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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right folks time to be honest whats more important in your search for a meet personality or looks

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Nice looks but with a good personality is the usual way forward.

Though I have a Fab chum who is not my type at all but his personality won me over

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks attract me to begin with but I won't fuck someone with the personality of a potato.

H x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

But I don't want to fuck a dull hottie either so...

Unfairly fussy I know.

I meant actual fussy here, not like I'm fussy but I'll fuck you anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

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truthfull at least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both."

Choose one!!! No one has both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personality.

but tbh i am probably gonna have a blow out soon with some hot guys. not done it for ages now and need to get it out of my system.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Both."
u need to choose u can't be a fence sitter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks attract me to begin with but I won't fuck someone with the personality of a potato.

H x

I've been told I'm more of a turnip.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Both.

Choose one!!! No one has both

Oh but they do *dreamy sigh*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has to be a combo of both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both.

Choose one!!! No one has both

Oh but they do *dreamy sigh*"

Lies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want both but if I have to answer straight I'd say looks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both.

Choose one!!! No one has both

Er, hello. Hilarious dreamboat here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks attract me to begin with but I won't fuck someone with the personality of a potato.

H x

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Both.

Choose one!!! No one has both

Oh but they do *dreamy sigh*"

Welcome to the Pleasuredome!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality. I like a laugh in bed. Although they have to have decent teeth.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"I want both but if I have to answer straight I'd say looks

I don't give a good first impression looks wise so I have to win them over with my personality, It hasn't worked that often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks attract me to begin with but I won't fuck someone with the personality of a potato.

H x

I've been told I'm more of a turnip."

Turnips are much more interesting!

H x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I read lots of profiles where they say personality more important than looks but then u send a pic and guess what your personality ain't getting u a meet looking like that so why not just say yep I need to be physically attracted to you

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By *ire_thornMan over a year ago

no comment

I find my personality seems to shine better than my looks haha... I talk to a gal on here.. I definitely do not match the description of what she is looking for. But I'm polite respectful and really don't mention much about sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks get my attention initially but personality with keep or loose it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both.

Choose one!!! No one has both

Er, hello. Hilarious dreamboat here."

Thanks Jim, it's kind of you to say so.

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By *haneleviMan over a year ago

Kidderminster

Both, personality out shines looks more for me though personally.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Personality. I like a laugh in bed. Although they have to have decent teeth."

Oh God yes

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By *r havin a laughMan over a year ago

Innerleithen

Personality deffo, done the looks thing, boy that didn't work numerous times. I'm a prankster most of the time and laughter is the biggest aphrodisiac for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality is what has gotten me where I am today!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'll take what I can get.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'll take what I can get."

Looks and personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm now wondering who's being totally honest in the personality camp lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think personality is more important if your looking for something more than just sex

If it's just a fuck not so, I've been to clubs and made a move on a guy based in his looks and not even spoken to him

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A bit of both to be honest. But personality is key for me. Sex is amazing when you actually get on!

I do find it hard though on here to show my personality... much more of a taker face to face x

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

She said funny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality is more important to me. I like a bit of banter with my meets. Never been comfortable doing a fuck and run... Though looks also play a part. As the above poster said though, If they don't have good teeth, that's the ultimate deal breaker, no matter how wonderful their personality may be.

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By *reygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

thank fuck blessed .good looking funny and loaded .lots of money helps ha ha ha

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"I'm now wondering who's being totally honest in the personality camp lol"

All of them hopefully...more hot ones for me

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

You can have a sympathy fuck I suppose

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

She said funny.

Bitch

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

You can have a sympathy fuck I suppose

I'll take it and give you the best 5 seconds you've ever had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ugly ones with no personality

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Both.

Choose one!!! No one has both

Oh but they do *dreamy sigh*

Lies."

