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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It's pretty big news today, with the PM being questioned about the 22 month old put on plastic chairs to be treated as no bed was available.

I've had different experiences. Last year I went by ambulance to hospital and along with 4 other patients, was queuing in a corridor for over an hour. One lady was really elderly and shivering as it was cold. It felt pretty undignified too as we had no privacy there.

But my GP surgery have generally been spot on and I can't complain.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple  over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Hmm couldn't fault them when my late husband took ill. They did everything they could and treated him as utmost priority.

However now trying to get mental health care through CAMHS for my daughter... totally different. Long waiting lists to be seen and advised to go to a&e if the shit hits the fan

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My advice to anyone using the NHS these days is to get yourself informed about what your treatment should entail, then shout loudly for it otherwise you won't be heard. Did you ask for a blanket on the elderly women's behalf? Did you ask why the wait was so long? Without people taking the initiative things won't get better.

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By *nequeenslutWoman  over a year ago

rugeley

this tory government has deliberately and with extreme malice run down the nhs so that they and their cronies make vast amounts of money out of the mess I personally would have hunt and may flogged to death

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally I've never had a bad experience with the NHS. The odd longer than expected wait but let's be fair, you can't magic additional capacity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As somebody who works for the NHS i have private health insurance

I waited 15 years for an operation for my daugher and realised the only way we was going to get it was to pay for it myself

The NHS is greatly understaffed and underfunded so is there any wonder fuck ups happen

I will say one thing though 99% of the staff are brilliant, doing the best they can with what little they have, its the greedy fuckers who take profit out of the NHS instead of putting it back in that cause the problems yet its the staff that are in the firing line for abuse on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For all it's problems the service and care is generally excellent.

I had a back operation two years ago and cannot fault the process.

Part of the problem is people in hospital who should be at the GP's, people a the GP's who should go the the pharmacy.

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By *ENGUYMan  over a year ago

Hull

I was taken into hospital on Monday after paramedics reckoned I'd several possible health issues.

From entering to finally being discharged was a total of 5hrs 20mins, and in that time, had a range of tests done including X Rays. What was explained to me seemed a bit wishy washy but was advised to take Paracetamol and I'd be ok.

I returned home yesterday & saw my GP today. His reaction was several other explanations had not been tested for, let alone being given any medications to head off other medical possibilities. He's now sorting out a scan, follow up tests and appointments.

The hospital staff said they were busy but compared to previous weeks, the volume of patients there was a fraction of what they'd seen thru December.

Staff did their best, but I found there was too much emphasis of work being carried out by newly qualified nurses, or trainees; messages from patients weren't conveyed back to supervising medical staff and when I asked for an additional blanket because I was on a trolley bed in a draughty and cold corridor, it took 45 minutes to reach me (despite 2 more requests!). It was a passing chaplain who saw me shivering and raised the alarm.

The NHS is fine for Emergency and Crisis medical issues, but the day to day stuff just slows them down. Don't get me wrong, I have always been blessed with superb GP's and that has stopped me from queuing in hospital but Monday was an eye opener!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To answer the question I have never had anything but positive experiences with the NHS. The staff and service have always been professional and first class.

However if you remove all the secondary support structures like home helps, district community health care and social provision the NHS is the first port of call hence the current crisis. The cuts have gone to far and if we can afford a monarchy we can afford a properly funded health care system.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Our recent experiences have been horribly undignified for my mother and upsetting for the staff who are doing what they can.

They have put enormous stress on my father who is 90 and made my mother so terrified of going to hospital that when we had to call an ambulance on Monday she refused to go to hospital.

I don't in any way hold the NHS staff responsible for any of it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The NHS provides an excellent service, hats off to all the staff that work tirelessly under difficult circumstanes and with limited resources. They deserve our thanks and appreciation.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"To answer the question I have never had anything but positive experiences with the NHS. The staff and service have always been professional and first class.

However if you remove all the secondary support structures like home helps, district community health care and social provision the NHS is the first port of call hence the current crisis. The cuts have gone to far and if we can afford a monarchy we can afford a properly funded health care system."

Yes, we can.

I think Jeremy Hunt should do a week of nights in an accident and emergency unit followed by a week in a ward with elderly people in it.

And don't get me started on the utter indignity of calling elderly men or women with nobody to help them at home 'bed blockers'.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"The NHS provides an excellent service, hats off to all the staff that work tirelessly under difficult circumstanes and with limited resources. They deserve our thanks and appreciation."

They deserve proper funding and decent working hours. Thanks and appreciation only go so far.

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford

In my experience they're mostly excellent, that's down to the staff who will pull something out of nothing to get the job done.

However the lack of planning at the top is shameful and that's what leads to problems. The GP surgery isn't open for long enough so people go to A&E. Mental health is terribly underfunded so everyone else has to pick up the pieces. Elderly care is dreadful, the culture of dispensing pills is woefully wrong and I just want to give the top managers a good shake.

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By *ittleAcornMan  over a year ago

visiting the beach


"To answer the question I have never had anything but positive experiences with the NHS. The staff and service have always been professional and first class.

However if you remove all the secondary support structures like home helps, district community health care and social provision the NHS is the first port of call hence the current crisis. The cuts have gone to far and if we can afford a monarchy we can afford a properly funded health care system."

A better marker for what we can afford is, as Tony Benn said regarding nuclear weapons and their enormous costs, if we can afford to kill people, we can afford to look after them...

Or for that matter ridiculously low (or totally avoided) business taxes, or high-income earner taxes.

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By *rank n BettyCouple  over a year ago

Not meeting

We can't fault them. I dread to think how much Frank's treatment (which has been brilliant since diagnosis) would cost without them!! A 3 week stay in hospital, 2 or 3 PET scans (so far) at a cost of &1k each, consultant appointments, blood tests & nurse time, 6 sessions of Chemo & all drugs needed in between treatments. A stem cell transplant (harvest done) costs between £50k & £120k with a 3-4 week stay in hospital coming up.

If you're not happy with our NHS then you should complain to the politicians

JG x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Speak to any front line staff in the NHS and they'll tell you the same thing - there are huge underfunding and underresourcing issues across the when organisation and it us only the dedication of the staff many of whom constantly go above and beyond what is expected that keeping it going.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I blame the uneducated public for causing this mess. Blocking up A&E for things that are not an accident or emergency and going to see the doctor for trivial things. Then there's the amount of people who miss their appointments!

These kinds of things should incur a penalty.

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By *ittleAcornMan  over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I blame the uneducated public for causing this mess. Blocking up A&E for things that are not an accident or emergency and going to see the doctor for trivial things. Then there's the amount of people who miss their appointments!

These kinds of things should incur a penalty."

Certainly a factor, but it can't possibly be the whole story.

The fact it's virtually impossible to get a GP appointment in some places also comes into play.

All part of the same issue, underfunding/resourcing.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I blame the uneducated public for causing this mess. Blocking up A&E for things that are not an accident or emergency and going to see the doctor for trivial things. Then there's the amount of people who miss their appointments!

These kinds of things should incur a penalty."

Those things certainly play a part but don't let them deflect you from the real problem.

We had to call an ambulance to my mother because she couldn't get an appointment with her GP... Even an emergency one so her condition deteriorated.

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By *ndigo40Woman  over a year ago

secret town


"It's pretty big news today, with the PM being questioned about the 22 month old put on plastic chairs to be treated as no bed was available.

I've had different experiences. Last year I went by ambulance to hospital and along with 4 other patients, was queuing in a corridor for over an hour. One lady was really elderly and shivering as it was cold. It felt pretty undignified too as we had no privacy there.

But my GP surgery have generally been spot on and I can't complain. "

I work for the NHS

It's always the bad bits people want to see or read

What about the good bits?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"It's pretty big news today, with the PM being questioned about the 22 month old put on plastic chairs to be treated as no bed was available.

I've had different experiences. Last year I went by ambulance to hospital and along with 4 other patients, was queuing in a corridor for over an hour. One lady was really elderly and shivering as it was cold. It felt pretty undignified too as we had no privacy there.

But my GP surgery have generally been spot on and I can't complain.

I work for the NHS

It's always the bad bits people want to see or read

What about the good bits?"

There are undoubtedly good bits, sadly we've experienced fewer and fewer in the last five years. As I said above no blame attached to staff.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have found the serious or critical care of patients is world class, its the routine care and the amount that is required to be given to society, when the service struggles.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The pm also denied it is under crisis, is she fit to be a leader if she dont recognises it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we are underfunded here. and our a&e is not open for 24hrs a day any more.

it was closed down altogether but there have been many peaceful demonstrations and petitions in this area and they are now funded as a part time a&e.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My father is currently coming to the end, he was been waiting 3 weeks just to hear a date for an appointment with a specialist. The appointment request was marked urgent. I wouldn't be surprised if he never sees it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing will improve until the crisis in social care is sorted out. That's what is behind so much of the pressure on acute and primary care. The NHS budget has been protected in cash terms while local authority funding has been absolutely decimated - the pressures that are now falling on the NHS are the logical end result of that.

My personal experience for myself and family has been good. The experience of friends and family who work in the NHS on the front line are that there also *is* a big problem of inappropriate use of the system, especially A&E and the ambulance service.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven't been to a hospital in decades but I've got to wait about a month to see a GP.

You can tell he's had enough of it all too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"we are underfunded here. and our a&e is not open for 24hrs a day any more.

it was closed down altogether but there have been many peaceful demonstrations and petitions in this area and they are now funded as a part time a&e."

I work in hospital in roscommon.same happened to us.lot of it closed off.a&e shuts at 8.it's a joke.nearest hospital after us in 40 odd miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's pretty big news today, with the PM being questioned about the 22 month old put on plastic chairs to be treated as no bed was available.

I've had different experiences. Last year I went by ambulance to hospital and along with 4 other patients, was queuing in a corridor for over an hour. One lady was really elderly and shivering as it was cold. It felt pretty undignified too as we had no privacy there.

