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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was chatting with a friend today and the subject of swinging versus dating came up. So. I was wondering whether people on here are also on ordinary dating sites? And if so, which ones are good? Asking for the friend lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was on POF but I got loads of weird requests. I just stick to this now.
You get loads of wierd requests on here too .....
P.O.F = plenty of freaks"
I don't really, I've had a couple but I got loads more on POF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You see it mentioned a lot onhere. Guys talking about getting better results through dating sites and the women saying they get better results on fab
I think they are all looking for the same thing on both sites and it's just another option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definetly not. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or any full on relationship. I just want a few select friends for great sex."
But that's probably down to your relationship status already surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was chatting with a friend today and the subject of swinging versus dating came up. So. I was wondering whether people on here are also on ordinary dating sites? And if so, which ones are good? Asking for the friend lol "
No, it's too hard to find people into bdsm and swinging on regular dating sites. |
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"Nah, I'm more than aware I'm undateable
Hah. I'm beginning to think this is me too.
My application for "the undateables" was declined! "
I know sit on the board, re-submit and I'll pull a few strings (that's the only thing I'll be pulling ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be on POF but I left that site straight after entering a relationship that only lasted 8 months. I'm not ready for dating yet as I'm gonna relax and have some fun before I start settling down again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definetly not. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or any full on relationship. I just want a few select friends for great sex.
But that's probably down to your relationship status already surely?"
Really ? Lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"No. I'm on Tinder though.
I was on Tinder, but had to delete it because I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings. "
But now I won't get a swipe from you if we happen to be near each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definetly not. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or any full on relationship. I just want a few select friends for great sex.
But that's probably down to your relationship status already surely?
Really ? Lol"
Yeah, I suppose I was being a bit naive as to the reason why people go on dating sites ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definetly not. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or any full on relationship. I just want a few select friends for great sex.
But that's probably down to your relationship status already surely?
Really ? Lol"
Although saying that I could be looking for a boyfriend on the side, as many married people do, but I'm not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On POF and Blendr/badoo... Only had one message so far in months!! "
I just popped back to my account on Badoo and my last received message was from Summer 2014. I replied ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I'm on Tinder though.
I was on Tinder, but had to delete it because I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings.
But now I won't get a swipe from you if we happen to be near each other. "
You'll just have to contact me on here then ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume. "
Yay you're back I was just asking this morning about you. Missed your happy banter. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"No. I'm on Tinder though.
I was on Tinder, but had to delete it because I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings.
But now I won't get a swipe from you if we happen to be near each other.
You'll just have to contact me on here then "
So. Much. Effort. Normally I just swipe and write 'One hour from now at so and so?' and job's a good 'un. I guess if I have to I have to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume.
Yay you're back I was just asking this morning about you. Missed your happy banter.
Hello gorgeous . You were? Awww bless. I'm all good. Just went into a mini hibernation . How are you sweetie? . "
I'm great thanks. I started a thread about you, hope you don't mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I'm on Tinder though.
I was on Tinder, but had to delete it because I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings. "
Having seen how many mention it I tried download this week but it wouldn't let me past "log in with facebook" since I won't use facebook I gave up and uninstalled I need easy to use things I love fab for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume.
Yay you're back I was just asking this morning about you. Missed your happy banter.
Hello gorgeous . You were? Awww bless. I'm all good. Just went into a mini hibernation . How are you sweetie? .
I'm great thanks. I started a thread about you, hope you don't mind. "
Did you think I'd left? I would have Pm'd you and others I chat regularly to if i was going to do that lovely ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was on pof but got quite a bit of abuse from people who recognised me from here (guys with double standards go figure eh)
I stick to tinder now cause i can control who gets to message me that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume.
Yay you're back I was just asking this morning about you. Missed your happy banter.
Hello gorgeous . You were? Awww bless. I'm all good. Just went into a mini hibernation . How are you sweetie? .
I'm great thanks. I started a thread about you, hope you don't mind.
Did you think I'd left? I would have Pm'd you and others I chat regularly to if i was going to do that lovely "
Welcome back gorgeous good to see you back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got banned from pof
I emailed admin and called them hypocritics
They used to censor messages of a sexual nature or swearing
But gladly accept payment from "date a Russian ' type companies on the website
Or allow profiles to be created by 'easyminge'
In short
I was but not now ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume.
Yay you're back I was just asking this morning about you. Missed your happy banter.
Hello gorgeous . You were? Awww bless. I'm all good. Just went into a mini hibernation . How are you sweetie? .
