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How do you know when someone is fake on here
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over a year ago
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"She wants me to meet her at a hotel. Won't give out her number."
Whos paying, how far you have to travel have you exchanged pics?
Some will not give out theirr phone number until they at least know you a little bot better.
If it's not too far and she is staying there anyway then worth a chance.
Nut you have to go with you're gut instinct.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When does a woman contact a guy on here saying she is staying in a hotel room and wants to meet you. Very rare"
Go with your gut instinct. Happy to meet a stranger in a hotel but not happy to give her phone number out. Screw that it would scream alarm bells to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From a female's perspective, if I were away with work and staying in a hotel, I would not arrange to meet a guy I had never met at the hotel or (particularly/specifically) the room. My reason for this is that it isn't safe, the guy could be a nutter (been there) or he could turn up with a few of his mates also looking for a good time. Personally, I would have a chat on the phone (happy to give out my "playing" number), and arrange to meet in a different place for a coffee/drink to check him out prior to taking him back to the room if we clicked. I know a lot of others, including couples, who work this way either for hotel meets or 'meeting at mine', meets.
Therefore if you look at it from this (female) perspective, see how she is behaving and decide if you want to proceed. She may be genuine, only you can decide/find out. Just be sure to let a close friend of yours know where you are going and check in with them too. As we know from the media, it isn't only women who can have issues.
Let us know how you get on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From a female's perspective, if I were away with work and staying in a hotel, I would not arrange to meet a guy I had never met at the hotel or (particularly/specifically) the room. My reason for this is that it isn't safe, the guy could be a nutter (been there) or he could turn up with a few of his mates also looking for a good time. Personally, I would have a chat on the phone (happy to give out my "playing" number), and arrange to meet in a different place for a coffee/drink to check him out prior to taking him back to the room if we clicked. I know a lot of others, including couples, who work this way either for hotel meets or 'meeting at mine', meets.
Therefore if you look at it from this (female) perspective, see how she is behaving and decide if you want to proceed. She may be genuine, only you can decide/find out. Just be sure to let a close friend of yours know where you are going and check in with them too. As we know from the media, it isn't only women who can have issues.
Let us know how you get on."
plus she hasn't given me her number |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a female's perspective, if I were away with work and staying in a hotel, I would not arrange to meet a guy I had never met at the hotel or (particularly/specifically) the room. My reason for this is that it isn't safe, the guy could be a nutter (been there) or he could turn up with a few of his mates also looking for a good time. Personally, I would have a chat on the phone (happy to give out my "playing" number), and arrange to meet in a different place for a coffee/drink to check him out prior to taking him back to the room if we clicked. I know a lot of others, including couples, who work this way either for hotel meets or 'meeting at mine', meets.
Therefore if you look at it from this (female) perspective, see how she is behaving and decide if you want to proceed. She may be genuine, only you can decide/find out. Just be sure to let a close friend of yours know where you are going and check in with them too. As we know from the media, it isn't only women who can have issues.
Let us know how you get on. plus she hasn't given me her number "
...message her on here,tell her you will meet her in hotel bar at an appointed time. Give her a half hour \ 45 mins. If she doesn't show,walk away. If a hairy bloke in a frock walks in...leave by the side entrance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are quite a few women on the forum who won't give out their phone number to meets. It's quite common. That wouldn't be my main criterion for deciding she was a fake.
You say you have spoken on the phone, what happened to make you think she was fake? |
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"From a female's perspective, if I were away with work and staying in a hotel, I would not arrange to meet a guy I had never met at the hotel or (particularly/specifically) the room. My reason for this is that it isn't safe, the guy could be a nutter (been there) or he could turn up with a few of his mates also looking for a good time. Personally, I would have a chat on the phone (happy to give out my "playing" number), and arrange to meet in a different place for a coffee/drink to check him out prior to taking him back to the room if we clicked. I know a lot of others, including couples, who work this way either for hotel meets or 'meeting at mine', meets.
Therefore if you look at it from this (female) perspective, see how she is behaving and decide if you want to proceed. She may be genuine, only you can decide/find out. Just be sure to let a close friend of yours know where you are going and check in with them too. As we know from the media, it isn't only women who can have issues.
Let us know how you get on. plus she hasn't given me her number "
If she hasn't given you her number then how did you speak on the phone? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There are quite a few women on the forum who won't give out their phone number to meets. It's quite common. That wouldn't be my main criterion for deciding she was a fake.
You say you have spoken on the phone, what happened to make you think she was fake?"
I just get that feeling instinct. Not many people would go meet someone at a hotel like that trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When does a woman contact a guy on here saying she is staying in a hotel room and wants to meet you. Very rare"
We always contact if we have a room as it saves the inbox full of unsuitable guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I be swerving it mate ha.. just don't sound convinced and that's rare for me usually I would be up for it not even thinking twice but a message out of the blue bit random |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" message her on here,tell her you will meet her in hotel bar at an appointed time. Give her a half hour \ 45 mins. If she doesn't show,walk away. If a hairy bloke in a frock walks in...leave by the side entrance "
Also, what's her profile like? Is she verified? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm in a hotel room to myself there's no way I'd ask a random guy over. Others may do so though.