But my GP surgery have generally been spot on and I can't complain.

I work for the NHS

It's always the bad bits people want to see or read

What about the good bits?"

The good bits are the people that work there. It's a shame that we only note the bad and disregard the good altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have 3 monthly brain scans and echocardiograms and from that perspective, the NHS have been brilliant caring for me. However, having worked for the NHS for 20yrs, I'm pretty sad to see what's happening!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing will improve until the crisis in social care is sorted out. That's what is behind so much of the pressure on acute and primary care. The NHS budget has been protected in cash terms while local authority funding has been absolutely decimated - the pressures that are now falling on the NHS are the logical end result of that.

My personal experience for myself and family has been good. The experience of friends and family who work in the NHS on the front line are that there also *is* a big problem of inappropriate use of the system, especially A&E and the ambulance service. "

Hear hear.

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By *eerobCouple  over a year ago

solihull

It seems once you get into a and e then they can be good. As, soon as you leave the rest it's their infrastructure let's them down. There are some caring people in the profession, but also a lot who to them it's just a job

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Last time I was in hospital was October 2009 and I was giving birth so not really medical treatment as such but I was treated well, was even rushed into theatre as I almost had to have an emergency caesarean but they gave me a spinal and got her out with ventouse delivery. The midwives and nurses were lovely and one nurse tickled my back for an hour cos I was crying at 4 in the morning feeling overwhelmed!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Without them I'd be dead.

The NHS, our doctors and hospitals saved my life twice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"we are underfunded here. and our a&e is not open for 24hrs a day any more.

it was closed down altogether but there have been many peaceful demonstrations and petitions in this area and they are now funded as a part time a&e.

I work in hospital in roscommon.same happened to us.lot of it closed off.a&e shuts at 8.it's a joke.nearest hospital after us in 40 odd miles away."

your job security has gone as well then?

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By *sRedbbwWoman  over a year ago

Amwythig


"Hmm couldn't fault them when my late husband took ill. They did everything they could and treated him as utmost priority.

However now trying to get mental health care through CAMHS for my daughter... totally different. Long waiting lists to be seen and advised to go to a&e if the shit hits the fan "

CAMHS are a different kettle of fish altogether! Useless on every level, my local one, took my phone call and a year later sent me a letter asking how they could help. Thankfully teens school were very supportive and arranged in house support

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The proportion of the GDP spent on the NHS is much much more than it was say 10 years ago. I would bring in a charge for a visit to the GP (more than £20 less than £50) for all those NOT receiving benefits. This will help the A & E queue also.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The proportion of the GDP spent on the NHS is much much more than it was say 10 years ago. I would bring in a charge for a visit to the GP (more than £20 less than £50) for all those NOT receiving benefits. This will help the A & E queue also. "

I think you'd end up having so many exclusions that it wouldn't make a significant difference. If you excluded the elderly, those receiving benefits and those with chronic conditions from paying the charge you'd end up like the prescription system where less than 1 in 10 is paid for - because those are the people who use the overwhelming majority of appointments.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My dad is 90 and has a red panic button. He suffers from a dodgy heart and has had to activate it fairly often. The first respondent is there like a shot followed by the ambulance. He is always looked after well in hospital so we have no complaints there. Eleven years ago this month my dear old mum passed away in hospital. She had Alzheimer's and spent the last month's of her life there after a fall. Again she was well looked after but they also knew that I was keeping a watchful eye on them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Went to a&e after a fall from a horse. Had a broken collarbone and a cut on my face. Was treated very well and quickly. The young chap in the next cubicle was moaning about his sore foot and that he could hardly get out of bed that morning. When I went to the pharmacy for painkillers he was there laughing and joking with other who were all waiting for their prescriptions for methodone etc...all comparing notes on the various pills they had been given. About an hour later I see the same young man who could hardly walk striding down the high street....these are the types that are a drain on resources and mean that the money and care are short in supply for the genuinely needy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would of only exclude the elderly if they were on benefits. Many over 65s have plenty of money and should in my _iew spend some of it on their immediate health needs.

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By * Reason WhyCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle Area

we have only good things to say about the NHS, as tyhey have saved my hubbys life 5 times in the recent past, due to type 1 diabetes, there is too much strain on the already thinned out resources of the NHS, and this is detrimental to the people that actually do need the care, i mean going to A&E for a broken fingernail?? cmon people lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Accident and Emergency Departments are meant to be for unexpected emergencies,Heart attacks,Strokes,Breathing difficulties,Road accidents,Broken bones,and people in extreme pain who may need an operation.Unfortunately some tend to use it as a doctors surgery,and go to A/E unessessary.D*unks,Drug addicts,everyone has to be seen by the Triage staff and if they think you should see a doctor then you do.Weekends are bad when people go out ,drink to much end up fighting,and an ambulance is called,then straght to A/E..Maybe a fine a huge one should be in place if you waste there time,you cant go into A/E with a cut finger ,there are minor injury or walk in health centres to use..Think before the N.H.S.sinks..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Accident and Emergency Departments are meant to be for unexpected emergencies,Heart attacks,Strokes,Breathing difficulties,Road accidents,Broken bones,and people in extreme pain who may need an operation.Unfortunately some tend to use it as a doctors surgery,and go to A/E unessessary.D*unks,Drug addicts,everyone has to be seen by the Triage staff and if they think you should see a doctor then you do.Weekends are bad when people go out ,drink to much end up fighting,and an ambulance is called,then straght to A/E..Maybe a fine a huge one should be in place if you waste there time,you cant go into A/E with a cut finger ,there are minor injury or walk in health centres to use..Think before the N.H.S.sinks.."

Well said.

I have 3 sisters who are all nurses.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would of only exclude the elderly if they were on benefits. Many over 65s have plenty of money and should in my _iew spend some of it on their immediate health needs. "

Are you for real

Where do you get the idea many elderly people have plenty of money?

I'm a district nurse and go into people's homes daily, many of them over 65, most of them stay in bed because it's warmer than getting up, a lot are afraid to put their fire on in fear of paying the bill, most buy very poor quality food because it's all they can afford, of courses there are well off elderly people but the vast majority are not

You should come with me for a day and see how the real world lives

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

Can't fault them

I or my youngest daughter wouldn't be here today if it weren't for their quick actions and excellent aftercare when my lady labour went terribly wrong

And I've been needing a knee operation which they refused to do until my BMI got to 35 or below, I got that target (plus more) just before Christmas and my op is second week in Feb and I was expecting to be waiting much longer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would of only exclude the elderly if they were on benefits. Many over 65s have plenty of money and should in my _iew spend some of it on their immediate health needs.

Are you for real

Where do you get the idea many elderly people have plenty of money?

I'm a district nurse and go into people's homes daily, many of them over 65, most of them stay in bed because it's warmer than getting up, a lot are afraid to put their fire on in fear of paying the bill, most buy very poor quality food because it's all they can afford, of courses there are well off elderly people but the vast majority are not

You should come with me for a day and see how the real world lives"

While I don't necessarily agree with the poster you quoted, the nature of your job means the elderly people you're coming into contact with are the more vulnerable ones and not representative of the whole either.

Go out for a day with my dad and it would be filled with over 65s who are still working or receive pensions well in excess of my salary - or sometimes both!

Neither of our _iews will be representative of the majority which will naturally fall somewhere in the middle.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

As an employee of the NHS, I took early retirement as it was either kill or be killed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Means tested healthcare?

I imagine most of the wealthy people gave private healthcare anyway.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Accident and Emergency Departments are meant to be for unexpected emergencies,Heart attacks,Strokes,Breathing difficulties,Road accidents,Broken bones,and people in extreme pain who may need an operation.Unfortunately some tend to use it as a doctors surgery,and go to A/E unessessary.D*unks,Drug addicts,everyone has to be seen by the Triage staff and if they think you should see a doctor then you do.Weekends are bad when people go out ,drink to much end up fighting,and an ambulance is called,then straght to A/E..Maybe a fine a huge one should be in place if you waste there time,you cant go into A/E with a cut finger ,there are minor injury or walk in health centres to use..Think before the N.H.S.sinks.."

But a lot of admission to a&he could be avoided if Drs surgeries worked harder 5 times since my children were born where I've tried to get appointments and failed or just been fobbed of as the "over protective mother" for my kids to then fall that ill they ended up hospitalised the worst being the misdiagnosis of meningitis by a go in one of my twins

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford


"It's a shame that we only note the bad and disregard the good altogether."

As I read through the posts here I saw the complete opposite. Almost everyone has said the staff are excellent.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As an employee of the NHS, I took early retirement as it was either kill or be killed."

I stepped away from front-line NHS work a couple of years ago - best move I could have made. Apart from private health care that is

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

7 years ago my mum fractured her spine, she was in hospital for a week, fitted with a brace and in rehabilitation for 6 weeks. Once home she had carers starting at 3 times a day and going down to twice until she (against advice) stopped them. During this time if I hadn't ensured I spent as much time as possible with her she would have gone without the finer details of personal care such as mouth swabs after vomiting. The woman in the bed next to her with Alzheimer's would surely have suffered from dehydration because I was the only person who made sure she drank. Apart from this mum was well cared for and her dignity was maintained.

In the intervening years she's needed a lot of medical attention, some routine, some emergency and I have seen a slow but steady deterioration in the quality of the care.

So much so that this summer in the most recent in a series of falls when she fractured a vertebra she was in a and e from 2:30 pm until 10 am. She was then discharged into the care of my 90 year old father, unable to walk, incontinent and in acute pain. I won't go in to detail about what went on while she was there but I asked repeatedly for her to be seen, to be cleaned up, to be assessed so that she didn't have to lay with her head in that brace thing etc but there just weren't the staff to do it.

The following days were a nightmare for all of us but her mostly until we eventually managed to get her into rehabilitation after hundreds of phone calls, doctors visits, paramedics visits and basically speaking to anybody we thought might be able to help.

