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"Do they jump over bonnets and skid around in cars in flares and big perms? "No there anybody who is full of themselves better than other's cause they've grovelled there way up the 'career ladder'. People who think life is only about how far you climb that ladder nothing else. | |||
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"Do they jump over bonnets and skid around in cars in flares and big perms?
No there anybody who is full of themselves better than other's cause they've grovelled there way up the 'career ladder'.
People who think life is only about how far you climb that ladder nothing else."Well I'm an explosive areas electrical engineer....do I get to be a professional male lmfao  | |||
"As in bodie and Doyle with thingy telling them what to do Cowley was it That's the ones "Yay used to love that programme | |||
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"It means a pair of car owning big permed bonnet jumpers (the flares and skidding thing is optional) "So after sex you get arrested by C I D or 5 or something hahahahaha | |||
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"As in bodie and Doyle with thingy telling them what to do Cowley was it That's the ones
Yay used to love that programme"Me too that's why that was what I thought of first | |||
"As in bodie and Doyle with thingy telling them what to do Cowley was it That's the ones
Yay used to love that programme
Me too that's why that was what I thought of first "Get you ...was my first thought | |||
"I do hope their are no skid marks - will need professional cleaners for that "See? It's just agg the amount of professionals it requires too deal with the aftermath | |||
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"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. " Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?" | |||
"As in bodie and Doyle with thingy telling them what to do Cowley was it That's the ones
Yay used to love that programme
Me too that's why that was what I thought of first
Get you ...was my first thought "Lol it was honest | |||
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"They're people with a job. "Fucking hell im a proffers pogesinal prophessinal professional hey Made up | |||
"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?" "I have a free window at 2.10 for 3 mins | |||
"They're people with a job. "So pretty much all of us then | |||
"They're people with a job.
Fucking hell im a proffers pogesinal prophessinal professional hey
Made up "Im one of them to ..its awesome but can't spell the word ... | |||
"I guess people who identify as being professionals are those who work and are qualified in a certain profession and want to meet like minded people. I don't understand why it's such an issue, these threads always end up with rife reverse snobbery. " Just made me laugh | |||
"They're people with a job.
Fucking hell im a proffers pogesinal prophessinal professional hey
Made up
Im one of them to ..its awesome but can't spell the word ..."Is there a joining fee to become one | |||
"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?"
I have a free window at 2.10 for 3 mins "I could probably squeeze it in 5 don't know about 3 | |||
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"We have a cupri!!!!! Does that count!!!!! "Only if it's a Cupri Ghia....... | |||
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"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?"
I have a free window at 2.10 for 3 mins
I could probably squeeze it in 5 don't know about 3 "Hmmmm coUld manage to 2.5 mins | |||
"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?"
I have a free window at 2.10 for 3 mins
I could probably squeeze it in 5 don't know about 3
Hmmmm coUld manage to 2.5 mins "Small window I know ..you may not fit either | |||
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"It means they probably don't want to meet people with epic chips on their shoulders and inverse snobs. Maybe I'll add it to my profile "I might join you in that. Could be a bloody good filter. | |||
"It means they probably don't want to meet people with epic chips on their shoulders and inverse snobs. Maybe I'll add it to my profile " | |||
"I describe myself as professional because my career is. Im also seeking professional people to meet with, as I feel we would hopefully be in a similar level to someone who had never done a days work in their life for instance. Why make a song and dance over it. If you don't like people who describe themselves as professional then move on past them until you find someone that would suit you. " Can I just point out dancing and singing is a professional career aldepending what level you're at  | |||
"We have a cupri!!!!! Does that count!!!!! "Nope only Capri's I've never heard of a Cupri | |||
"I describe myself as professional because my career is. Im also seeking professional people to meet with, as I feel we would hopefully be in a similar level to someone who had never done a days work in their life for instance. Why make a song and dance over it. If you don't like people who describe themselves as professional then move on past them until you find someone that would suit you. Can I just point out dancing and singing is a professional career aldepending what level you're at "Very true | |||
"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?"
I have a free window at 2.10 for 3 mins
I could probably squeeze it in 5 don't know about 3
Hmmmm coUld manage to 2.5 mins "Jesus 2.5? I'll have too neck our social coffee | |||
"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?"
