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Is sex worth it if it's over quicker than the time it takes you to get to the person?
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? |
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? "
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? "
I make sure it's worth there while, when they travel to come see me |
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over a year ago
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins "
i hope an encore was provided!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't drive, have had guys spend 40 mins driving to me to cum in 5 then fuck off. then they wonder why you don't want to meet again?
it's easy enough to get another guy over and wait 40 mins for them i guess. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"i don't drive, have had guys spend 40 mins driving to me to cum in 5 then fuck off. then they wonder why you don't want to meet again?
it's easy enough to get another guy over and wait 40 mins for them i guess. "
Yeah it is. It's just off putting. I mean all the effort for you to nine times out of ten feel unsatisfied. I don't know why they'd expect to see you again. Makes me laugh when a guy says that |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
i hope an encore was provided!!"
Nope not even heard from them and they made no effort to get me off in the slightest |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I remember walking to a meet I thought lived nearby. It took me 40 mins to walk to his, but I was OK with that as he promised me all sorts of salacious delights. I was there for 10 mins and he booted me out because he had stuff to do. I could only smile wryly as I walked the 40 mins home. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"No it depends on who its with it could be really good. i have had quickies in the past that have been really good, so good i have never forgoten about them."
I don't have anything against a quickie. I've had some pretty intense and very memorable ones. It just seems more and more that guys are using it like a fuck n go. They cum n fuck off and the female is left wanton |
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Slut plays with her pussy all the time when sat round the house but prefers the real thing. Once had a guy drive 30 minutes and she jumped into our bed and was at it for two hours. I got in from work to a very satisfied slut |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I remember walking to a meet I thought lived nearby. It took me 40 mins to walk to his, but I was OK with that as he promised me all sorts of salacious delights. I was there for 10 mins and he booted me out because he had stuff to do. I could only smile wryly as I walked the 40 mins home."
I would have been livid! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not worth it. If I travel a fair distance (which I usually have to because of where I live) then I always ensure I'm going to have a good long session. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I remember walking to a meet I thought lived nearby. It took me 40 mins to walk to his, but I was OK with that as he promised me all sorts of salacious delights. I was there for 10 mins and he booted me out because he had stuff to do. I could only smile wryly as I walked the 40 mins home.
I would have been livid! "
I think I stopped for a pint on the way home. That took longer than the shag too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't drive, have had guys spend 40 mins driving to me to cum in 5 then fuck off. then they wonder why you don't want to meet again?
it's easy enough to get another guy over and wait 40 mins for them i guess.
Yeah it is. It's just off putting. I mean all the effort for you to nine times out of ten feel unsatisfied. I don't know why they'd expect to see you again. Makes me laugh when a guy says that "
hopefully you find a few good regulars or something.
i hardly meet now. got sick of poor quality sex.
think the worst one was a guy who came within a few mins off a bj, i'd had nothing at all off him. he apologised and left, then messaged me again asking to make it up to me by me getting a mate for a ffm 3sum with him, fucking knob. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet "
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip* |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*"
Haha Yep I've driven 6 hrs and got 3 days worth of amazing sex.
Flown 700 miles to have similar.
Can't find a guy within a hour drive that doesn't shoot his load before my bra is off |
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"I remember walking to a meet I thought lived nearby. It took me 40 mins to walk to his, but I was OK with that as he promised me all sorts of salacious delights. I was there for 10 mins and he booted me out because he had stuff to do. I could only smile wryly as I walked the 40 mins home.
I would have been livid!
I think I stopped for a pint on the way home. That took longer than the shag too. "
Thats horrendous. How on earth do men's minds work ?!!! |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I remember walking to a meet I thought lived nearby. It took me 40 mins to walk to his, but I was OK with that as he promised me all sorts of salacious delights. I was there for 10 mins and he booted me out because he had stuff to do. I could only smile wryly as I walked the 40 mins home.
I would have been livid!
I think I stopped for a pint on the way home. That took longer than the shag too. "
I'd have definitely stopped off for a pint or two! Probably found someone else too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't drive, have had guys spend 40 mins driving to me to cum in 5 then fuck off. then they wonder why you don't want to meet again?
it's easy enough to get another guy over and wait 40 mins for them i guess.