See just above you ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no either or....answer for this one here. For us, the looks pique our interest and we'll say hello. The personality then has to keep us interested or we'll move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's no either or....answer for this one here. For us, the looks pique our interest and we'll say hello. The personality then has to keep us interested or we'll move on. "
so initially u go for looks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both important you need to initially fancy somebody but the sex is rubbish unless there is a connection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ugly ones with no personality

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

You can have a sympathy fuck I suppose

I'll take it and give you the best 5 seconds you've ever had

Be longer than my last sexual encounter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ugly ones with no personality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's no either or....answer for this one here. For us, the looks pique our interest and we'll say hello. The personality then has to keep us interested or we'll move on. so initially u go for looks "

On here yes, because of the visual nature of the site, it's all we have to go on to discover that initial spark.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality over looks for me. I don't care how attractive you are physically, if you're just plain ugly on the inside.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both..however..if I don't find a man or woman attractive then they don't have the time needed to win me over with their personality. So looks is more important I guess.

Eve. X

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

You can have a sympathy fuck I suppose

I'll take it and give you the best 5 seconds you've ever had

Be longer than my last sexual encounter.

Well I hate to brag but fuck I'm good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesnt matter as it is just a shag, not a marriage

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

You can have a sympathy fuck I suppose

I'll take it and give you the best 5 seconds you've ever had

Be longer than my last sexual encounter.

And you said I rocked your world

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks...but if the personality doesn't come barrelling through knocking looks out then it's all worthless

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Think myself it's looks grabs your attention and personality that keeps it there

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

A nice combination of both please, looks will count for a lot but personality is what will keep me wanting more.

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By *rs DCouple over a year ago

far

Neither for me, just the size of there cock tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A nice combination of both please, looks will count for a lot but personality is what will keep me wanting more."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been 'lucky' enough to sleep with 3 truly devastatingly stunning women...only one had a personality and I'm only in contact with one to this day

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Damn

You can have a sympathy fuck I suppose

I'll take it and give you the best 5 seconds you've ever had

Be longer than my last sexual encounter.

And you said I rocked your world

Nope just my suspender belt

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Neither for me, just the size of there cock tbh "

Well at least you're honest

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By *reygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

want 2 twenty year old thai females to help count water proof money in jacuzi bath not bothered about personality long as they fuck like rabbits .now how shallow is that .ha

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Let's be honest here you see someone you find attractive and you think 'I'd like to chat with them and see what they're like' not 'he's/she's a bit of a munter I think I'll chat to them anyway and see if they're nice and I can overcome their munteryness enough to want to shag them'

Looks for me but if they are a dullard I'm off!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality mostly but ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks are the key to the draw....and sometimes it is empty

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Let's be honest here you see someone you find attractive and you think 'I'd like to chat with them and see what they're like' not 'he's/she's a bit of a munter I think I'll chat to them anyway and see if they're nice and I can overcome their munteryness enough to want to shag them'

Looks for me but if they are a dullard I'm off!!

So that's what fuck right off ya troglodyte ment

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

I think on here a guy needs looks whereas in real life he's got a better chance as he can show his personality.

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By *D40Couple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Right folks time to be honest whats more important in your search for a meet personality or looks "

Personality & a face that dont need a paper bag

Mrs _d40

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Neither for me, just the size of there cock tbh "

It looks like am in here

Oh wait you was talking about small cocks wasn't you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks are the key to the draw....and sometimes it is empty"

Same can be said for people that are generally not deemed as very attractive. Not everyone who's average looking has a sparkling personality. Same for the attractive ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think on here a guy needs looks whereas in real life he's got a better chance as he can show his personality.

I think that's true

As somebody stated above you wouldn't message a person on here you didn't find attractive to see if they had a nice personality where as in real life you get to find out people's personalities and maybe find an attraction you didn't see at first

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"I think on here a guy needs looks whereas in real life he's got a better chance as he can show his personality.

I think that's true

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Looks are the key to the draw....and sometimes it is empty

Same can be said for people that are generally not deemed as very attractive. Not everyone who's average looking has a sparkling personality. Same for the attractive ones. "

Absolutely

I've met some stunning looking women and in minutes they have turn ugly as sin when they've opened there mouths and the opposite has also happened

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All full of shit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met a few ladies in clubs who i have messaged on here had no response then played in the club. Some people aren't that photogenic, single guys should probably try getting professional shoots done but funny how all the photographers on here won't meet them

the forums are an ideal platform to show personality though so here is good to try catch someone's eye.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both.