I have a free window at 2.10 for 3 mins
I could probably squeeze it in 5 don't know about 3
Hmmmm coUld manage to 2.5 mins
Small window I know ..you may not fit either "Lmao | |||
"Live to work but find a minute or two out of there Busy life schedules now and again as if it's a favor to the rest of the fucking world. Lol so they send messages like: "I have a 5 minute toilet break between meetings at 2pm, can you get from Harrow to Stevenage perform like a racehorse and leave by 5 past?"
I have a free window at 2.10 for 3 mins
I could probably squeeze it in 5 don't know about 3
Hmmmm coUld manage to 2.5 mins
Jesus 2.5? I'll have too neck our social coffee "OK 1 minute then ...very very small window | |||
"I describe myself as professional because my career is. Im also seeking professional people to meet with, as I feel we would hopefully be in a similar level to someone who had never done a days work in their life for instance. Why make a song and dance over it. If you don't like people who describe themselves as professional then move on past them until you find someone that would suit you. Can I just point out dancing and singing is a professional career aldepending what level you're at
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"I don't let it put me off unless they say that they only want to meet other professionals. I do tend to read it as "office monkey who is mildly tedious to be around". " Doesn't put me off I just found it amusing | |||
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"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are." Not really. It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. I have never made any reference to my academic qualifications, or my job in my Fabs profile, nor would I. If I like somebody, I like them, it makes no odds if they chose to read some books for a few years and got a bit of paper at the end of it. | |||
"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are. Not really. It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. I have never made any reference to my academic qualifications, or my job in my Fabs profile, nor would I. If I like somebody, I like them, it makes no odds if they chose to read some books for a few years and got a bit of paper at the end of it. " I have my degree certificates on the wall. I worked really fucking hard for those qualifications and I'm proud of them. Would you be similarly dismissive if someone pinned up their marathon medal on the wall? Or had a photo of themselves performing in a play? Or some other achievement they take pride in? | |||
"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are." Well said. And no, I'm not in a profession but I do understand the term. | |||
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"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are. Not really. It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. I have never made any reference to my academic qualifications, or my job in my Fabs profile, nor would I. If I like somebody, I like them, it makes no odds if they chose to read some books for a few years and got a bit of paper at the end of it. I have my degree certificates on the wall. I worked really fucking hard for those qualifications and I'm proud of them. Would you be similarly dismissive if someone pinned up their marathon medal on the wall? Or had a photo of themselves performing in a play? Or some other achievement they take pride in? " These things only really mean something to you though, so no, I don't get it. I equally wouldn't get it if someone had a little trophy cabinet or whatever in their house. | |||
"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are. Not really. It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. I have never made any reference to my academic qualifications, or my job in my Fabs profile, nor would I. If I like somebody, I like them, it makes no odds if they chose to read some books for a few years and got a bit of paper at the end of it. I have my degree certificates on the wall. I worked really fucking hard for those qualifications and I'm proud of them. Would you be similarly dismissive if someone pinned up their marathon medal on the wall? Or had a photo of themselves performing in a play? Or some other achievement they take pride in? These things only really mean something to you though, so no, I don't get it. I equally wouldn't get it if someone had a little trophy cabinet or whatever in their house. " It's my house, why would I give a shit if what I display in it means anything to anyone else? They're up there for me, not for anyone else's benefit. I'll stick to being a tedious pretentious knobhead if the alternative is having a ginormous chip on my shoulder about people who are proud of their academic achievements. | |||
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"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are. Not really. It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. I have never made any reference to my academic qualifications, or my job in my Fabs profile, nor would I. If I like somebody, I like them, it makes no odds if they chose to read some books for a few years and got a bit of paper at the end of it. I have my degree certificates on the wall. I worked really fucking hard for those qualifications and I'm proud of them. Would you be similarly dismissive if someone pinned up their marathon medal on the wall? Or had a photo of themselves performing in a play? Or some other achievement they take pride in? These things only really mean something to you though, so no, I don't get it. I equally wouldn't get it if someone had a little trophy cabinet or whatever in their house. It's my house, why would I give a shit if what I display in it means anything to anyone else? They're up there for me, not for anyone else's benefit. I'll stick to being a tedious pretentious knobhead if the alternative is having a ginormous chip on my shoulder about people who are proud of their academic achievements." It's very easy to say that people who find that sort of thing distasteful have a chip, but it's not usually the case, it's just projecting supposed insecurity onto others. I'm highly unlikely to be jealous of someone with a degree or two, given that I have a couple of those myself. | |||
