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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "
I don't think it is your face pic that's causing the problem.
Chin up, sometimes it takes a while to get a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens to us all.
Think of it another way, everyone that blocks you brings you closer to the one who says 'yes please, I'll have me some of that action'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happens to us all.
Think of it another way, everyone that blocks you brings you closer to the one who says 'yes please, I'll have me some of that action' "
That's a nice way of looking at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happens to us all.
Think of it another way, everyone that blocks you brings you closer to the one who says 'yes please, I'll have me some of that action'
That's a nice way of looking at it "
Glass half full mate, that's how this fugly fatty rolls.  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "
what can I say fella as one butt ugly guy all I can say is this do you really want to be fuck someone who's only interested in fucking you to boost there own ego ...?
because remember this sallow people are only interested in whether you will look good on their veries or not,
there are people on here op who only fuck those that will make them look more attractive to the next mark when they come along .
do you really want to get involved in that sort of ego race ....?
if i was you I'd view everyone who turns you down purely on one static picture as i ego booster and count yourself lucky you didn't go there after all you only missing out on a ego fuck ,
ego fucks are easily forgotten trust me i should know as I've had a few in my time.
do you really want to be nothing more than a ego fuck easily forgotten easily move on from because that how most shallow people roll .
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
It happens to all of us. It might be because you look like someone they know, don't fit a mental picture they have of a perfect meet, anything. Show who you are through messages before you show who you are visually. It won't always happen but be patient and confident that at some point it will. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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You need to accept that we can't be everyone's cup of tea, this site is also to fulfil fantasies along with other things and I admit some may call me shallow, but I know who I am attracted to and will hold out until I find them.
If that is shallow, then so be it. |
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"You need to accept that we can't be everyone's cup of tea, this site is also to fulfil fantasies along with other things and I admit some may call me shallow, but I know who I am attracted to and will hold out until I find them.
If that is shallow, then so be it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get deeply offended when the chat stops after a face pic
Blocked for it enrages me
People are vile
Someone the other day changed her mind after arranging to meet me
And said it was me with the issue |
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"I get deeply offended when the chat stops after a face pic
Blocked for it enrages me
People are vile
Someone the other day changed her mind after arranging to meet me
And said it was me with the issue "
Why get offended lovely?
Nobody out there can possibly be everyone's type - and if we all had exactly the same preferences - most people out there would never get a shag!
I've been told several times that I'm not someone's type - doesn't bother me at all! I simply devote my time and attention to those who DO find me attractive! Simple!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it can work both ways I think attraction is a big part of having a connection. I've had it done many times. Even sometimes because I can't grow or don't have a beard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant be everyone's cup of tea be a boring world if we was but 2 seconds to reply and thanks but no thanks costs nothing we all have feelings what you have to remember is theres more men on here than women so we have that choice to be picky dont beat urself up about it I'm sure you will find a meet it just takes time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get deeply offended when the chat stops after a face pic
Blocked for it enrages me
People are vile
Someone the other day changed her mind after arranging to meet me
And said it was me with the issue
Why get offended lovely?
Nobody out there can possibly be everyone's type - and if we all had exactly the same preferences - most people out there would never get a shag!
I've been told several times that I'm not someone's type - doesn't bother me at all! I simply devote my time and attention to those who DO find me attractive! Simple! "
Yeah I get that
I'm just old school in my principles I guess
Far too polite
Expect the same  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try not to let something like that dent your confidence. You will be to some tastes but not to others. I have had it happen to me when I sent a face pic ( before they were in my public gallery). It happens to us all. You just have to keep trucking and know that, though one may not be bothered, another will fancy the pants off you.... Literally! Chin up lovely . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been looking for a single lady to join us for a while. Thought we'd found the perfect match and then saw the face pic. She looked lovely but also the splitting image of a close friend. We explained this and that it wasn't our kink. She then blocked us.
It's not always a bad thing being blocked so don't assume the worst |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've been looking for a single lady to join us for a while. Thought we'd found the perfect match and then saw the face pic. She looked lovely but also the splitting image of a close friend. We explained this and that it wasn't our kink. She then blocked us.
It's not always a bad thing being blocked so don't assume the worst "
Lol I wouldn't of bought that story either |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Try not to let something like that dent your confidence. You will be to some tastes but not to others. I have had it happen to me when I sent a face pic ( before they were in my public gallery). It happens to us all. You just have to keep trucking and know that, though one may not be bothered, another will fancy the pants off you.... Literally! Chin up lovely . "
there she is I've missed that smile the last week or two how are you darling xxx
ps fancy a hard long draw out oh my I'm so glad to see you monopoly session  |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
OP. Look on the bright side.
For someone who's only been on here for only 8 weeks and who already has 1 verification, you've done well! Some guys take far longer to reach that stage!
The trick is patience and perseverance. Keep your face pic up on your Profile, any others move to Private. People can be fickle at times but someone somewhere will be drawn.
On your profile, say why you cannot accommodate otherwise people get suspicious and draw their own conclusions.
Remove too, any negativity as to why you can't get meets as that too us off putting.
Get around the forums, go to socials and clubs in your area - get yourself noticed.
