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Help? It's none of my business what other people get up to in their private lives.
I've shagged a couple of married ladies off here who were playing behind their husband's backs, but that was their prerogative. If I hadn't had sex with them, then someone else would have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been asked by someone i know, bit of a dilemma, she is a good friend, dont know him that well but i know he is on here"
My advice would be to not get involved. No good will come of it. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Ive been asked by someone i know, bit of a dilemma, she is a good friend, dont know him that well but i know he is on here"
Huh huh, so when you do catch him their marriage turns to shit & she's all butt hurt you don't expect her to point at you and lay the blame at your door & possibly tell your hubby about you being here? So that she isn't the only one with a fucked up marriage..
No? Then you are very nieve as it is a possible outcome.
I'd stay well out of it myself..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he's on here even without having actually cheated - then his partner needs to call him out on that, not using someone else to entrap him.
Relationship is on the rocks already."
Isnt being on here cheating ? |
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It'll be a dark day for FAB if the moral Taliban take over. For me this is a very live and let live safe space, regardless of my moral stance. I don't know everyone's situation nor am I on here to judge. So I would stay well away from this drama. |
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Yeah he sure op. Go ahead. What's the worst that can happen? She finds out he's cheating ends their relationship so fuck? He shouldn't cheat. Then he gets butt hurt and calls you out to your husband and your marriage ends. Both your innocent parties (hypothetically) realise what utter *insert expletive of your choice here** you both are so pissed that they get together and live happily ever after?
**hopefully no rules broken here** |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It'll be a dark day for FAB if the moral Taliban take over. For me this is a very live and let live safe space, regardless of my moral stance. I don't know everyone's situation nor am I on here to judge. So I would stay well away from this drama. "
Really well put. On Fab we all owe each other absolute discretion. |
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"Ive been asked by someone i know, bit of a dilemma, she is a good friend, dont know him that well but i know he is on here"
NO
You will learn in time (sorry but thought a woman on here playing the game herself would already of learnt) other people's drama is there own shit, if you catch him she in time will still rezent you and do you honestly think if he finds out it was you that he won't go straight to your hubby?
Tell her you've looked and can't find and then get the fuck outa there, friends who help friends and there relationship ends normally find the friendship soon follows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldn't. I was asked to do this a couple of months ago for a nice about two of money.
It's morally wrong. If a wife has suspicions she should deal with it herself instead of dragging others into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Potential for too much 'drama' wld offer support but stay out off such dilemmas 
Ah! But what is Fab but vicarious drama (with the possibility of sex)?"
It's all sex and no dramas for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter what the motivation, the messenger always gets shot.
She'll need a friend if her marriage goes to the wall through cheating, better you're there for her then. |
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Op - I hope that our advice steers you away from any consideration of this. I'd leave fab, rather than burrow into the dynamics of such an issue. But the easy way is to leave your friend with the relationship problem, not cheating, to sort for themselves. As a friend you can be there to support her in other ways. Are you sure that your profile isn't part of the 'help' that your friend has asked for? |
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