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"They are people who are not so intimidated by a single word, that they need to start yet another thread letting everybody know about their personal social status insecurities. Next... "You appear to have missed the point. I take it you are from the uneducated classes? | |||
"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are. Not really. It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. I have never made any reference to my academic qualifications, or my job in my Fabs profile, nor would I. If I like somebody, I like them, it makes no odds if they chose to read some books for a few years and got a bit of paper at the end of it. " Bit harsh that, Jimi. Just because someone wants to be proud of their achievements, doesn't mean they're a pretentious, tedious knobhead. Christ, if I ever win a medal for anything, that bastard is being shown to everyone. | |||
"Most people (who very obviously aren't Professionals), don't understand that the word is both and adjective and a noun. Being a professional plasterer/plumber/singer/footballer, means you do that occupation for a living and the word is being used as an adjective. Being a Professional (noun), means you belong to a learned ( pronounced lur ned)profession. As such, you would have at least a Bachelors degree and almost certainly post graduate qualifications, and belong to a professional body, e.g. Law, Medicine, Architecture etc. There are a lot of inverse snobs on here who seem to take offence at how people describe themselves. The fact that it bothers you so much speaks volumes about the type of person you are. Not really. It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. I have never made any reference to my academic qualifications, or my job in my Fabs profile, nor would I. If I like somebody, I like them, it makes no odds if they chose to read some books for a few years and got a bit of paper at the end of it. I have my degree certificates on the wall. I worked really fucking hard for those qualifications and I'm proud of them. Would you be similarly dismissive if someone pinned up their marathon medal on the wall? Or had a photo of themselves performing in a play? Or some other achievement they take pride in? These things only really mean something to you though, so no, I don't get it. I equally wouldn't get it if someone had a little trophy cabinet or whatever in their house. It's my house, why would I give a shit if what I display in it means anything to anyone else? They're up there for me, not for anyone else's benefit. I'll stick to being a tedious pretentious knobhead if the alternative is having a ginormous chip on my shoulder about people who are proud of their academic achievements. It's very easy to say that people who find that sort of thing distasteful have a chip, but it's not usually the case, it's just projecting supposed insecurity onto others. I'm highly unlikely to be jealous of someone with a degree or two, given that I have a couple of those myself. " Except it generally is the case, it reeks off most of the posts on this thread. "That sort of thing"? Being proud of something you've worked hard for? Fuck me, how pretentious. I wouldn't expect you to be jealous, but I worked really bloody hard for many years for my qualifications, have every right to feel proud of myself, and I see nothing tedious about "that sort of thing". | |||
"They are people who are not so intimidated by a single word, that they need to start yet another thread letting everybody know about their personal social status insecurities. Next...
You appear to have missed the point. I take it you are from the uneducated classes?"Well apart from my degree, and various other bits of paper that happily advanced my career sufficiently to retire at 50 despite being a single parent for a substantial portion of my working life. Yes my education is lacking in many aspects, I don't even speak latin  | |||
"This thread makes me very sad that you all regard us in this manner. A lot of hard studying and money goes into gaining a degree, masters or phd. Be proud of being able to say you are a professional. I am. I gained mine at the age of 49 xxxxxx Suzi " | |||
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"so Being a Professional make,s them better when it comes to sex?. or they don,t want to lower themselves by meeting people with lesser payed jobs. "Having a professional job doesn't mean you are well paid. Nurses, teachers for example. | |||
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This is why words on a profile are really important!
They are the start of filtering out the ones you don't want to meet or know you wont get on with.
I think it's a little self important to state that you're a "professional"
Just as it is equally as off putting to mention that you just picked up your giro ....