Choose one!!! No one has both

Er, hello. Hilarious dreamboat here.

Thanks Jim, it's kind of you to say so."

You're welcome.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Personality come first every time for me although physical attraction comes a close second..frankly you could be the most beautiful person in the world but without a spark of personality and be unattractive to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All full of shit"

Thanks for posting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks are the key to the draw....and sometimes it is empty

Same can be said for people that are generally not deemed as very attractive. Not everyone who's average looking has a sparkling personality. Same for the attractive ones. "

Isn't that essentially what i said? Point being looks often make you more inquisitive but are no guarantee.

(I like to think theres more to human beings than a two by two grid with only four outcomes )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality come first every time for me although physical attraction comes a close second..frankly you could be the most beautiful person in the world but without a spark of personality and be unattractive to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks (something interesting) to attract. Personality to keep that attraction.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Jumps up and down waving my arms shouting I've got a good personality

I'll await my message box to fill up with pm's lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All full of shit"

Strong personality

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I'd say looks as its just sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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lies, lies! you would still want to fuck them. Good try though white knight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know what? I'm going to put it out there and say both. They need to be holding hands skipping through the grassy fields together...

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

lies, lies! you would still want to fuck them. Good try though white knight

Nothing white knighty about that at all...and not sure how you can say it's lies without knowing me

To use an example outside of Fab (to protect the innocent

) Naomi Campbell is widely acknowledged as a beautiful person physically...I personally find her ugly because of the way her personality comes across and would have no interest in having sex with her whatsoever and that's the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lies, lies! you would still want to fuck them. Good try though white knight

Nothing white knighty about that at all...and not sure how you can say it's lies without knowing me

To use an example outside of Fab (to protect the innocent

She's awful.....I'd love to fuck her

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By *reygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

"want 2 twenty year old thai females to help count water proof money in jacuzi bath not bothered about personality long as they fuck like rabbits .now how shallow is that .ha"
had a great responce to this request .only small problem they all from thailand .and a one eyed tv from manchester called one hung low..who delivers pizza on a moped.wears an eye patch [on his good eye] just crashed on the hagley road

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality every time, but has to be physical attraction too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever"

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"I'd say looks as its just sex"

There might be some conversation involved at some point though, as much as I agree with you I'd prefer there not to be awkward moments between the sex. It's nice if you can have a laugh too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

. "

Both reveling in the wonderfully high standards we've set ourselves and our stubborn reluctance to cave in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

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I'll come and sit beside you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you read verification that said " great personality... had a great time with him/her but ugly as sin "

I don't believe you can look at a someone's personality initially.... So it's always looks first personality a very distant second.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I'd say looks as its just sex

There might be some conversation involved at some point though, as much as I agree with you I'd prefer there not to be awkward moments between the sex. It's nice if you can have a laugh too!"

Agreed. All this said I once shagged one of 'the dreamboys' literally the worst sex ever and was like talking to a toddler.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you read verification that said " great personality... had a great time with him/her but ugly as sin "

I don't believe you can look at a someone's personality initially.... So it's always looks first personality a very distant second."

i have got veris that say i have a great personality, and look better than my pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lies, lies! you would still want to fuck them. Good try though white knight

Nothing white knighty about that at all...and not sure how you can say it's lies without knowing me

To use an example outside of Fab (to protect the innocent

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OK I believe you

Margot Robbie could say anything and I would still want to bang her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say looks as its just sex

There might be some conversation involved at some point though, as much as I agree with you I'd prefer there not to be awkward moments between the sex. It's nice if you can have a laugh too!"

not everybody is bothered about talking or hanging around after they have cum

I've met a few guys who have got dressed as soon as they have cum

I suppose it depends on what your looking for, if you have no interest in engaging in conversation i guess personality dont matter

If your looking for more than a cum and run it does

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Personality first. A great personality may get me to the point of wanting to meet up with someone but if I'm not attracted to them then it won't go any further than chatting.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Personality is what attracts me to someone first, looks are what keep me so. I don't always go for conventionally attractive people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently "

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First encounter. _ looks.