I'm great thanks. I started a thread about you, hope you don't mind.
Did you think I'd left? I would have Pm'd you and others I chat regularly to if i was going to do that lovely
Welcome back gorgeous good to see you back"
Aww thank you lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I'm on Tinder though.
I was on Tinder, but had to delete it because I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings.
But now I won't get a swipe from you if we happen to be near each other.
You'll just have to contact me on here then
So. Much. Effort. Normally I just swipe and write 'One hour from now at so and so?' and job's a good 'un. I guess if I have to I have to."
I'm not just a piece of meat, I'm worth the effort.![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. I'm on Tinder though.
I was on Tinder, but had to delete it because I couldn't work out how to lower the difficulty settings.
Having seen how many mention it I tried download this week but it wouldn't let me past "log in with facebook" since I won't use facebook I gave up and uninstalled I need easy to use things I love fab for that."
That was actually my reason for not using it, it put me off it when I had to sign in with fb. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume.
Yay you're back I was just asking this morning about you. Missed your happy banter.
Hello gorgeous . You were? Awww bless. I'm all good. Just went into a mini hibernation . How are you sweetie? .
I'm great thanks. I started a thread about you, hope you don't mind.
Did you think I'd left? I would have Pm'd you and others I chat regularly to if i was going to do that lovely
Welcome back gorgeous good to see you back
Aww thank you lovely x"
Always a joy to see you on forums x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. No time to properly date... I was on a certain fish site quite a few years ago. Not bad, but I'm not sure how many are actually genuinely looking for relationships, or just a fast shag. A paid dating site would probably be better. They are more likely looking for something a little more emotionally intimate, I would assume.
Yay you're back I was just asking this morning about you. Missed your happy banter.
Hello gorgeous . You were? Awww bless. I'm all good. Just went into a mini hibernation . How are you sweetie? .
I'm great thanks. I started a thread about you, hope you don't mind.
Did you think I'd left? I would have Pm'd you and others I chat regularly to if i was going to do that lovely "
Awww,thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was on pof but got quite a bit of abuse from people who recognised me from here (guys with double standards go figure eh)
I stick to tinder now cause i can control who gets to message me that way"
I had the same problem! Or they thought they were clever that they'd pointed it out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What are you guys that are on dating sites like POF etc actually on there looking for?
Is it to find someone to have a serious relationship with ?
Or just another site to use as an extension to meet people for a fuck ??
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"I was chatting with a friend today and the subject of swinging versus dating came up. So. I was wondering whether people on here are also on ordinary dating sites? And if so, which ones are good? Asking for the friend lol "
I have been told of some men who are straight on here, and have had sex with ladies and couples who insist on straight men and no bisexual men but the men are bisexual and have had sex with other men on other sites. Can you Adam and Eve it? ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was chatting with a friend today and the subject of swinging versus dating came up. So. I was wondering whether people on here are also on ordinary dating sites? And if so, which ones are good? Asking for the friend lol
I have been told of some men who are straight on here, and have had sex with ladies and couples who insist on straight men and no bisexual men but the men are bisexual and have had sex with other men on other sites. Can you Adam and Eve it? "
Yes because some people will say any old shite to get laid ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am on a couple of woodworking sites, and a dozen or so computer security and programing ones too. Though the Lynx can is not in those pics "
Shame. It was the Lynx can that caught my attention .... ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you guys that are on dating sites like POF etc actually on there looking for?
Is it to find someone to have a serious relationship with ?
Or just another site to use as an extension to meet people for a fuck ??
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Sex. I found it to be hard work, so I stopped using them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you guys that are on dating sites like POF etc actually on there looking for?
Is it to find someone to have a serious relationship with ?
Or just another site to use as an extension to meet people for a fuck ??
Sex. I found it to be hard work, so I stopped using them. "
But if its just sex you want? Why use dating sites and not just stick to sites like this?
This is what i dont understand? |
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The free sites are considered a waste of time if you're serious.
My mate is on Elite Singles, crazy price of £80 p/month but he's going on plenty of dates and getting laid. Costing him a fortune though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am on a couple of woodworking sites, and a dozen or so computer security and programing ones too. Though the Lynx can is not in those pics
Shame. It was the Lynx can that caught my attention .... "
I know, it left me, set up its own profile and does way better than me ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you guys that are on dating sites like POF etc actually on there looking for?
Is it to find someone to have a serious relationship with ?
Or just another site to use as an extension to meet people for a fuck ??
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Got a fwb until I find someone for more in the real world |
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