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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you want a prize? 
Maybe, A surprise 
BOO! "
Decked! you'd make a great ghost. All you need is a white cloak and the cover of darkness. Than again sounds a lot like another ghastly group! Better just stay in bed for the night LOl |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Exs..oh, to be famous for something
More than deserving of the admiration and recognition. Cheater gotta deal with the heat!  im not quite sure what you mean, maybe you could rephrase so i can understand x"
Well l was cheated on a few months ago with someone who, l really care about and cherished. l have never been unfaithful to her and believed we had something strong. One alcohol-fueled night later it all come's crashing down in flames. She messaged me wanting to have a fresh start, made me resent her much more. So thought what the heck might as well post about it. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Exs..oh, to be famous for something
More than deserving of the admiration and recognition. Cheater gotta deal with the heat! im not quite sure what you mean, maybe you could rephrase so i can understand x
Well l was cheated on a few months ago with someone who, l really care about and cherished. l have never been unfaithful to her and believed we had something strong. One alcohol-fueled night later it all come's crashing down in flames. She messaged me wanting to have a fresh start, made me resent her much more. So thought what the heck might as well post about it."
oh..the resentful type..nice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Exs..oh, to be famous for something
More than deserving of the admiration and recognition. Cheater gotta deal with the heat! im not quite sure what you mean, maybe you could rephrase so i can understand x
Well l was cheated on a few months ago with someone who, l really care about and cherished. l have never been unfaithful to her and believed we had something strong. One alcohol-fueled night later it all come's crashing down in flames. She messaged me wanting to have a fresh start, made me resent her much more. So thought what the heck might as well post about it.oh..the resentful type..nice "
Yep! it's not been long enough to get over, l can forgive a kiss anything more is just silly. Heard of fool me once shame on you, fool me twice.. you get the picture.
Nice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure what this has got to do with the post title though. Is that where you got her number from?"
no
It's a metaphor for her being a slut! l know she only made a mistake, l don't honestly know anyone can lose themselves. it is just cathartic. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Exs..oh, to be famous for something
More than deserving of the admiration and recognition. Cheater gotta deal with the heat! im not quite sure what you mean, maybe you could rephrase so i can understand x
Well l was cheated on a few months ago with someone who, l really care about and cherished. l have never been unfaithful to her and believed we had something strong. One alcohol-fueled night later it all come's crashing down in flames. She messaged me wanting to have a fresh start, made me resent her much more. So thought what the heck might as well post about it.oh..the resentful type..nice
Yep! it's not been long enough to get over, l can forgive a kiss anything more is just silly. Heard of fool me once shame on you, fool me twice.. you get the picture.
Nice."
i wouldnt know. you do know this is a site for non monogomous encounters right? sure its the place for you if you get so upset about such things..xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well l was cheated on a few months ago with someone who, l really care about and cherished. l have never been unfaithful to her and believed we had something strong. One alcohol-fueled night later it all come's crashing down in flames. She messaged me wanting to have a fresh start, "
Happiness comes from forgiveness and a new start. If she is serious, what's the harm in giving it another go? All you have to lose is your pride, and that's a price worth paying surely?
All relationships have difficulties, if you learn to deal with them your life will be far brighter.
Besides you cant be too precious about fidelity on a swingers site can you?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?"
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Not sure what this has got to do with the post title though. Is that where you got her number from?
no
It's a metaphor for her being a slut! l know she only made a mistake, l don't honestly know anyone can lose themselves. it is just cathartic."
If she cheated on you, you have a right to be angry. But try and go high, and lose the derogatory names. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well l was cheated on a few months ago with someone who, l really care about and cherished. l have never been unfaithful to her and believed we had something strong. One alcohol-fueled night later it all come's crashing down in flames. She messaged me wanting to have a fresh start,
Happiness comes from forgiveness and a new start. If she is serious, what's the harm in giving it another go? All you have to lose is your pride, and that's a price worth paying surely?
All relationships have difficulties, if you learn to deal with them your life will be far brighter.
