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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do men have to try twice as hard to get the attention of a woman they want to get across?? Iv realised the man sometimes has to near enough be a beg to even get a reply.....
Thought it would be easier than it is but I must say there is some serious sexy women out there lol. It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it! |
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"Why do men have to try twice as hard to get the attention of a woman they want to get across?? Iv realised the man sometimes has to near enough be a beg to even get a reply.....
Thought it would be easier than it is but I must say there is some serious sexy women out there lol. It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it! "
Because men are in the majority, it's that simple.
You're not going to 'make' a woman be up for it by the way  .
Loads of guys join thinking its going to be easier than it is. Maybe revise your expectations and possibly re_iew your attitude to the women here and you might find you enjoy it here more.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere. "
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men? |
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?"
Why? A lot of ladies just want other ladies, a lot of couples want couples, just a few want single men. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?"
Why would you think that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do men have to try twice as hard to get the attention of a woman they want to get across?? Iv realised the man sometimes has to near enough be a beg to even get a reply.....
Thought it would be easier than it is but I must say there is some serious sexy women out there lol. It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it
Because men are in the majority, it's that simple.
You're not going to 'make' a woman be up for it by the way .
Loads of guys join thinking its going to be easier than it is. Maybe revise your expectations and possibly re_iew your attitude to the women here and you might find you enjoy it here more.
Good luck "
maybe I could of put it better but some guys are decent not slag women off all because they get a knock back or even to get a reply? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's about trying harder. It's more about being savvy and knowing how to attract the right attention. With a good attitude, humour, an engaging personality and creativity you'll be surprised how much attention you can attract. |
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?"
Just because its a swinger site doesn't mean its easy for anyone. It's not dial-a-fuck  .
If you're that desperate to get your cock wet then hire an escort. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
Why would you think that "
Ok so in my everyday lifestyle I'm a man that stands out from a crowd in a good way easy to meet people but on fab I have to try messaging a cheesy chat up line that better than the rest and get no response anyway. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I think, generally, men have more expectations than women, especially when they first join. I personally don't know any ladies that would shag a guy that they're not attracted to, even though they are on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
Just because its a swinger site doesn't mean its easy for anyone. It's not dial-a-fuck . Far from desperate luv! I'm just stating the obvious. It's easy for a woman to get a meet anytime they want... feel horny put up a meet and spread the legs and the men line up
If you're that desperate to get your cock wet then hire an escort."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think, generally, men have more expectations than women, especially when they first join. I personally don't know any ladies that would shag a guy that they're not attracted to, even though they are on Fab "
Have you ever thought about sometimes people aren't that great on computers or mobile messaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem is, Sunshine- you are thinking from the traditional societal mindset, where men were about 50/50 numbers wise with women.
On fab that balance is totally different, so you have to work harder. |
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"I think, generally, men have more expectations than women, especially when they first join. I personally don't know any ladies that would shag a guy that they're not attracted to, even though they are on Fab
Have you ever thought about sometimes people aren't that great on computers or mobile messaging "
Then I would have thought those people would be better off going to socials and clubs to meet people and see how things go from there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The problem is, Sunshine- you are thinking from the traditional societal mindset, where men were about 50/50 numbers wise with women.
On fab that balance is totally different, so you have to work harder."
Maybe a club would be a better way to start. I'd love to try it out one day but not easy going into one alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think, generally, men have more expectations than women, especially when they first join. I personally don't know any ladies that would shag a guy that they're not attracted to, even though they are on Fab
Have you ever thought about sometimes people aren't that great on computers or mobile messaging
Then I would have thought those people would be better off going to socials and clubs to meet people and see how things go from there."
Absolutely bob on. It's a lot easier to connect with people in the real world. The OP is in the one part of the country which is practically brimming with club and social options. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think, generally, men have more expectations than women, especially when they first join. I personally don't know any ladies that would shag a guy that they're not attracted to, even though they are on Fab
Have you ever thought about sometimes people aren't that great on computers or mobile messaging
Then I would have thought those people would be better off going to socials and clubs to meet people and see how things go from there.
