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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not always.
I was seriously obese at one point in my life and partners would tell me they don't mind as they liked a woman with curves.
Those that did mind and were honest with me? Well, I appreciate it. At first it was hard to hear but after some self reflection and going from a size 28 to a 16, I'm thankful to those who did mind and they matter to me. |
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"Not always.
I was seriously obese at one point in my life and partners would tell me they don't mind as they liked a woman with curves.
Those that did mind and were honest with me? Well, I appreciate it. At first it was hard to hear but after some self reflection and going from a size 28 to a 16, I'm thankful to those who did mind and they matter to me. "
If someone tell you that he/she prefers bigger woman, would get back to size 28? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not always.
I was seriously obese at one point in my life and partners would tell me they don't mind as they liked a woman with curves.
Those that did mind and were honest with me? Well, I appreciate it. At first it was hard to hear but after some self reflection and going from a size 28 to a 16, I'm thankful to those who did mind and they matter to me. "
Well done for loosing so much weight  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Not always.
I was seriously obese at one point in my life and partners would tell me they don't mind as they liked a woman with curves.
Those that did mind and were honest with me? Well, I appreciate it. At first it was hard to hear but after some self reflection and going from a size 28 to a 16, I'm thankful to those who did mind and they matter to me.
If someone tell you that he/she prefers bigger woman, would get back to size 28? "
No, because it's not healthy to me. I like being able to shop where I want and wear most clothes. I like my figure as it is currently and I like my health ; being able to run and dance and all sorts of things without being out of breath. And the energy I have now is amazing compared to a few years ago. |
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over a year ago
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't."
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find. |
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find."
*different |
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By *eliWoman
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find."
Do you mean those who don't judge you are the ones that matter, those who do, don't? |
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find.
Do you mean those who don't judge you are the ones that matter, those who do, don't? "
I mean that those who mind about certain aspects of my life, or don't like my pictures or attitude etc, they don't matter because I wouldn't be meeting them. |
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find.
*different"
It's the first part that I don't like. Everyone matters, even those that do mind. Opinions and personal tastes and preferences are valid even if they are not for me or my type. |
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find.
*different
It's the first part that I don't like. Everyone matters, even those that do mind. Opinions and personal tastes and preferences are valid even if they are not for me or my type."
But surely strangers on a website don't matter personally to you if they aren't going to play any part of your life? |
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find.
*different
It's the first part that I don't like. Everyone matters, even those that do mind. Opinions and personal tastes and preferences are valid even if they are not for me or my type.
But surely strangers on a website don't matter personally to you if they aren't going to play any part of your life? "
They don't matter to me, but they do matter to someone
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those that mind don't matter. Those that don't mind do matter.
Such a true saying on here, and in life in general don't you think.."
You mean..
"Do you like scat?"...  |
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find.
*different
It's the first part that I don't like. Everyone matters, even those that do mind. Opinions and personal tastes and preferences are valid even if they are not for me or my type.
But surely strangers on a website don't matter personally to you if they aren't going to play any part of your life?
They don't matter to me, but they do matter to someone
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Well obviously, that's a no brainier, I was talking about personal to me. |
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"Nope. It's just a trite saying that sounds clever and profound but isn't.
It can be so true to a lot of difference scenarios in life, and it's especially relevant on Fab I find.
*different
It's the first part that I don't like. Everyone matters, even those that do mind. Opinions and personal tastes and preferences are valid even if they are not for me or my type.
But surely strangers on a website don't matter personally to you if they aren't going to play any part of your life?
They don't matter to me, but they do matter to someone
Well obviously, that's a no brainier, I was talking about personal to me."
Aah I see. I can get a bit literal at times.  |
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