But that's just my humble opinion | |||
"I guess people who identify as being professionals are those who work and are qualified in a certain profession and want to meet like minded people. I don't understand why it's such an issue, these threads always end up with rife reverse snobbery. "
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We describe ourselves as a 'professional couple' because we want to meet like-minded others. Some couples want to play with bi minded people, some couples want to meeet TV TS, some couples want to meet females only. What ever floats your boat, so live and let live please. Don't judge - especially on a site like this. | |||
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"I think to say you are professional is like saying what social class you are in. But it's not politically correct to catagorise people into social groups, so people who, a few decades ago would have described themselves as 'middle class', are finding another way to get that information across. Is it wrong? Is it elitist? Do we really live in a classless society? Or do people find they have more in common with those from a similar social background? Mrs" Exactly this! We certainly do not live in a classless society - so maybe some people think it's more "politically correct" to say "professional" rather than "middle class" Because stating your middle class screams of being up your own arse to me but maybe that's because I'm common | |||
"I guess people who identify as being professionals are those who work and are qualified in a certain profession and want to meet like minded people. I don't understand why it's such an issue, these threads always end up with rife reverse snobbery.
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We describe ourselves as a 'professional couple' because we want to meet like-minded others. Some couples want to play with bi minded people, some couples want to meeet TV TS, some couples want to meet females only. What ever floats your boat, so live and let live please. Don't judge - especially on a site like this."So, all professional people are of a like mind? | |||
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"Do they jump over bonnets and skid around in cars in flares and big perms? "https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Remington_Steele | |||
"I flourish in life because I know my self worth, my achievements in education, my career and how I have driven myself to success. Yes, I would describe myself as a professional. Do I think I am better than people who choose not to, No. But I think myself richer in character & I conduct with principles and integrity. I have drive and determination to better my life with my achievements. I chose to raise my game to succeed, rather than the easier route some take to belittle other people's success in the hope it elevates theirs. If people think I'm a cunt, so be it. Cool, but I am a successful one. "Richer in character than who, exactly? And are you really suggesting that the professional classes are capable of higher principles and integrity than those who are not? | |||
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"I flourish in life because I know my self worth, my achievements in education, my career and how I have driven myself to success. Yes, I would describe myself as a professional. Do I think I am better than people who choose not to, No. But I think myself richer in character & I conduct with principles and integrity. I have drive and determination to better my life with my achievements. I chose to raise my game to succeed, rather than the easier route some take to belittle other people's success in the hope it elevates theirs. If people think I'm a cunt, so be it. Cool, but I am a successful one. "Hmmm To be fair that does make you sound a little bit cunty ... But then why should you care what other people think?! Just as long as you feel OK about you. I'm not really that bothered about other peoples perceptions of my "professional" life on a sex site. But that's just me. I'm not sure how this comes across but I mean it with no malice. x | |||
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"I guess what it means on a sex site, is that you two for the price of one" *get* | |||
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Yay used to love that programme"It's being repeated on itv4 daily. Was great when I was a kid, but now ..... | |||
"As in bodie and Doyle with thingy telling them what to do Cowley was it" Bogie, Boyle and Cowpat in a crapri | |||
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"It has more to do with people who choose to mention that they are "learned". It's usually the same sort of tedious knobhead who frames their degree certificate and hangs it on their wall (at home, it's possibly not so pretentious if you are a psychiatrist or something and have it in your office as proof of qualification), or joins MENSA. " Hey that's unfair  I was given very little choice in having my certificate and graduation picture framed and put up on the wall. My parents didn't let me get away with it 
Just got called a 'tedious knobhead' off to sulk! | |||
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"I think to say you are professional is like saying what social class you are in. But it's not politically correct to catagorise people into social groups, so people who, a few decades ago would have described themselves as 'middle class', are finding another way to get that information across. Is it wrong? Is it elitist? Do we really live in a classless society? Or do people find they have more in common with those from a similar social background? Mrs Exactly this! We certainly do not live in a classless society - so maybe some people think it's more "politically correct" to say "professional" rather than "middle class" Because stating your middle class screams of being up your own arse to me but maybe that's because I'm common "Being middle class has nothing to do with being a professional, I used to live in a rough part of east London moved to a nice little village earned good money my kids went to good schools & London mow seems a life time away. My old friends now say i'm middle class compared to how i was which makes me laugh as i'm not a better person I just adapted to a different environment. My job lets me meet people from all walks of life good bad & qualifications make little difference in the judgement of a persons character. | |||