Besides you cant be too precious about fidelity on a swingers site can you?! "
Yes, there are a lot more to this story than just meets the eye. A lot of drama after breaking up and lie. for now she is like a cloud, when she floats away it's a brighter day!
Appreacite the advice maybe one day, l will hear it properly if you know what l mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to. "
If you're likening her to a slut I'd suggest you let her go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not sure what this has got to do with the post title though. Is that where you got her number from?
no
It's a metaphor for her being a slut! l know she only made a mistake, l don't honestly know anyone can lose themselves. it is just cathartic.
If she cheated on you, you have a right to be angry. But try and go high, and lose the derogatory names."
Thanks for understanding, l think keeping the name is a reflection of my attitude for her right now. It isnt accurate, but helps with the process. l don't have any derogatory things to say about anyone else. Sorry if it makes you feel l'm disrespecting all women, it's only one. I have never called her a slut and never will.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Appreacite the advice maybe one day, l will hear it properly if you know what l mean."
I hope you do.
You sound like you are hurtin inside and lashing out cos of it.
Good luck bro, sumtimes we are our own worst enemys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Appreacite the advice maybe one day, l will hear it properly if you know what l mean.
I hope you do.
You sound like you are hurtin inside and lashing out cos of it.
Good luck bro, sumtimes we are our own worst enemys"
Thanks, l am the type of person who need to channel my feeling into something. Negative or positive if you see life that way of course. It bring up a lot of stuff for me. l am writing about in a less hateful way, but getting my anger out is important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to. "
You do realise that posting threads like this reduce your chances of meeting significantly? Women would wonder if mentally you were criticising their past sexual history and debating revenge, which may or may not culminate you posting their number on toilet walls. This is a Swinging site, where people meet for sex. Some people are single and free to meet who they want; conversely, there many who have partners who are blissfully unaware that their significant other has a secret life. Some people are upfront about being in a relationship and some aren't. You need to understand that it's not a good idea to throw stones especially when you are in a glass house.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to.
You do realise that posting threads like this reduce your chances of meeting significantly? Women would wonder if mentally you were criticising their past sexual history and debating revenge, which may or may not culminate you posting their number on toilet walls. This is a Swinging site, where people meet for sex. Some people are single and free to meet who they want; conversely, there many who have partners who are blissfully unaware that their significant other has a secret life. Some people are upfront about being in a relationship and some aren't. You need to understand that it's not a good idea to throw stones especially when you are in a glass house.
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That's alright, l thought this being a site dedicated to sex, the issue that broke us up was sex. if people think l will genuinely write there name on the back of a toilet wall, then they wont even respond which is okay!
l thought perhaps other would have a similar experience, l personal believe in monogamy. l don't think im shallow enough to seek revenge on another person when they have don't nothing to me. l knew this person very well, she promised to be faithful, lie and cheater so in my book not cool.
People will think what they like, l am just expressing my true self. If they dont see what l am like on here then they would have no idea what type of person they are meeting.
l have a meet this weekend so l am okay right now.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to.
You do realise that posting threads like this reduce your chances of meeting significantly? Women would wonder if mentally you were criticising their past sexual history and debating revenge, which may or may not culminate you posting their number on toilet walls. This is a Swinging site, where people meet for sex. Some people are single and free to meet who they want; conversely, there many who have partners who are blissfully unaware that their significant other has a secret life. Some people are upfront about being in a relationship and some aren't. You need to understand that it's not a good idea to throw stones especially when you are in a glass house.
That's alright, l thought this being a site dedicated to sex, the issue that broke us up was sex. if people think l will genuinely write there name on the back of a toilet wall, then they wont even respond which is okay!
l thought perhaps other would have a similar experience, l personal believe in monogamy. l don't think im shallow enough to seek revenge on another person when they have don't nothing to me. l knew this person very well, she promised to be faithful, lie and cheater so in my book not cool.
People will think what they like, l am just expressing my true self. If they dont see what l am like on here then they would have no idea what type of person they are meeting.
l have a meet this weekend so l am okay right now.
