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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No sex?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Damn us women

How dare we not fuck everyone that compliments us

Bitches the lot of us

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

You should repost that on the Thursday is rant day thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But if they had replied saying thank you you would have replied seeing that as an invite to start a conversation ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's bang out of order !

They are so ingrate with us men!

All we want is get our penis sucked, goddammit!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

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women for ya!! You go to the effort of a decent friendly message and they block ya, 2 mins to say sorry no thanks !! It dose my head in to sometimes lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Awwwwww poor you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And some fabbers complain about receiving mail that has been copied and pasted

Ah well, it's nearly the wknd

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How dare someone fail to be not interested in you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But if they had replied saying thank you you would have replied seeing that as an invite to start a conversation ?"
No I wouldn't if a women says no I move on to the next hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But if they had replied saying thank you you would have replied seeing that as an invite to start a conversation ?No I wouldn't if a women says no I move on to the next hahaha

But she hasn't said no at this point that's my point

Say thank you , they reply starting a conversation you then have to say your not interested (some women have 100s of messages and this would double message replies required )

Say thanks but not interested in one message woman gets called names and told she's up her own arse as the sender never asked to meet etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

women for ya!! You go to the effort of a decent friendly message and they block ya, 2 mins to say sorry no thanks !! It dose my head in to sometimes lol"

Bloody men. You email them back and say 'no thanks' and they reply with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

women for ya!! You go to the effort of a decent friendly message and they block ya, 2 mins to say sorry no thanks !! It dose my head in to sometimes lol

Bloody men. You email them back and say 'no thanks' and they reply with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'."

This! This is why I gave up being 'polite'...

And no response is considered no thank you if you read the FAQs

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance "

Not true! We do give decent guys a chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But if they had replied saying thank you you would have replied seeing that as an invite to start a conversation ?No I wouldn't if a women says no I move on to the next hahaha

But she hasn't said no at this point that's my point

Say thank you , they reply starting a conversation you then have to say your not interested (some women have 100s of messages and this would double message replies required )

Say thanks but not interested in one message woman gets called names and told she's up her own arse as the sender never asked to meet etc "
yea you are right there darlin, just gotta try not to take it to heart and be adult about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance "

I give everyone who messages me a chance.

It's just not my fault that the vast majority of them don't read my profile and self-select out before messaging...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance "

Don't let them know that!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

women for ya!! You go to the effort of a decent friendly message and they block ya, 2 mins to say sorry no thanks !! It dose my head in to sometimes lol

Bloody men. You email them back and say 'no thanks' and they reply with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'."
that's just childish, why would they message in the first place if that wasn't the case lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

I agree. I don't respect any woman that doesn't come running to my neck and call!

Nope I'm wrong. Now I've written it down. I sound like an arse hole.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance

I give everyone who messages me a chance.

It's just not my fault that the vast majority of them don't read my profile and self-select out before messaging..."
fair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance

I give everyone who messages me a chance.

It's just not my fault that the vast majority of them don't read my profile and self-select out before messaging..."
It's simple if a women finds you attractive!!! She will reply unless she's snowed under with messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

It happens a lot. Their loss. Lol.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

To make it fair for Men, Every 10 message should be a guaranteed reply, Every 15th a Bj and 20th a fuck,

Come on fab sort it out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you read their profile? If you people don't read our profile and even if they compliment us, their message is deleted.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

It happens a lot. Their loss. Lol. "

Yeah, their loss in not fucking someone they have no interest in. Definitely losing out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To make it fair for Men, Every 10 message should be a guaranteed reply, Every 15th a Bj and 20th a fuck,

Come on fab sort it out

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should make you pm mate I like your politics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems the beast is rattling his cage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can initially seem rude ,but u HV to realise that there are a zillion more men on here than women , they must get thousands of messages from horny monkeys like us . just keep on trying and make the most of it when u do get a reply .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

I try to reply to all mail. Should I tell men to get a fucking life when they ask to meet after I thank them? Or if they haven't read my profile and still message, even though they don't accommodate or live miles away?