But don't think everyone is out to get you; it's just the fickleness of people in general, not just on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try not to let something like that dent your confidence. You will be to some tastes but not to others. I have had it happen to me when I sent a face pic ( before they were in my public gallery). It happens to us all. You just have to keep trucking and know that, though one may not be bothered, another will fancy the pants off you.... Literally! Chin up lovely .
there she is I've missed that smile the last week or two how are you darling xxx
ps fancy a hard long draw out oh my I'm so glad to see you monopoly session "
Hi lovely . Just had some stuff to deal with, so took a few days out.
Is that a proposition sir?  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me
what can I say fella as one butt ugly guy all I can say is this do you really want to be fuck someone who's only interested in fucking you to boost there own ego ...?
because remember this sallow people are only interested in whether you will look good on their veries or not,
there are people on here op who only fuck those that will make them look more attractive to the next mark when they come along .
do you really want to get involved in that sort of ego race ....?
if i was you I'd view everyone who turns you down purely on one static picture as i ego booster and count yourself lucky you didn't go there after all you only missing out on a ego fuck ,
ego fucks are easily forgotten trust me i should know as I've had a few in my time.
do you really want to be nothing more than a ego fuck easily forgotten easily move on from because that how most shallow people roll .
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What absolute bollocks. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me
what can I say fella as one butt ugly guy all I can say is this do you really want to be fuck someone who's only interested in fucking you to boost there own ego ...?
because remember this sallow people are only interested in whether you will look good on their veries or not,
there are people on here op who only fuck those that will make them look more attractive to the next mark when they come along .
do you really want to get involved in that sort of ego race ....?
if i was you I'd view everyone who turns you down purely on one static picture as i ego booster and count yourself lucky you didn't go there after all you only missing out on a ego fuck ,
ego fucks are easily forgotten trust me i should know as I've had a few in my time.
do you really want to be nothing more than a ego fuck easily forgotten easily move on from because that how most shallow people roll .
What absolute bollocks. "
 Oh Slippers. As blunt as ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got told my arse was better looking 
It is a very sexy arse though 
You've just come up as someone I might know on Facebook !!!!
And?  "
Not the response I expected
I'll block you like you blocked me haha |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"Try not to let something like that dent your confidence. You will be to some tastes but not to others. I have had it happen to me when I sent a face pic ( before they were in my public gallery). It happens to us all. You just have to keep trucking and know that, though one may not be bothered, another will fancy the pants off you.... Literally! Chin up lovely .
there she is I've missed that smile the last week or two how are you darling xxx
ps fancy a hard long draw out oh my I'm so glad to see you monopoly session
Hi lovely . Just had some stuff to deal with, so took a few days out.
Is that a proposition sir? xxx"
Yes  for a game of monopoly where I monopolise every inch of you again and again |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me
what can I say fella as one butt ugly guy all I can say is this do you really want to be fuck someone who's only interested in fucking you to boost there own ego ...?
because remember this sallow people are only interested in whether you will look good on their veries or not,
there are people on here op who only fuck those that will make them look more attractive to the next mark when they come along .
do you really want to get involved in that sort of ego race ....?
if i was you I'd view everyone who turns you down purely on one static picture as i ego booster and count yourself lucky you didn't go there after all you only missing out on a ego fuck ,
ego fucks are easily forgotten trust me i should know as I've had a few in my time.
do you really want to be nothing more than a ego fuck easily forgotten easily move on from because that how most shallow people roll .
What absolute bollocks. "
Not completely
He does say that he is ugly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "
Don't let it get you down man keep on being you, you'll do just fine oil painting or not it's not all about looks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never been blocked but I have twice been told that I am not to their liking.
I didn't take it to heart and moved on. It happens and that's just the way things are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As to why I don't have any face pics ...no point ...just show on cam instead then they get the picture "
Admittedly no point when you don't meet, but your cam-face is a nice one, Jo! - always happy to see it xx
As for my own (public) face pics - they make a very effective front-line filter - eliminates 99.9% of casual interest, in a single glance. Keeps the inbox nice & tidy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me "
These type of posts are killing me.
With laughter.
Counter act the problem, don't send a face pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me
These type of posts are killing me.
With laughter.
Counter act the problem, don't send a face pic. "
There some awful people in these forums |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Same. Chit chat chit chat yeah yeah yeah oh Steve you're so sexy then face pic and then the silence of ugliness.
Don't worry about it. One persons ugly is another persons phwoooaarr!  "
Phwoooaarr! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is killing my confidence every time I send a face pic people ignore me
These type of posts are killing me.
With laughter.
Counter act the problem, don't send a face pic.
There some awful people in these forums "
Oh, you think I was being harsh?
Look at the Op.
'He sends out his pic, he gets ignored.'
Until the OP toughens up and becomes hard to the impersonal & insensitive way of rejection on Fab, he's in for a bumpy ride.
Op this is for you. If you think I'm being aweful with my reply, I wasn't, and I'm sorry. I address your type of posts with a sense of humour. There's a million men before you that have felt the same thing. [Probably.] But they choose not to display their feelings about it.
We can't change what we look like. We can but......it means cutting your face up and costs thousands of pounds. Don't do it. Not worth it is it?
(I may have exaggerated with the million. )
I'm not aweful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op trundle on, if u found one person(people), u will another.
you really only have a lets say, not the most appealing pic on profile.
learn how to use your body, and I'm not saying to make you look outwith what you look like...but enhance it.
thats all I can say |
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