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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you enjoy a long lazy touching session where there is no ultimate goal of achieving orgasm or is there no point in initiating shenanigans if you aren't going to get each other off?
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think an orgasm is the be all and end all of everything. I've been with people who have difficulty in reaching that point.
What I do think is important is that all parties involved enjoy their time together in whatever form that may take. Too much pressure to make the other person orgasm can result in an opposite detrimental effect and the person feeling like they aren't good enough.
I find it easier to orgasm when there's a relaxed atmosphere, not a pressure to come.
An orgasm is just the icing on the top of a very delicious cake. |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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"Do you enjoy a long lazy touching session where there is no ultimate goal of achieving orgasm or is there no point in initiating shenanigans if you aren't going to get each other off?
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I love long lazy touching sessions, I enjoy the skin contact, gentle stroking, kissing and teasing.
If it leads to more then fantastic and I genuinely don't mind if I don't reach orgasm, I get a lot of enjoyment from pleasing others. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I don't think an orgasm is the be all and end all of everything. I've been with people who have difficulty in reaching that point.
What I do think is important is that all parties involved enjoy their time together in whatever form that may take. Too much pressure to make the other person orgasm can result in an opposite detrimental effect and the person feeling like they aren't good enough.
I find it easier to orgasm when there's a relaxed atmosphere, not a pressure to come.
An orgasm is just the icing on the top of a very delicious cake."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you enjoy a long lazy touching session where there is no ultimate goal of achieving orgasm or is there no point in initiating shenanigans if you aren't going to get each other off?
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I get this at clubs. I will cum for the first time but after that I can fuck till the cows come home and nice won't cum. I have fun in enjoy it but I just don't cum. It's not that the person I am with was no good i just looked at it as lack of emotional connection.but fun non the less |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't come through penetrative sex ..... There has to be a connection there, but I enjoy sex and all the sensual stuff. So for me it's never been about the orgasm just good sex.  |
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