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Being blocked because your race/skin colour
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was it out of the blue, or did you just not notice the preferences on their profile?
People get blocked for all sorts on here. Just be glad you won't ever meet them."
We tend to block people who's comments we don't like in forum  and to OP some people are arse holes leave them to it and move on to better nicer people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was it out of the blue, or did you just not notice the preferences on their profile?
People get blocked for all sorts on here. Just be glad you won't ever meet them.
We tend to block people who's comments we don't like in forum and to OP some people are arse holes leave them to it and move on to better nicer people x"
Just to add don't mean people arnt entitled preference or choice just be nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be fair, I've been blocked/rebuffed by many profiles that specifically look for black guys.
whether it's because I'm not 'black' enough, or just not physically attractive, or that I'm a slut etc etc the list goes on..
I dont really give a fuck,there are other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been turned down a few times for not being English
It happens, no point making a fuss about it x"
I was other way round.blocked for being english.do I care,do I fuck.been blocked for sending face pic too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been turned down a few times for not being English
It happens, no point making a fuss about it x
I was other way round.blocked for being english.do I care,do I fuck.been blocked for sending face pic too "
U naughty lady sending a face pic pmsl xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say it happens. Though many here would not to admit doing it. Never mind it's their problem not yours. Remember there are other people out there also and other opportunities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be fair, I've been blocked/rebuffed by many profiles that specifically look for black guys.
whether it's because I'm not 'black' enough, or just not physically attractive, or that I'm a slut etc etc the list goes on..
I dont really give a fuck,there are other people."
I'm blocking you because you won't suck my toes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pre-emptive blocking of any kind just seems sad all round.
I think a lot of people get a bit carried away by the new found attention and it gets to their heads. I've been blocked by a couple of male profiles for looking at them.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it? "
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be fair, I've been blocked/rebuffed by many profiles that specifically look for black guys.
whether it's because I'm not 'black' enough, or just not physically attractive, or that I'm a slut etc etc the list goes on..
I dont really give a fuck,there are other people.
I'm blocking you because you won't suck my toes "
am in if I get to lick yer hot fanny though... |
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By *mkinsCouple
over a year ago
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I am white and my hubby and is black.
We block some white guys when we want to meet a black man.
We also block some black men when we want to meet a white guy.
Sometimes we block all singles when we want to meet couples.
It's only a sexual thing.
Don't take it seriously.
What is your kink? That's what matters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pre-emptive blocking of any kind just seems sad all round.
I think a lot of people get a bit carried away by the new found attention and it gets to their heads. I've been blocked by a couple of male profiles for looking at them. "
You say that but we blocked everyone local on the bareback thread... their personal choice etc but would rather not waste there or our time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it?
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!!"
Oh I've had it too
I send one guy a face pic and he asked me where I was from, I told him I was Sicillian and his reply was.....Sorry I don't fuck foreigners
Don't let I get to you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it?
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!!"
You have decent veries Op it appears,but to be honest, whether its right or wrong, your profile doesnt really give anything about your race(either written or visually).They probably would not have contacted you if they had an indication in the first place...saving you the half the hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting that so many have experienced the same.
To say sorry, not my type is fine, if they pester you block them. But immediate block, a little, no, a lot rude IMO
But, such is life..we move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting that so many have experienced the same.
To say sorry, not my type is fine, if they pester you block them. But immediate block, a little, no, a lot rude IMO
But, such is life..we move on "
Always look at the bright side........ now you know to send a cock pic first instead of your face pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are we not free to choose who contacts us and who doesn't ?..be it skin colour ,cock size ,body shape etc....man up pal shit happens ....personally if I'm blocked it's for a reason ,not their type ,cock to small ,hair to short ...it's life live it and don't worry about other people ...horses for courses just enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does everyone get so butthurt about being blocked? I block people for all kinds of reasons. It's a tool of the site, not a weapon."