Go with your gut instinct, if it doesn't feel right don't do it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm in a hotel room to myself there's no way I'd ask a random guy over. Others may do so though.
Go with your gut instinct, if it doesn't feel right don't do it.
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A lot of escorts when on tour like a bit of non work company is what it often is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds dodgey why no number? Married perhaps? If it definitely sounded like a woman on the phone could be playing away? Maybe ask to meet In the hotel bar? I'd go just to be nosy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also what is it when women want your email address I get that all the time."
To find out who you are on social media, take some compromised pics of you and blackmail you?
Or maybe they just have a really good money off voucher they wanted to share with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have spoken to her first then you know she is real. However usually over a year on her. No veris is a straight up no no for us.
But usually gut instinct tells you what feels rite or wrong. We don't give our numbers out unless we have met the people we are meeting as we don't use a fab phone. Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you have spoken to her first then you know she is real. However usually over a year on her. No veris is a straight up no no for us.
But usually gut instinct tells you what feels rite or wrong. We don't give our numbers out unless we have met the people we are meeting as we don't use a fab phone. Hope this helps. "
for me it's too good to be true. I never get messages from women on here its always the other way round |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy mate, if they are a young single woman, say under 35, they're fake. If they're an older single woman they are just looking for the flattery they no longer get at home. If you meet them at a club or a party, they actually exist!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a female's perspective, if I were away with work and staying in a hotel, I would not arrange to meet a guy I had never met at the hotel or (particularly/specifically) the room. My reason for this is that it isn't safe, the guy could be a nutter (been there) or he could turn up with a few of his mates also looking for a good time. Personally, I would have a chat on the phone (happy to give out my "playing" number), and arrange to meet in a different place for a coffee/drink to check him out prior to taking him back to the room if we clicked. I know a lot of others, including couples, who work this way either for hotel meets or 'meeting at mine', meets.
Therefore if you look at it from this (female) perspective, see how she is behaving and decide if you want to proceed. She may be genuine, only you can decide/find out. Just be sure to let a close friend of yours know where you are going and check in with them too. As we know from the media, it isn't only women who can have issues.
Let us know how you get on. plus she hasn't given me her number "
You said in a previous comment that you spoke on the phone already  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mean I love sex I get it but I ain't going to a hotel when the bird don't give her number out simple "
Does not mean she's fake just because she don't want men on here having her number
Due to being bombarded with phone calls and texts from guys off here in the past I no longer give out my number, because some guys are just pests
Why is it so important to have her number? |
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"When does a woman contact a guy on here saying she is staying in a hotel room and wants to meet you. Very rare"
We have done that .. Did get 2 strangers when visited Bognor Regis to our hotel Room .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She wants me to meet her at a hotel. Won't give out her number."
So?
She's a woman single or not, she values her privacy a lot and for good reason. I've been threatened with rape and violence on here so I'd never give anyone on a site like this my number either...not when there's other means...kik etc etc. Doesn't make me nor ladies like me, fake!
Do what I do, meet for a social (hotel bar for example), if she looks like she says she does and you both like each other, carry on to the room. No harm done.
Good luck and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"go to the hotel room and meet (her) dirty tom and his mates and have a real good time LOL meet some were public for your own safety "
To be fair a hotel room is fairly safe.
Put somones head through a partition wall and boy do security come fast. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When does a woman contact a guy on here saying she is staying in a hotel room and wants to meet you. Very rare"
I've done it. I don't usually give my number out either and I don't display verifications. Fakey McFake Face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I missing how you vocally spoke to her OP?-sounded female?
If the place is local(technically it is in a public place anyway) and your not up to not much....I'd take the chance.
In my swinging life I've went out on a few whims...and been pleasantly surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When does a woman contact a guy on here saying she is staying in a hotel room and wants to meet you. Very rare
I've done it. I don't usually give my number out either and I don't display verifications. Fakey McFake Face."
Is that a new range of make-up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's staying in a hotel,so no cost incurred by you.
If its local to you,swing by the hotel. What have you got to lose? An hour of your time?"
Yep.. I'd go for a gander |
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"When does a woman contact a guy on here saying she is staying in a hotel room and wants to meet you. Very rare"
I do and I've been doubted as genuine. Why not meet in the bar for a drink. If you still feel something is off then walk away but she may be one of the rare ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When does a woman contact a guy on here saying she is staying in a hotel room and wants to meet you. Very rare"
That is very odd and sounds way too good to be true.
Caution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said, go with your gut feeling. She trusts you enough to meet but not have her number???? Hmmmmmmmm. Dodgy written all over it if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call me a skeptic.... but this sounds totally legitimate to me ....you need to go meet this woman and give her the besy sex she has had in her life... what is life without adventure? So Stop being a coward, she is a woman and you're a man .... what can she do to you?
If you do end up going to this meet.... please email me .... when you start the thread " Fab is full of time wasters and fakes "
I'm busy tonight and don't want to miss it  |
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