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I think you have completely missed my point and anyone else's that has responded. It's ok, you carry on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to.
You do realise that posting threads like this reduce your chances of meeting significantly? Women would wonder if mentally you were criticising their past sexual history and debating revenge, which may or may not culminate you posting their number on toilet walls. This is a Swinging site, where people meet for sex. Some people are single and free to meet who they want; conversely, there many who have partners who are blissfully unaware that their significant other has a secret life. Some people are upfront about being in a relationship and some aren't. You need to understand that it's not a good idea to throw stones especially when you are in a glass house.
That's alright, l thought this being a site dedicated to sex, the issue that broke us up was sex. if people think l will genuinely write there name on the back of a toilet wall, then they wont even respond which is okay!
l thought perhaps other would have a similar experience, l personal believe in monogamy. l don't think im shallow enough to seek revenge on another person when they have don't nothing to me. l knew this person very well, she promised to be faithful, lie and cheater so in my book not cool.
People will think what they like, l am just expressing my true self. If they dont see what l am like on here then they would have no idea what type of person they are meeting.
l have a meet this weekend so l am okay right now.
I think you have completely missed my point and anyone else's that has responded. It's ok, you carry on."
l get what your point is l just don't agree. sorry your entitled to you proportion. l think people will see this is a isolated thing, if they can identify with my gf, then take offence that's not my aim. Really not my problem. l am here only to meet a few local people there are thousand on here, doubt very highly anyone local to me will take offence to my post.
Appreciate your word of caution. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They re not actually girls you read about on toilet doors
Thank you! it is a metaphor.
Thanks, that straightened it out "
l can't make it more obvious than it already is. Is just a comparison use your imagination l mean it figuratively.  |
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"They re not actually girls you read about on toilet doors
Thank you! it is a metaphor.
Thanks, that straightened it out
l can't make it more obvious than it already is. Is just a comparison use your imagination l mean it figuratively. "
Thanks for that, I've lost the plot now and my head hurts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"l have a meet this weekend so l am okay right now.
Have you let her know your stance on monogamy?"
yes, also to clarify. l only believe in monogamy when I'm in a serious relationship, for both partner. It's was more about trust being broken. Other play by their own set of rule.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They re not actually girls you read about on toilet doors
Thank you! it is a metaphor.
Thanks, that straightened it out
l can't make it more obvious than it already is. Is just a comparison use your imagination l mean it figuratively.
Thanks for that, I've lost the plot now and my head hurts "
Are you pulling my leg?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah? You know to stay away then 
fatal attraction my old friend
Lock up your bunny 
Throw away the key!
Calm down young one, I eat boys like you for breakfast "
Make me think of that song by Birdy- Youth. Away from that, l will have you over nice sausage and beans on the menu Tea to.. |
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"They re not actually girls you read about on toilet doors
Thank you! it is a metaphor.
Thanks, that straightened it out
l can't make it more obvious than it already is. Is just a comparison use your imagination l mean it figuratively.
Thanks for that, I've lost the plot now and my head hurts
Are you pulling my leg? "
No im genuinely thick  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it  "
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They re not actually girls you read about on toilet doors
Thank you! it is a metaphor.
Thanks, that straightened it out
l can't make it more obvious than it already is. Is just a comparison use your imagination l mean it figuratively.
Thanks for that, I've lost the plot now and my head hurts
Are you pulling my leg?
No im genuinely thick "
You have other a set's l'm not all that smart either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So this it what happens inside a man's head when you dump him?
Well, let me know when you dump him! Never been dumped.
Me neither "
Proud of you haha sorry just being silly. |
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"They re not actually girls you read about on toilet doors
Thank you! it is a metaphor.
Thanks, that straightened it out
l can't make it more obvious than it already is. Is just a comparison use your imagination l mean it figuratively.
Thanks for that, I've lost the plot now and my head hurts
Are you pulling my leg?