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"Pretty sure a brain surgeon would fuck the same as a bin man "Yes and the bin man will have much better stories | |||
"Professional couple means the man of the couple doesn't have dirty fingernails , usually wears a dinner jacket, and wears expensive shoes....The lady has her highlights and dye job professionally done , wears La perla or Agent provocator underwear , and always has Designer shoes and bags... For me as a single guy it means to not turn up to a meet with my Nike sneakers , track pants , baseball cap, and gold teeth and chains.... Now the great part is since they are professionals they can afford to pay for the drinks , food and hotel room.... "We've yet to meet a single guy who expects my husband to pay for everything, and if they took such a sponging attitude they would be shown the door | |||
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"Professional couple means the man of the couple doesn't have dirty fingernails , usually wears a dinner jacket, and wears expensive shoes....The lady has her highlights and dye job professionally done , wears La perla or Agent provocator underwear , and always has Designer shoes and bags... For me as a single guy it means to not turn up to a meet with my Nike sneakers , track pants , baseball cap, and gold teeth and chains.... Now the great part is since they are professionals they can afford to pay for the drinks , food and hotel room....
We've yet to meet a single guy who expects my husband to pay for everything, and if they took such a sponging attitude they would be shown the door "I don't expect him to pay for everything.... you can split the bill and you pay the other half | |||
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"I guess the moral these frequently posted threads about the word 'professional' is that is better not use that particular adjective to describe oneself, because others will think you are 'up your own arse'. Or does it just say something about those who go round accusing others of being 'up their own arses'? I mean what an unpleasant thing to say about someone you've never met!" You can't please everyone, just keep being yourselves...... | |||
"We're not a professional couple ...
xx"I saw this thread and I thought of you two.. You are a very professional couple in every sense! Harry x | |||
"so Being a Professional make,s them better when it comes to sex?. or they don,t want to lower themselves by meeting people with lesser payed jobs. "No it doesnt make them better when it comes to sex and some men dont care what type of job you do as long as they get some sex. I think couples would be more choosy though. | |||
"Do they jump over bonnets and skid around in cars in flares and big perms? "I want to meet an Avengers woman...it's something to do with the leather catsuit. :D I could be a good Steed. | |||
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"I would say that it is one of the few words in a profile that is truly effective. Single male say he is straight and looking for women, gets messages from men asking if he is straight but likes sucking cock. Put professional and all those who consider themselves unworthy won't message you... result "Why would anyone think they are unworthy though. | |||
"Do they jump over bonnets and skid around in cars in flares and big perms?
No there anybody who is full of themselves better than other's cause they've grovelled there way up the 'career ladder'.
People who think life is only about how far you climb that ladder nothing else."Yup | |||
"I would say that it is one of the few words in a profile that is truly effective. Single male say he is straight and looking for women, gets messages from men asking if he is straight but likes sucking cock. Put professional and all those who consider themselves unworthy won't message you... result
Why would anyone think they are unworthy though. "People are strange | |||
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"I guess people who identify as being professionals are those who work and are qualified in a certain profession and want to meet like minded people. I don't understand why it's such an issue, these threads always end up with rife reverse snobbery. " | |||
"Does it matter what qualifications you have. The only qualifications I care about is how good the sex is and you can hold a decent conversation. " | |||
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"I would say that it is one of the few words in a profile that is truly effective. Single male say he is straight and looking for women, gets messages from men asking if he is straight but likes sucking cock. Put professional and all those who consider themselves unworthy won't message you... result "I don't think that thinking someone is pretentious means that you feel unworthy of them. To be honest, it does show that "learned" people aren't as intelligent as the image of themselves they seem so desperate to portray. | |||
"I'm a professional miserable fucker xxx"Love it Love it Love it great post. I worked as a steward for about 10 years for a company and encountered everything from d*unks and junkies at concerts to 'professional' people while working in the 5 star Hilton. Junkies and d*unks will shout at you call you names if you don't let them do what they want but if you tell a 'professional' the same they look down there nose at you basically saying who do you think you are telling ME what to do i'm better than you i don't need to go by the rules. | |||
"I would say that it is one of the few words in a profile that is truly effective. Single male say he is straight and looking for women, gets messages from men asking if he is straight but likes sucking cock. Put professional and all those who consider themselves unworthy won't message you... result
I don't think that thinking someone is pretentious means that you feel unworthy of them.