I think this illustrates from first hand experience how depleted the NHS has become over the last 7 years.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"As an employee of the NHS, I took early retirement as it was either kill or be killed.

I stepped away from front-line NHS work a couple of years ago - best move I could have made. Apart from private health care that is "

I didn't realise how badly affected I was until I stopped. Firefighting every day and it continues...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a patients representative my latest NHS experience proved excellent although I would say I found the administration intended to keep the patient informed somewhat poorly inconsistent to the very attentive medical care provided....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Worked in the N.H.S.for years to,a lot of pressure and stress. We save peoples lives every day of our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Experience has been amazing given the number of people who need help and support in so many ways.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Accident and Emergency Departments are meant to be for unexpected emergencies,Heart attacks,Strokes,Breathing difficulties,Road accidents,Broken bones,and people in extreme pain who may need an operation.Unfortunately some tend to use it as a doctors surgery,and go to A/E unessessary.D*unks,Drug addicts,everyone has to be seen by the Triage staff and if they think you should see a doctor then you do.Weekends are bad when people go out ,drink to much end up fighting,and an ambulance is called,then straght to A/E..Maybe a fine a huge one should be in place if you waste there time,you cant go into A/E with a cut finger ,there are minor injury or walk in health centres to use..Think before the N.H.S.sinks..

But a lot of admission to a&he could be avoided if Drs surgeries worked harder 5 times since my children were born where I've tried to get appointments and failed or just been fobbed of as the "over protective mother" for my kids to then fall that ill they ended up hospitalised the worst being the misdiagnosis of meningitis by a go in one of my twins "

...I know what you are saying and i agree,in your case you were wise to take your child to hospital...x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i've had 4 kids (but am gravita 9), and been in hospital a fair bit, also had many appointments because of this too, and do know that some areas seem to always have been underfunded.

more often than not i've had to wait hours in maternity to be seen for my ante-natal check ups. but not recently. would be interesting to find out if that has changed?

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"we are underfunded here. and our a&e is not open for 24hrs a day any more.

it was closed down altogether but there have been many peaceful demonstrations and petitions in this area and they are now funded as a part time a&e."

In that a and e I was treated when I chopped the end of my finger off, which I took on ice. On arrival stood at the counter I felt faint so said can I nip outside for some air to be told I couldn't not offered further assistance. I then spent the standard 4 hours watching my healthy iced skin turn white, after 4 hours someone examined it to say it couldn't be reattached. During this time I saw lots of nurses and doctors doing relatively little. I certainly knew they're plans for the weekend!

I have had similar experiences in quite a few different a and e departments! Similarly we took our daughter at just over 5 months to a and e were sent to children's dept asked to wait in a room packed with other ill kids. I stood in the corridor with her, not wanting to pass whatever she had to others nor have her vomit on them or in the area... I clearly was causing a nuisance not joining the festering pit of disease that was the waiting room!

I have no understanding of a health service which as a standard attends to its patients in around 4 hours, leaving those who report sickness and vomiting beside the lad with the broken finger!

A few years ago we were on holiday in Wales, my wife was suffering from a chest infection, took her to hospital, she was seen by triage, passed to a doctor, diagnosed, given antibiotics (not a prescription) and an injection in less than 25 minutes.

My observations of the nurses present at the majority of visits to a and e and in hospital wards is that they couldn't give a shit, caring profession my arse.

On another occasion with a poorly relative in hospital day one I saw nil by mouth posted by their bed, understandable, same day two in the morning, in the early evening I investigated and found that he was able to take refreshment just the notice hadn't been changed, before leaving I asked for the nurse to change the sign, a job that would take roughly a minute, interrupting the 5 strong chat they were having ( I know it was chat I waited for close to 10 mins for someone to acknowledge me stood there. Day three at 3pm I returned and the nil by mouth was still there.

This is my observation... I direct this at no one beyond anonymous staff within hospitals, this is simply my experience.

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By *enard ArgenteMan  over a year ago

London and France

The NHS killed two of my relatives due to incompetence.

One of my best friends will dies in the next 6 months because they failed to diagnose ( refused to diagnose) her illness over 5 years; when it was finally properly diagnosed by other means, the NHS delayed treatment by 12 months.

The palliative care she has eventually been offered is a sick joke.

If she had been diagnosed properly and treated, she would have had another 10 years of life.

She has sold everything and moved to another country, where she will get some decent care for the last few months of her life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Both good and bad. Sometimes staff are angels, other times not. Either way, they really don't seem to be supported by those who should be supporting them.

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By *ikeC81Man  over a year ago

harrow

Mixture

I had to go to nhs yesterday first time in 3 years.

I couldn't get a doctors appointment at local go so had to go to walk in centre

Then got sent to a and e because they didn't have equipment to check my eye. 2.5 hours later which wasn't that bad in the end

Normally it's a couple of hours

I must say when mum was ill the hdu units have been brill normal wards a bit shit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Here's my experience as an outsider...

The hospital emergency care I have been given was excellent.

The GP? I'd rather deal with googling my symptoms and going from there. Horrible.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I have a long standing eye condition and I use the NHS and I get fantastic care.

My GP is great and I can get a same day appointment if needed.

I use Private Medical Cover for any new need.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not needed it myself but my kids have. Excellent service, if a trifle slow.

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By *enard ArgenteMan  over a year ago

London and France

I get a same day doctor's appointment any time I request it.

I get to see a consultant or a specialist within a week. I can even request my doctor to refer ne if he doesn't offer it.

If a doctor even suspects cancer on a patient here; you get an appointment with a cancer specialist within 10 days; without fail.

There is no such thing as a "postcode lottery" for treatments, or refusal to prescribe a treatment " because it's too expensive ".

Nursing staff are still trained properly.

I don't live in the UK.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My children have received great care, as have i.

My nan received terrible, terrible, treatment.

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By *vadownMan  over a year ago

Wickham

Population is getting older and require more care. Waiting list is growing. number of people have increased considerably in the last 10 years. Ambulances parked outside A&E.

Good plan cut the funding to deal with problems then blame NHS for not meeting targets and poor performance. It's a round the back door attempt to privatise the service just like America. But they will never make that statement outright as no one would vote for them.

Teresa mays own statement "the number of patients attended to has increased over the last 6 years"

But not has a result of the Tories cutting funding..probably due to there being more people in Britain and efficient service. It's a government run business. Employ the right people to improve effectiveness and put systems of standardisation in place.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm couldn't fault them when my late husband took ill. They did everything they could and treated him as utmost priority.

However now trying to get mental health care through CAMHS for my daughter... totally different. Long waiting lists to be seen and advised to go to a&e if the shit hits the fan "

Mental health services for children / teenagers are notoriously sparse

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

my dental hygenist said she was going to fit me for dentures end of october, she changed her mind and i have to wait until feb. i've only got one front tooth missing, and have made my own temporary false tooth, but still.

not even confident i will get my painful mouth sorted out next month now either.

i'm using an NHS one.

never had problems when i needed my wisdom teeth out, or when my back teeth needed coating.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple  over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"my dental hygenist said she was going to fit me for dentures end of october, she changed her mind and i have to wait until feb. i've only got one front tooth missing, and have made my own temporary false tooth, but still.

not even confident i will get my painful mouth sorted out next month now either.

i'm using an NHS one.

never had problems when i needed my wisdom teeth out, or when my back teeth needed coating.

"

You made your own temporary tooth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"my dental hygenist said she was going to fit me for dentures end of october, she changed her mind and i have to wait until feb. i've only got one front tooth missing, and have made my own temporary false tooth, but still.

not even confident i will get my painful mouth sorted out next month now either.

i'm using an NHS one.

never had problems when i needed my wisdom teeth out, or when my back teeth needed coating.

You made your own temporary tooth "

yes. they're easy enough to make and fit yourself, although can fall out if you laugh because your lips will push on it. i made a gold one.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pretty shit to be honest.

I paid to privately see a doctor since I was sick of waiting and waiting and waiting.

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By *ammyDodgaMan  over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"Pretty shit to be honest.

I paid to privately see a doctor since I was sick of waiting and waiting and waiting."

Same. I developed a salavary gland stone. 4 months I was waiting for a referral. In the end my face ballooned and walk in centre rushed me straight into ENT. Still waiting for an op though. Funnily enough thougj, contacted bupa and it was the same specialist who would be seeing me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Pretty shit to be honest.

I paid to privately see a doctor since I was sick of waiting and waiting and waiting.

Same. I developed a salavary gland stone. 4 months I was waiting for a referral. In the end my face ballooned and walk in centre rushed me straight into ENT. Still waiting for an op though. Funnily enough thougj, contacted bupa and it was the same specialist who would be seeing me "

It was Crohn's disease for me. Paid to see the doctor privately, then a couple of weeks later I was in under the NHS. Could of got in straight away privately but would of racked bills up to the region of £5000.

So by paying I was in as an NHS patient 2 weeks later. Despite around 8 weeks on waiting lists previously with still no date.

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By *ammyDodgaMan  over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Bless ya. My cousin has that.. Not nice. Gl though. Take out the loan with bupa and then run away. Hide for 6 years, then claim its statue barred

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a shame that it's those who work for the nhs get the blame. Yes I've had to wait numerous times in A&E, but always been informed of the approximate waiting time, very rarely it's been more than what I was told. they can't help being understaffed and under facilitated, due to cuts being constantly made. But it's clear this is all being done to make us go private, so they can privatise the healthcare section.

I find GP surgeries the worst for waiting, I've never been seen within 15mins of my given appointment, have had to wait up to 2 hours before to be seen. Whilst I find the professional care to be of standard, GP surgeries are not ideal for children, many have now removed toys and books due to health and safety so children get bored after 20 min or so; whilst I have no problem waiting, I hate going with my children as it's not a child friendly environment.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"this tory government has deliberately and with extreme malice run down the nhs so that they and their cronies make vast amounts of money out of the mess I personally would have hunt and may flogged to death "

If its all the evil tories fault why was it shit after 13 years of labour?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


", GP surgeries are not ideal for children, many have now removed toys and books due to health and safety so children get bored after 20 min or so; whilst I have no problem waiting, I hate going with my children as it's not a child friendly environment. "

Well they did find those toys where covered in bacteria.

