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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's a nightmare.. I just end up block deleting everyone and miss the important ones
Just wondered if there is anything site could do to stop this.. just a thought |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Have we spoke ?? No!!
Do u think it's a bit rude just to send a friend request without chatting first !!!
Your thoughts please...
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Yes of course
I just leave them and they can't keep re-sending |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we spoke ?? No!!
Do u think it's a bit rude just to send a friend request without chatting first !!!
Your thoughts please...
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But they want to see your boobies without putting in the effort of actually talking to you, why would you deny them? That's just plain mean of you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When _iewing this site on a tablet or phone, the option to send friend request is right next to add to hotlist.
I have clicked on the wrong one numerous times unfortunately and there. Is no confirmation pop up such as "are you sure you wish to send friend request?"
Please don't assume people are being rude as this is a major design flaw in the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As above?.. Meant to tap hotlist and hit friend request many times by accident.
I normally chat to someone then ask them if it's OK to add them as friends.
Politeness costs nothing even in a place like this where it's deemed by some to be a meat market? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We keep them..cant resend
We also wait for people to go offline before accepting and looking "
Same here, maybe fab a pic of two as well before removal. |
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I think it's clueless, as it's likely to irritate and be a deterrent. I'd prefer someone to add me to their hotlist, if they're doing it because they're future banking for interaction and too lazy to communicate now.
Or they have something about them that's a likely deal breaker, should you have known in advance more about them.
Pics for wank fodder is the simple assumption - so they're again clueless, for inspiring that thought, if really serious about getting to know you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do find it a tad perplexing. As I have said previously; the last time I plonked myself next to a perfect stranger and announced "let's be friends", I think I was four, in the sandpit on holiday in sunny Norfolk. Seeing as none of these new chums have a decent bucket and spade or a sparkly frisbee, I'm not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's rude as such, but rather silly of people. I get so many of them, usually from men, or couples who are online late at night, and obviously just wanting to perv over my friend only pictures.
I only accept requests after I've chatted to people. |
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"And the repeat re frienders... after 3 or 4 times I just get bored and block them "
If they aren't what you are looking for when they send the first cone, block them then, you need to be ruthless with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have put on our profile that we don't accept random friend requests if we haven't spoken but doesn't stop people sending them cause a lot of people don't read profiles x |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"I do find it a tad perplexing. As I have said previously; the last time I plonked myself next to a perfect stranger and announced "let's be friends", I think I was four, in the sandpit on holiday in sunny Norfolk. Seeing as none of these new chums have a decent bucket and spade or a sparkly frisbee, I'm not interested. "
Love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do find it a tad perplexing. As I have said previously; the last time I plonked myself next to a perfect stranger and announced "let's be friends", I think I was four, in the sandpit on holiday in sunny Norfolk. Seeing as none of these new chums have a decent bucket and spade or a sparkly frisbee, I'm not interested. "
Brilliant! |
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"I do find it a tad perplexing. As I have said previously; the last time I plonked myself next to a perfect stranger and announced "let's be friends", I think I was four, in the sandpit on holiday in sunny Norfolk. Seeing as none of these new chums have a decent bucket and spade or a sparkly frisbee, I'm not interested. "
Ha ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't even look at my friend invites I tend to add if I'm getting on with the person and have been chatting a while or I've seen them on cam and had a chat etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we spoke ?? No!!
Do u think it's a bit rude just to send a friend request without chatting first !!!
Your thoughts please...
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I have blocked everyone so can't get friend requests unless I have contacted them
Makes for a much easier fab experience xx |
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"Have we spoke ?? No!!
Do u think it's a bit rude just to send a friend request without chatting first !!!
Your thoughts please...
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Not really. Friends in here is different to friends in real life. Wouldn't get too wound up about it personally |
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