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over a year ago
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"So I just found out that my ex of 2 years just got her lickher licence with her childhood best friend!
Bruh I hope I wasn't that shit in bed... "
So what you're saying is, that women only become lesbians because they have shit sex with men?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I just found out that my ex of 2 years just got her lickher licence with her childhood best friend!
Bruh I hope I wasn't that shit in bed...
So what you're saying is, that women only become lesbians because they have shit sex with men?
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Surely if that were the case there would be far more lesbians,,,,,  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are you happy for her?  "
I'll always be happy for her but you know, she's an ex for a reason. Just makes me wonder how long this has really been going on for and why I was never a part of it! I've got great camera skills  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you happy for her?
I'll always be happy for her but you know, she's an ex for a reason. Just makes me wonder how long this has really been going on for and why I was never a part of it! I've got great camera skills "
I'm glad to hear you are happy for her.
What's in the past, is in the past and should be left there.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I just found out that my ex of 2 years just got her lickher licence with her childhood best friend!
Bruh I hope I wasn't that shit in bed...
So what you're saying is, that women only become lesbians because they have shit sex with men?
No but it ain't doing my self-esteem any favours 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought the op was talking about his ex opening a pub or off licence with her liquor licence. Lol"
Haha not quite! That wouldn't get me so riled up lol. Lickher licence is a quote from Training Day (awesome film, watch it!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahh, Question to ask is was she an unsure lesbian so tried you, who was shit so confirmed it for her or was she straight & you were shit so she turned?
Still, glad to see you are still smiling
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Afraid to say I think it was the latter because I was her first "meaningful relationship" whatever that means anymore. Obviously not that meaningful to her right!
If I'm not smiling then I'm crying and that would just ruin my mascara girl |
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"So I just found out that my ex of 2 years just got her lickher licence with her childhood best friend!
Bruh I hope I wasn't that shit in bed...
So what you're saying is, that women only become lesbians because they have shit sex with men?
No but it ain't doing my self-esteem any favours
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Why is your self esteem affected by something your ex is doing? Her sexuality and expression of it is about her, not you. I don't mean that harshly but women don't turn to other women because of men, they do it because they want to  .
Concentrate on now and the future. |
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No but it ain't doing my self-esteem any favours
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You are straight because you fancy women. Not because you once had sex with a man and you didn't like it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I just found out that my ex of 2 years just got her lickher licence with her childhood best friend!
Bruh I hope I wasn't that shit in bed...
So what you're saying is, that women only become lesbians because they have shit sex with men?
Surely if that were the case there would be far more lesbians,,,,, "
I would definitely be one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahh, Question to ask is was she an unsure lesbian so tried you, who was shit so confirmed it for her or was she straight & you were shit so she turned?
Still, glad to see you are still smiling
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Afraid to say I think it was the latter because I was her first "meaningful relationship" whatever that means anymore. Obviously not that meaningful to her right!
If I'm not smiling then I'm crying and that would just ruin my mascara girl"
Why can't it have been meaningful? Would you feel the same if she was with a man? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happened (is happening) to me. I'm happy for her, but it's still a bit confusing and is taking some coming to terms with. Life goes on. "
I don't have to understand why you have to 'come to terms with' the fact that your ex girlfriend fancies women? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happened (is happening) to me. I'm happy for her, but it's still a bit confusing and is taking some coming to terms with. Life goes on.
I don't have to understand why you have to 'come to terms with' the fact that your ex girlfriend fancies women?"
I think some men, my ex included, think everything we do is about them. Falling for a woman must say something about them. Couldn't possibly be nothing to do with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happened (is happening) to me. I'm happy for her, but it's still a bit confusing and is taking some coming to terms with. Life goes on.
I don't have to understand why you have to 'come to terms with' the fact that your ex girlfriend fancies women?"
She's not my ex, we're still married. The 'coming to terms' is based on the quite drastic change to a 25 year relationship. I'm certainly not complaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happened (is happening) to me. I'm happy for her, but it's still a bit confusing and is taking some coming to terms with. Life goes on.
I don't have to understand why you have to 'come to terms with' the fact that your ex girlfriend fancies women?
I think some men, my ex included, think everything we do is about them. Falling for a woman must say something about them. Couldn't possibly be nothing to do with them. "
Not at all. I'm not complaining. |
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"So I just found out that my ex of 2 years just got her lickher licence with her childhood best friend!
Bruh I hope I wasn't that shit in bed... "
Only conclusion that can be drawn is that not only were you shit, you were so utterly awful she's gone off all men forever 
Sorry to break the news, tough love and all that |
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"So I just found out that my ex of 2 years just got her lickher licence with her childhood best friend!
Bruh I hope I wasn't that shit in bed...
Only conclusion that can be drawn is that not only were you shit, you were so utterly awful she's gone off all men forever
Sorry to break the news, tough love and all that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes you probably are that bad or just that she lived a lie about being straight "
Lived a lie? Oh God! I can't wait for the day when outdated concepts about sexuality are done away with. Likewise gender stereotyping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The longest relationship I've ever had, she's now in a civil partnership with a woman she met after we broke up. I'm happy to sat that I've never once had so little self esteem that I assumed it was because I was a shit shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP have you considered heading to a local gay bar and seeing if you can pull a lesbian and turn her straight?
Disclaimer: the above us only sad so at leat one of the replies is on a level basic enough for you to relate to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP have you considered heading to a local gay bar and seeing if you can pull a lesbian and turn her straight?
Disclaimer: the above us only sad so at leat one of the replies is on a level basic enough for you to relate to "
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