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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the fab way, I understand.

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

Human nature I guess ...I'll never understand it. Live and let live I say x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's the fab way, I understand. "

So to fit in you have to argue the toss with a new name and make them feel shit?

Wow...just wow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice tits OP

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op,not everyone who uses the forums are like this.Some could start a row if they were on their own,just post on the things you like and ignore posts that get antsy quickly.

Enjoy

Miss

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?"

It's those fucking Morris Dancers again, isn't it? Bells and sticks and ribbons

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Nice tits OP "
hello, tic-Tac

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keep smiling OP

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nice tits OP hello, tic-Tac

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi op,not everyone who uses the forums are like this.Some could start a row if they were on their own,just post on the things you like and ignore posts that get antsy quickly.

Enjoy

Miss"

Thanks for that x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

People are very friendly in here, lots of people in here know each other well.

Accusing all of us of not being nice isn't sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nice tits OP hello, tic-Tac

Haha

It's very much... if your face fits mentality though....my point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"People are very friendly in here, lots of people in here know each other well.

Accusing all of us of not being nice isn't sexy

I'm sure there are some friendly people. ..I was unaware id accused everyone!

Ah lovely place x

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I think it's just the nature of a forum - which is a place where people exchange ideas. I noticed you've had this issue before.

Some people are going to disagree on ideas, others might agree with that. I also think that people are prone to sarcasm and mockery at times because that's how they would respond in the real world.

I think if a group of us were put in a room, we wouldn't all get on - especially not when discussing some of the the things that are raised on here.

I prefer a honest poster rather than a facade as you can read the difference in the voice and it reads poorly.

Some people on here are naturally friendly OP ; engage with those people if you want and you'll find it more welcoming.

Not everyone is as cuntish as I am so try joining in on a few threads.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Nice tits OP hello, tic-Tac

Haha

It's very much... if your face fits mentality though....my point! "

I don't fancy him!

it was an example of me being friendly to a stranger. Even friendlier him being a bloke and all.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"People are very friendly in here, lots of people in here know each other well.

Accusing all of us of not being nice isn't sexy

I'm sure there are some friendly people. ..I was unaware id accused everyone!

Ah lovely place x"

"Why can't people be friendly in here" unless I'm confused we're all people in here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't fancy him! "

Sure you don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's quite a mix of people on here. Some are polite, respectful and kind, some aren't. It's best to ignore the comments of the dicks and enjoy the company of the rest. And just have fun

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By *ornyStew77Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

"There's quite a mix of people on here. Some are polite, respectful and kind, some aren't. It's best to ignore the comments of the dicks and enjoy the company of the rest. And just have fun

This ????????????

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't fancy him!

Sure you don't

Not chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im almost always nice

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you see a post that you think is abusive you should report it please. Don't stand by and watch it happen, regulars or not, we all know how to behave.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

I'm nice.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

If the forums stopped being the place that people come to moan and bitch about other Fab members and grandstand their angst. It would be a nicer kinder place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I enjoy the forums and one nothing more than a good debate. I'm outspoken and don't just follow the crowd, but that to me is a positive thing. I'm always friendly and polite and can take banter. Unfortunately not everyone is the same as me, but then again it would maybe be boring reading if we all agreed.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

A) Nice is often boring

and

B)Have you been on any other internet forums? They are much the same.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have been a member of various internet forums at one time or another covering a number of different topics and the same character types and traits, as well as sniping, goading and accusations of cliques have cropped up across all of them regardless of the subject matter.

Beat way to deal with it is ignore the bad stuff as much as possible and get out of them what YOU want to get out of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If you see a post that you think is abusive you should report it please. Don't stand by and watch it happen, regulars or not, we all know how to behave.

I ""lurk"" a lot and the reason I do so is because it feels so nasty...I know a lot are nice on here...but...there does seem to be a few nasty folk...in my opinion.

I will continue to report.

Thanks though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A) Nice is often boring

and

B)Have you been on any other internet forums? They are much the same. "

I'd far rather br boring...as you put it...than an arse!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?"

I can be friendly . I can prove it too.

Fancy a fuck?

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?"
can't stand it, its been bad since last summer, im not on here as much because of it..cant see that its funny or attractive..

but its a great filter and if you are horny, its like a cold shower..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No need to be nasty I agree but the over the top arse licking I find even more nauseating at times.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk? can't stand it, its been bad since last summer, im not on here as much because of it..cant see that its funny or attractive..

but its a great filter and if you are horny, its like a cold shower.."

