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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol  "
Because you can read what they say without fully opening the box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It very likely that they look at the profile of the sender first. If there's nothing there to interest them they can just delete the message and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because like a lot of messages people get they are from people who haven't read their profile. So why waste time reading the message when you know there's no point in taking it further. An unanswered message means not interested! |
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"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol "
Not sure how you know they've clearly read them but we quite often leave messages unread because one or the other of us isn't available to look at them. Other reasons might be they don't have time to look at their messages, they have so many yours dropped off the page or they only open messages from people they're interested in. |
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If I was the person who hasn't answered then I'd be able to tell you why I hadn't answered but as i'm not the person who hasn't answered I can only give a million reasons as to why the person who didn't answer didn't but any one of those million reasons could be wrong..... or all of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol "
they could read then mark as unread for their partner to read...or if they are site supporters and you've messaged before on the same thread, they can read the thread without opening the message... |
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We are both very busy with work and only tend to reply back when we are both together, so a lot of time we put back as unread so we know to keep it until we are both available to have a perv and reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son."
that sounds kind of hot you saying that |
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that "
I am calm. You pervert. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that
I am calm. You pervert."
even better |
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that
I am calm. You pervert. even better "
I am calm. Your tax return is due. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that
I am calm. You pervert."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that
I am calm. You pervert. even better
I am calm. Your tax return is due. "
saying from the woman who comes from Merseyside |
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that
I am calm. You pervert. even better
I am calm. Your tax return is due. saying from the woman who comes from Merseyside "
You'll have to explain that one to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women play games son you should know this
I know many women who don't play games and many men who make spurious remarks. Son. calm down granny
I am calm. Son. that sounds kind of hot you saying that
I am calm. You pervert. even better
I am calm. Your tax return is due. saying from the woman who comes from Merseyside
You'll have to explain that one to me. "
you snooze you lose. Son |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes. "
 I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.
I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people."
It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.
I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.
It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow. "
Why do you check you're sent box? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.
I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.
It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.
Why do you check you're sent box?"
To see if my message has been read?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.
I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.
It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.
Why do you check you're sent box?
To see if my message has been read?
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but you can't know for sure anyway,may have been read,then marked as unread....and unless they have actually replied its totally irrelevant surely? seems a bit of a waste of time agonising over it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women play games son you should know this "
This woman doesn't play games.
I often don't bother reading messeges from profiles that i have checked out and don't match what we look for.
I just delete them. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about what other people do with their inboxes.
I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.
It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.
Why do you check you're sent box?
To see if my message has been read?
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What difference dies it make? Monitoring the sent box is silly. Just, because someone reads a message doesn't mean they have to reply back within minutes. Some people like to think about things first before replying back.
What timescale do you think people should take to respond back to you? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I like to leave messages unread when they haven't read my profile, just so they can feel a smidgeon of the frustration I feel that they haven't read my profile. I'll leave them for days, thus giving hope for those who sit refreshing their sentboxes, then I'll delete the lot of them. Very cathartic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people clearly read message but not open them even when they are long messages does any know lol "
Because people can do what they want and nobody here owes you anything? |
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You gotta be lucky for your message to be read..
Most women getting inundated with messages and the inbox only displaying around 75 messages, it don't take long for your message to end up lost, an never to be read..
That lonely message, alone.and unloved..
But take heart, your message isn't alone, there are many more with it, keeping it company, those poor unloved messages..
Alternatively, delete it yourself after a couple of days and move on..
Go, be ruthless..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about whawt other people do with their inboxes.
I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.
It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.
Why do you check you're sent box?
To see if my message has been read?
What difference dies it make? Monitoring the sent box is silly. Just, because someone reads a message doesn't mean they have to reply back within minutes. Some people like to think about things first before replying back.
What timescale do you think people should take to respond back to you?"
I grasp at any straw of hope...! If it's been read and not instantly deleted, then there is a glimmer...
I set no time limits...
Didn't realize about the 75 messages limit in Inbox...explains a lot. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"If you send two or three messages on the trot they can open the first one and read the others as part of the message trail if they're site supporters. Common sense.
If the little yellow box is pissing you off then just delete messages your end as soon as they're sent. No more issues wondering about whawt other people do with their inboxes.
I don't understand why it causes so much angst for people.
It is not nice to be ignored, but that is a Fab fact of life for us men, and it doesn't bother me that much now. Not moaning, just saying. My sent box is a sea of yellow.
Why do you check you're sent box?
To see if my message has been read?
What difference dies it make? Monitoring the sent box is silly. Just, because someone reads a message doesn't mean they have to reply back within minutes. Some people like to think about things first before replying back.
What timescale do you think people should take to respond back to you?
I grasp at any straw of hope...! If it's been read and not instantly deleted, then there is a glimmer...
I set no time limits...
Didn't realize about the 75 messages limit in Inbox...explains a lot. "
Exactly if it's read and not deleted then you have a chance. Read and deleted then you have your answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately most men don't realise women are inudated with messages on this site.. I've seen on friends site when she visits she always get inudated with new messages some will send 3/4 messages just because she is online..
They don't realise women are people and you need to stimulate there mind to stand out rather than mention the words fuck cock tits pussy in your 1st message.... Not directing at all men just 90%!!!
But maybe that's why I'm having so much fun!!!
Have fun all
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
I, Mr tend to leave all the messages for Mrs d to reply to however I tend to log on to here more often than she does so it often looks like we are ignoring messages but in reality they are just left unread for the right person to see. |
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By *eeg OP Man
over a year ago
taunton |
"You gotta be lucky for your message to be read..
Most women getting inundated with messages and the inbox only displaying around 75 messages, it don't take long for your message to end up lost, an never to be read..
That lonely message, alone.and unloved..
But take heart, your message isn't alone, there are many more with it, keeping it company, those poor unloved messages..
Alternatively, delete it yourself after a couple of days and move on..
Go, be ruthless.. "
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