No im genuinely thick
You have other a set's l'm not all that smart either. "
Lol
Thanks.... I think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They re not actually girls you read about on toilet doors
Thank you! it is a metaphor.
Thanks, that straightened it out
l can't make it more obvious than it already is. Is just a comparison use your imagination l mean it figuratively.
Thanks for that, I've lost the plot now and my head hurts
Are you pulling my leg?
No im genuinely thick
You have other a set's l'm not all that smart either.
Lol
Thanks.... I think "
Assets, see proof. It was a compliment on your body X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better "
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?"
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear."
Just as long as you don't call her a slut it's ok then? Got it! |
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear."
So women who enjoy sex are sluts and harlots who get shamed for it, which you appear to endorse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear.
Just as long as you don't call her a slut it's ok then? Got it! "
Or slut works to, l just like the metaphor. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear.
So women who enjoy sex are sluts and harlots who get shamed for it, which you appear to endorse. "
If you read the earlier texts you would see that's not what l'm saying at all. Other wise l am a man-whore.
Its about an ex who cheated and really is just my own creative way of blowing off steam |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear.
So women who enjoy sex are sluts and harlots who get shamed for it, which you appear to endorse.
If you read the earlier texts you would see that's not what l'm saying at all. Other wise l am a man-whore.
Its about an ex who cheated and really is just my own creative way of blowing off steam "
So creative something is lost in translation then, because that's certainly what it reads like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There has been such an out cry over just a small thing really. Not even meant to be taken seriously. Amusing to say the least. "
It's not really an outcry. More like no one knew what you were going on about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear.
So women who enjoy sex are sluts and harlots who get shamed for it, which you appear to endorse.
If you read the earlier texts you would see that's not what l'm saying at all. Other wise l am a man-whore.
Its about an ex who cheated and really is just my own creative way of blowing off steam
So creative something is lost in translation then, because that's certainly what it reads like. "
Would it have been better is instead of (you) l put (her) would that make it more bearable?
l liked it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There has been such an out cry over just a small thing really. Not even meant to be taken seriously. Amusing to say the least.
It's not really an outcry. More like no one knew what you were going on about."
l have heard that saying a lot growing up, it's common enough. |
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear.
So women who enjoy sex are sluts and harlots who get shamed for it, which you appear to endorse.
If you read the earlier texts you would see that's not what l'm saying at all. Other wise l am a man-whore.
Its about an ex who cheated and really is just my own creative way of blowing off steam
So creative something is lost in translation then, because that's certainly what it reads like.
Would it have been better is instead of (you) l put (her) would that make it more bearable?
l liked it."
It's not the you or her bit I'm struggling with, it's more the bit about women who have lots of sex being a certain "type" who have their numbers written on toilet doors. It seems an odd angle to be going for on a site like this, which has lots of women who want multiple sexual partners on it. |
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"There has been such an out cry over just a small thing really. Not even meant to be taken seriously. Amusing to say the least.
It's not really an outcry. More like no one knew what you were going on about."
it wasn't really for them it was for me, a few people did manage to get it and to them l salute. l didn't mind explaining it. |
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"So this forum is the toilet door and your post is the equivalent of scrawling her number all over it in some ill-advised desire for revenge? Got it
No, but that is an interesting thought. Holy crap! it totally is. l meant it just by itself. like your interpretation better
I don't get it then. What's it a metaphor for?
The metaphor is a girl who likes to fuck a lot, get's her name written on the back of toilet door or her number and name. Comparing my ex to a harlot.
Make sense, hope i'm making myself clear.
So women who enjoy sex are sluts and harlots who get shamed for it, which you appear to endorse.
If you read the earlier texts you would see that's not what l'm saying at all. Other wise l am a man-whore.
Its about an ex who cheated and really is just my own creative way of blowing off steam
So creative something is lost in translation then, because that's certainly what it reads like.
Would it have been better is instead of (you) l put (her) would that make it more bearable?
l liked it.