To be honest, it does show that "learned" people aren't as intelligent as the image of themselves they seem so desperate to portray."I don't think it's fair to say that people who describe themselves as professional are necessarily pretentious or trying to portray an image. Some will be pretentious, but not all. Also there is no evidence that 'learned' people aren't actually intelligent. Again some are intelligent, some less so. | |||
"I would say that it is one of the few words in a profile that is truly effective. Single male say he is straight and looking for women, gets messages from men asking if he is straight but likes sucking cock. Put professional and all those who consider themselves unworthy won't message you... result
I don't think that thinking someone is pretentious means that you feel unworthy of them.
To be honest, it does show that "learned" people aren't as intelligent as the image of themselves they seem so desperate to portray."No, what it shows is that you're character assassinating someone based on one single word. Professional, in your eyes, pretentious and "desperate" to portray themselves in a certain way. Add to that "tedious wanker" from your previous posts. But then what the fuck do I know, eh, I'm one of those fucking abominable cunts with their graduation photo in their house. | |||
" But then what the fuck do I know, eh, I'm one of those fucking abominable cunts with their graduation photo in their house." Whenever I hear the word 'abominable' I think of only one thing. So I need to ask. Do you have to shave......a lot? | |||
"I would say that it is one of the few words in a profile that is truly effective. Single male say he is straight and looking for women, gets messages from men asking if he is straight but likes sucking cock. Put professional and all those who consider themselves unworthy won't message you... result
I don't think that thinking someone is pretentious means that you feel unworthy of them.
To be honest, it does show that "learned" people aren't as intelligent as the image of themselves they seem so desperate to portray.
No, what it shows is that you're character assassinating someone based on one single word. Professional, in your eyes, pretentious and "desperate" to portray themselves in a certain way. Add to that "tedious wanker" from your previous posts.
But then what the fuck do I know, eh, I'm one of those fucking abominable cunts with their graduation photo in their house."My parents have the graduation photos of myself and my siblings on show in their house. I have no idea where my graduation certificate is. I have my sons football trophies on show in my home. Am I a professional or not because I'm not sure if this makes me one or not  | |||
" To be fair that does make you sound a little bit cunty ... But then why should you care what other people think?! Just as long as you feel OK about you. x" | |||
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"It means that you have to both be working in the sex trade. ie. prostitution, pornography production or acting. Hope this helps "We get this one all the time from friends lol, my office is dominated by over 30 pool trophies & my 4 film awards are hard to spot so I tell people i hardly know i'm a pool pro. | |||
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"After reading this thread , I'm never using the word professional on my profile again.... I feel ashamed for getting a education and wasting all that time and money. No one told me getting an education and job would turn off people from sleeping with me "Never feel ashamed about being educated mate, me & Kim have done various courses over the last 10 years & still want to learn more. I remember a quiz night at a swinging club which I won & someone saying it ain't true what they say about people from Essex, you think bless & humour them so not to feel silly about their attitudes lol. Education is great but don't let it warp you into thinking you are somehow better or different than others because of it. | |||
"I guess people who identify as being professionals are those who work and are qualified in a certain profession and want to meet like minded people. I don't understand why it's such an issue, these threads always end up with rife reverse snobbery. " The inverted snobbery on Fab seems acceptable part and parcel of swinging being a pastime.
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"After reading this thread , I'm never using the word professional on my profile again.... I feel ashamed for getting a education and wasting all that time and money. No one told me getting an education and job would turn off people from sleeping with me
Never feel ashamed about being educated mate, me & Kim have done various courses over the last 10 years & still want to learn more.
I remember a quiz night at a swinging club which I won & someone saying it ain't true what they say about people from Essex, you think bless & humour them so not to feel silly about their attitudes lol.