To continue meeting _ personality.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

lies, lies! you would still want to fuck them. Good try though white knight

Nothing white knighty about that at all...and not sure how you can say it's lies without knowing me

To use an example outside of Fab (to protect the innocent

OK I believe you

Margot Robbie could say anything and I would still want to bang her

She could call my mum every bad name under the sun and I still would

I have never found Naomi Campbell that attractive but using another Woman as a example, Victory Beckham, Some people say she is as dull as dishwater but I would love to fuck her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you read verification that said " great personality... had a great time with him/her but ugly as sin "

I don't believe you can look at a someone's personality initially.... So it's always looks first personality a very distant second."

Yes you can. Personality can come across in a persons initial message.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever"

You rang

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks for the initial attraction but then I tend to get to know them a bit before meeting.

No one wants to fuck a fuckwit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you read verification that said " great personality... had a great time with him/her but ugly as sin "

I don't believe you can look at a someone's personality initially.... So it's always looks first personality a very distant second.

i have got veris that say i have a great personality, and look better than my pics.

I think a lot depends on what you're using this site for... if you're playing away from home , I think you're more into personalities and building friendships.

If you're using this purely as a NSA sex site , looks are very very important to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lies, lies! you would still want to fuck them. Good try though white knight

Nothing white knighty about that at all...and not sure how you can say it's lies without knowing me

To use an example outside of Fab (to protect the innocent

OK I believe you

Margot Robbie could say anything and I would still want to bang her

She could call my mum every bad name under the sun and I still would

I have never found Naomi Campbell that attractive but using another Woman as a example, Victory Beckham, Some people say she is as dull as dishwater but I would love to fuck her "
There is some honest men on here

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Right folks time to be honest whats more important in your search for a meet personality or looks "

I got to know my OH through his personality, via some messages ... but I didn't really know him, just had an idea of what he was like. Who knows how realistic is was then .... fed by his pictures on here. By the time we met, the good looks and personality had become one. I go for the look of the cock myself, as does he ....

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"Looks for the initial attraction but then I tend to get to know them a bit before meeting.

No one wants to fuck a fuckwit.

An ugly fuckwit or a good looking fuckwit?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

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By *ed wineMan over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Personality, of course. I don't care too much about physical imperfections. I am not perfect at all...

However, I can't bear mediocrity...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

So that's looks, personality, intelligence and animal husbandry....the potential pool gets smaller and smaller

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you read verification that said " great personality... had a great time with him/her but ugly as sin "

I don't believe you can look at a someone's personality initially.... So it's always looks first personality a very distant second.

i have got veris that say i have a great personality, and look better than my pics.

I think a lot depends on what you're using this site for... if you're playing away from home , I think you're more into personalities and building friendships.

If you're using this purely as a NSA sex site , looks are very very important to you."

everyone seems to end up NSA by default anyway while they're busy trying to conquer their next conquest. think i'm gonna go back to fucking gym fit hot guys.

although i'm talking to someone very intelligent and that's even hotter, i do fancy him as well. we're going to do some educational courses together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Yes..whilst judging everyone who walks past until we are old and grey (er*)

*in my case

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally "

Nail..Head...Hit!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

We're getting very close to just being knitting street drinkers with incredibly high standards here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Yes..whilst judging everyone who walks past until we are old and grey (er*)

*in my case"

Ahhhh, people watching, a favourite pastime of mine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

We're getting very close to just being knitting street drinkers with incredibly high standards here"

If we've been drinking though, it may tempt us to drop our outlandish standards..

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally "

That's all well and good but in my case she could have the best personality in the world, But if I don't find her attractive am sorry but I won't be sleeping with her, If that makes me shallow then so be it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Yes..whilst judging everyone who walks past until we are old and grey (er*)

*in my case

Ahhhh, people watching, a favourite pastime of mine

And people judging

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Seem to have stumbled in on a private conversation, feel like I am eaves dropping so I am off to bed.

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

We're getting very close to just being knitting street drinkers with incredibly high standards here

If we've been drinking though, it may tempt us to drop our outlandish standards..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

We're getting very close to just being knitting street drinkers with incredibly high standards here

If we've been drinking though, it may tempt us to drop our outlandish standards..

