, who's not a bell end, doesn't get his messages seen, before he goes unlos.
Some personalities are more attractive too, so they'll tend to suppress others who aren't so gifted.
I'm not sure that virgins do too well here, when male and looking for women. |
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