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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time. |
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"We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time."
Checks to see if I'm blocked. Lol
It annoys me that blocked people can see your forum posts too!! |
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"We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time."
Very rarely but yes...maybe two or three times in two years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i couldn't care less. never blocked anyone, except one person who thought it was ok to spam we with event info after i expressed no interest in their events. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I do smile at the forum declarations of blocking.... like they expect the blockee to publicly break down and beg for forgiveness in the hope of a lick of their fanny or cock |
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By *SPrincessWoman
over a year ago
Nowhere near you |
Nah. I've only ever blocked two people. I'd never spoken to them, they might be lovely, but they were constantly posting updates about each other, like every half hour or so, and it was doing my head in to see them in the local updates all the time  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I never block as a result of the forums (unless it's a counter block. Tit for tat) However the private notes feature gets utilised. A lot. "
Only fairly recently discovered the Private Notes feature and it's a great tool which I really should use more. Don't tend to block off the forums either, although have been sorely tempted at times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its certainly not to annoy them of whatever but if we are certain we would not want to meet them its an easy way of not coming across their profile strangely I have not used the notes bit of the site.
I was not assuming everyone blocks those they have no interest in either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, nobody interests me enough to block them. If they are a tit, I can ignore them.
If people block me, I don't give it a nano second of thought. It's cool 
^ What this man said "
Works for me too , what they said  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time."
I don't get the mentality of blocking as a pre-emptive action . yes I read forum post and think never in a month of Sundays ,but I don't block them because to do so would be a act of narcissistic per potions after all what evidence to I have of there interest in me as a possible fuck .
nun what's so ever ego people you me no one is that irresistible to the point that everyone and there mother wants to meet and fuck them . |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Nope, not blocked any forumites, my memory is pretty good for an old fart so stands me in good stead.
As said you get a feel for people & their ethics (sometimes) & sometimes like a magnet it draws you in, other times it pushes you away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't block from forum posts because it is simply general discussion and chat. I don't assume that forum users want to meet me, if they interact with me via forum discussion then they are interested in my words, nothing else.
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"No I don't block from forum posts because it is simply general discussion and chat. I don't assume that forum users want to meet me, if they interact with me via forum discussion then they are interested in my words, nothing else.
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Exactly and well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it as a filter, but only to make notes on a user, which normally states "married" or "in relationship". Having this enables me to avoid that person when/if they message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block some people who post on the forums, mostly women, although women can't send me messeges anyway. It's a brilliant filter and stops me getting messeges from people i have no interest in hearing from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't take any of it that seriously......  "
Me neither but I have blocked loads of people on the forums however it isn't because of what they say in here |
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"No I don't block from forum posts because it is simply general discussion and chat. I don't assume that forum users want to meet me, if they interact with me via forum discussion then they are interested in my words, nothing else.
Exactly and well said "
I second that. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"No I don't block from forum posts because it is simply general discussion and chat. I don't assume that forum users want to meet me, if they interact with me via forum discussion then they are interested in my words, nothing else.
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This entirely. I don't understand why people assume it's a personal interest when it's a forum. |
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"No I don't block from forum posts because it is simply general discussion and chat. I don't assume that forum users want to meet me, if they interact with me via forum discussion then they are interested in my words, nothing else.
Exactly and well said
I second that. "
Yes, but I do take note of what's said by whom. I have seen statements made that make me never want to be in the same room as that person! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm blocked by a few on the forum. Mainly men who might be worried because I'm bi. I don't block unless someone is right royal pain in the arse and for that they have to be messaging me, I'd never block on the basis of forum posts it doesn't really make any sense for me, unless they send a private message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love the arrogance of people blocking you thinking you'd even be interested in them in the first place. But childish really. But no loss either side tbh"
I'm not arrogant because i block forum people. I generally block them so i don't get nasty messeges sent to me because of something i have written on the forum, not because i think they might want to meet me (although i have had that happen many times). I am not childish either. Just sensible. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time."
yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do smile at the forum declarations of blocking.... like they expect the blockee to publicly break down and beg for forgiveness in the hope of a lick of their fanny or cock"
me too!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never block as a result of the forums (unless it's a counter block. Tit for tat) However the private notes feature gets utilised. A lot.
Only fairly recently discovered the Private Notes feature and it's a great tool which I really should use more. Don't tend to block off the forums either, although have been sorely tempted at times."
I love the private notes feature use it a lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love the arrogance of people blocking you thinking you'd even be interested in them in the first place. But childish really. But no loss either side tbh
I'm not arrogant because i block forum people. I generally block them so i don't get nasty messeges sent to me because of something i have written on the forum, not because i think they might want to meet me (although i have had that happen many times). I am not childish either. Just sensible."