I'm quickly looking through profiles that are 6mth and less.

Wait a minute?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find the forum a friendly place for me to be who I am, but I don't look for trouble. There have been moments when it wasn't but those that were more confrontational than the situation warranted don't bother me now. I avoid the drama and the bitching and enjoy the bits I get involved with. I guess I could be accused or being boring but frankly I don't give a hoot

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

There has always been this overwhelming desire to be part of something that drives some of the most awful behaviour. Individuality is rare and when it is owned, people on the whole stand out for all the right reasons.

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

but its a great filter and if you are horny, its like a cold shower.."

have to agree with this

there is a bad vibe on here at times but in my opinion its just a bi product of some very unhappy people venting on here .

most of the time I'm sure they don't even know there pushing a negative nasty vide .

posts that are asking for help seems to be where this type of thing mainly shows up .

its like they have to kick someone who's down because it makes them feel good bit like the bully kicking a dog for kicks.

deeply unhappy powerless people attacking others because it makes them feel powerful which in turn makes then feel better about themselves .

sad really but it is what it is .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There has always been this overwhelming desire to be part of something that drives some of the most awful behaviour. Individuality is rare and when it is owned, people on the whole stand out for all the right reasons.

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,"

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're not all bad some of us are just pervs that like cwtches

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary."

Yup

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary.

Yup

I think its been pretty bad the last couple of weeks tbh,people arguing for the sake of it etc.

Miss

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By *ewrocksWoman over a year ago

button moon

I don't think that a group of people who share a point of _iew are ganging up or showing pack mentality. They just agree on a particular subject. Doesn't mean they will agree on the next topic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary.

Yup

I think its been pretty bad the last couple of weeks tbh,people arguing for the sake of it etc.

Miss"

No they're not

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary.

Yup

I think its been pretty bad the last couple of weeks tbh,people arguing for the sake of it etc.

Miss

No they're not

Ha ha that made me smile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My one experience of being mobbed on here was when I had the temerity to suggest there was a mob mentality at times. A sniff of blood and then in for the kill. Needless to say I was mobbed and vilified for it. I'd never suggest such a thing now though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My one experience of being mobbed on here was when I had the temerity to suggest there was a mob mentality at times. A sniff of blood and then in for the kill. Needless to say I was mobbed and vilified for it. I'd never suggest such a thing now though

Attack! Attack!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary.

Yup

I think its been pretty bad the last couple of weeks tbh,people arguing for the sake of it etc.

Miss"

Well what else am i supposed to do for ten minutes?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Attack! Attack!

I have protection now.

Cave Canem!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary.

Yup

I think its been pretty bad the last couple of weeks tbh,people arguing for the sake of it etc.

Miss

Well what else am i supposed to do for ten minutes? "

Only ten mins?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm always nice, it's just some people don't get my sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I'm always nice, it's just some people don't get my sense of humour

Maybe I can get away with that. It won't hurt to try.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The pack mentality is horrid.

OP's can apologise multiple times for a poorly worded or judgement thread but it never stops the stampede..,,

I saw this recently on here. The poor OP had apologised more than once for his opening post but still more and more people had a go at him. It was nasty and completely unnecessary.

Yup

I think its been pretty bad the last couple of weeks tbh,people arguing for the sake of it etc.

Miss

Well what else am i supposed to do for ten minutes?

Only ten mins?

Alright. 20!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm always nice, it's just some people don't get my sense of humour

Maybe I can get away with that. It won't hurt to try. "

Can't hurt

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm bad, I'm very bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm bad, I'm very bad

You are

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I'm bad, I'm very bad

You are

I know I just can't help myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?"

Because it is social media and people think they can be incredibly rude from the safety of their computer. It is a bit like swearing at other car drivers from the safety of your own.

These people live in a little bubble and forget that we can see into it.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Nice tits OP hello, tic-Tac

I was gonna say that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only say on here what I'd say to someone face to face ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?

Because it is social media and people think they can be incredibly rude from the safety of their computer. It is a bit like swearing at other car drivers from the safety of your own.

These people live in a little bubble and forget that we can see into it."

There's never any need to be verbally abusive or swear at anyone in the forums. I've been on the receiving end. Not that I let it get to me but I just think it's childish pathetic behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?"