Yeah it is. It's just off putting. I mean all the effort for you to nine times out of ten feel unsatisfied. I don't know why they'd expect to see you again. Makes me laugh when a guy says that
hopefully you find a few good regulars or something.
i hardly meet now. got sick of poor quality sex.
think the worst one was a guy who came within a few mins off a bj, i'd had nothing at all off him. he apologised and left, then messaged me again asking to make it up to me by me getting a mate for a ffm 3sum with him, fucking knob. "
What a total loser he sounds |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"He once drove 80 mins through the snow just to kiss me. Then 80 mins home again.
He said it was worth it as it made my day.
I've done similar too. "
It's great when you meet someone like that. It kinda eradicates all the shitty unfuck button wishing sex you've had in the past.
That's a whole new thread tho! The unfuck button should be a thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*"
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i don't drive, have had guys spend 40 mins driving to me to cum in 5 then fuck off. then they wonder why you don't want to meet again?
it's easy enough to get another guy over and wait 40 mins for them i guess.
Yeah it is. It's just off putting. I mean all the effort for you to nine times out of ten feel unsatisfied. I don't know why they'd expect to see you again. Makes me laugh when a guy says that
hopefully you find a few good regulars or something.
i hardly meet now. got sick of poor quality sex.
think the worst one was a guy who came within a few mins off a bj, i'd had nothing at all off him. he apologised and left, then messaged me again asking to make it up to me by me getting a mate for a ffm 3sum with him, fucking knob.
What a total loser he sounds"
wouldn't be surprised if he's married to someone lovely and she hasn't a clue what he's like. |
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*"
I don't get chance for a breather. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"These verifications could be contenders for 2017's forum awards
Which ones? The 700 miles flown for days of awesome sex! "
Haha... Nooooo 700 miles for awesome is standard.....
Today's..
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya! "
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
Haha Yep I've driven 6 hrs and got 3 days worth of amazing sex.
Flown 700 miles to have similar.
Can't find a guy within a hour drive that doesn't shoot his load before my bra is off "
I drove 600miles ish round trip and got some unexpected but fricken amazing sex |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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"He once drove 80 mins through the snow just to kiss me. Then 80 mins home again.
He said it was worth it as it made my day.
I've done similar too.
I've been tempted to do this recently "
Sometimes you just need to be kissed |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya! "
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"He once drove 80 mins through the snow just to kiss me. Then 80 mins home again.
He said it was worth it as it made my day.
I've done similar too.
I've been tempted to do this recently "
I'd say go for it. Life is too short not to be made up of awesome memories |
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"He once drove 80 mins through the snow just to kiss me. Then 80 mins home again.
He said it was worth it as it made my day.
I've done similar too.
I've been tempted to do this recently
Sometimes you just need to be kissed "
Yes yes you do.
Oi if you are reading this, I need a kiss |
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya!
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh"
I've cum in 5 minutes and then asked for a coffee |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya!
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh
I've cum in 5 minutes and then asked for a coffee "
Give me your secret. Anything short of an hour with me is a miracle |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"These verifications could be contenders for 2017's forum awards
Which ones? The 700 miles flown for days of awesome sex!
Haha... Nooooo 700 miles for awesome is standard.....
Today's..
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The ones that don't last don't get a veri nor would I post one they left me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya!
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh"
Oh, I don't mind the coming in 5 minutes or even less bit. So long as the kissing doesn't stop and after a minute or two it's okay to carry on
Too right on fecking off straight away being right out of order! I think I may have been rather lucky so far though |
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya!
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh
I've cum in 5 minutes and then asked for a coffee
Give me your secret. Anything short of an hour with me is a miracle "
I don't think it's me that causes it |
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya!
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh
Oh, I don't mind the coming in 5 minutes or even less bit. So long as the kissing doesn't stop and after a minute or two it's okay to carry on
Too right on fecking off straight away being right out of order! I think I may have been rather lucky so far though "
Jesus, check out the machine here.
Never did get that coffee though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya!
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh
I've cum in 5 minutes and then asked for a coffee
Give me your secret. Anything short of an hour with me is a miracle
I don't think it's me that causes it "
Oh, I disagree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh lord it's disheartening. I'm against meeting at the mo as I really can't handle bad sex.
Can't even really tell it how it is in a veri as I guess they just won't show it. "
just don't verify them. as far as i'm concerned they aren't genuine and just after a free prostitute. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Oh lord it's disheartening. I'm against meeting at the mo as I really can't handle bad sex.
Can't even really tell it how it is in a veri as I guess they just won't show it. "
Yeah it's one of the reasons I'm not exactly rushing to meet anyone. With 2 nights a month free I would like to make sure it's worth it. |
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
That's what i would expect too! They could have a breather in between but then straight back to it *silently cracks the whip*
*sighs* slave drivers, the lot of ya!
