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I think to cancel to go to swinger party
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This saturday it will be my first time to go to a real big swinger party. But I think to cancel to go there bc I think it will be very hard and shy for a man go alone . I don't have any idea about party like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just grab a drink and socialise, don't expect sex. Our first party we only had sex with each other as we were nervous. Just relax and chat to people, if you find that you feel a bit uncomfortable then leave. We love going to meet people and socialise just as much as we love the sex.
As above, you can get at least one verification from it too which is always a good thing. Who knows you may even make more swinging friends and could have someone or a couple to go to the next party with.
Good luck x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well drinking makes me more comfortable and more horny, so I guess it depends on what effect it has on you? You should feel comfortable but not overly confident and still be yourself I believe. Maybe just one drink when you get there to make you relax a bit?
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"This saturday it will be my first time to go to a real big swinger party. But I think to cancel to go there bc I think it will be very hard and shy for a man go alone . I don't have any idea about party like that "
....... get in there it's the best way of meeting people just be yourself, mingle with people chat and the rest will happen as the night progresses, don't expect too much early on in the night it usually takes someone to get the party started then it just gets better and better ..... remember your condoms and always smell nice hygiene is most important.... good luck and let me know how you got on. |
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"Just litle question do you think it will better if I go in time or litle late "
.... don't be the first to arrive but don't turn up late.... treat it just like a normal house party..
Arrive introduce yourself mingle chat and assess the situation.... you have already done the hardest bit by getting your invitation... relax and enjoy. |
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"I not smoke . But is very good idea thank u"
Hangout in the smoking area during the party , most people are friendly there and will talk to you and it's less noisy. |
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"If you don't go through with it you will regret it and never know what you have missed
Have a great night and hope you meet some lovelypeople......check out the lady who posted the above message surely she was made in heaven...... take her and everyone else's advice attend chat stay cool.... you will regret it if you don't!
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