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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been here a while now and had a handful of meets.
But I still seem to be getting nowhere. I'm looking for a small group of friends singles/couples. But I either get ignored or messages get deleted without been read. I feel like I get automatically labelled as another
"single guy time waster".
Or
"picture collected".
Just after some advice and pointers really.
It would be much appreciated
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey bud its the same for most chaps on here . You have had a few meets so its not that bad.
Just relax enjoy the forums , get to know people ans patience is the key .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you read profiles before messaging or winking??? 
Pffft... Who really does that?"
Nobody...but when I get a wink or message from someone who I know has not even glanced at mine before clicking on my gallery they go ignored or deleted...sometimes very frustratingly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're lucky. You've had meets I haven't  lol.
But it's a numbers game really. The amount of times I've seen bulk deleted (by accident). On statuses is popular. Either the site is bad at managing inboxes or...... lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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at less you had a few meets all ready so why are you so Inpatient give time... because their some people who not meet anyone yet i've been here off and on for 4 years and not meet no one but i'm patient person so i willing to wait.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're looking for friends then try clubs. "
Yes I have visited a couple near me. But most require a membership and me being away working 6 days a week doesn't make me want to pay for it and not know when I'm free to visit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi op,the lack of pictures might hold you back ,also many don't like to meet men who are just passing through their town ,as it says on your headline.
Just my views
Miss"
Hi. Yes I've kept my pictures private due to seeing a cropped photo of myself in a towel on another profile
And yes I can see this isn't for everyone but I'm not just after sex. Social meets are just as good when I'm parked for the night alone bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you read profiles before messaging or winking???
9/10 times yes I do. But some profiles are as long as short stories on here ha "
True...but the most important bit on mine is not only in the main text so barely have to look |
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Read the profile, be polite, be patient and don't be pushy or show signs of desperation. Oh yeah, don't use txt speak. A lot of 'don't' I'm afraid but it will save you from corporal punishment from those that think a wink is a major crime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is like a religion. All you have to do is hang in there, follow the advice of the experts, and believe hard enough no matter how long it takes, and you'll get a meet. |
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