Bur why not just take one of your childs own toys with you for them to play with?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing has changed they still have same amount of doc and nurses and beds

Only thing thats hanged is people

who go to a&e for the minor things

and block it up for those in more serious need

Gone are the days when we sucked it up and carried on with life

Nhs dont need change

Sociaty needs a fucking good slap and a wake up call though

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've found that the quality of NHS care varies hugely depending on the department and area.

Locally a friend was really impressed with ICU but has been far less impressed with the follow up care.

My granddad received excellent end of life care locally.

When in hospital in town my mum found the staff willing but overwhelmed. She is currently recovering from a joint replacement done at Wigan, and reckons the service and care there is comparable to private medical care...

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thank you even xx

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By *ph1977Man  over a year ago

Lincoln


"this tory government has deliberately and with extreme malice run down the nhs so that they and their cronies make vast amounts of money out of the mess I personally would have hunt and may flogged to death "

The same old tired lines from the clause4istas forgetting their brethren are part of the reason the NHS is so wasteful.

anyone who has worked i nthe real world and then in the NHS will be able to identify huge savings that could and should be made ... but management are unwilling to do so lest it upset Uni(s)on bods

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In England my mum received excellent care right up until the end of her life..

In Wales it took less than a year, from referral, to get my son his diagnoses from CAHMS and the consultants there have always been very helpful to me, and for my son

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By *ph1977Man  over a year ago

Lincoln


"Nothing has changed they still have same amount of doc and nurses and beds

Only thing thats hanged is people

who go to a&e for the minor things

and block it up for those in more serious need

Gone are the days when we sucked it up and carried on with life

Nhs dont need change

Sociaty needs a fucking good slap and a wake up call though"

somewhat harshly worded but misuse of emergency departments has been an ever rising issue since Blair's wicked wheeze of the 4 hour target and the 'new' GP contract which made opting out of arranging your own OOH provision far too cheap

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"I've found that the quality of NHS care varies hugely depending on the department and area.

Locally a friend was really impressed with ICU but has been far less impressed with the follow up care.

My granddad received excellent end of life care locally.

When in hospital in town my mum found the staff willing but overwhelmed. She is currently recovering from a joint replacement done at Wigan, and reckons the service and care there is comparable to private medical care...

Nita"

I'm guessing wrightington?

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening "

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My experience has been generally fine other than the shard of glass that a surgeon left in my finger for three years!! "yep, fished it all out for you fella" eh....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My experience has been generally fine other than the shard of glass that a surgeon left in my finger for three years!! "yep, fished it all out for you fella" eh.... "

Why didn't you do it yourself before ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

I had a spine op in December and also recently accidentally stabbed myself in the eye with tweezers.

Everything has been handled fantastically. But I learned a long time ago you have to 'manage' your case. You have to ask questions, say what you do and don't want, chase appointments etc. to get the best care.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My experience has always been good, except for the Cinderella mental health services at assessment stage. Once on the books for treatment I found that the mental health services I received were excellent.

It has been harder to get a GP appointment since the main GP at my practice retired. They can't recruit another partner as no one wants to take on the horror of being a practice partner. That means scheduling a range of locums, who are expensive and hard to source.

Dr. Xand van Tulleken's rant to Hunt on Second Opinion is worth a watch.

If you are worried now then you need to read your local STP (Sustainability and Transformation Plan) report. These are the combined health and social care plans (NHS trusts and local authorities) on how they are going to work together and save millions in every area of England. Many include hospital closures to make the older people social care budgets work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?"

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS? "

While what happened to your relative was an error and clearly unacceptable , I don't think anyone is going to die because you arranged the wrong amount of bar staff. And I'm pretty sure that error probably happened because of understaffing

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By *eliz NelsonMan  over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

The 'target' driven culture is a major issue in the NHS, fulfilling targets to assure future funding can and does waste valuable staff time.

The 'Agenda for Change' wage structure also caused major problems..

There are many good, committed staff in the NHS but there are also some staff that will be less committed, it is human nature..

No matter how committed you are, how often you go the extra mile in health or social care. if you are trapped within a poor system, you are limited

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By *piritsonfabCouple  over a year ago

Nottingham


"Hmm couldn't fault them when my late husband took ill. They did everything they could and treated him as utmost priority.

However now trying to get mental health care through CAMHS for my daughter... totally different. Long waiting lists to be seen and advised to go to a&e if the shit hits the fan "

I could offer private advice on that if you want to message me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My experience has been generally fine other than the shard of glass that a surgeon left in my finger for three years!! "yep, fished it all out for you fella" eh....

Why didn't you do it yourself before ?"

It only started bothering me about 6 weeks ago, finally went at it with a Stanley and a pair of tweezers last week and dug it out. Up until then it must have been sat just behind the bone until my body wanted rid of it and it found its way to the surface

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Day 3 of my time in hospital ambulance called at 18.06 arrived at my doctors @ 18.20 10 minutes for obs and then off to hospital, by 2240 on a ward and being given right treatment

10/ 10

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I blame the uneducated public for causing this mess. Blocking up A&E for things that are not an accident or emergency and going to see the doctor for trivial things. Then there's the amount of people who miss their appointments!

These kinds of things should incur a penalty."

A good 30% of people in A n E departments shouldn't be there. About a third of them (10%) should be somewhere else in the health service....but sometimes can't be because they are shut or overcrowded at the time too.....so funding missing from there it could be argued?

The rest shouldn't even be near the health service at all.

The OP asked for our recent experience.

In May I broke my elbow playing football just before half time. Thinking I'd just wrenched/bruised it I carried on playing (scored two more goals...!). At end of game mates insisted I had it looked at...there was a first aider available at the club.....they suspected broken and were going to call an ambulance. As that would be mega inconvenient for me....leaving my car behind etc...I opted to drive myself to my local A n E in Worcester.

I was treated brilliantly....with just the right amount of sarcastic humour about playing football at my age. Broken elbow confirmed by X-Ray and out again within 2 hours complete with appointment for fracture clinic the next Monday morning.

However the rest of the waiting room seemed to be populated by a few sniffs and coughs...nothing else visible. And specifically....

A grazed knee (cleaned with a wipe and then covered by a medium sized bandaid and sent out).

A small splinter in an index finger...removed in 5 seconds by a pair of eyebrow tweezers.

Another small cut on a teenagers elbow....after 35 minutes of mother moaning about not being seen immediately she stormed out and said she was going to Tesco to get a plaster herself!

WTF planet are these people on? Remove them...kick them straight out if necessary and a big chunk of the problems in A n E have gone at a stroke!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?"

a role in hospitality as worthwhile as the service may be to the guest is not a comparison to the role of a trained nurse, its nonsense to suggest it..

why did you not as the relative get some refreshment for your relative..?

why would anyone leave someone who they knew needed refreshment without ensuring that the nil by mouth was amended before they left..?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I have to go after serious açcident at work was shocked how busy a n e was,only time I've been as pacient since was a kid

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS? "

Yes!

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

While what happened to your relative was an error and clearly unacceptable , I don't think anyone is going to die because you arranged the wrong amount of bar staff. And I'm pretty sure that error probably happened because of understaffing "

5 nurses chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

Yes!"

And how are they comparable?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Speak to any front line staff in the NHS and they'll tell you the same thing - there are huge underfunding and underresourcing issues across the when organisation and it us only the dedication of the staff many of whom constantly go above and beyond what is expected that keeping it going."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I until recently worked for the NHS and was very

Proud of the trust I worked for and treatment I had received when seriously ill.

However two week ago I tripped over a box and broke my elbow, I'm not stupid I knew it was hurt so off we trundled to our local a&e unit. They said the wait was 2 hours which I think is pretty good as compared to others who could potentially be worse. So we waited, two hour later in came a woman and her hubby she hurt her shoulder. He told her she would have a two hour wait and she said no I won't I'm not waiting that long. After 30 mins she fell to the floor whilst down there she opened her eyes and winked at him. The Drs etc came running she was seen and within the hour left while I was still sat with a dozen sick bowls crying in pain. Then another woman came in with her child shouted he fell from the bed two days ago hit his head and he had just thrown up so the child was seen even though guidelines say after 24 hours no need for treatment if the child is alert etc he was he was laughing and babbling happily. I was seen 6 hours later, I was told X-ray had closed and either I could wait till the morning to have it done or travel 45 mins to another hospital either way up to me as they didn't think it's broken but want to X-ray as a precaution.

I decided to travel and get an X-ray. They suggested my arm go in a sling however the nurse didn't know how to put it on so I showed her. I then asked why they were putting me in a broad arm sling when elbows should be in a cooler cuff type sling she said it was policy.

If I trundled to the other hospital where I got seen 4 hours later. The second hospital immediately took my arm out and put me into the correct sling gave me a X-ray was told by the nurse she thought it was broken but didn't know and the dr wasn't there till morning. So made an app two days later for fracture clinic.

I've since seen the consultant I've fractured the head of the humerus and head of the radius down the centre of both bones and due back Friday for further X-ray and scan to determine if I need surgery.

In all between two a&e departments I was waiting a total of 10 hours without seeing a dr given no pain relief.

I am disgusted to be honest, trersa may today said people were being cared for in unacceptable circumstances yet it's her government that made those circumstances.

I feel for anyone living locally to me who has a serious illness they have no chance of survival. My mother collapsed last month they told her a blue light ambulance was a 6 hour wait so I had to transfer her in the car to the next major hospital. This is unacceptable treating people like this is unacceptable and our government need to change. We are in a situation where balancing books is more important than a life a drug can't be funded due to cost how is this fair on a person who needs it to survive. A child who's been refused proton treatment for cancer who's parents are having to raise money tomfly them abroad for treatment. It's so very wrong. I'm so disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

While what happened to your relative was an error and clearly unacceptable , I don't think anyone is going to die because you arranged the wrong amount of bar staff. And I'm pretty sure that error probably happened because of understaffing

5 nurses chatting!"