It's not the you or her bit I'm struggling with, it's more the bit about women who have lots of sex being a certain "type" who have their numbers written on toilet doors. It seems an odd angle to be going for on a site like this, which has lots of women who want multiple sexual partners on it. "
well if you take it out of context, when it is directed at a certain person. l suppose you could see it that way. Don't really mind.
Good that your sticking up for your truths. Yet again it's not about what l said, its more about how people interpret it and bring there own sense of meaning to. |
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l never intended on offending anyone, if so l'm sorry. Was just a way for me to express myself. what can l say, if you dont like it, no one is forcing you. |
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"It's not the you or her bit I'm struggling with, it's more the bit about women who have lots of sex being a certain "type" who have their numbers written on toilet doors. It seems an odd angle to be going for on a site like this, which has lots of women who want multiple sexual partners on it. "
This is how I read the post, too. It's always good to be reminded how some people view women who have lots of sex, though. Sometimes I need the cold water in my face |
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"It's not the you or her bit I'm struggling with, it's more the bit about women who have lots of sex being a certain "type" who have their numbers written on toilet doors. It seems an odd angle to be going for on a site like this, which has lots of women who want multiple sexual partners on it.
This is how I read the post, too. It's always good to be reminded how some people view women who have lots of sex, though. Sometimes I need the cold water in my face "
I did say in the threat what it was all about. but okay taking things at face value isnt alway a negative. |
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to.
You do realise that posting threads like this reduce your chances of meeting significantly? Women would wonder if mentally you were criticising their past sexual history and debating revenge, which may or may not culminate you posting their number on toilet walls. This is a Swinging site, where people meet for sex. Some people are single and free to meet who they want; conversely, there many who have partners who are blissfully unaware that their significant other has a secret life. Some people are upfront about being in a relationship and some aren't. You need to understand that it's not a good idea to throw stones especially when you are in a glass house.
That's alright, l thought this being a site dedicated to sex, the issue that broke us up was sex. if people think l will genuinely write there name on the back of a toilet wall, then they wont even respond which is okay!
l thought perhaps other would have a similar experience, l personal believe in monogamy. l don't think im shallow enough to seek revenge on another person when they have don't nothing to me. l knew this person very well, she promised to be faithful, lie and cheater so in my book not cool.
People will think what they like, l am just expressing my true self. If they dont see what l am like on here then they would have no idea what type of person they are meeting.
l have a meet this weekend so l am okay right now.
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My husband cheated on me, I didn't call him a slut or other derogatory names, regarding someone's sex life.
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to.
You do realise that posting threads like this reduce your chances of meeting significantly? Women would wonder if mentally you were criticising their past sexual history and debating revenge, which may or may not culminate you posting their number on toilet walls. This is a Swinging site, where people meet for sex. Some people are single and free to meet who they want; conversely, there many who have partners who are blissfully unaware that their significant other has a secret life. Some people are upfront about being in a relationship and some aren't. You need to understand that it's not a good idea to throw stones especially when you are in a glass house.
That's alright, l thought this being a site dedicated to sex, the issue that broke us up was sex. if people think l will genuinely write there name on the back of a toilet wall, then they wont even respond which is okay!
l thought perhaps other would have a similar experience, l personal believe in monogamy. l don't think im shallow enough to seek revenge on another person when they have don't nothing to me. l knew this person very well, she promised to be faithful, lie and cheater so in my book not cool.
People will think what they like, l am just expressing my true self. If they dont see what l am like on here then they would have no idea what type of person they are meeting.
l have a meet this weekend so l am okay right now.
My husband cheated on me, I didn't call him a slut or other derogatory names, regarding someone's sex life.
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Good for you ! better person than l clearly, l'm doing it figuratively. |
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"It's not the you or her bit I'm struggling with, it's more the bit about women who have lots of sex being a certain "type" who have their numbers written on toilet doors. It seems an odd angle to be going for on a site like this, which has lots of women who want multiple sexual partners on it.