From all the threads on blocking. Public declaration of forum blocks are my favourite! and the they blocked me so I'm blocking them. ner ner na ner ner!
It's definitely used a a weapon to make people feel better about themselves. |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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I send one guy a face pic and he asked me where I was from, I told him I was Sicillian and his reply was.....Sorry I don't fuck foreigners
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Probably didn`t have a clue where Sicily is anyway! Still, having met you before and knowing what you`re like that`s his loss!  |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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I send one guy a face pic and he asked me where I was from, I told him I was Sicillian and his reply was.....Sorry I don't fuck foreigners
Probably didn`t have a clue where Sicily is anyway! Still, having met you before and knowing what you`re like that`s his loss! "
And I`m probably a crap speeelist too! |
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"That sucks no need really they could have said not their type "
I say that then block. No point getting the hassle from them after you've said no.
And then when they try their luck again in weeks or months, even years, they can't bug me again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it?
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!!"
Why you so sure it was because of your skin colour and not because they just didnt find you attractive ??
Im sick of people automatically asuming blocks or knock backs are always race related !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well that's them being narrow minded... out of the entire human race.. to pick one type of ethnicity to have sex with is narrow minded but hey that's my opinion.. each to their own and I respect it so move on and look elsewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it?
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!!
Why you so sure it was because of your skin colour and not because they just didnt find you attractive ??
Im sick of people automatically asuming blocks or knock backs are always race related !!
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The answer is simple , if you really think about it.....
It couldn't possibly be because they don't find me attractive..... They must be racist..... ok I feel better now  |
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I block a lot. This is because we block anyone we wouldn't be looking for ... anyone who says they don't meet bi or black guys. What it the point in having their profile accessible to us? I also block people who I don't went to get PMs from .... just makes the whole site less complicated. |
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"Was it out of the blue, or did you just not notice the preferences on their profile?
People get blocked for all sorts on here. Just be glad you won't ever meet them.
We tend to block people who's comments we don't like in forum and to OP some people are arse holes leave them to it and move on to better nicer people x"
Why is someone an arsehole for not finding a certain race sexually attractive? |
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"I am white and my hubby and is black.
We block some white guys when we want to meet a black man.
We also block some black men when we want to meet a white guy.
Sometimes we block all singles when we want to meet couples.
It's only a sexual thing.
Don't take it seriously.
What is your kink? That's what matters.
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"Why does everyone get so butthurt about being blocked? I block people for all kinds of reasons. It's a tool of the site, not a weapon."
Egos: fragile egos. The sooner some people accepted the fact none of us has universal appeal, the happier their lives will be.
(From the Ministry of Stating the Bleeding Obvious) |
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"Are we not free to choose who contacts us and who doesn't ?..be it skin colour ,cock size ,body shape etc....man up pal shit happens ....personally if I'm blocked it's for a reason ,not their type ,cock to small ,hair to short ...it's life live it and don't worry about other people ...horses for courses just enjoy "
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it?
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!!
Why you so sure it was because of your skin colour and not because they just didnt find you attractive ??
Im sick of people automatically asuming blocks or knock backs are always race related !!
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"Well that's them being narrow minded... out of the entire human race.. to pick one type of ethnicity to have sex with is narrow minded but hey that's my opinion.. each to their own and I respect it so move on and look elsewhere "
Why is it narrow minded? Everyone has their fantasy, if you're not what someone is looking for get over it!
I dislike the sense of entitlement! |
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it?
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!!
Why you so sure it was because of your skin colour and not because they just didnt find you attractive ??
Im sick of people automatically asuming blocks or knock backs are always race related !!
The answer is simple , if you really think about it.....
It couldn't possibly be because they don't find me attractive..... They must be racist..... ok I feel better now "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does everyone get so butthurt about being blocked? I block people for all kinds of reasons. It's a tool of the site, not a weapon.
Egos: fragile egos. The sooner some people accepted the fact none of us has universal appeal, the happier their lives will be.
(From the Ministry of Stating the Bleeding Obvious) "
I think its not necessarily egos a such?