What you were watching the nurses for48 hours ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

NHS is shit... A&E sent me (f) home confused with a 50pence large hole in my skull, broken jaw bone, fractures to back bone of skull and cheek bone and a 3.8 cm blood clot..Hubby found me next day when he got back from abroad in a puddle of blood on couch.. No transport home no nothing...

Complaint raised head of A&E fobbled of hubby and said he didnt understand medicine - wrong move as hubby then quoted if they had used NICE regulations for the treatment of Head Wounds .. Blank stare and arrogant answers.

Requested full disclosure of my medical files from the 2 dates at A&E and from a fill of over 1inch they sent me 5 badly copied pages.

So now left with 35% loss of hearing in left ear, tinnitus and no short memory and this will remain rest of my life - next step a date in Court .. don't want money but want an apology. But as one nurse said .. no doctors and too many pen pushers and I agree with her

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

a role in hospitality as worthwhile as the service may be to the guest is not a comparison to the role of a trained nurse, its nonsense to suggest it..

why did you not as the relative get some refreshment for your relative..?

why would anyone leave someone who they knew needed refreshment without ensuring that the nil by mouth was amended before they left..?

"

I'm not sure I said that I left them without.... as meal times had finished and he had been offered nothing I left the hospital and went to a local supermarket and provided sustinence. Whe I expressly asked that the nil by mouth be amended and the nurse said I'll do that now... being the professional trained nurse, realising the importance would have gone and done just that. As the nurse said above about being told what to do .... it would send them to the back of the queue? Bit odd for the caring profession but hey ho! I also left plenty of food and drinks to last till my next visit. One of the reasons the NHS may be understaffed may be due to budgets being spent paying out claims made by patients who receive poor care?

I don't see nurses running around, I don't see them quickly moving to the next patient I see staff chatting about shite!

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

While what happened to your relative was an error and clearly unacceptable , I don't think anyone is going to die because you arranged the wrong amount of bar staff. And I'm pretty sure that error probably happened because of understaffing

5 nurses chatting!

What you were watching the nurses for48 hours ? "

Nope! The sign remained the same for 48 hours! And absolutely no one will die.... so why wouldn't the doctors and nurses who were I repeat chatting care for their patients who may die?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry to say but Migrants should be charged to use the N.H.S. When we visit other countries we have to pay for treatment,and some wont even look at you unless its money up front.Foreigners should be billed for emergency treatment,they should be billed for a consultation,on top of the cost of their treatment,with staff presenting chip and pin machines at their bedsides,why shouldnt this happen.Its like a free for all.

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

Yes!

And how are they comparable? "

Both work done by people trained to do so!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

a role in hospitality as worthwhile as the service may be to the guest is not a comparison to the role of a trained nurse, its nonsense to suggest it..

why did you not as the relative get some refreshment for your relative..?

why would anyone leave someone who they knew needed refreshment without ensuring that the nil by mouth was amended before they left..?

I'm not sure I said that I left them without.... as meal times had finished and he had been offered nothing I left the hospital and went to a local supermarket and provided sustinence. Whe I expressly asked that the nil by mouth be amended and the nurse said I'll do that now... being the professional trained nurse, realising the importance would have gone and done just that. As the nurse said above about being told what to do .... it would send them to the back of the queue? Bit odd for the caring profession but hey ho! I also left plenty of food and drinks to last till my next visit. One of the reasons the NHS may be understaffed may be due to budgets being spent paying out claims made by patients who receive poor care?

I don't see nurses running around, I don't see them quickly moving to the next patient I see staff chatting about shite!"

Tell ya what would love to see you walk a day in my shoes on the ward I worked in ha ha you might not have such warped _iews on nurses then.

Just remember you have no idea what's going on, on that ward your only assuming you know.

For every 1 bad nurse there are 1000 good. Every time you stop a nurse asking for her to remove a sight you could have delayed her giving a life saving drug to another patient. And while you sit and assume those nurses are having a chit chat they may be deciding how to deal with that patient that's about to take their last breath. They may be the ones to pick up the pieces after a family being told their child has cancer.

People are good at dissing the nurses but you wouldn't diss them if they saved your life by ignoring joes sign while they have you cpr.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Sorry to say but Migrants should be charged to use the N.H.S. When we visit other countries we have to pay for treatment,and some wont even look at you unless its money up front.Foreigners should be billed for emergency treatment,they should be billed for a consultation,on top of the cost of their treatment,with staff presenting chip and pin machines at their bedsides,why shouldnt this happen.Its like a free for all."

They are charged. It is up to the hospital to follow through with getting the payment. However, anyone in need of emergency care should get this. We are a civilised society, aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

Yes!

And how are they comparable?

Both work done by people trained to do so!"

No disrespect but any udiot can serve drinks, what;s the training - 10 minutes?

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

a role in hospitality as worthwhile as the service may be to the guest is not a comparison to the role of a trained nurse, its nonsense to suggest it..

why did you not as the relative get some refreshment for your relative..?

why would anyone leave someone who they knew needed refreshment without ensuring that the nil by mouth was amended before they left..?

I'm not sure I said that I left them without.... as meal times had finished and he had been offered nothing I left the hospital and went to a local supermarket and provided sustinence. Whe I expressly asked that the nil by mouth be amended and the nurse said I'll do that now... being the professional trained nurse, realising the importance would have gone and done just that. As the nurse said above about being told what to do .... it would send them to the back of the queue? Bit odd for the caring profession but hey ho! I also left plenty of food and drinks to last till my next visit. One of the reasons the NHS may be understaffed may be due to budgets being spent paying out claims made by patients who receive poor care?

I don't see nurses running around, I don't see them quickly moving to the next patient I see staff chatting about shite!

Tell ya what would love to see you walk a day in my shoes on the ward I worked in ha ha you might not have such warped _iews on nurses then.

Just remember you have no idea what's going on, on that ward your only assuming you know.

For every 1 bad nurse there are 1000 good. Every time you stop a nurse asking for her to remove a sight you could have delayed her giving a life saving drug to another patient. And while you sit and assume those nurses are having a chit chat they may be deciding how to deal with that patient that's about to take their last breath. They may be the ones to pick up the pieces after a family being told their child has cancer.

People are good at dissing the nurses but you wouldn't diss them if they saved your life by ignoring joes sign while they have you cpr. "

My _iew isn't warped! On the occasion I referred to 5 staff were chatting immediately in front of me, ignoring me, while they discussed their weekend. I didn't want to go into so much detail but I asked every visit ( I was there often) if my relative could have sustinence- sustinence being the things like food and water that keep them alive, in as good health as possible, less likely to suffer complications.... after asking and asking and while waiting as I was being ignored I saw a TV screen with each patients name and various instructions ... one of these was F&D with a tick. After asking if he could have food and drink and being told no as the sign hadn't been changed I questioned the sign and its meaning.... which established that he could be given food and drink. I went away got refreshment as no nurse said "you know what I'll break off from this chat and go and get something" then I asked on leaving, and satisfied he had eaten, that the sign be changed specifically asking "can you do that now?" Yes and off she headed towards the ward... but didn't... maybe because I asked the malicious actions of the nurse (as described above) to consciously deprive care was my fault. He was transferred for further care without medication, without sufficient notes to ensure medication was delivered and I then had to manage that process too! When I firmly challenged this I was called to a room where three staff attempted to tell me I didn't have any idea what I was talking about. I then showed the woman dealing with me how the internet worked to find a gps number!

I was a bit more diplomatic earlier, but my experience is that the profession does not care! I must be so unlucky that I get the 1-1000 who couldn't give a shit!, in different hospitals at different times with multiple staff involved. I wouldn't suggest that all are the same but my experiences tell me the majority are!

And I'd walk in those shoes anytime!

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

Did you realkly just compare hospitaloity to doctors working within the NHS?

Yes!

And how are they comparable?

Both work done by people trained to do so!

No disrespect but any udiot can serve drinks, what;s the training - 10 minutes?"

The udiot that serves the drinks will have considerably more training than that in most cases and in line with their responsibilities. They may not take their job too seriously, no one will die... though if they don't work fast and efficiently they will lose their job! Health professionals should also work quickly and efficiently and with a greater level of care to their customer!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

a role in hospitality as worthwhile as the service may be to the guest is not a comparison to the role of a trained nurse, its nonsense to suggest it..

why did you not as the relative get some refreshment for your relative..?

why would anyone leave someone who they knew needed refreshment without ensuring that the nil by mouth was amended before they left..?

I'm not sure I said that I left them without.... as meal times had finished and he had been offered nothing I left the hospital and went to a local supermarket and provided sustinence. Whe I expressly asked that the nil by mouth be amended and the nurse said I'll do that now... being the professional trained nurse, realising the importance would have gone and done just that. As the nurse said above about being told what to do .... it would send them to the back of the queue? Bit odd for the caring profession but hey ho! I also left plenty of food and drinks to last till my next visit. One of the reasons the NHS may be understaffed may be due to budgets being spent paying out claims made by patients who receive poor care?

I don't see nurses running around, I don't see them quickly moving to the next patient I see staff chatting about shite!

Tell ya what would love to see you walk a day in my shoes on the ward I worked in ha ha you might not have such warped _iews on nurses then.

Just remember you have no idea what's going on, on that ward your only assuming you know.

For every 1 bad nurse there are 1000 good. Every time you stop a nurse asking for her to remove a sight you could have delayed her giving a life saving drug to another patient. And while you sit and assume those nurses are having a chit chat they may be deciding how to deal with that patient that's about to take their last breath. They may be the ones to pick up the pieces after a family being told their child has cancer.

People are good at dissing the nurses but you wouldn't diss them if they saved your life by ignoring joes sign while they have you cpr.