This is how I read the post, too. It's always good to be reminded how some people view women who have lots of sex, though. Sometimes I need the cold water in my face "
The way I read this post is that women who have multiple sexual partners are sluts, whores and harlots....which probably encompasses about 99.9% of women on here. Can I be referred to as a scarlet woman though please? More in-keeping with my colour scheme! |
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is it not better letting my thoughts and emotions out on an online forum she will never seem. l mean it's helping me get over it, and some really decent people l've talked too. |
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"It's not the you or her bit I'm struggling with, it's more the bit about women who have lots of sex being a certain "type" who have their numbers written on toilet doors. It seems an odd angle to be going for on a site like this, which has lots of women who want multiple sexual partners on it.
This is how I read the post, too. It's always good to be reminded how some people view women who have lots of sex, though. Sometimes I need the cold water in my face
The way I read this post is that women who have multiple sexual partners are sluts, whores and harlots....which probably encompasses about 99.9% of women on here. Can I be referred to as a scarlet woman though please? More in-keeping with my colour scheme!"
Can't help they way you have read it. If anything you can hate me, but l have explain more than several time. but oh well... |
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"It's not the you or her bit I'm struggling with, it's more the bit about women who have lots of sex being a certain "type" who have their numbers written on toilet doors. It seems an odd angle to be going for on a site like this, which has lots of women who want multiple sexual partners on it.
This is how I read the post, too. It's always good to be reminded how some people view women who have lots of sex, though. Sometimes I need the cold water in my face
I did say in the threat what it was all about. but okay taking things at face value isnt alway a negative. "
No, I read the thread. I got what you were saying. I think you're missing the wider implications of your insult. The woman you were with cheated on you and instead of saying you didn't like that, you alluded to a nasty stereotype for women who "get around a lot." You did it on a site where people, women and men, are looking to have sex with multiple partners.
Your choice of stereotype says something about you and your views - it says more than just your unhappiness about being cheated on. You can have that view, surely. And I can learn something from it. |
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"Have you put her number on the back of toilet doors, as revenge?
Because people who are a little slutty have number on the back of toilet doors, so making a comparison. l wouldn't do that, no matter how much I'd want to.
You do realise that posting threads like this reduce your chances of meeting significantly? Women would wonder if mentally you were criticising their past sexual history and debating revenge, which may or may not culminate you posting their number on toilet walls. This is a Swinging site, where people meet for sex. Some people are single and free to meet who they want; conversely, there many who have partners who are blissfully unaware that their significant other has a secret life. Some people are upfront about being in a relationship and some aren't. You need to understand that it's not a good idea to throw stones especially when you are in a glass house.
That's alright, l thought this being a site dedicated to sex, the issue that broke us up was sex. if people think l will genuinely write there name on the back of a toilet wall, then they wont even respond which is okay!
l thought perhaps other would have a similar experience, l personal believe in monogamy. l don't think im shallow enough to seek revenge on another person when they have don't nothing to me. l knew this person very well, she promised to be faithful, lie and cheater so in my book not cool.
People will think what they like, l am just expressing my true self. If they dont see what l am like on here then they would have no idea what type of person they are meeting.
l have a meet this weekend so l am okay right now.
My husband cheated on me, I didn't call him a slut or other derogatory names, regarding someone's sex life.
Good for you ! better person than l clearly, l'm doing it figuratively."
It's how you perceive people and their sexuality. The sex act wasn't the hurtful part and I don't judge people by how many sexual partners they have had or how they conduct themselves. |
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"l mean you are kind of stereotyping me into being sexist, misogynistic which l know is not my nature."
Ig this is directed at me, I never called you sexist or misogynistic. I said you used an offensive stereotype for women who have lots of sex. Which you did - read your post title.
"Thing's have more value when you add contexts.
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And this is slightly ironic given how you started the thread with absolutely no context. |
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Can't decide if this is a face palm moment or a pre UNLOS fabicide entertaining all the same. As the thread has gone on the backtracking has got worse and worse. |
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Just to sate, l am not sexist or misogynistic. I meant this as a metaphor to let out my frustration of an ex who cheated on me. After a long time togeather, something triggered us to make get back in touch. It ended in an argument it was civil, between me and her. However because of being a bit weird on the autistic spectrum l deal with my emotion by challenging them into something.
