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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.
So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.
Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.
What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.
Help what do I say. |
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Report to admin and move on. I had a message today from someone who decided they didn't like my profile and would spew some bile my way. Ultimately I am happy to block, ignore and just be mildly amused, I just figure a report is a good idea so if they are doing this to other users then admin is at least aware of their repeat offender status. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report to admin and move on. I had a message today from someone who decided they didn't like my profile and would spew some bile my way. Ultimately I am happy to block, ignore and just be mildly amused, I just figure a report is a good idea so if they are doing this to other users then admin is at least aware of their repeat offender status."
Cheers you have. A great profile the person may be jealous cause haven't a shot with you |
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"Cheers you have. A great profile the person may be jealous cause haven't a shot with you "
Thank you, it's a very marmite profile to be fair, but that works for me as it means it cuts through a lot of the wasted time in messaging. Clearly there's no need for people to be horrid though. In the kink community there's this saying - YKIOK - your kink is okay. As in it's not my thing, but it's consenting adults causing no harm, so go and have your fun! Nothing at all wrong with a bit of live and let live eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you. "
It is not drama just advice I have chatted to some nice guys here why should I block all men just cause of idiots |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.
It is not drama just advice I have chatted to some nice guys here why should I block all men just cause of idiots "
Then don't. You asked how to solve your problem you were told how but you don't want to. Bit pointless really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.
So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.
Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.
What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.
Help what do I say. "
Keep ignoring and blocking him. Only takes a few seconds of your time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.
So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.
Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.
What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.
Help what do I say.
Keep ignoring and blocking him. Only takes a few seconds of your time. "
Cheers reported and blocked again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had one message in 7 years that called me a time waster and one quote on the forum in over 3 years where I was called a cunt (apart from jokingly). So it's not my experience of this site the vast majority of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope can't say I have ever received a nasty message, have replied to a few saying "no thanks, I am straight" but that has always been accepted well. Never had to block anyone either. |
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"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.
So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.
Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.
What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.
Help what do I say. "
I get them all the time. Worst this week was wish my cancer returned as evil and nasty like me. All because I said no. Luckily I lol at it blocked delete and reported. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.
Lmao....chill girl  "
You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.
Lmao....chill girl
You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month. "
HA HA  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.
Lmao....chill girl
You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month.
HA HA "
I think there's a lot of people that the capability of being far fetched & overly dramatic in their postings.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.
Lmao....chill girl
You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month.
HA HA
I think there's a lot of people that the capability of being far fetched & overly dramatic in their postings...."
Nooo... surely not ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.
Lmao....chill girl
You don't know what this guy is like. Everything is far fetched and dramatic. He's a porn star that shot his first movie last month. He's an mma fighter with his first fight coming up next month.
HA HA
I think there's a lot of people that the capability of being far fetched & overly dramatic in their postings....
Nooo... surely not ? "
I felt the obvious needed pointing out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Report to admin and move on. I had a message today from someone who decided they didn't like my profile and would spew some bile my way. Ultimately I am happy to block, ignore and just be mildly amused, I just figure a report is a good idea so if they are doing this to other users then admin is at least aware of their repeat offender status."
We like your profile, shame you are only looking to meet upto 45 and men only xxx |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I got asked by a bloke if I want a BJ so i replied no thanks so he says what is you sexual preferences.
So I say heterosexual but nothing against other people as I have friends who are gay bisexual and lesbian I lived in the YMCA in Darlington for six months in 2008.
Now I get told because of my status local women really and he feels sorry for my gay friends.
What the heck he don't stop inboxing me and deleted him he messages me on another profile.
Help what do I say. "
Don't reply and block each profile of his. Is that too complicated?
Simpler option is to filter out men from sending messages |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"If you don't want men messaging you then block them. Makes sense anyway if you're not looking for men. Fuck why does everything have to be a drama with you.
It is not drama just advice I have chatted to some nice guys here why should I block all men just cause of idiots "
So, What's the issue here? Block them all and if you find someone you think you can be a blokey mate with you send the first message then they are past the general block. If they turn out iffy, then block them again.
Simples & no drama
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