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

"To make it fair for Men, Every 10 message should be a guaranteed reply, Every 15th a Bj and 20th a fuck,

Come on fab sort it out

I believe there is such a loyalty card scheme for platinum members.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Because of course all women are here simply to service whatever random men contact them, regardless of their preferences and availability.

Maybe the women who don't respond to your charming overtures *are* already busy getting a 'fucking' life? .... probably with people who actually understand what respect means.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To make it fair for Men, Every 10 message should be a guaranteed reply, Every 15th a Bj and 20th a fuck,

Come on fab sort it out

This is being pro active.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Because of course all women are here simply to service whatever random men contact them, regardless of their preferences and availability.

Maybe the women who don't respond to your charming overtures *are* already busy getting a 'fucking' life? .... probably with people who actually understand what respect means."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

I'd wager that if they block you They aren't really interested In gaining your respect lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's just totally wrong, it's vile how could anyone wishing that on someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

You make it sounds gender specific you guys do the same thing it's not just women.

People to use complimentary messages to get you chatting what's the point if they don't feel you can compliment back look at it as a timesaver.

And quite frankly you sound rude, so I'm sure if they see this post they're grateful for not replying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

Why do you send women compliments on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

Why do you send women compliments on here? "

I won't anymore,lesson learned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only reply to compliments if there's a face pic attached. I only want to chat with people that I am potentially interested in meeting.

I get several messages that give me a compliment, followed by "I have pics if you are interested", no I like talking to the invisible man, how am I meant to know if I'm interested when I haven't even seen a pic? Attach one with the initial message, if you want to find out if someone is interested, will make things a lot easier.

I reply to all messages with a face pic attached, I've had a few abusive messages back which I turn a blind eye to, luckily I don't believe all men will have the same attitude so it doesn't prevent me from carrying on replying, however it can be up to 4 days later.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe the women who don't respond to your charming overtures *are* already busy getting a 'fucking' life? .... probably with people who actually understand what respect means.

that comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

Why do you send women compliments on here?

I won't anymore,lesson learned."

So it wasn't purely to brighten their day then?

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

Who´d have thought it ?

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/592118

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By *ofia2014Woman over a year ago

Galashiels

"Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance "

ooooh wud give you one....... or two

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's nice to b nice Even if to say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They were probably men pretending to be couples /women or they just don't like people from Scotland....

Either way their loss ... god speed my friend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

Why do you send women compliments on here?

I won't anymore,lesson learned.

So it wasn't purely to brighten their day then?"

One should never give to receive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

women for ya!! You go to the effort of a decent friendly message and they block ya, 2 mins to say sorry no thanks !! It dose my head in to sometimes lol

Bloody men. You email them back and say 'no thanks' and they reply with 'I didn't want to fuck you anyway'.that's just childish, why would they message in the first place if that wasn't the case lol"

Because some people are dickheads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

Why do you send women compliments on here?

I won't anymore,lesson learned.

So it wasn't purely to brighten their day then?

One should never give to receive."

My point exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think we expect to much, and we are all guilty of it!! But i know for a fact If a women don't reply back or she deletes my message I'm not gonna crib about it and let it spoil my day lol life to short and there's plenty more pussy in the sea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

It happens a lot. Their loss. Lol. "

It's really not they weren't interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe the women who don't respond to your charming overtures *are* already busy getting a 'fucking' life? .... probably with people who actually understand what respect means.

that comment "

She lived miles away,I'm not that fucking desperate for sex,had nothing to do with that..

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

I bet Fraser did - he's gained an unpaid doorman...his flat will seem well posh now.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Why do you send women compliments on here?

I won't anymore,lesson learned."

Because two women didn't thank you for holding a door?