Absolutely bob on. It's a lot easier to connect with people in the real world. The OP is in the one part of the country which is practically brimming with club and social options. "
Can't deny that the north west has some of the most beautiful women Iv seen and friendly people everywhere, I really need to find a friend that would company me to a club |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
Why would you think that
Ok so in my everyday lifestyle I'm a man that stands out from a crowd in a good way easy to meet people but on fab I have to try messaging a cheesy chat up line that better than the rest and get no response anyway. "
Yeap life just isn't fair is it, damn those women on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think, generally, men have more expectations than women, especially when they first join. I personally don't know any ladies that would shag a guy that they're not attracted to, even though they are on Fab
Have you ever thought about sometimes people aren't that great on computers or mobile messaging
Then I would have thought those people would be better off going to socials and clubs to meet people and see how things go from there.
Absolutely bob on. It's a lot easier to connect with people in the real world. The OP is in the one part of the country which is practically brimming with club and social options. "
Talking about some of the most beautiful women around high heels would be the perfect example lol, absolutely stunning |
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?"
yeah go to a club socialise and make friends |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
yeah go to a club socialise and make friends "
Easier said then done for some, I think personally I wouldn't feel comfortable not knowing anyone, just going in a place feeling out of place specially for someone like me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I can manage to walk into a club not knowing a single soul, anyone can. "
I think it would be different for you because as soon as you walked in, guys would make it easier for you and be approached, you be like that devil in a blue dress guys jaws just drop ?? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"If I can manage to walk into a club not knowing a single soul, anyone can.
I think it would be different for you because as soon as you walked in, guys would make it easier for you and be approached, you be like that devil in a blue dress guys jaws just drop ?? "
She's not looking for single guys or MF couples, only ladies!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I can manage to walk into a club not knowing a single soul, anyone can.
I think it would be different for you because as soon as you walked in, guys would make it easier for you and be approached, you be like that devil in a blue dress guys jaws just drop ??
She's not looking for single guys or MF couples, only ladies!!"
Regardless mf or whatever she still would have the attention, I apologise I'm just saying it would be hard for me to do that alone. |
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
yeah go to a club socialise and make friends
Easier said then done for some, I think personally I wouldn't feel comfortable not knowing anyone, just going in a place feeling out of place specially for someone like me! "
is it the case of because paying to get in your expecting something in return ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I can manage to walk into a club not knowing a single soul, anyone can.
I think it would be different for you because as soon as you walked in, guys would make it easier for you and be approached, you be like that devil in a blue dress guys jaws just drop ??
She's not looking for single guys or MF couples, only ladies!!
Regardless mf or whatever she still would have the attention, I apologise I'm just saying it would be hard for me to do that alone."
It is very difficult for single men in clubs. Lots of women and couples look down on them and won't even talk to them or at worse are rude if the men approach them.
Many women on here want to have sex with people they are attracted to. It's got nothing to do with what men say in mails or how they "beg"!
If they don't fancy you they don't want to chat or fuck you. I don't mean that in a nasty way to you personally. It is just a fact. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
yeah go to a club socialise and make friends
Easier said then done for some, I think personally I wouldn't feel comfortable not knowing anyone, just going in a place feeling out of place specially for someone like me!
is it the case of because paying to get in your expecting something in return ?"
No way I make plenty of money to worry about that I think it's just making that first time move going to a club alone, I'm not a guy that expects women to drop their knickers just like that, I can be charming cheeky and sweet rather work for it then taking a easier root and pay for a prostitute. All I need to do is make that first step to a club.
I'm thinking of just going for it sometime in the week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
yeah go to a club socialise and make friends
Easier said then done for some, I think personally I wouldn't feel comfortable not knowing anyone, just going in a place feeling out of place specially for someone like me!
is it the case of because paying to get in your expecting something in return ?"
What the hell??! He didn't infer that at all!!
It's fucking obvious to anyone with half a brain that any woman would get attention in a club. Very few people talk to men in clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I can manage to walk into a club not knowing a single soul, anyone can.
I think it would be different for you because as soon as you walked in, guys would make it easier for you and be approached, you be like that devil in a blue dress guys jaws just drop ??
She's not looking for single guys or MF couples, only ladies!!
Regardless mf or whatever she still would have the attention, I apologise I'm just saying it would be hard for me to do that alone.
It is very difficult for single men in clubs. Lots of women and couples look down on them and won't even talk to them or at worse are rude if the men approach them.
Many women on here want to have sex with people they are attracted to. It's got nothing to do with what men say in mails or how they "beg"!