I was referring to the ops opening statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do smile at the forum declarations of blocking.... like they expect the blockee to publicly break down and beg for forgiveness in the hope of a lick of their fanny or cock
me too!
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I wish there was some feature that tells us who's blocked us on the forum, so they don't end up having a moan or reporting because you replied to them on a thread. I never know when anyone's blocked me, because I never look at anyone's profiles, so when they declare they've blocked me so can leave them alone, how am I meant to know I'm not psychic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should not judge over a few words! Tony x"
Some people say you shouldn't judge over peoples looks. So if you can't judge someone for their words, and you can't judge someone for their looks, how the fuck are you supposed to decide who to fuck? Or should you just fuck anyone that asks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had one abusive private message from the forum posts I make; maybe because only men of a certain age are usually allowed to mail me. "
Neither have I, I've had private messages from forum posts from people I've never seen post on the forums but the messages have never been nasty or abusive. The opposite in fact |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I've not had one abusive private message from the forum posts I make; maybe because only men of a certain age are usually allowed to mail me.
Neither have I, I've had private messages from forum posts from people I've never seen post on the forums but the messages have never been nasty or abusive. The opposite in fact "
Although in the interests of balance I do currently have filters in place. But when I didn't that was my experience. |
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"We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time."
I totally do this all the time. That is why I avoid the kiss, fuck, avoid threads, because I can't see anyone else's profile ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had one abusive private message from the forum posts I make; maybe because only men of a certain age are usually allowed to mail me. "
I've had very few since i blocked all women and couples from messeging me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only block people whom I do not wish to be associated with. I wouldn't block a Forumite for challenging my opinion on something, it's too petty. Messages I receive from Forumites are mainly lovely... just a couple of spikey ones but it's no problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love the arrogance of people blocking you thinking you'd even be interested in them in the first place. But childish really. But no loss either side tbh
I'm not arrogant because i block forum people. I generally block them so i don't get nasty messeges sent to me because of something i have written on the forum, not because i think they might want to meet me (although i have had that happen many times). I am not childish either. Just sensible."
That's one of the reasons why I block. I'm not egotistical enough to think people are going to contact me because they want to meet me, but that's not the only reason people contact me. It takes a second to make sure they can't. It's a tool of the site, and I use it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway. "
I don't know if they will. But if they're not going to message me anyway then it wouldn't bother them, so it really doesn't matter if I have. And sometimes they may have done, and it means I don't have to read it in the first place. I've got no doubt that most of the people I've blocked don't know I've blocked them, but if there was never going to be interaction between us then why would it matter that I have? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway.
I don't know if they will. But if they're not going to message me anyway then it wouldn't bother them, so it really doesn't matter if I have. And sometimes they may have done, and it means I don't have to read it in the first place. I've got no doubt that most of the people I've blocked don't know I've blocked them, but if there was never going to be interaction between us then why would it matter that I have?"
It's entirely your call, as to who you block. I think it's pointless, myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway.
I don't know if they will. But if they're not going to message me anyway then it wouldn't bother them, so it really doesn't matter if I have. And sometimes they may have done, and it means I don't have to read it in the first place. I've got no doubt that most of the people I've blocked don't know I've blocked them, but if there was never going to be interaction between us then why would it matter that I have?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love the arrogance of people blocking you thinking you'd even be interested in them in the first place. But childish really. But no loss either side tbh
I'm not arrogant because i block forum people. I generally block them so i don't get nasty messeges sent to me because of something i have written on the forum, not because i think they might want to meet me (although i have had that happen many times). I am not childish either. Just sensible.
I was referring to the ops opening statement"
I tend to block people as I said I have no interest in usually for something they have said that is either racist or discriminative.
Its nothing to do with if they disagree with my opinion or anything else. I think I have probably only blocked about 5 people. As someone pointed out the notes feature earlier I may use that instead. My point was purely about using the forums as an extra filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time."
Very much. I don't think I have any forum users blocked though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do smile at the forum declarations of blocking.... like they expect the blockee to publicly break down and beg for forgiveness in the hope of a lick of their fanny or cock"
The people who wield their blocking power like a sword and then declare their kills.
I bet they have a little ceremony when pressing the button. |
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"We spend a fair bit of time browsing the forums and frequently end up blocking a few that we are not interested in knowing let alone meeting.
Was just wondering how many others use the forum and end up using it as a filter at thesame time."
I do this as it's the main feature I use. |
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"I do smile at the forum declarations of blocking.... like they expect the blockee to publicly break down and beg for forgiveness in the hope of a lick of their fanny or cock
The people who wield their blocking power like a sword and then declare their kills.
I bet they have a little ceremony when pressing the button."