Haha hardly! Yiu wouldn't like it if us girls came in 5 mins then said tooodleooooh
I've cum in 5 minutes and then asked for a coffee
Give me your secret. Anything short of an hour with me is a miracle
I don't think it's me that causes it
Oh, I disagree "
Let's not get into a cause and effect debate |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
4 mins not that bad compared to one I met we're talking seconds "
There is absolutely nothing worse esp when they just apologise and go. Where's the impetus tp play with the woman til hard again? |
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"He once drove 80 mins through the snow just to kiss me. Then 80 mins home again.
He said it was worth it as it made my day.
I've done similar too.
It's great when you meet someone like that. It kinda eradicates all the shitty unfuck button wishing sex you've had in the past.
That's a whole new thread tho! The unfuck button should be a thing "
This button would be a useful feature. There's a couple of blokes that I'd press it for ! |
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins "
I feel ur pain, once had a met (on my single profile) and the bloke came as he got the condom on
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
4 mins not that bad compared to one I met we're talking seconds "
Was that it? I don't think I would complain at them shooting their load quickly first time around, I would have teased them to the max beforehand (so long as it doesn't get on my dress) but I would be expecting more.
If that was it well, they should go unlos |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"He once drove 80 mins through the snow just to kiss me. Then 80 mins home again.
He said it was worth it as it made my day.
I've done similar too.
It's great when you meet someone like that. It kinda eradicates all the shitty unfuck button wishing sex you've had in the past.
That's a whole new thread tho! The unfuck button should be a thing
This button would be a useful feature. There's a couple of blokes that I'd press it for !"
There's def a few I'd hit the unfuck button for! There's times you just think "why?" |
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"He once drove 80 mins through the snow just to kiss me. Then 80 mins home again.
He said it was worth it as it made my day.
I've done similar too.
It's great when you meet someone like that. It kinda eradicates all the shitty unfuck button wishing sex you've had in the past.
That's a whole new thread tho! The unfuck button should be a thing
This button would be a useful feature. There's a couple of blokes that I'd press it for !"
I could make use of that *shivers* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
I feel ur pain, once had a met (on my single profile) and the bloke came as he got the condom on
Mrs "
sorry i laughed when i should be empathising.
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
I feel ur pain, once had a met (on my single profile) and the bloke came as he got the condom on
Mrs "
oh my yeah they are painfully awkward ones! If I was a guy I'd just play with the woman til I was hard again |
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
I feel ur pain, once had a met (on my single profile) and the bloke came as he got the condom on
Mrs
oh my yeah they are painfully awkward ones! If I was a guy I'd just play with the woman til I was hard again "
Good God |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
I feel ur pain, once had a met (on my single profile) and the bloke came as he got the condom on
Mrs
oh my yeah they are painfully awkward ones! If I was a guy I'd just play with the woman til I was hard again
Good God "
Would you not miss honey? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I rarely meet locally and this has never been an issue, I have to say. And I don't drive so get a lot of trains, which involves a walk to the station before my journey even starts properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? "
Yes, of course. |
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"I rarely meet locally and this has never been an issue, I have to say. And I don't drive so get a lot of trains, which involves a walk to the station before my journey even starts properly."
I got a train station near me just to let u no |
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
I feel ur pain, once had a met (on my single profile) and the bloke came as he got the condom on
Mrs
oh my yeah they are painfully awkward ones! If I was a guy I'd just play with the woman til I was hard again
Good God
Would you not miss honey? "
I meant the bloke, before he even got it on
I just play with myself until they are ready to go again |
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
I feel ur pain, once had a met (on my single profile) and the bloke came as he got the condom on
Mrs
oh my yeah they are painfully awkward ones! If I was a guy I'd just play with the woman til I was hard again
Good God
Would you not miss honey?
I meant the bloke, before he even got it on
I just play with myself until they are ready to go again "
Think he was that embarrassed he Jst left |
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
4 mins not that bad compared to one I met we're talking seconds
Was that it? I don't think I would complain at them shooting their load quickly first time around, I would have teased them to the max beforehand (so long as it doesn't get on my dress) but I would be expecting more.
If that was it well, they should go unlos "
Funnily enough yes they'd gone unlos by the time I got home I felt rather bad for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet "
I reckon you're about six hours' drive from me. I'll put the coffee on... |
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? "
Haha I have pondered over this many times and came to the conclusion that it really depends ... sometimes it's really good even if it did take me longer to get there and other times I re-evaluate my whole life whilst stood in the shower |
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins "
10% of the time it works everytime! |
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? "
Haha. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation "
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank?