If they don't fancy you they don't want to chat or fuck you. I don't mean that in a nasty way to you personally. It is just a fact. "
Im just going to go for it and walk in a club have a few drinks see what it's all about no expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
yeah go to a club socialise and make friends
Easier said then done for some, I think personally I wouldn't feel comfortable not knowing anyone, just going in a place feeling out of place specially for someone like me!
is it the case of because paying to get in your expecting something in return ?
No way I make plenty of money to worry about that I think it's just making that first time move going to a club alone, I'm not a guy that expects women to drop their knickers just like that, I can be charming cheeky and sweet rather work for it then taking a easier root and pay for a prostitute. All I need to do is make that first step to a club.
I'm thinking of just going for it sometime in the week "
I would suggest that you get yourself to a Fab social held in a club, no costly membership is usually required and no waiting list.
They are advertised in the Meets and Events forum.
It might be easier to break the ice because there is usually a host that will be at least one friendly face.
It is Very hard for single guys in clubs, based on my own experience and chatting with friends about it! |
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"You all been great with your opinions and advice thanks xx"
If there is a few things I would say to help you fit in it would be, Spend a little time talking to the people that work there and let them know its your first time going to a club, They will more then likely give you a few tips and point out the regulars,
Oh and try not to end up in a corner on your own, Stay visible keep smiling and be approachable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah go to a club socialise and make friends
Ok so in my everyday lifestyle I'm a man that stands out from a crowd in a good way easy to meet people
Easier said then done for some, I think personally I wouldn't feel comfortable not knowing anyone, just going in a place feeling out of place specially for someone like me! "
OP you seem a little confused about what kind of man you are ..... bite the bullet, go to a social, there will be others there like you who are nervous about attending alone, and those with more experience who are very friendly and offer encouragement.
Good luck |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Why do men have to try twice as hard to get the attention of a woman they want to get across?? Iv realised the man sometimes has to near enough be a beg to even get a reply.....
Thought it would be easier than it is but I must say there is some serious sexy women out there lol. It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it! "
Because we decide who we meet or talk to. Just, because we're on here doesn't mean it's a free for all.
Respect peoples right of choice and stop acting like everyone should say yes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
yeah go to a club socialise and make friends
Easier said then done for some, I think personally I wouldn't feel comfortable not knowing anyone, just going in a place feeling out of place specially for someone like me!
is it the case of because paying to get in your expecting something in return ?
No way I make plenty of money to worry about that I think it's just making that first time move going to a club alone, I'm not a guy that expects women to drop their knickers just like that, I can be charming cheeky and sweet rather work for it then taking a easier root and pay for a prostitute. All I need to do is make that first step to a club.
I'm thinking of just going for it sometime in the week
I would suggest that you get yourself to a Fab social held in a club, no costly membership is usually required and no waiting list.
They are advertised in the Meets and Events forum.
It might be easier to break the ice because there is usually a host that will be at least one friendly face.
It is Very hard for single guys in clubs, based on my own experience and chatting with friends about it!"
I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
Why would you think that
Ok so in my everyday lifestyle I'm a man that stands out from a crowd in a good way easy to meet people but on fab I have to try messaging a cheesy chat up line that better than the rest and get no response anyway. "
So if this is the case, hopefully you would get the same reaction in a club, as they would see you in person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
Why would you think that
Ok so in my everyday lifestyle I'm a man that stands out from a crowd in a good way easy to meet people but on fab I have to try messaging a cheesy chat up line that better than the rest and get no response anyway.
So if this is the case, hopefully you would get the same reaction in a club, as they would see you in person "
Yea definitely I just be myself and that should be good enough x |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
Why would you think that
Ok so in my everyday lifestyle I'm a man that stands out from a crowd in a good way easy to meet people but on fab I have to try messaging a cheesy chat up line that better than the rest and get no response anyway.
So if this is the case, hopefully you would get the same reaction in a club, as they would see you in person
Yea definitely I just be myself and that should be good enough x "
 Hey, just go for it, what do you have to lose?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company "
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?
Why would you think that
Ok so in my everyday lifestyle I'm a man that stands out from a crowd in a good way easy to meet people but on fab I have to try messaging a cheesy chat up line that better than the rest and get no response anyway.