Let's hope that all the women on here don't go full lesbian because they get a couple of idiotic messages from men...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lf it was just complimentary then l agree with you. lf it was a proposition then you can't complain too much but l will say that there are many here that validate ANY behaviour from women and call it ''her choice'' and ''attraction is subjective''...yeah, we know that, but how does that give women licence to be nasty? Many here seem to think it does.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What should I say to the man who has complimented my boobs?

Thank you? And hope he doesn't carry on messaging, as I'm not interested in him.

Thank you and block?

Thank you, and sorry you're not what I'm looking for?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lf it was just complimentary then l agree with you. lf it was a proposition then you can't complain too much but l will say that there are many here that validate ANY behaviour from women and call it ''her choice'' and ''attraction is subjective''...yeah, we know that, but how does that give women licence to be nasty? Many here seem to think it does."

I thank complimentary messages. Every single one has then gone on to ask to meet. They don't compliment out of politeness.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/582252

OP, you should take the advice given by the OP of t above thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But if they had replied saying thank you you would have replied seeing that as an invite to start a conversation ?No I wouldn't if a women says no I move on to the next hahaha

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then the next ....then the next copy and paste ....Any more ideas ??

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

I used to always reply and say no thanks but I've found that on the whole it just leads to more messages. So yes I now often just delete but only block if someone becomes a pest. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Read all the answers...It wasn't about sex,or a meet..I was just being complimentary....I even opened Frasers door for 2 women..not one said thanks..

I take complimentary messages on here with a huge pinch of salt, they tend to be copy & paste ones dolled out to all & sundry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's nice to b nice Even if to say no thanks "

It is and I do it mostly tbh, but often left wondering why I bothered and understand why others don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/582252

OP, you should take the advice given by the OP of t above thread. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/582252

OP, you should take the advice given by the OP of t above thread.

Haha. Rumbled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return. "

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe the women who don't respond to your charming overtures *are* already busy getting a 'fucking' life? .... probably with people who actually understand what respect means.

that comment

She lived miles away,I'm not that fucking desperate for sex,had nothing to do with that.."

I understand where you coming from but I can get 10 at once in my inbox despite having some filters on

Your might be genuine but not all people they use them to drag you into time wasted conversations.

I send a smiley face back and they come back with is that all I get what am I meant to say couldn't stand your pictures or profile.

You have to look at it from both sides.

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

fella its time you took a brake in my humble opinion . why,,,,? well if your allowing the non actions of a complete stranger effect your mood you really are in trouble psychologically so best take a brake and remove ones self from the cause of the problem which is this site ,

if the problem persists after taking a brake seek specialist help as you obviously have deep routed issues that you may benefit from working through with professional help .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Have you never thought that you aren't what these women are looking for?

And that by blocking you it saves you from messaging them at some point in the future?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do you send women compliments on here?

I won't anymore,lesson learned.

Because two women didn't thank you for holding a door?

Let's hope that all the women on here don't go full lesbian because they get a couple of idiotic messages from men..."

I often get messages from men who say they are straight on their profile but tell me they are bisexual. Apparently they write straight on their profile to stop men they're not interested from messaging them.

So I often make the comment that perhaps I should change my profile to say that I'm gay to stop all the unsuitable men from messaging me...

That usually stumps them a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thank complimentary messages. Every single one has then gone on to ask to meet. They don't compliment out of politeness. "

Some do. I have given lots of compliments without asking or wishing to meet. That said I've not been blocked for giving them either.

That said I understand the cynicism entirely

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

If I send someone a compliment then I don't expect a reply. After all, it is just a compliment. If, however, I sent a compliment as a lure to further conversation then a lack of resppnse would mean they'd seen through my cunning plan. Their lack of response wouldn't make me sad, just burst my 'but I've been subtle' bubble and momentarily twinge my sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

if the problem persists after taking a brake seek specialist help as you obviously have deep routed issues that you may benefit from working through with professional help . "
that's from a specialist lol a lot on here I see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thank complimentary messages. Every single one has then gone on to ask to meet. They don't compliment out of politeness.