Haha I have pondered over this many times and came to the conclusion that it really depends ... sometimes it's really good even if it did take me longer to get there and other times I re-evaluate my whole life whilst stood in the shower "
If it's a really good satisfying 10-20 min quickie then grand but if they've shot their load before you've ever struck up a rhythm or even worse whilst thru oral that's when I shower ponder haha |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy. "
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you |
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? "
I met a married bloke in his car once, after a bit of foreplay I got on top of him and he came in 20secs. It was worth the time I took to go to the meet though, coz he was really hot and it was exciting XXX |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
I reckon you're about six hours' drive from me. I'll put the coffee on...
Best come for the weekend then " depends on the person and situation I guess.. I've had a great experience recently after trecking through Bristol... even stacked it on the way to her. . In style of course.. lol |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
I reckon you're about six hours' drive from me. I'll put the coffee on...
Best come for the weekend then depends on the person and situation I guess.. I've had a great experience recently after trecking through Bristol... even stacked it on the way to her. . In style of course.. lol"
Haha never heard stacked it! Yeah I've acquired a free weekend as Al my mates have bailed on me for an event in Feb. Maybe I should find a weekend meet |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy.
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you "
If you had to use my wand why would I bother? I can use my wand on me any time of the day. The whole point of a partner is so that they use things I don't have....If I could lick me out I would all damn day. But I just can't quite get the angle. If I had a removable dick I'd fuck myself too. Toys don't do the same thing as a dick . |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"If I'm driving for 2 hours I expect at least 4 hours of fun
Not been let down yet
I reckon you're about six hours' drive from me. I'll put the coffee on...
Best come for the weekend then depends on the person and situation I guess.. I've had a great experience recently after trecking through Bristol... even stacked it on the way to her. . In style of course.. lol
Haha never heard stacked it! Yeah I've acquired a free weekend as Al my mates have bailed on me for an event in Feb. Maybe I should find a weekend meet" cobbled streets... on my phone... starsky and hutch role... the terms of the meet meant that it was going to be short... but we both really enjoyed it.. x |
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"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy.
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you
If you had to use my wand why would I bother? I can use my wand on me any time of the day. The whole point of a partner is so that they use things I don't have....If I could lick me out I would all damn day. But I just can't quite get the angle. If I had a removable dick I'd fuck myself too. Toys don't do the same thing as a dick ." took the words out of my mouth |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy.
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you
If you had to use my wand why would I bother? I can use my wand on me any time of the day. The whole point of a partner is so that they use things I don't have....If I could lick me out I would all damn day. But I just can't quite get the angle. If I had a removable dick I'd fuck myself too. Toys don't do the same thing as a dick . took the words out of my mouth "
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins "
One of my best meets came quickly the first time. We just kissed, chatted and giggled until 'something came up' again!
We carried on doing that for about 22 hours!
Delightful! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
If I flip this and say would you be disappointed if the guy didn't orgasm yet you'd had a good time.?
Just for balance the guy might be really disappointed as well.. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If I flip this and say would you be disappointed if the guy didn't orgasm yet you'd had a good time.?
Just for balance the guy might be really disappointed as well.. "
Difference is I would have tried everything possible to make the guy cum rather than just say bye once I'd orgasmed - chance be a fine thing. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If the journey took less than 5 minutes....it wasn't worth it
Worst one....40 min drive...They came in less than 4 mins
One of my best meets came quickly the first time. We just kissed, chatted and giggled until 'something came up' again!
We carried on doing that for about 22 hours!
Delightful! "
They definitely are the best kind |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy.
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you
If you had to use my wand why would I bother? I can use my wand on me any time of the day. The whole point of a partner is so that they use things I don't have....If I could lick me out I would all damn day. But I just can't quite get the angle. If I had a removable dick I'd fuck myself too. Toys don't do the same thing as a dick ."
why would I not use toys to push limits of endurance ,my hands lips fingers and cock are also tools to be used or not depending on my mood and level of inspiration .
if a play partner wants my lips my fingers and ultimately my cock then they will have to inspire me to want to use them during play . as for my orgasm best not to even think about getting into that I use my own orgasm as a tool to |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
the gym and random places |
"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy.