Education is great but don't let it warp you into thinking you are somehow better or different than others because of it."I would never feel I was better than anyone because I had a education or a few more schillings... I here for sex , you could be a astronaut or starving artist.... if you can take the dick I'm there | |||
"After reading this thread , I'm never using the word professional on my profile again.... I feel ashamed for getting a education and wasting all that time and money. No one told me getting an education and job would turn off people from sleeping with me "I don't think anybody objects to those who get an education. It's more that people object when such achievements are used as a selling point. It seems that when someone bigs themselves up, others will interpret it that that person is actually putting others down. I personally am confident enough in myself to not be overly concerned about people who want to tell the world about achievements that I could only dream of, and I certainly would not think that they were putting me down just because they are selling themselves. Mrs | |||
I've no idea why people just can't be nice to each other. Hats off to those of you who have studied hard to get a degree. I couldn't study to save myself so there was no danger I was going to Uni after school. I went out and got a job and worked my way through a number of those till I found one I liked.
I consider myself a professional in that I get up and go to work every day to a job that I love. I get paid enough to be happy with my shoe shopping habits and I don't consider myself a big enough wanker to make other people who chose a different path in life feel bad about that. It makes me happy not to mention my job on my profile. I don't need to tell people how much I earn to make myself feel better and I don't feel bad because I'm not an academic.
Put your certificates on the wall. Be proud of yourselves and call yourselves whatever makes you happy. | |||
" But then what the fuck do I know, eh, I'm one of those fucking abominable cunts with their graduation photo in their house. Whenever I hear the word 'abominable' I think of only one thing. So I need to ask. Do you have to shave......a lot? "Yes. Yes I do. | |||
"I guess people who identify as being professionals are those who work and are qualified in a certain profession and want to meet like minded people. I don't understand why it's such an issue, these threads always end up with rife reverse snobbery. The inverted snobbery on Fab seems acceptable part and parcel of swinging being a pastime.
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"It means a pair of car owning big permed bonnet jumpers (the flares and skidding thing is optional) "Only one of them has a perm | |||
Since when do we have to not be proud of our achievements? Oh wait, since forever because the British masses detest success | |||
"After reading this thread , I'm never using the word professional on my profile again.... I feel ashamed for getting a education and wasting all that time and money. No one told me getting an education and job would turn off people from sleeping with me "Shouldn't feel ashamed of your educational achievements, if they've made you a professional and you're proud of your achievements then that's fine by us. Funny thing is we can't think of one occasion we've been in where said professional has looked down on others, really don't understand those comments whatsoever. If someone doesn't want to meet because of the p word that's their prerogative and we're not going to be judgemental. Really dislike like these anti professional threads with a passion. | |||
"Do they jump over bonnets and skid around in cars in flares and big perms?
No there anybody who is full of themselves better than other's cause they've grovelled there way up the 'career ladder'.
People who think life is only about how far you climb that ladder nothing else."They can spell tho ........ and seldom confuse homophones ( not a gay mobile ). How do you get through the door with such a huge chip ? | |||
" ........ and seldom confuse homophones ( not a gay mobile ). " I needed a chuckle.
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"Really dislike like these anti professional threads with a passion. " They really annoy me too, not really sure why though. Bottom line, it is the reader that has a problem not the author. | |||
"Really dislike like these anti professional threads with a passion. They really annoy me too, not really sure why though. Bottom line, it is the reader that has a problem not the author." Why does what is written on someone's profile cause such consternation? For anything else the Fab answer is that it's their profile and their preference. Except if they say they are professional, it would seem. | |||
"They're people with a job. "This....if you are paid for what you do then you are a professional....whatever you do. It may mean their other profile isn't on the site with multiple fishes.....but on the more elitist one....? | |||
"Really dislike like these anti professional threads with a passion. They really annoy me too, not really sure why though. Bottom line, it is the reader that has a problem not the author. Why does what is written on someone's profile cause such consternation? For anything else the Fab answer is that it's their profile and their preference. Except if they say they are professional, it would seem. " You can be racist, homophobic or a raging misogynist on this site and someone will defend your right to your "preference" but god forbid you take any pride in your own success. | |||
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