But more of shouting out in desperation that they arnt getting any pussy and not understanding why they arnt as they thought these types of places are filled with dirty slags who will fuck anyone who asks !!
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"Why does everyone get so butthurt about being blocked? I block people for all kinds of reasons. It's a tool of the site, not a weapon.
Egos: fragile egos. The sooner some people accepted the fact none of us has universal appeal, the happier their lives will be.
(From the Ministry of Stating the Bleeding Obvious)
I think its not necessarily egos a such?
But more of shouting out in desperation that they arnt getting any pussy and not understanding why they arnt as they thought these types of places are filled with dirty slags who will fuck anyone who asks !!
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Dirty slags who won't fuck them: ergo egos! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does everyone get so butthurt about being blocked? I block people for all kinds of reasons. It's a tool of the site, not a weapon.
Egos: fragile egos. The sooner some people accepted the fact none of us has universal appeal, the happier their lives will be.
(From the Ministry of Stating the Bleeding Obvious)
I think its not necessarily egos a such?
But more of shouting out in desperation that they arnt getting any pussy and not understanding why they arnt as they thought these types of places are filled with dirty slags who will fuck anyone who asks !!
Dirty slags who won't fuck them: ergo egos! "
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"Plus how do you know that's why they blocked you, did they mail you beforehand saying they were blocking you because of your colour or did you just assume that's why they did it?
They asked for a face pic. I said sure, but before I sent, I told them I was Persian.
Instant block!!"
Maybe they knew they didn't fancy Persian features or complexions - so what? This is sex not employment, people are allowed to desire whatever they want, maybe they were just looking for caucasians or caribbeans this week, maybe they have some family history or something - it just doesn't matter! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just been blocked by a guy who messaged me asking to suck my cock.
I was bored, so sent him a polite reply pointing out that my profile says straight. I suggested he either hadn't bothered to read it or needed to look up the meaning of straight.
I got a snotty reply and found out he had blocked me....at least it saved me the trouble.
Just goes to show folks will block for all kinds of reasons! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, this did happen!!"
a) you never know the full reason you were blocked....
b) even if that is the case, you won't be the first.... you won't be the last....
c) would you really want want to engage on people who want nothing to do with you anyway......
people like chasing the unattainable for some reason....
concentrate on those who like you, and give a wide berth to those who don't! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Id never know if someone blocked me as i dont correspond with people apart from on here "
Do you ever click on the profile of someone you are chatting to on here? That's how I've found out I'm blocked by many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id never know if someone blocked me as i dont correspond with people apart from on here
Do you ever click on the profile of someone you are chatting to on here? That's how I've found out I'm blocked by many. "
Awww how can anyone block you Lickety |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Id never know if someone blocked me as i dont correspond with people apart from on here
Do you ever click on the profile of someone you are chatting to on here? That's how I've found out I'm blocked by many.
Awww how can anyone block you Lickety "
Two clicks and they're done.
When I know I have been blocked I don't respond to their comments on a thread and don't go onto any threads they start.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id never know if someone blocked me as i dont correspond with people apart from on here
Do you ever click on the profile of someone you are chatting to on here? That's how I've found out I'm blocked by many.
Awww how can anyone block you Lickety
Two clicks and they're done.
When I know I have been blocked I don't respond to their comments on a thread and don't go onto any threads they start.
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Probably a good thing I dont know if ive been blocked by anyone then as i just post on whatever i feel like posting on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I got blocked by a bloke who had turned up at my home for some fun, never even put a foot in my home said it wasn't for him, then he told me my house was too messy. I hadn't vaxed up! His loss I say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"SO WHAT??????
Some women only want black cock
Some women only want white cock
Cpls and men also the same
GET OVER IT AND STOP PLAYING VICTIM "
Maybe its got nothing to do with anything other than they just dont find you attractive?
Maybe it really is that simple in most cases!
Sho cares if the blank you or block you ?