So if this is the case, hopefully you would get the same reaction in a club, as they would see you in person
Yea definitely I just be myself and that should be good enough x
Hey, just go for it, what do you have to lose? "
Your right got nothing to lose. Not going to go in expecting something to happen but mostly experiencing the atmosphere of a club. lol P.s if anyone wouldn't mind a plus 1 coming along I wouldn't mind getting the drinks in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!"
Firstly I'm far from being a cheap skate trust me I got enough money to make a night to remember, nothing wrong with having someone to go with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!"
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred?"
To say the honest truth I'm always working in Manchester so I don't really know anyone that I could call a friend but I know people that own rave clubs that I go and have few drinks but that's about it really, I'll make some friends soon |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s"
lol like a cock festival haha ?? what a sight that would be every man preying for a loose female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bet I could
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me neither - and anybody coming onto me with that way of thinking is even less likely to ever meet me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s
lol like a cock festival haha ?? what a sight that would be every man preying for a loose female "
its quite unpleasant sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred?
To say the honest truth I'm always working in Manchester so I don't really know anyone that I could call a friend but I know people that own rave clubs that I go and have few drinks but that's about it really, I'll make some friends soon "
My question was to the lady that commented.
Hope you make some friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred?
To say the honest truth I'm always working in Manchester so I don't really know anyone that I could call a friend but I know people that own rave clubs that I go and have few drinks but that's about it really, I'll make some friends soon
My question was to the lady that commented.
Hope you make some friends."
lol sorry my bad, I best get off this now take care people's xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s
lol like a cock festival haha ?? what a sight that would be every man preying for a loose female "
'loose female'?...what do you mean by 'loose'?..im curious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s
lol like a cock festival haha ?? what a sight that would be every man preying for a loose female
'loose female'?...what do you mean by 'loose'?..im curious"
as in if the guys see a woman that's not taken |
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s
lol like a cock festival haha ?? what a sight that would be every man preying for a loose female
'loose female'?...what do you mean by 'loose'?..im curious as in if the guys see a woman that's not taken "
ok,never heard the word used in that context but ok..usually used more as an insult.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! |
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Surely being a swinger site would of made everything bit more easier for us men?"
What a load of tosh! The ladies on here are human and deserve respect. It's not a brothel y'know. Time, effort, respect & patience reaps its rewards  |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s
lol like a cock festival haha ?? what a sight that would be every man preying for a loose female
'loose female'?...what do you mean by 'loose'?..im curious as in if the guys see a woman that's not taken "
Would you like to borrow a shovel OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred?
To say the honest truth I'm always working in Manchester so I don't really know anyone that I could call a friend but I know people that own rave clubs that I go and have few drinks but that's about it really, I'll make some friends soon
My question was to the lady that commented.
Hope you make some friends."
I rarely go to pubs but generally with my partner or friends- same as when I go to a club. I fail to see what it has to do with anything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! "
I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div! |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!"
Why are you insulting and being personal about the poster. This tells me all I need to know about you. |
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"I think it's near enough impossible to "make" a woman or a man be up for it anywhere.
Why are so many people moaning today? The forum is rife with complaints."
Not only today but most of the time. Not only moaners but also "reporting-others-for-no-reason" lovers. People have a deep need for complaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do men have to try twice as hard to get the attention of a woman they want to get across?? Iv realised the man sometimes has to near enough be a beg to even get a reply.....
Thought it would be easier than it is but I must say there is some serious sexy women out there lol. It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it! "
Erm. If you're trying that much mate. I'd give up |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Why do men have to try twice as hard to get the attention of a woman they want to get across?? Iv realised the man sometimes has to near enough be a beg to even get a reply.....
Thought it would be easier than it is but I must say there is some serious sexy women out there lol. It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it! "
I find just have fun on the forum... catch the eye with fun banter... make people laugh.. or make people think... this makes you different... you may find it more enjoyable too.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!
Why are you insulting and being personal about the poster. This tells me all I need to know about you."
Insulting was him. Towards me and tbh life is what you make it, you can live it how you see it! I'm not living in a sad cloud depressed, |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s"
im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach.. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!
Why are you insulting and being personal about the poster. This tells me all I need to know about you.
Insulting was him. Towards me and tbh life is what you make it, you can live it how you see it! I'm not living in a sad cloud depressed, "
Then why create this moaning thread then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach.. "
All my meets came from women or couples contacting me |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"If I can manage to walk into a club not knowing a single soul, anyone can. "
I do it all the time... several times in Friday night... got to know a group I lads out on the piss. .. and a couple of nice ladies... it's a great way to have fun..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach..
