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over a year ago
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Relying on luck is wrong. You control your success here. If it's not happening for you, then change something. Either your approach, expectations, or your profile. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Relying on luck is wrong. You control your success here. If it's not happening for you, then change something. Either your approach, expectations, or your profile. "
Summed it up perfectly in one nice neat bundle there 
And OP as an extra pointer, take a look at your profile and pics and ask yourself does it really sell you well? Does it clearly lay out who you are, what you're looking for and most importantly what you can offer? If the answer to any of those is "no" then you have your starting point.
Saw a very good analogy yesterday that compared Fab to a High Street where profiles are the shop windows and asked which shop you'd prefer to go in - the one with enticing goods in the window or the one that's not made an effort? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Relying on luck is wrong. You control your success here. If it's not happening for you, then change something. Either your approach, expectations, or your profile.
Summed it up perfectly in one nice neat bundle there
And OP as an extra pointer, take a look at your profile and pics and ask yourself does it really sell you well? Does it clearly lay out who you are, what you're looking for and most importantly what you can offer? If the answer to any of those is "no" then you have your starting point.
Saw a very good analogy yesterday that compared Fab to a High Street where profiles are the shop windows and asked which shop you'd prefer to go in - the one with enticing goods in the window or the one that's not made an effort?"
Well said...The gift is enhanced by the Beautiful wrapping and bow's...Full package deal, not just any one thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Try restriction such appeals for help to just one thread in one section of the forum, rather than posting the same thing across the entire forum. It pisses off site admin as it wastes server storage space - for the same reasons as they discourage the inclusion of the ridiculous Sydney university disclaimer |
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