Some do. I have given lots of compliments without asking or wishing to meet. That said I've not been blocked for giving them either.

That said I understand the cynicism entirely

I haven't received one from you though

It's not cynicism, I'm speaking from experience. When I get a complimentary message, I have to think about how to answer, just in case I hurt the feelings of the person who sent it. It's not a case of saying thank you and there's an end, usually.

Obviously, if I like the look of the sender I'll compliment him back, hoping for a fuck

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

How do women know which complimentary messages have no ulterior motive attached and which ones do?

Answer - they don't .... so, if they're inundated with messages, chances are that even the apparently complimentary ones will get deleted if they're not interested in the sender, because, quite frankly, they literally don't have the time to respond.

And yes - many so-called compliments are generic, could, in theory have been sent to anyone and when you suspect that, suddenly don't seem quite so flattering ...

I appreciate compliments when I get them but have learnt the hard way that if I reply with thanks, at least 90% of senders take that as a green light to try and start chatting and, if I then make it clear I don't want to take things further, an unacceptable number of those then turn nasty. Funnily enough, I don't want to put myself through that ... not only is the whole pointless (if I'm not attracted) process consuming yet more time (for both parties), it's actually pretty unpleasant to be called all sorts of derogatory names or have nasty, even sick, fates wished upon you.

Whatever the content of the message this really does boil down to *everyone's* right to ignore and/or delete whichever messages they see fit - as per Fab rules. No one is entitled to a reply here - I've had messages ignored before, have had people with whom I'd had a long ongoing correspondence suddenly go UNLOS without a word - but such is the risk you take ... you never know what's going on in someone's real life and just have to accept it.

One thing's for sure though - people who display a sense of entitlement, who make sweeping generalisations about a whole group of people, who repeatedly put up negative posts and/or who are rude to other posters will invariably be damaging their Fab experience still further as there are a great many users - myself included - who use their contributions to the forum as a further filter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do try to respond to messages that have had some thought put into them with a face pic attached.

But I'm guilty of deleting messages that say "hi" or "nice tits"; one liners with no info and if you look at their profile there is zero info there!

As we are outnumbered, yes we probably do appear to control things but please consider, we can't answer nor meet everyone!

I guess it can be frustrating for men at times but just try to be patient, as getting angry achieves nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

And bruise your fragile ego

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thank complimentary messages. Every single one has then gone on to ask to meet. They don't compliment out of politeness.

Some do. I have given lots of compliments without asking or wishing to meet. That said I've not been blocked for giving them either.

That said I understand the cynicism entirely

I haven't received one from you though

Obviously, if I like the look of the sender I'll compliment him back, hoping for a fuck

Perhaps cynicism was the wrong word in your case, what I meant is I understand the general cynicism about compliments as they are two a penny on here and often taken with a pinch of salt.

I do appreciate your candid replies though

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England..."

Maybe as she was miles away and no chance of it going anywhere THATS why she never wasted time entering in to a pointless e mail exchange ?? As a female I can also assure you we are damned if we reply and damned if we don't !!

If we reply then must be looking to meet them If not we are up ourselves and have ego issues !! Let alone complaints about not responding quick enough !!God forbid we read a mail and then have to go and actually do normal life stuff ... we should reply instantly !!

I had a mail just yesterday looking to chat .I replied that they weren't what I was after . I got back a thanks for replying ,which I then just deleted .I revived mail straight away blasting me as fecking rude for deleting it!! Even when we do reply thats STILL not good enough . Maybe walk a mile in my heels op and you'll see exactly why some choose not to open any can of worms by replying .

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

Then maybe the next guy who slams a door in your face,while shopping,you won't expect him to say sorry.

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting"

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

if the problem persists after taking a brake seek specialist help as you obviously have deep routed issues that you may benefit from working through with professional help . that's from a specialist lol a lot on here I see "

you don't need to be a specialist its common sense in my humble opinion. come on someone random stranger who never asked you to message them doesn't respond to your message so what where's the problem ...?

there's isn't one...in my opinion the problem in my own opinion lays in the persons own mind in there own sense of worth entitlement. issues of there own making not of some one else's making,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting"

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology..."