My _iew isn't warped! On the occasion I referred to 5 staff were chatting immediately in front of me, ignoring me, while they discussed their weekend. I didn't want to go into so much detail but I asked every visit ( I was there often) if my relative could have sustinence- sustinence being the things like food and water that keep them alive, in as good health as possible, less likely to suffer complications.... after asking and asking and while waiting as I was being ignored I saw a TV screen with each patients name and various instructions ... one of these was F&D with a tick. After asking if he could have food and drink and being told no as the sign hadn't been changed I questioned the sign and its meaning.... which established that he could be given food and drink. I went away got refreshment as no nurse said "you know what I'll break off from this chat and go and get something" then I asked on leaving, and satisfied he had eaten, that the sign be changed specifically asking "can you do that now?" Yes and off she headed towards the ward... but didn't... maybe because I asked the malicious actions of the nurse (as described above) to consciously deprive care was my fault. He was transferred for further care without medication, without sufficient notes to ensure medication was delivered and I then had to manage that process too! When I firmly challenged this I was called to a room where three staff attempted to tell me I didn't have any idea what I was talking about. I then showed the woman dealing with me how the internet worked to find a gps number!

I was a bit more diplomatic earlier, but my experience is that the profession does not care! I must be so unlucky that I get the 1-1000 who couldn't give a shit!, in different hospitals at different times with multiple staff involved. I wouldn't suggest that all are the same but my experiences tell me the majority are!

And I'd walk in those shoes anytime! "

Well I've never had anyone say they would walk in my shoes infact most say they couldn't.

Never easy telling a parent there child has cancer knowing the prognosis isn't good.

Sitting g watching a first time mum nurse her baby when it's got broncilitos and on cpa because it can't breath for its self.

Explaining to a child that it's having an operation to fix a naughty bone.

On top of that this morning your patient died he was 7 and had lukemia you had been nursing him 2 years you were part of his family you were his favorite nurse but you can't cry though your heart is broken into a million pieces because you have other patients that need medication/X-rays/re_iews oh and it's 17.00 you started at 8am not had a break no food drink or a toilet stop.

So when do you want my size 5's to walk??.

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

a role in hospitality as worthwhile as the service may be to the guest is not a comparison to the role of a trained nurse, its nonsense to suggest it..

why did you not as the relative get some refreshment for your relative..?

why would anyone leave someone who they knew needed refreshment without ensuring that the nil by mouth was amended before they left..?

I'm not sure I said that I left them without.... as meal times had finished and he had been offered nothing I left the hospital and went to a local supermarket and provided sustinence. Whe I expressly asked that the nil by mouth be amended and the nurse said I'll do that now... being the professional trained nurse, realising the importance would have gone and done just that. As the nurse said above about being told what to do .... it would send them to the back of the queue? Bit odd for the caring profession but hey ho! I also left plenty of food and drinks to last till my next visit. One of the reasons the NHS may be understaffed may be due to budgets being spent paying out claims made by patients who receive poor care?

I don't see nurses running around, I don't see them quickly moving to the next patient I see staff chatting about shite!

Tell ya what would love to see you walk a day in my shoes on the ward I worked in ha ha you might not have such warped _iews on nurses then.

Just remember you have no idea what's going on, on that ward your only assuming you know.

For every 1 bad nurse there are 1000 good. Every time you stop a nurse asking for her to remove a sight you could have delayed her giving a life saving drug to another patient. And while you sit and assume those nurses are having a chit chat they may be deciding how to deal with that patient that's about to take their last breath. They may be the ones to pick up the pieces after a family being told their child has cancer.

People are good at dissing the nurses but you wouldn't diss them if they saved your life by ignoring joes sign while they have you cpr.

My _iew isn't warped! On the occasion I referred to 5 staff were chatting immediately in front of me, ignoring me, while they discussed their weekend. I didn't want to go into so much detail but I asked every visit ( I was there often) if my relative could have sustinence- sustinence being the things like food and water that keep them alive, in as good health as possible, less likely to suffer complications.... after asking and asking and while waiting as I was being ignored I saw a TV screen with each patients name and various instructions ... one of these was F&D with a tick. After asking if he could have food and drink and being told no as the sign hadn't been changed I questioned the sign and its meaning.... which established that he could be given food and drink. I went away got refreshment as no nurse said "you know what I'll break off from this chat and go and get something" then I asked on leaving, and satisfied he had eaten, that the sign be changed specifically asking "can you do that now?" Yes and off she headed towards the ward... but didn't... maybe because I asked the malicious actions of the nurse (as described above) to consciously deprive care was my fault. He was transferred for further care without medication, without sufficient notes to ensure medication was delivered and I then had to manage that process too! When I firmly challenged this I was called to a room where three staff attempted to tell me I didn't have any idea what I was talking about. I then showed the woman dealing with me how the internet worked to find a gps number!

I was a bit more diplomatic earlier, but my experience is that the profession does not care! I must be so unlucky that I get the 1-1000 who couldn't give a shit!, in different hospitals at different times with multiple staff involved. I wouldn't suggest that all are the same but my experiences tell me the majority are!

And I'd walk in those shoes anytime!

Well I've never had anyone say they would walk in my shoes infact most say they couldn't.

Never easy telling a parent there child has cancer knowing the prognosis isn't good.

Sitting g watching a first time mum nurse her baby when it's got broncilitos and on cpa because it can't breath for its self.

Explaining to a child that it's having an operation to fix a naughty bone.

On top of that this morning your patient died he was 7 and had lukemia you had been nursing him 2 years you were part of his family you were his favorite nurse but you can't cry though your heart is broken into a million pieces because you have other patients that need medication/X-rays/re_iews oh and it's 17.00 you started at 8am not had a break no food drink or a toilet stop.

So when do you want my size 5's to walk??. "

I nearly posted just after my last regarding those sort of situations, you sound like you have true compassion for your patients and for that I salute you. You must be in the 1000.... walk in your shoes... I would, I honestly would tomorrow if I could, however I didn't choose your career.

Now the OP asked for recent experiences.... can you now examine the situation from my point of _iew... the above was a failed suicide attempt by my father at 63, a 'normal', genuine, wouldn't hurt a fly, none drinker, no drugs, would help anyone sort of man who has suffered depression throughout his life. He has now cut himself to ribbons his mental state is fragile to say the least. The staff at the hospital left him without food or drink, him asking me, me being told he can't because it says nil by mouth, me having to tell him the same. The negligence shown, not just by the five who were sat chatting, each time I asked no one checked, no one could be arsed. There was no understaffing evident at any time while there, the pace was leisurely at its fastest. I would have tied up more time asking to speak to a doctor had I not found the patient information, a nurse to find them then the more expensive doctors time in answering a question that didn't need asking had the nurses bothered to check. Poor use of resource, poorly managed, poor care... should my father have suffered complications due to dehydration that would lead to further expense ... should something worse occur, I would be claiming compensation for that negligence, further unnecessary expense....

How should I feel?

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"this tory government has deliberately and with extreme malice run down the nhs so that they and their cronies make vast amounts of money out of the mess I personally would have hunt and may flogged to death

The same old tired lines from the clause4istas forgetting their brethren are part of the reason the NHS is so wasteful.

anyone who has worked i nthe real world and then in the NHS will be able to identify huge savings that could and should be made ... but management are unwilling to do so lest it upset Uni(s)on bods "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't fault the staff at all for my wife's treatment at the moment it's just how long it will take for her operation probably a year. And while waiting for the op she can't really leave the house so not a good life for her at all.

I broke my arm early in 2015 and it was put in a cast and then a brace for a few weeks till my op came up. My op has been cancelled 3 times already and now I have a appointment to see my specialist at the end of the month to talk about what's happening and why the hold up with my op. I can't even make a cup of coffee my arm is of no use what so ever to me. I'm at the point of saying cut it off and give me a prosthetic. For the 2 years I've been on sick pay not being able to work and not being able to do any work in my house.

So yeah great for the wife she is getting sorted pretty quick the op is very complicated only 4 surgeons can do it

But mine has been a total joke to be honest

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I broke my arm early in 2015 and it was put in a cast and then a brace for a few weeks till my op came up...... I can't even make a cup of coffee my arm is of no use what so ever to me. ........ For the 2 years I've been on sick pay not being able to work and not being able to do any work in my house.

But mine has been a total joke to be honest "

I agree that being effectively 1-handed is hard - my mum had no use of her right (main) arm for many many months until her recent op.

There were are still are lots of things she can't do that require 2 hands.

However, that didn't stop her doing housework, making lunches and drinks etc...

She (and I assume you)have another arm. Yes it is difficult but not impossible.

Have you looked into getting the op done at a different NHS trust?

Don't know what you do for a living, but would have thought most employers would have roles suitable for a 1 armed person.

Clerical, telephone etc... Getting back to work will help you feel more positive.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


", GP surgeries are not ideal for children, many have now removed toys and books due to health and safety so children get bored after 20 min or so; whilst I have no problem waiting, I hate going with my children as it's not a child friendly environment.

Well they did find those toys where covered in bacteria.

Bur why not just take one of your childs own toys with you for them to play with?"

Why are the toys in surgeries covered in bacteria, but not hospitals? Surely you'd expect the same level of cleanliness.

As for taking some toys for my children, I have done several times in the past. But when your doctors surgery doesn't open the phone lines until 8.30am and you have already left the house, it's quite difficulty to get toys when you won't be back home until after you've been to the doctors, as you never know if you'll get an appointment that day or what time of the day, but you take the one that is offered as you never know when you'll be able to get in again.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman  over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I went to my local surgery for blood test made an apointment for 8.30 in the morning i was in there for about 15 minutes. Usualy if you make an apointment for early in the morning you dont have to wait so long.

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple  over a year ago

canterbury

problem with nhs which most people can see apart from themselves....too many chiefs and not enough Indians...at out local hospital ...13 in total midwives ....but 12 bosses or paperpushers doing what nobody knows ...all these trying there best to look important so they can collect there large wages....ps our daughter in law has just left cause she could not hack it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I blame the uneducated public for causing this mess. Blocking up A&E for things that are not an accident or emergency and going to see the doctor for trivial things. Then there's the amount of people who miss their appointments!