That's a good point...I'm going to cut down and only drink the 20% fortified wine...to maintain standards

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally

Don't think anyone is saying looks don't come into it...of course they do (for most anyway) but my point is without personality (and the resulting chemistry/connection) you could be the most physically attractive person alive and still hold no interest for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He has to have something to draw me in so I'd say looks but then the banter comes a close second a cheeky chappie is my fave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally

Totally this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

We're getting very close to just being knitting street drinkers with incredibly high standards here

If we've been drinking though, it may tempt us to drop our outlandish standards..

That's a good point...I'm going to cut down and only drink the 20% fortified wine...to maintain standards"

20% wine ????? I'd be on my back !

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Both. But if I like someone's personality I tend to find them attractive even if they're not conventionally good-looking so one follows the other.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally

Yes I get what you are saying take Cheryl Cole, She either makes poor choices in Men or she is a crank as all her x's cant be wrong, But what am saying is I would still fuck her

(disclaimer I don't know everything what's happened in her life and I'm probably wrong about her)

But I couldn't think of another example

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks to grab my attention, personality to keep it!

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By *reygorCouple over a year ago

birmingham

"want 2 twenty year old thai females to help count water proof money in jacuzi bath not bothered about personality long as they fuck like rabbits .now how shallow is that .hahad a great responce to this request .only small problem they all from thailand .and a one eyed tv from manchester called one hung low..who delivers pizza on a moped.wears an eye patch [on his good eye] just crashed on the hagley road "
free pizza on the inside lane hagley road you got to pick it up yourself.it looks good but may have had the personality swashed out of it .any takers ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

We're getting very close to just being knitting street drinkers with incredibly high standards here

If we've been drinking though, it may tempt us to drop our outlandish standards..

That's a good point...I'm going to cut down and only drink the 20% fortified wine...to maintain standards

20% wine ????? I'd be on my back !"

Good...are you intelligent;)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i add intelligence in to the mix ... i like my good looking and wonderfully charming women to be smart as fuck too ...

Single.....forever

Good one! Intelligence too. Think I'll be joining you on the single step

I'll come and sit beside you

Join us....we're knitting currently

Oh I can provide the wool....straight from the sheeps back, literally

Are we now the knitting step?

Can we bring alcohol too....d*unk in charge of needles may be dangerous mind

We're getting very close to just being knitting street drinkers with incredibly high standards here

If we've been drinking though, it may tempt us to drop our outlandish standards..

That's a good point...I'm going to cut down and only drink the 20% fortified wine...to maintain standards

20% wine ????? I'd be on my back !

Good...are you intelligent;)"

Of course, I have all the right attributes

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally

Yes I get what you are saying take Cheryl Cole, She either makes poor choices in Men or she is a crank as all her x's cant be wrong, But what am saying is I would still fuck her

(disclaimer I don't know everything what's happened in her life and I'm probably wrong about her)

But I couldn't think of another example

I hear you but have to disagree if, as I think you're saying, you'd have sex with someone who has no real personality and therefore no chemistry or connection is present?

Been there done that and have been left feeling totally meh about the whole experience. Whereas when there's a spark between you and a physical attraction it makes for a much more pleasureable experience all round.

I think the actual answer to this one is that the two go hand in hand and (for most people at least) can't be treated separately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't quite describe what I mean, but....

Looks ~ It's a persons look which is made up partly from their personality, it can shine through creating an attractive overall package.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't quite describe what I mean, but....

Looks ~ It's a persons look which is made up partly from their personality, it can shine through creating an attractive overall package.

Will you stop describing me lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

https://youtu.be/MwZrr3f-NjQ

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both. But if I like someone's personality I tend to find them attractive even if they're not conventionally good-looking so one follows the other."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

That's so cynical. You can't judge all men on your own behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't quite describe what I mean, but....

Looks ~ It's a persons look which is made up partly from their personality, it can shine through creating an attractive overall package.