Today l chose this thread to make a fictional comparison to my ex gf being a harlot. It is all metaphorical and in no way reflects my feeling of the opposite sex or any sex for that matter. |
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"l mean you are kind of stereotyping me into being sexist, misogynistic which l know is not my nature.
Ig this is directed at me, I never called you sexist or misogynistic. I said you used an offensive stereotype for women who have lots of sex. Which you did - read your post title.
Thing's have more value when you add contexts.
And this is slightly ironic given how you started the thread with absolutely no context."
Yes, l never said l had. l said it is in the thread. |
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"It's understandable you're going to be angry. Resorting to names like slut gives a bad impression. I call my ex a cunt, because he behaved like one. "
Thank you. |
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"Can't decide if this is a face palm moment or a pre UNLOS fabicide entertaining all the same. As the thread has gone on the backtracking has got worse and worse. "
This is defo fabicide, he just hasn't realised it yet. |
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"l mean you are kind of stereotyping me into being sexist, misogynistic which l know is not my nature.
Ig this is directed at me, I never called you sexist or misogynistic. I said you used an offensive stereotype for women who have lots of sex. Which you did - read your post title.
Thing's have more value when you add contexts.
And this is slightly ironic given how you started the thread with absolutely no context."
l typed (exs) which imply it's my own personal experience. but to be honest now this has lost it fun. l'm away to brush my teeth, get into my Beatles and let this whole thing blow over.
Next Day
It's not blown over. |
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"Can't decide if this is a face palm moment or a pre UNLOS fabicide entertaining all the same. As the thread has gone on the backtracking has got worse and worse.
This is defo fabicide, he just hasn't realised it yet. "
I had long ago, l just like the comments some are quite funny. |
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"Can't decide if this is a face palm moment or a pre UNLOS fabicide entertaining all the same. As the thread has gone on the backtracking has got worse and worse.
This is defo fabicide, he just hasn't realised it yet. "
I've followed it from the start and being on the forums as long as I have. This is the wrong way to get attention but hey ho. I'm just thick and no idea what this was all about |
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Really quite confused as to why anyone even responded to the OP. Are we all really that boring?
Ffs its a swingers site, about getting good sex, do we care about you being cheated on? Either ring the Samaritans or zip up your man suit and move on.... |
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"Really quite confused as to why anyone even responded to the OP. Are we all really that boring?
Ffs its a swingers site, about getting good sex, do we care about you being cheated on? Either ring the Samaritans or zip up your man suit and move on...."
l was just explaining the title, only thought it was a cool name for a threat. Someone asked what it meant. l dont need help. |
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I get it - I don't know why so few do. You're hurting, you are projecting it outward to protect yourself while you process the pain, and with quite a poetic if ill-advised choice of words - it makes sense to me, people on here do a lot worse. You sounds quite measured to me, I hope the catharsis helps and you heal well. |
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"I get it - I don't know why so few do. You're hurting, you are projecting it outward to protect yourself while you process the pain, and with quite a poetic if ill-advised choice of words - it makes sense to me, people on here do a lot worse. You sounds quite measured to me, I hope the catharsis helps and you heal well."
What a sweetheart |
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"All complimentary I hope
As if
That slur incurs another walnut whip and an extra rum. I shall cash in soon.
l will be waiting "
Only if you promise to write nice things in the loo about me. |
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"All complimentary I hope
As if
That slur incurs another walnut whip and an extra rum. I shall cash in soon.
l will be waiting
Only if you promise to write nice things in the loo about me. "
Only the best reviews x
A girl who with a pussy that will melt around a cock x |
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"All complimentary I hope
As if
That slur incurs another walnut whip and an extra rum. I shall cash in soon. "
Bugger I'll keep my gob shut in future. So that's two walnut whips and two spicy rums, coming your way |
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