These kinds of things should incur a penalty."

The problem with saying they're going to A&E when they don't need to is that in a fair few cases (not all but some) symptoms of harmless issues can present similar.

About two years ago VS had stiff joints, especially the neck, a fever and sensitivity to light. All symptoms of meningitis.

So we call an ambulance who take us to A&E. Drs put her straight in a bed with a cannula in. Get IV antibiotics ready and order a blood test to confirm meningitis. Turned out the most serious thing one with her was the start of a UTI, with a few more minor issues muddling the symptoms up.

We felt like right idiots, but we genuinely believed A&E was where we needed to be. If you're gonna start charging people for going when they don't need to, you need a way to work out those who didn't think, to those who genuinely thought they needed A&E.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple  over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

NHS is amazing and by virtually all measures provides the best health care at the lowest cost in the world.

The staff are treated like sh1t in the main and are only holding it together whilst working to exhaustion.

There is a clear plan to bring about it's privatisation by the government.

I suggest that you read the book "Austerity, The Demoloition of the Welfare State and the Rise of the Zombie Economy" which explains how this is being done.

You need to fight for it now folks if you want to keep it.

Remember that the total amount thrown at the banks by the taxpayer to enable their casino banking scams and cocaine fuelled lifestyles to continue was £1.16 trillion. By one of life’s more meaningful coincidences, that would have paid to run the whole of the NHS for 10 years.

We're all in it together.

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By *rishman75Man  over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

I love the NHS and it's great and the staff are fantastic and got seen within 3 hours so no complaints from me about them .

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By *vadownMan  over a year ago

Wickham


"NHS is amazing and by virtually all measures provides the best health care at the lowest cost in the world.

The staff are treated like sh1t in the main and are only holding it together whilst working to exhaustion.

There is a clear plan to bring about it's privatisation by the government.

I suggest that you read the book "Austerity, The Demoloition of the Welfare State and the Rise of the Zombie Economy" which explains how this is being done.

You need to fight for it now folks if you want to keep it.

Remember that the total amount thrown at the banks by the taxpayer to enable their casino banking scams and cocaine fuelled lifestyles to continue was £1.16 trillion. By one of life’s more meaningful coincidences, that would have paid to run the whole of the NHS for 10 years.

We're all in it together."

Here here along with the social care system.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


", GP surgeries are not ideal for children, many have now removed toys and books due to health and safety so children get bored after 20 min or so; whilst I have no problem waiting, I hate going with my children as it's not a child friendly environment.

Well they did find those toys where covered in bacteria.

Bur why not just take one of your childs own toys with you for them to play with?

Why are the toys in surgeries covered in bacteria, but not hospitals? Surely you'd expect the same level of cleanliness.

As for taking some toys for my children, I have done several times in the past. But when your doctors surgery doesn't open the phone lines until 8.30am and you have already left the house, it's quite difficulty to get toys when you won't be back home until after you've been to the doctors, as you never know if you'll get an appointment that day or what time of the day, but you take the one that is offered as you never know when you'll be able to get in again. "

Hospitals have an infection control team as well as a specialised unit of cleaners. I would imagine though that toys are not a good idea as they are of course covered in bacteria.

The GPs are responsible for employing their own staff and I suppose they keep this to the basics and I bet the working hours don't extend to having to clean toys.

Your child is your responsibility and therefore you will have to find a way to amuse them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Worked in the N.H.S.for years to,a lot of pressure and stress. We save peoples lives every day of our lives."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Should not be let into the country unless they have an up to day ins policy, no policy no entry

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

While any service we use regularly we could moan about I can only praise the NHS . Had tests at GP end of December results came back two weeks later and a referral to hospital. Next day the hospital appointment arrived for the following week

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By *htcMan  over a year ago

MK

never really use the nhs, no problems when i did years back.

only thing is they should not treat the world like they do, and stop wasting thousands on temp staff. and start training british people again, to fill up gaps in nhs and fill gaps that staff will leave to retire. so that we dont have to import doctors or nurses.

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By *iamondjoeMan  over a year ago

Glastonbury

Don;t even start me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Think people forget that once you're admitted into A&E there are then prioritised you may have been there 2 hrs with a Brocken leg but if someone come in with breathing difficulties, I m sure most of us would want the patient seem to first,

Brethren

Bleeding

Breaks

And burn you to be the priority for being taken in an ambulance, not sure what has changed these days

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By *hatsthisMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

Dont worry only 2 years until we get the £350 million a week put into it , yeah its true Nigel and co said so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had a big operation and the after care was ridiculous....resulting in an horrendous experience not impressed at all!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can chuck as much as you like at the NHS but it will never improve until it is Managed properly

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By *airymagicWoman  over a year ago

goblin city

The ward pressure is ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just got out after spending a week on the respiratory ward, nothing but praise for the staff working in difficult situations

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple

In June 2016 I had a heart attack at work. From the ambalance crew to the ward cleaners everone was so kind. I was taken straight to the cardiac catheter lab and had a stent inserted. The bill if I was a private patient would have been immense. I am lucky to be here. My care was excellant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we all have different experiences. here's mine.

Gp's, trusts or whatever they call themselves are shocking. both as a patient and having to inspect as part of my job for their funding makes me dream of my doc when i was a kid. they cared, they called in as they were passing to check up on my mum as she was poorly. if they gave good service A&E could breathe.

A&E fantastic. from broken bones at xmas, friends in extreme pain and even when there was nothing they could do they let my folks have a moment to gather ourselves rather than turf us out for the bed. the drag down of A&E are people walking in demanding immediate treatment for a headache or minor which could be gp issue. but see above.

Once on a ward, shocking management permitting poor treatment and cleanliness.

but before we start kicking the nhs think about where else you can get free immediate treatment after a bit of waiting, the nhs is on the brink of collapse and where will you get free treatment then? start chasing your mp's/ government as to where the mkney goes and dont take no for an answer. we cannot lose this.

phew, feeling better now.

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By *ommenhimCouple  over a year ago

wigan


"we all have different experiences. here's mine.

Gp's, trusts or whatever they call themselves are shocking. both as a patient and having to inspect as part of my job for their funding makes me dream of my doc when i was a kid. they cared, they called in as they were passing to check up on my mum as she was poorly. if they gave good service A&E could breathe.

A&E fantastic. from broken bones at xmas, friends in extreme pain and even when there was nothing they could do they let my folks have a moment to gather ourselves rather than turf us out for the bed. the drag down of A&E are people walking in demanding immediate treatment for a headache or minor which could be gp issue. but see above.

Once on a ward, shocking management permitting poor treatment and cleanliness.

but before we start kicking the nhs think about where else you can get free immediate treatment after a bit of waiting, the nhs is on the brink of collapse and where will you get free treatment then? start chasing your mp's/ government as to where the mkney goes and dont take no for an answer. we cannot lose this.

phew, feeling better now. "

It's not free!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Incredible service - it now needs to be properly funded, rather than starved of cash, as it has been under the current government (Labour increased funding, towards levels in the rest of Europe).

We've drastically reduced our funding levels, as a proporton of GDP, in recent years - and this cannot be sustained, before it becomes apparent that the government isn't that committed to providing the high quality health service for the majority of its population, even if it proclaims something different.

Total appreciation for the NHS treatments that I've had - most recently in the last few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven't had any problems with the NHS and I've used them a lot with my kids having additional needs. Though I did go in on Tuesday to get tonsils out and the hospital managed to cause damage to my right lung with the anaesthetic tube so has caused an infection and irritated the lining of the lung leaving me in a lot of pain as every breath feels like I'm being stabbed. Having more pain from the chest than the actual operation I went in for lol x

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By *innamon!Woman  over a year ago

no matter

Any hospital treatment I have had throuygh my life has been spot on. Emergency treatment for me or family and also cancer treatment.

Very lucky where I live. No complaints at all

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By *radleyandRavenCouple  over a year ago

Herts

They almost killed our Son.

Not just with one fuck up, but with multiple.

He survived but has permanent, severe physical and mental disabilities.

We lost our faith in doctors/nurses that day.

If we could afford insurance for him, we would, but with all of his health issues, I don't think we'd find anyone who would cover him without us being millionaires...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The uk has the best health services in the world, yes sometimes they are under pressure cause of resources, or understaffed, they make mistakes,dont we all, try living in south africa or america,and yes im british through and through, and no im not in the proffession,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The one thing that has stuck out in the past few weeks is the ungratefulness (don't want a pat on the back) and rudeness of patients relatives! First of all I know people have places to be, but when you've run about for 7-8hrs non-stop, understaffed, taking on roles your not reaponsible for because your 3/4 staff down & don't know what your doing properly...not had a zip of water, in pain cos you've had no time to pee, not had a bite to eat since yr banana first thing, seeing oncology pts (not that they are superior to anyone else - but when they're on limited time) obviously you want to do your best & make the experience as quick and as smooth as possible!!

Yet, some relatives do nothing but eye ball you, constant badgering 'how long now nurse', huff, pass rude comments like 'you don't rush here do you?' Or 'jeeeeze nurse - can you put yr cuppa down'. WTF!!!!!

We are human beings like you not robots and working as fast and as safe as we can!!! Give us a fucking break!!! Your huffing at the wrong people - educate yourself and do something about it!!! Plus if you don't want to be with your relative when they most need you, do one and let us love and care for them and do our job properly.

Btw - the comment above who said 'know what treatment u need and shout about it'. I'm sorry luv but your shouting wouldn't get seen any quicker by me!!! You'd go to the back of the queue!!!! Bellend!!!