All my meets came from women or couples contacting me "
I'm not moaning I was just saying it's so much harder for a man than it is for a woman |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it! "
It might be near impossible for YOU to make a woman 'be up for it', but most the men I meet have no problem with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach..
All my meets came from women or couples contacting me
I'm not moaning I was just saying it's so much harder for a man than it is for a woman "
I think it can be actually just as hard for a woman to find what she is looking for as well...Unless she's not being too fussy.
There may be a lot more men to choose from but it doesn't necessarily equate to being easier. It can be just as frustrating but in a different way.
OP... It's not really any different on here than in the vanilla world. We're attracted to certain types on here and out there. I just think lots of guys think the women on here are easier than out there....soooooo not true. They just as fussy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach..
All my meets came from women or couples contacting me
I'm not moaning I was just saying it's so much harder for a man than it is for a woman "
Didn't say you were moaning and I agree it is more of a challenge for men on Fab. That said I think a lot of women and couples still find it difficult to get what they really want.
I think Fab has a game-like quality to it, with the odds stacked in favour of women and couples. They have more choices if they are interested in meeting men. So you need tactics that help you to overcome the odds. Those that have good tactics and desirable attributes will be successful. Learning to play the game well is the tricky bit if it doesn't come naturally. |
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So whats vasicallt being debated here is personal tastes?
Sorry but no one can make anyone do anything they dont want to
As for a single man....we can throw a penny and hit 100 that want to meet...so as a couple we have a luxury to pick and choose who we want
A single woman, they are the ones who get attention from eveyone who can talk to them
On a good day we can have over 100 messages, if we post a meet even more
The thing to remember is just because your on a site like this is that it doesnt entitle you to anything, no free pass and people wont be banging down your door in an orderly line to pilage you.
Time, effort, manners and patience will get people further on this site than thinking they are owed something |
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"I apologise if iv came across moaning and sorry to anyone else that iv offended "
Don't apologise.
Many who commented on here have had a moaning thread at one point. Let it out if you need, just take the answers as they come and stand your ground. You're mainly wrong but you're also right.
As long as you don't come across has an ignorant chauvinist idiot or disrespectful pig , you're fine. You're just doing what everyone else does... Complain |
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach..
All my meets came from women or couples contacting me
I'm not moaning I was just saying it's so much harder for a man than it is for a woman
Didn't say you were moaning and I agree it is more of a challenge for men on Fab. That said I think a lot of women and couples still find it difficult to get what they really want.
I think Fab has a game-like quality to it, with the odds stacked in favour of women and couples. They have more choices if they are interested in meeting men. So you need tactics that help you to overcome the odds. Those that have good tactics and desirable attributes will be successful. Learning to play the game well is the tricky bit if it doesn't come naturally."
I wish the odds were stacked in our favor and im sure single women will say the same thing....we all get messed about, we all have met idiots and time wasters on this site
You cant take not getting a meet personally but learn from it and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach..
All my meets came from women or couples contacting me
I'm not moaning I was just saying it's so much harder for a man than it is for a woman
Didn't say you were moaning and I agree it is more of a challenge for men on Fab. That said I think a lot of women and couples still find it difficult to get what they really want.
I think Fab has a game-like quality to it, with the odds stacked in favour of women and couples. They have more choices if they are interested in meeting men. So you need tactics that help you to overcome the odds. Those that have good tactics and desirable attributes will be successful. Learning to play the game well is the tricky bit if it doesn't come naturally.
I wish the odds were stacked in our favor and im sure single women will say the same thing....we all get messed about, we all have met idiots and time wasters on this site
You cant take not getting a meet personally but learn from it and move on "
Maybe I should have said that the odds appear stacked in the favour of women and couples |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its about respectful messages and replies . I get mostly come suck my big cock now. Doesn't work for me. Check out profile only message if looking for same ,then there has to be mutual attraction."
Iv never actually gave anyone abuse all because there was no reply but I seen on the updates woman saying how guys messaging abuse all because they got turned down!
And that's the first thread Iv seen so many replies to. Enjoyed talking to all you |
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"Why do men have to try twice as hard to get the attention of a woman they want to get across?? Iv realised the man sometimes has to near enough be a beg to even get a reply.....
