We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.
I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.
We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc.  |
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"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.
I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.
We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "
If somebody insisted on filming i just wouldn't meet them |
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over a year ago
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I'm a complete hypocrite about this. I will NEVER let anyone film me. However, we do like to film some of our meets. We don't insist on it, though. We just ask if they're ok with it and if they say yes, game on.
Its been pretty hot and getting to look back on various meets is pretty horny.  |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.
I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.
We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "
Have enjoyed taking pictures and videos but only with someone I trust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are not comfortable with anything a potential meet wants or 'insists' happens then surely that meet is not for you.
Move on and find people who respect what you are also wanting |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've had it asked a few times and it's a quite simple no from me as you don't know what will happen to it. There's only one person on this planet who has a few videos of me and I trust them a huge amount. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.
I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.
We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "
Problem is. Amir Kahn apparently has a movie out. Who can you trust?
And I've just shown your post to the guy sat next to me in work.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm a complete hypocrite about this. I will NEVER let anyone film me. However, we do like to film some of our meets. We don't insist on it, though. We just ask if they're ok with it and if they say yes, game on.
Its been pretty hot and getting to look back on various meets is pretty horny. "
Yep. This. I know I won't bung the footage online or not protect it. I can't vouch for anyone else in that respect regardless of how much I like and/or trust them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We film most of our meets . If I (Mrs ) was meeting one on one and someone said they didn't want to film then I would decline the meet as part of the turn on for us if for Mr to watch it after . If the meet was with both of us they said no to filming we'd happily not film.
The footage is just for us (actually I don't even watch it) , will never get shared with anyone else . But of course people who meet us only have our word for that I guess |
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"We film most of our meets . If I (Mrs ) was meeting one on one and someone said they didn't want to film then I would decline the meet as part of the turn on for us if for Mr to watch it after . If the meet was with both of us they said no to filming we'd happily not film.
The footage is just for us (actually I don't even watch it) , will never get shared with anyone else . But of course people who meet us only have our word for that I guess "
Does this result in you losing alot of potential meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.
I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.
We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "
I wouldn't meet with anyone who "insisted" on doing anything that I was not comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We film most of our meets . If I (Mrs ) was meeting one on one and someone said they didn't want to film then I would decline the meet as part of the turn on for us if for Mr to watch it after . If the meet was with both of us they said no to filming we'd happily not film.
The footage is just for us (actually I don't even watch it) , will never get shared with anyone else . But of course people who meet us only have our word for that I guess
Does this result in you losing alot of potential meets?"
One since we joined |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't meet with anyone who "insisted" on doing anything that I was not comfortable with."
Is the right answer.
We only film stuff with people we trust 100%. Just not worth the risk otherwise. |
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"We've come across a few people who want to meet but insist on filming it. We understand that may be for themselves or even absent partners but we're not exactly comfortable with it for various reasons.
I'm wondering what experiences (good or bad) others have had with meeting people who insist on filming at meets.
We've got visions of worst case scenarios of appearing on amateur porn sites etc. "
Whilst we love filming ourselves (and would love to film us with others) we would never, ever insist on it.
If people are insisting then they've got no respect for you and we wouldn't trust them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't meet anyone who insists on filming.
We would have to trust people a lot for that.
We have taken pictures as you can see from our profile but we have met the couple various times and have become great friends.
Eve. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet where i played with the wife while he took pics. was assured my face wouldn't be in any pics. had access to camera after if i wanted to check it
It all comes down to what you are comfortable with if it doesn't feel right you can always say no. Then if they don't like it its their problem |
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