That's entirely different isn't it.

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Op it's vastly different slamming a door in anyone's face, to not responding to a random message on a swing site lol.

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology..."

this answer should make you realise you need a brake from here fella , your not helping yourself when it comes to meets or responses to massages with a such a miserable attitude to life .

after all everyone's here for fun not agro or to meet a misery guts who moans about nothing . only my opinion fella trust me take a brake come back refreshed and then read your posts i bet you wont recognise yourself in them .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology...

this answer should make you realise you need a brake from here fella , your not helping yourself when it comes to meets or responses to massages with a such a miserable attitude to life .

This is such a typical servile response from men here. As if men need to change their behaviour in the hopes a woman will fuck them. What will the women think!?!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology...

this answer should make you realise you need a brake from here fella , your not helping yourself when it comes to meets or responses to massages with a such a miserable attitude to life .

This is such a typical servile response from men here. As if men need to change their behaviour in the hopes a woman will fuck them. What will the women think!?!?"

Sure, he can keep behaving like an aggressive, entitled dick and let us know how that goes for him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology...

this answer should make you realise you need a brake from here fella , your not helping yourself when it comes to meets or responses to massages with a such a miserable attitude to life .

This is such a typical servile response from men here. As if men need to change their behaviour in the hopes a woman will fuck them. What will the women think!?!?"

If a man realised his negative attitude was putting women off, and it wasn't his physical aspects, then changed to be positive, I would appreciate it.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hello Thursday.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

So OP, in the 3 months you have been on here you haven't bothered to read the site FAQs.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple over a year ago

manchester

Urm works both ways the Mrs was blocked last night when she stated she only met in clubs, and as he was unable to accommodate due to being married possibly it was a no thanks...block lol

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology...

this answer should make you realise you need a brake from here fella , your not helping yourself when it comes to meets or responses to massages with a such a miserable attitude to life .

This is such a typical servile response from men here. As if men need to change their behaviour in the hopes a woman will fuck them. What will the women think!?!?

Sure, he can keep behaving like an aggressive, entitled dick and let us know how that goes for him."

Agreed

sorry op but what exactly did you expect from the recipient of your compliment?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

Life's a bitch and so are us lot eh?

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By *ischief ManagedCouple over a year ago

manchester

"Mate women control fab they don't give decent guys a chance

Not true! We do give decent guys a chance

Tis true op seen it with my own eyes! X

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"It's a sad day when women block you,or delete a complimentary message,yet these same women expect respect...Never get mine,I'd say..it's best they get a fucking life...rant over..

Its a sad day when men compliment women expecting something in return.

Had nothing to do with expecting something in return,she lived in that foreign country called England...

No one owes you any responses on here and find that sense of entitlement off putting

If some guy slams a door in your face,next time your out shopping,don't expect an apology...

this answer should make you realise you need a brake from here fella , your not helping yourself when it comes to meets or responses to massages with a such a miserable attitude to life .

This is such a typical servile response from men here. As if men need to change their behaviour in the hopes a woman will fuck them. What will the women think!?!?"

where in my post do i say that....? no where .

lets look at this like adults moaning about things out of ones control I.E the actions or in this case non actions of a random individual is a waste of time for the simple reason that one is getting upset about something one has no control over .

why because one has invested emotions into ones search and allowed ones search to become a stick by which ones measures ones self esteem and started to rant about non actions because one is upset by a non action .

madness in my opinion best take a brake go out with ones true friends who's actions matter then return refreshed and in a more light hearted life loving mood .

happy people are more attractive than unhappy ones that's a fact one can not argue with if your unhappy with the actions of random strangers to the point where your allowing it to effect your nature vibe best to walk away until such times as such actions non longer effect you in that way .