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So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this "
no.
you're not wrong for anything you feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this "
No not at all - we're all human beings who have feelings |
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this
no.
you're not wrong for anything you feel."
Thanks Hun x |
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No you aren't wrong...the same thing happened to me, I fell in love x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all. How you feel is how you feel x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No babe at the end of the day if you see someone often enough you develop some feelings and attachments to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he was your only playmate then maybe this site isn't for you.. if he wasn't then you get out there and have some fun girl!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a repeat thread, no?
Seems like this must have really gotten to you!
Aa we say in Wales, "poor dab" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You feel how you feel. Feelings can creep in unawares, and sometimes it is a bit of a shitter when you lose someone who was great in bed.
But onwards and upwards now. |
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I actually didn't think I felt for him but spent the night in tears since ... oh well onwards n upwards n not going to let my feelings get in the way again! X |
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this "
No, we don't have any control over our initial feelings about anything. We do have control over how we act on them though.
Hope you feel better soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this
no.
you're not wrong for anything you feel.
Thanks Hun x "
no worries.
this place can be cold and heartless and maybe make you think you shouldn't care but if you feel something you can't help that.
i've had feelings for a few guys despite fucking a lot of regulars at once at times so nobody was exclusive. even considered a relationship with one guy because my feelings for him were really strong and he said he felt the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've already got a thread running about this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Repeat thread  "
this ones differently worded, to get different replies probably. |
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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago
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"Repeat thread
this ones differently worded, to get different replies probably."
So it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Repeat thread
this ones differently worded, to get different replies probably.
So it seems"
 yeah. |
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I didn't see your other thread but are you 'wrong' to feel sad? No. You can't help how you feel. My ex was a total and utter shit but I still have days where I miss him three years later. Our feelings and emotions are part of what makes us who we are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Repeat thread
this ones differently worded, to get different replies probably.
So it seems
yeah."
Glad im not the only cynic^
^awaits a "you must be a callous bastard" put down from the saintly brigade |
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"Repeat thread
this ones differently worded, to get different replies probably.
So it seems
yeah.
Glad im not the only cynic^
^awaits a "you must be a callous bastard" put down from the saintly brigade"
You callous cynical bastard 
Love Saint perdita  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Repeat thread
this ones differently worded, to get different replies probably.
So it seems
yeah.
Glad im not the only cynic^
^awaits a "you must be a callous bastard" put down from the saintly brigade
You callous cynical bastard
Love Saint perdita "
Phew *wipes sweat from brow*
I knew I wouldn't be let down  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this "
Not wrong for feeling sad, we all sometimes catch the feels momentarily. It's how we deal with them that matters. With an FB the cards were on the table from the start. He obviously has history with her and it's a romantic rather than sexual convenience one. Dwelling on it won't help you and/or make him change his mind if he's on here and sees the threads you've started. Sometimes moping in private is the best way. Or having a rebound fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this "
It depends on how you looked at your relationship if it was purely just sex or was it more?? Unfortunately it seems like you let your feelings get in the way, how long was you fb's for?? And at least he's been honest with you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just get another one. Man it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, you're not wrong OP. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obvs you feel sad but plenty more guys out there. If he wants to get back with ex his choice. Also his loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did you not get enough sympathy/attention on the first thread? 
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this "
Well its perfectly natural and i think hes a damn fool letting you go tbh x |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this
no.
you're not wrong for anything you feel.
Thanks Hun x "
find another FWB there are plenty of us out there that would like a fwb,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're not wrong for feeling sad if that's how you feel. It's how you respond to those feelings that's within your control. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after many months of fun my fb has called it a day to get back with his ex.. am I wrong for feeling sad about this "
Had this happen to me Boxing Day
I was upset about it
But I'm happy for him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no your not wrong.. its human nature, might be wrong but you have feelings.
was having an affair with a lady a couple of years ago and she was scared of getting caught.
was walking round in a daze for week.
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This happened to me. I was devastated. She gave THE best blow jobs on the planet.
I'm still beside myself |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
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Of course not wrong......natural, would be strange after a quick bunk up but after a time pesky feelings get involved.  |
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"You're not wrong for feeling sad if that's how you feel. It's how you respond to those feelings that's within your control. "
Exactly this. Whatever our feelings our behaviour is within our control. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Accepting that everyone is different, the situation I have always found hard to resolve (although I accept others are able to do so) is this. Putting aside the situation of married and established couples, how do you tell if someone finds you special and has deep emotions for you, if you are both swinging? |
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Since you already have one thread running, I'll close this.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/592410#top |
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