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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else ( I can't be alone in this) have the problem of repeat messages? I tend to get the same people message me every other week even after a no thank you reply. I hate to block unnecessarily as from reading past forums knows it offends others greatly. Also my block list now is HUGE! Worst of all is the ones who I tell, ie, you've already messaged last week bla ba bal and I'm still not interested. Only for them to come back with " I thought I'd try again or oh yeah I forgot" . makes the whole process of the poor genuine opposite sex (well in my case) to actually stand a chance. I've now become one of those people that just hits the delete button half the time when I can't be bothered to open a message... that or the first line before opening is already unacceptable so don't waste time with the rest of the message.
It has made me wonder if these serial message offends ever get any meets or replies or do they just go loopy in the forums when they receive no responses? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes. especially if i change my avatar photo. 
i get some guys who message me several times a day. my block list is tiny, i really don't care if they spam my inbox any more.
never seen any in the forums complaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once we've told someone no, they're blocked so we can avoid the repeat business messagers.
Maybe that's the way I'll have to go. Such a shame. "
I do get quite a few people send repeat messages which if they are exactly the same message each time ie cut and paste do get deleted but I tend not to block unless they get abusive...one guy did message me twice before I replied to his third message which ended up sparking a great connection & a really amazing meet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message once and once only, if they read it and don't reply, I take that as a no and pop them on the block list so I don't message again, pretty simple process really, why messaging the same person again a week later to think they'd change their mind is something I could never understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's why I block. I wouldn't want to have to turn down the same people more than once. If they aren't site supporters they won't know they have already messaged you. |
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OP with a set if profile pictures as sexy as yours it's understandable that some men may get distracted and hogan bothered enough to.make the mistake of sending you repeat messages.
Please don't block me I promise not to do it again. I shall not send any more messages and instead just perv from afar.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP with a set if profile pictures as sexy as yours it's understandable that some men may get distracted and hogan bothered enough to.make the mistake of sending you repeat messages.
Please don't block me I promise not to do it again. I shall not send any more messages and instead just perv from afar. "
Haha. Perv away and thanks for the compliment.  |
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Until I blocked him (I only do it in extreme circumstances) I had a guy message me at least 20 times over a few months with the sentence
'Can I ask you anything?'
Presumably it got him success with some women or he wouldn't use it week in week out!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Until I blocked him (I only do it in extreme circumstances) I had a guy message me at least 20 times over a few months with the sentence
'Can I ask you anything?'
Presumably it got him success with some women or he wouldn't use it week in week out! "
Doubt it, that's a frequent offender of my message box |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Until I blocked him (I only do it in extreme circumstances) I had a guy message me at least 20 times over a few months with the sentence
'Can I ask you anything?'
Presumably it got him success with some women or he wouldn't use it week in week out! "
lol, his name begin with M?
he still messages me from time to time to ask me anything. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Very rare I send proactive messages... So it's very unlikely I've repeat messaged ..
I suggest it often to ladies and couples..if your inbox has messages you'd prefer not to receive, block those genders and do the searching and proactively message those that interest and appeal to you...after all who knows better what you're seeking than you.  . you might be the repeat offender then though |
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"It has made me wonder if these serial message offends ever get any meets or replies or do they just go loopy in the forums when they receive no responses? "
Makes me think of what a real spammer said "we only need a one percent success rate to make it all worthwhile."
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