Rant over - than you for listening

Only running around (and I've never witnessed that) for 7/8 hours.... pop into a role in hospitality you'd live only 7/8.... ok so my relative who was in bed for over 48hours without any form of nutrition because someone didn't change the sign... should I shout?

a role in hospitality as worthwhile as the service may be to the guest is not a comparison to the role of a trained nurse, its nonsense to suggest it..

why did you not as the relative get some refreshment for your relative..?

why would anyone leave someone who they knew needed refreshment without ensuring that the nil by mouth was amended before they left..?

I'm not sure I said that I left them without.... as meal times had finished and he had been offered nothing I left the hospital and went to a local supermarket and provided sustinence. Whe I expressly asked that the nil by mouth be amended and the nurse said I'll do that now... being the professional trained nurse, realising the importance would have gone and done just that. As the nurse said above about being told what to do .... it would send them to the back of the queue? Bit odd for the caring profession but hey ho! I also left plenty of food and drinks to last till my next visit. One of the reasons the NHS may be understaffed may be due to budgets being spent paying out claims made by patients who receive poor care?

I don't see nurses running around, I don't see them quickly moving to the next patient I see staff chatting about shite!

Tell ya what would love to see you walk a day in my shoes on the ward I worked in ha ha you might not have such warped _iews on nurses then.

Just remember you have no idea what's going on, on that ward your only assuming you know.

For every 1 bad nurse there are 1000 good. Every time you stop a nurse asking for her to remove a sight you could have delayed her giving a life saving drug to another patient. And while you sit and assume those nurses are having a chit chat they may be deciding how to deal with that patient that's about to take their last breath. They may be the ones to pick up the pieces after a family being told their child has cancer.

People are good at dissing the nurses but you wouldn't diss them if they saved your life by ignoring joes sign while they have you cpr.

My _iew isn't warped! On the occasion I referred to 5 staff were chatting immediately in front of me, ignoring me, while they discussed their weekend. I didn't want to go into so much detail but I asked every visit ( I was there often) if my relative could have sustinence- sustinence being the things like food and water that keep them alive, in as good health as possible, less likely to suffer complications.... after asking and asking and while waiting as I was being ignored I saw a TV screen with each patients name and various instructions ... one of these was F&D with a tick. After asking if he could have food and drink and being told no as the sign hadn't been changed I questioned the sign and its meaning.... which established that he could be given food and drink. I went away got refreshment as no nurse said "you know what I'll break off from this chat and go and get something" then I asked on leaving, and satisfied he had eaten, that the sign be changed specifically asking "can you do that now?" Yes and off she headed towards the ward... but didn't... maybe because I asked the malicious actions of the nurse (as described above) to consciously deprive care was my fault. He was transferred for further care without medication, without sufficient notes to ensure medication was delivered and I then had to manage that process too! When I firmly challenged this I was called to a room where three staff attempted to tell me I didn't have any idea what I was talking about. I then showed the woman dealing with me how the internet worked to find a gps number!

I was a bit more diplomatic earlier, but my experience is that the profession does not care! I must be so unlucky that I get the 1-1000 who couldn't give a shit!, in different hospitals at different times with multiple staff involved. I wouldn't suggest that all are the same but my experiences tell me the majority are!

And I'd walk in those shoes anytime!

Well I've never had anyone say they would walk in my shoes infact most say they couldn't.

Never easy telling a parent there child has cancer knowing the prognosis isn't good.

Sitting g watching a first time mum nurse her baby when it's got broncilitos and on cpa because it can't breath for its self.

Explaining to a child that it's having an operation to fix a naughty bone.

On top of that this morning your patient died he was 7 and had lukemia you had been nursing him 2 years you were part of his family you were his favorite nurse but you can't cry though your heart is broken into a million pieces because you have other patients that need medication/X-rays/re_iews oh and it's 17.00 you started at 8am not had a break no food drink or a toilet stop.

So when do you want my size 5's to walk??.

I nearly posted just after my last regarding those sort of situations, you sound like you have true compassion for your patients and for that I salute you. You must be in the 1000.... walk in your shoes... I would, I honestly would tomorrow if I could, however I didn't choose your career.

Now the OP asked for recent experiences.... can you now examine the situation from my point of _iew... the above was a failed suicide attempt by my father at 63, a 'normal', genuine, wouldn't hurt a fly, none drinker, no drugs, would help anyone sort of man who has suffered depression throughout his life. He has now cut himself to ribbons his mental state is fragile to say the least. The staff at the hospital left him without food or drink, him asking me, me being told he can't because it says nil by mouth, me having to tell him the same. The negligence shown, not just by the five who were sat chatting, each time I asked no one checked, no one could be arsed. There was no understaffing evident at any time while there, the pace was leisurely at its fastest. I would have tied up more time asking to speak to a doctor had I not found the patient information, a nurse to find them then the more expensive doctors time in answering a question that didn't need asking had the nurses bothered to check. Poor use of resource, poorly managed, poor care... should my father have suffered complications due to dehydration that would lead to further expense ... should something worse occur, I would be claiming compensation for that negligence, further unnecessary expense....

How should I feel?

"

First of all I'm sorry your father had to deal with that 48 hrs being nbm unnecessarily. I'm not apologising for the nurses just that u and yr father had to deal with that!!

I partly agree with you about some nurses appearing not to care!!! I'd agree some don't, they seem to only think it's a glamorous Job in a sexy uniform with an OK wage. This feeds into the plans for the government to ruin us!!

I've seen and done this myself...nurses chatting between patients about the last night out or tomorrow's dinner...(normal stuff people talk about at work) doesn't mean people don't care!! They do, everyone cares!!

Without sounding like I'm excusing their behaviour, and not like I don't appreciate everyone's jobs in or out of a hospital but I can assure you, staff including domestics in hospitals are under great great great pressure. To the point of being suicide themselves. The anxiety and depression that is about in the NHS right now is why it's on its knees. The thing people need to ask themselves is WHY? Don't listen to the media and use the services correctly! Look after yrself if able to mentally and physically - obese and 'mentally ill pts (the pretend ones to get benefits) put a lot of pressure on the NHS...wasting a lot of money!! We know it needs a shake up and possibly getting rid of few bad nurses, doctors, domestic etc.

First though, blame the fat cats who are trying to ruin us by feeding into everyone's struggles and blaming the NHS staff!!

They really are struggling!!

I'm not replying after this because if it's offensive!! I'm not here to rip it trod on anyone's misfortune or jobs!! We're all struggling!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The NHS is a fantastic institution being systematically run down by the government and the media.

I worry that within our childrens lifetimes (and perhaps within our own), we will see it in the hands of the private sector.

A health service ran for profit, is, in my opinion, far from a good thing.

Me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"we all have different experiences. here's mine.

Gp's, trusts or whatever they call themselves are shocking. both as a patient and having to inspect as part of my job for their funding makes me dream of my doc when i was a kid. they cared, they called in as they were passing to check up on my mum as she was poorly. if they gave good service A&E could breathe.

A&E fantastic. from broken bones at xmas, friends in extreme pain and even when there was nothing they could do they let my folks have a moment to gather ourselves rather than turf us out for the bed. the drag down of A&E are people walking in demanding immediate treatment for a headache or minor which could be gp issue. but see above.

Once on a ward, shocking management permitting poor treatment and cleanliness.

but before we start kicking the nhs think about where else you can get free immediate treatment after a bit of waiting, the nhs is on the brink of collapse and where will you get free treatment then? start chasing your mp's/ government as to where the mkney goes and dont take no for an answer. we cannot lose this.

phew, feeling better now. "

Its not free though i pay over 1k a month in tax/ni etc.

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By *inkerbell67Woman  over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I worked for the NHS for 14 years on a very busy ward and I have to say the patients were not the problem it was the families,trying to get them to bring in soap or shower gel ,tooth paste,or clean night ware was a real night mare and when the patients were ready for discharge the families came up with every excuse under the sun ....best ones were Going on holiday or going to family for Christmas,so dont blame soical services on bed blocking have a look at the bigger picture..

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

They saved my fathers life so I have nothing but admiration of the nhs staff.

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By *ikeC81Man  over a year ago

harrow

My mum is in hospital at the moment and I always say thank you to the doctors and nurses for looking after mum. Even a thank you card or a box of buscuits makes the staff feel appreciated by the patients

From the people I know that are in nhs and my father works with nhs, the problem is lack of staff and funding. Doctors and nurses are overworked and therefore can't give the care patients should really have. Also a lot of money is wasted on stupid things

The nhs has saved mums life 3 times if not more, and dads once.

I must admit I have private health care through work though I have never needed to claim on it though I realised I could have claimed for fractured arm and eye infection

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

cahoots

My recent experiences of both hospitals and my GP are excellent. Maybe we are just lucky around here but I can't fault them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"we all have different experiences. here's mine.

Gp's, trusts or whatever they call themselves are shocking. both as a patient and having to inspect as part of my job for their funding makes me dream of my doc when i was a kid. they cared, they called in as they were passing to check up on my mum as she was poorly. if they gave good service A&E could breathe.

A&E fantastic. from broken bones at xmas, friends in extreme pain and even when there was nothing they could do they let my folks have a moment to gather ourselves rather than turf us out for the bed. the drag down of A&E are people walking in demanding immediate treatment for a headache or minor which could be gp issue. but see above.

Once on a ward, shocking management permitting poor treatment and cleanliness.

but before we start kicking the nhs think about where else you can get free immediate treatment after a bit of waiting, the nhs is on the brink of collapse and where will you get free treatment then? start chasing your mp's/ government as to where the mkney goes and dont take no for an answer. we cannot lose this.

phew, feeling better now.

Its not free though i pay over 1k a month in tax/ni etc.

"

Same as everyone else who's working!

That's why u can turn up at A&E with a broken arm and get fixed up (X-ray hmm £200, plastered £150, doctors time ££4-500 guessing, nurses time £0.89 an hour ha £14 guessing) etc etc without paying anything and u could even need cancer treatment which is around £6-800 per vile. Your gonna need about 400 of those viles to get you through one course!

We're lucky to have it...if people don't like it....pay private and pay for repeated consultations which could be told in one nhs consultation! Simples!!

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