Thought it would be easier than it is but I must say there is some serious sexy women out there lol. It's near enough impossible on fab to make a woman be up for it! "
I think this is largely a reflection on you op and your beliefs. Would you shag yourself if you were a woman here now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!"
I understood the post fine,but it seems you're having trouble grasping basic English.......read the first word of my post again.....IF
"I'm not no beg for a reply"
I'm the div,aye ok mate! |
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"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!
I understood the post fine,but it seems you're having trouble grasping basic English.......read the first word of my post again.....IF
"I'm not no beg for a reply"
I'm the div,aye ok mate! "
Calm down lad I apologised didn't I |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!
I understood the post fine,but it seems you're having trouble grasping basic English.......read the first word of my post again.....IF
"I'm not no beg for a reply"
I'm the div,aye ok mate!
Calm down lad I apologised didn't I "
Don't you know how to respond back to people with manners? The poster is a grown man not a lad have some respect. |
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"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Oh please now you just trying to make something out of nothing, chill out
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!
I understood the post fine,but it seems you're having trouble grasping basic English.......read the first word of my post again.....IF
"I'm not no beg for a reply"
I'm the div,aye ok mate!
Calm down lad I apologised didn't I
Don't you know how to respond back to people with manners? The poster is a grown man not a lad have some respect."
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I would say show some respect to all females and couples on here I say those who start to insult people they will not get anywhere else on here but the fact is most members are very picky so just go with the flow I say good luck to all  |
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred?
To say the honest truth I'm always working in Manchester so I don't really know anyone that I could call a friend but I know people that own rave clubs that I go and have few drinks but that's about it really, I'll make some friends soon
My question was to the lady that commented.
Hope you make some friends.
I rarely go to pubs but generally with my partner or friends- same as when I go to a club. I fail to see what it has to do with anything."
You're bitching at a man that wouldn't want to go to a club alone yet you don't. I guess your friends are happy for you to use them as a comfort blanket. Your words. |
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred?
To say the honest truth I'm always working in Manchester so I don't really know anyone that I could call a friend but I know people that own rave clubs that I go and have few drinks but that's about it really, I'll make some friends soon
My question was to the lady that commented.
Hope you make some friends.
I rarely go to pubs but generally with my partner or friends- same as when I go to a club. I fail to see what it has to do with anything.
You're bitching at a man that wouldn't want to go to a club alone yet you don't. I guess your friends are happy for you to use them as a comfort blanket. Your words. "
Come on now people it's just starting to turn into something else |
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"its mainly a numbers game - so many more fellas to fem s im not sure it's just a numbers game... it's the natural order of life... men are usually the ones with the first approach..
All my meets came from women or couples contacting me "
Same here, this must be a good cloud that we're living on |
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"If you're near enough begging for a reply then you've already offered up your balls to be handed back to you in a dainty wee purse so you can look at them from time to time n remember back to the days you had them n used them!
You deserve everything that isn't coming to you
Man card........revoked! I'm not no beg for a reply at all, read it again it about man card revoked your a internet wankster mate! I was just trying to understand it div!
I understood the post fine,but it seems you're having trouble grasping basic English.......read the first word of my post again.....IF
"I'm not no beg for a reply"
I'm the div,aye ok mate!
Calm down lad I apologised didn't I "
It's cool mate,all calm here,all good in the hood.
Carry on,as you were n good luck |
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I'm hoping it will go alright try not to be in corners sitting alone and drinking lol, maybe I should try see if someone be my company
Ok- I read that as "I'll get a woman to go with me, to make my life easier".
Sounds a bit self- centered no?
And women are a bit more savvy than that. They would likely see that as being used to get in cheaply, or as a comfort blanket. Neither of which is particularly appealing!
Do you go to pubs all alone or with friends? Is that self-centred?
To say the honest truth I'm always working in Manchester so I don't really know anyone that I could call a friend but I know people that own rave clubs that I go and have few drinks but that's about it really, I'll make some friends soon
My question was to the lady that commented.
Hope you make some friends.
I rarely go to pubs but generally with my partner or friends- same as when I go to a club. I fail to see what it has to do with anything.
You're bitching at a man that wouldn't want to go to a club alone yet you don't. I guess your friends are happy for you to use them as a comfort blanket. Your words. "
I have attended clubs alone so you would be incorrect. |
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