Social skills

Some people have them and lots don't

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By *edylogosMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Whilst I agree that this place can be cliquey and horrible at times. It's the internet! Sorry but you lot could quite happily call me every name under sun and it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

As it happens I'm a grown bloke, therefore knowing I could is enough. People will always be like this on forums as it gives them a platform, my ethos is this. If you wouldn't say it to the person face to face in the pub don't bother saying it at all.

I suspect a lot of people giving the abuse wouldn't say s**t in real life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?

Because it is social media and people think they can be incredibly rude from the safety of their computer. It is a bit like swearing at other car drivers from the safety of your own.

These people live in a little bubble and forget that we can see into it.

There's never any need to be verbally abusive or swear at anyone in the forums. I've been on the receiving end. Not that I let it get to me but I just think it's childish pathetic behaviour."

I have to argree, there is no need for for groups attacking a single person.

If you have issues with some, take them else where and sort them privately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only say on here what I'd say to someone face to face ..."

I think this is why no one will meet me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whilst I agree that this place can be cliquey and horrible at times. It's the internet! Sorry but you lot could quite happily call me every name under sun and it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

I suspect a lot of people giving the abuse wouldn't say s**t in real life "

I never say anything on here that I wouldn't say face to face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

but its a great filter and if you are horny, its like a cold shower..

have to agree with this

there is a bad vibe on here at times but in my opinion its just a bi product of some very unhappy people venting on here .

most of the time I'm sure they don't even know there pushing a negative nasty vide .

posts that are asking for help seems to be where this type of thing mainly shows up .

its like they have to kick someone who's down because it makes them feel good bit like the bully kicking a dog for kicks.

deeply unhappy powerless people attacking others because it makes them feel powerful which in turn makes then feel better about themselves .

sad really but it is what it is ."

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

Own them made me genuinely laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't people be friendly in here, instead of the regulars...well some... ganging up on folk?"
BBW thread is good hun friendly

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By *edylogosMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

Own them made me genuinely laugh. "

Perhaps it's was the wrong phrase to use, however I stand by the overall nature of the message, you have to admit there are a few who think they're Jonny big spuds on here who really need taking down a peg or 3

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By *edylogosMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Whilst I agree that this place can be cliquey and horrible at times. It's the internet! Sorry but you lot could quite happily call me every name under sun and it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

I suspect a lot of people giving the abuse wouldn't say s**t in real life

I never say anything on here that I wouldn't say face to face. "

That's fine, in fairness I respect people who are to the point and upfront. I don't like the ones who smile to your face but stab you in the back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

Own them made me genuinely laugh.

Jonny big spuds made me chortly

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

Own them made me genuinely laugh.

Jonny big spud???

Who he?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

Own them made me genuinely laugh.

Oh, I like it. Just reminds me of the sort of thing I'd have yelled down ventrilo to my guild during a raid.

Yes, there are. I'm a bit of a so and so to most people apart from those I like. In real life I am actually more of an outspoken gobshite but I try and be good on here for the most part. I just can't be arsed with a facade though.

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By *edylogosMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

"In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

Own them made me genuinely laugh.

Oh, I like it. Just reminds me of the sort of thing I'd have yelled down ventrilo to my guild during a raid.

Then don't pander to the facade, I mean I've mellowed as I've gotten older. In my younger days I would of been banned within an hour. I'm still very to the point, however I will calm it down as I know most people aren't built like me and take it all to heart.

That being said, I look forward to the day when I fellow fourumite decides to try and take a liberty. That's will be a good day, as they literally will be ripped a new arse hole

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In fact if I had more time and the inclination I would happily own a fair few of the so called regulars who like to dish out abuse, or overly kiss ass.

Own them made me genuinely laugh.

Oh, I like it. Just reminds me of the sort of thing I'd have yelled down ventrilo to my guild during a raid.

That being said, I look forward to the day when I fellow fourumite decides to try and take a liberty. That's will be a good day, as they literally will be ripped a new arse hole

Nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The bitter pill of silence never fails

Fab longevity for sure

have a good day

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

To the OP. all forums are the same I jave found but the mods do try and put a stop to it on here, even if they get abuse for banning people. The best thing for everyone is to report anything that you think a mod has missed and it will be dealt with that way instead.

lol @ Jonny big spuds further up

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