Concentrate on those who are intetested in you rather than waste your energy on those who dont.
Simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could be worse ladies and gents. I do however feel like if "too white" was an option I'd be blocked alot, I'd be happy to get blocked for having colour in my skin, but in reality its the opposite. I just look like casper  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could be worse ladies and gents. I do however feel like if "too white" was an option I'd be blocked alot, I'd be happy to get blocked for having colour in my skin, but in reality its the opposite. I just look like casper "
If you was a bottle of milk would you be a red top or blue top? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got blocked by a bloke who had turned up at my home for some fun, never even put a foot in my home said it wasn't for him, then he told me my house was too messy. I hadn't vaxed up! His loss I say"
Definitely his loss... |
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"Interesting that so many have experienced the same.
To say sorry, not my type is fine, if they pester you block them. But immediate block, a little, no, a lot rude IMO
But, such is life..we move on "
Well if it helps, i would!!  lol
When i bumped into you at the spa before i told you it was a shame you were leaving.
Maybe when i'm on the mend we could hook up?
Wifey xx |
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"Interesting that so many have experienced the same.
To say sorry, not my type is fine, if they pester you block them. But immediate block, a little, no, a lot rude IMO
But, such is life..we move on "
I'll say no thank you and block straight away
Why... because I tried the no thank you on its own and got abuse/constant "why"
Just easier to block then we don't appear on each others searches |
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"SO WHAT??????
Some women only want black cock
Some women only want white cock
Cpls and men also the same
GET OVER IT AND STOP PLAYING VICTIM
Maybe its got nothing to do with anything other than they just dont find you attractive?
Maybe it really is that simple in most cases!
Sho cares if the blank you or block you ?
Concentrate on those who are intetested in you rather than waste your energy on those who dont.
Simple "
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Fab rules numbers 1 and 2 -
No reply = no interest
Block, with or without a reply = no interest.
Dress Fab user behavior up any which way that you fancy - do NOT expect others to give you any answers and, particularly, the answer that you want. Race, age, size, gender etc are just red herrings - accept that people will not be interested in you.
You should not use Fab if you will not accept cold, silent rejection, because this is how it works here. Improve your game or move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab rules numbers 1 and 2 -
No reply = no interest
Block, with or without a reply = no interest.
Dress Fab user behavior up any which way that you fancy - do NOT expect others to give you any answers and, particularly, the answer that you want. Race, age, size, gender etc are just red herrings - accept that people will not be interested in you.
You should not use Fab if you will not accept cold, silent rejection, because this is how it works here. Improve your game or move on."
I've had a few meets from initial no replies....
Sometimes I'll just message at a later date,or if they are looking again.
I've had no replies from 'friends' too...not that they weren't interested but it can be about how much mail they get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, this did happen!!
Think positively. This has saved you from the possibility of meeting a bigot
Find someone nicer"
Is bigot the new word for finding someone unattractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab rules numbers 1 and 2 -
No reply = no interest
Block, with or without a reply = no interest.
Dress Fab user behavior up any which way that you fancy - do NOT expect others to give you any answers and, particularly, the answer that you want. Race, age, size, gender etc are just red herrings - accept that people will not be interested in you.
You should not use Fab if you will not accept cold, silent rejection, because this is how it works here. Improve your game or move on.
I've had a few meets from initial no replies....
Sometimes I'll just message at a later date,or if they are looking again.
I've had no replies from 'friends' too...not that they weren't interested but it can be about how much mail they get."
FFS Don't encourage them ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, this did happen!!
Think positively. This has saved you from the possibility of meeting a bigot
Find someone nicer
Is bigot the new word for finding someone unattractive? "
You hear it all in here my old friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be worse ladies and gents. I do however feel like if "too white" was an option I'd be blocked alot, I'd be happy to get blocked for having colour in my skin, but in reality its the opposite. I just look like casper
If you was a bottle of milk would you be a red top or blue top?"
Full fat haha |
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