Perfectly put

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Personality all the time for me .if you cant have a laugh ans fun with some one then what's the point, there has to be a link mentally

Yes I get what you are saying take Cheryl Cole, She either makes poor choices in Men or she is a crank as all her x's cant be wrong, But what am saying is I would still fuck her

(disclaimer I don't know everything what's happened in her life and I'm probably wrong about her)

But I couldn't think of another example

I hear you but have to disagree if, as I think you're saying, you'd have sex with someone who has no real personality and therefore no chemistry or connection is present?

I think the actual answer to this one is that the two go hand in hand and (for most people at least) can't be treated separately."

But with some Women the animal instinct just kicks in

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

Well, that's quite a pile of nonsense (I'm refraining here).

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

I beg to differ, not all men are that shallow.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

That's so cynical. You can't judge all men on your own behaviour."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm very demanding. I want wit, intelligence and looks.

That's probably why I'm single.

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By *hysoseriouslyMan over a year ago

Kent

Haha.. even if we are hilarious?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks I'm clever enough for the both of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies"

Well, I've offered my vagina willingly to men who've said no. How does that work for your theory?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

Jesus christ i must be a proper munta because ive been turned down loads and i have a vagina

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

I beg to differ, not all men are that shallow."

Stop trying to look good in front of us! You know you just want a quim that'll allow you access.

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By *jb_1980Man over a year ago

limerick

"Looks. Sorry to be shallow but I don't want to be fucking the ugly funny ones

Looks too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

Well, I've offered my vagina willingly to men who've said no. How does that work for your theory?"

come and sit in the munta corner with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Looks for the initial attraction but then I tend to get to know them a bit before meeting.

No one wants to fuck a fuckwit.

An ugly fuckwit or a good looking fuckwit? "

A hot fuck wit might just get away with it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

Well, I've offered my vagina willingly to men who've said no. How does that work for your theory?

come and sit in the munta corner with me

I will, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And the bollocks start to flow, right out of the Fab textbook of bullshit

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By *workoutMan over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

I beg to differ, not all men are that shallow.

Stop trying to look good in front of us! You know you just want a quim that'll allow you access."

I'm quite selective I'll have you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone hasn't had their cocoa tonight...

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"And the bollocks start to flow, right out of the Fab textbook of bullshit"

If you stop posting am certain it will cease to flow. There might be correlation there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im a fussy bugger so bit of both - if we dont rub along well though no matter how gorgeous you are it aint gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And the bollocks start to flow, right out of the Fab textbook of bullshit"

You haven't answered my question. I do believe looks and having a vagina count for more than the forums are willing to admit, but I, and a number of women, have been turned down by men on this site. It's not a textbook of bullshit. There are men on this forum who could corroborate my claims, at least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If your being offered two vaginas and one is prettier and less used, thats going to be the winner. Doesn't mean your a munter just in too much competition, if you take the other options away you'll soon be first choice again.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

I think sinning got it right, they run hand in hand through the field. The only difference between all of us is which one is in front and how long their arms are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

Or perhaps you shouldn't judge all men based on your own personal standards. Just like I wouldn't presume to know all women's minds just because I happen to be one

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"And the bollocks start to flow, right out of the Fab textbook of bullshit

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And the bollocks start to flow, right out of the Fab textbook of bullshit

Same here."

i would say all women have at some point been turned down

nobody is for everybody

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sod looks, just put a paper bag over their heads or get them to fuck you doggy style so you don't have to look at them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If your being offered two vaginas and one is prettier and less used, thats going to be the winner. Doesn't mean your a munter just in too much competition, if you take the other options away you'll soon be first choice again."

Oh, good! I'm not a munter, I just need to cut out the competitiont so my more used vagina has a chance. Brilliant

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Women look for looks because they have a catalogue to choose from

Men look for a willing vagina, because we're men

Any man who says different is just trying to look good in front of the ladies

Or perhaps you shouldn't judge all men based on your own personal standards. Just like I wouldn't presume to know all women's minds just because I happen to be one

. "

This!!

If wanting something more than just looks from someone I want to get intimate with is "just wanting to look good in front of the ladies" then I'm guilty as charged but looking for the Last Leg bullshit buzzer as I type!!

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