I dont usually realise I have been blocked until someone tells me they have blocked me, usually announcing it on the forums. That is another type of attention seeking .... oh well, happy to be of service . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us"
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else  |
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Wouldnt have even thought about it. If someone want to disagree on the forums i'll just put forward my point and leave it for them to put theres. That's what discourse is about, and hopefully from that we all learn something. If someone goes to the block button over that I think I might have won somewhere along the line... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else "
I'm none of those, and I don't feel an outcast. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else
I'm none of those, and I don't feel an outcast. "
You're special.... you have a boob pic |
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else "
Haha, someone noticed .... thanks. Now I am going to stop kissing ass .... something about you reminds me of my ex .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else
Haha, someone noticed .... thanks. Now I am going to stop kissing ass .... something about you reminds me of my ex .... "
Black American guy.... they are millions of us |
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else
Haha, someone noticed .... thanks. Now I am going to stop kissing ass .... something about you reminds me of my ex ....
Black American guy.... they are millions of us"
Yeah, but unlike others, I don't think they all look the same act the same or have the same attitude.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else
I'm none of those, and I don't feel an outcast.
You're special.... you have a boob pic "
Ah, but they are in a bra |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else "
Don't mention the 'clique' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else
I'm none of those, and I don't feel an outcast.
You're special.... you have a boob pic
Ah, but they are in a bra "
Boobs are boobs ...... I'm a simple man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway. "
That is my thought too. I'm also thinking that for the fear of receiving an abusive message then they must have posted something they thought was not called for and may result in one. Seems perculiar to me  But that said I keep everything in the forums, never been the one to message another forum poster first. |
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway.
That is my thought too. I'm also thinking that for the fear of receiving an abusive message then they must have posted something they thought was not called for and may result in one. Seems perculiar to me But that said I keep everything in the forums, never been the one to message another forum poster first. "
Try posting on squirting or gushing .... I have been accosted at a social because I questions someone's comments about bi men on the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have never blocked anybody
Me also....... what would the forums become if we all agreed about everything?
Sometimes we can get some awfully rude messages though ... or maybe its only us
Well I'll tell you what you guys are doing wrong
Strike 1 - you guys are a interracial couple that met on here and are in love , so the racists people hate you
Strike 2 - your husband is a bi black man , so the homophobic and racist people hate you
Strike 3 - you're not part of the forum clique, speak your mind and don't kiss ass , so the forum police , ass kissers. And clique hate you
So to fit in around here just be like everyone else
I'm none of those, and I don't feel an outcast.
You're special.... you have a boob pic
Ah, but they are in a bra
Boobs are boobs ...... I'm a simple man "
Yes, I noticed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway.
That is my thought too. I'm also thinking that for the fear of receiving an abusive message then they must have posted something they thought was not called for and may result in one. Seems perculiar to me But that said I keep everything in the forums, never been the one to message another forum poster first.
Try posting on squirting or gushing .... I have been accosted at a social because I questions someone's comments about bi men on the forums. "
A lot of people read these but never post, I was suspended from a club because of some fabicide on a thread when I was inexperienced. |
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway.
That is my thought too. I'm also thinking that for the fear of receiving an abusive message then they must have posted something they thought was not called for and may result in one. Seems perculiar to me But that said I keep everything in the forums, never been the one to message another forum poster first.
Try posting on squirting or gushing .... I have been accosted at a social because I questions someone's comments about bi men on the forums. "
I pass by the squirting/gushing threads now, only so many times you can read the same stuff and see so many differing opinions.
I've spoken to people at clubs/socials about forum posts/comments, would never bring up anything that could cause an argument though. I guess I'm at that stage, or past that stage, where I can accept everyone has different beliefs/opinions and unless something can be proved with quantifiable evidence there's no point bringing it up. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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I don't take the forums too seriously and very rarely block from here. It is just easier to smirk at some people's comments, but have no one warrants a block from us.
However if I received a nasty personal message, either from here or in general then yes I would block. If it was particularly nasty/derogatory towards us then the user would also be reported.
We are just here for fun, and if it no longer became fun then we would just delete our profile, but continue going to clubs xxxxx Suzi
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"I would never preempt an abusive message by blocking. How does anyone know someone is going to message them, even if you are having a disagreement. Moreover, an abusive message wouldn't bother me anyway.
That is my thought too. I'm also thinking that for the fear of receiving an abusive message then they must have posted something they thought was not called for and may result in one. Seems perculiar to me But that said I keep everything in the forums, never been the one to message another forum poster first.
Try posting on squirting or gushing .... I have been accosted at a social because I questions someone's comments about bi men on the forums.
I pass by the squirting/gushing threads now, only so many times you can read the same stuff and see so many differing opinions.
I've spoken to people at clubs/socials about forum posts/comments, would never bring up anything that could cause an argument though. I guess I'm at that stage, or past that stage, where I can accept everyone has different beliefs/opinions and unless something can be proved with quantifiable evidence there's no point bringing it up. "
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