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you
If you had to use my wand why would I bother? I can use my wand on me any time of the day. The whole point of a partner is so that they use things I don't have....If I could lick me out I would all damn day. But I just can't quite get the angle. If I had a removable dick I'd fuck myself too. Toys don't do the same thing as a dick .
why would I not use toys to push limits of endurance ,my hands lips fingers and cock are also tools to be used or not depending on my mood and level of inspiration .
if a play partner wants my lips my fingers and ultimately my cock then they will have to inspire me to want to use them during play . as for my orgasm best not to even think about getting into that I use my own orgasm as a tool to "
Sorry but as one who has been z female pro domme if I want a partner tp play with me then they had best play. I've no time for toys when there is a live person to play with. That's fine for further down the line when both parties want to push each other further. |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Just cus he cums that doesn't mean it's over.... Far from it
It is when they just get dressed and leave you are picking the wrong type of meet then, i would say.."
It's not like I've a bullshit meter before meeting someone. Happens not just go me but lots of ppl |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Just cus he cums that doesn't mean it's over.... Far from it
It is when they just get dressed and leave
Then that - my lovely - is called a tosser - not a swinger! "
Wholeheartedly agree |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy.
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you
If you had to use my wand why would I bother? I can use my wand on me any time of the day. The whole point of a partner is so that they use things I don't have....If I could lick me out I would all damn day. But I just can't quite get the angle. If I had a removable dick I'd fuck myself too. Toys don't do the same thing as a dick .
why would I not use toys to push limits of endurance ,my hands lips fingers and cock are also tools to be used or not depending on my mood and level of inspiration .
if a play partner wants my lips my fingers and ultimately my cock then they will have to inspire me to want to use them during play . as for my orgasm best not to even think about getting into that I use my own orgasm as a tool to
Sorry but as one who has been z female pro domme if I want a partner tp play with me then they had best play. I've no time for toys when there is a live person to play with. That's fine for further down the line when both parties want to push each other further. "
if that's the case you cant really complain about the sex or how long its lasts as if I'm reading your words correctly your purely chancing the physical with those who are only into the physical to
which will mean more often than not they are more interested in their physical pleasure than yours hence short quick effortless pleasurable sex for themselves .
in my experience if you want more your going to have to give more as well as take more like the old saying goes if you put more in something you get more out of it sex is like that in my experience the more effort you put in the more you get out .
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"if I was to go on a meet and after thirty seconds of my expert finger and mouth technic she came and then said thanks I'm having a shower then I'm off I can honestly say I wouldn't bother even if after 30 minutes she was fucked out I wouldn't bother .
I'm used to a lot more than most woman are used to giving been spoiled by a couple of very very high tolerance ferns
this has made me a very greedy guy who likes 6 to 8 hour sessions my problem is finding a woman who can last under the relentless teasing edging and orgasm manipulation
Ha well I can assure you I've not been spoiled. 3 oral orgasms in 2016 says that. My wand saw more a action than most porn films. Even when with a guy they won't get me off they'll ask to watch with my wand then they fuck til they cum.
I go for hours and any previous fb gives up because they can't keep up with me. It's very disheartening. Guys I click with sexually still won't take the time to just take that extra 10-15 minutes to ensure I'm happy.
professional pride says I must push my play partners to there absolute limits . give me a multi orgasmic girl and I will not stop until she can not take anymore then at that point I will demand one more for luck .
I'm a sod who fucks for the satisfaction of making another come and feel more than they have ever felt before totally different mind set to your average guy who's just looking to get a orgasm ,
I am going to brag now give me that wand let me whisper into your ear as I start to use it on you and trust me if you come three times I'm going lightly on you
If you had to use my wand why would I bother? I can use my wand on me any time of the day. The whole point of a partner is so that they use things I don't have....If I could lick me out I would all damn day. But I just can't quite get the angle. If I had a removable dick I'd fuck myself too. Toys don't do the same thing as a dick .
why would I not use toys to push limits of endurance ,my hands lips fingers and cock are also tools to be used or not depending on my mood and level of inspiration .
if a play partner wants my lips my fingers and ultimately my cock then they will have to inspire me to want to use them during play . as for my orgasm best not to even think about getting into that I use my own orgasm as a tool to
Sorry but as one who has been z female pro domme if I want a partner tp play with me then they had best play. I've no time for toys when there is a live person to play with. That's fine for further down the line when both parties want to push each other further.
if that's the case you cant really complain about the sex or how long its lasts as if I'm reading your words correctly your purely chancing the physical with those who are only into the physical to
which will mean more often than not they are more interested in their physical pleasure than yours hence short quick effortless pleasurable sex for themselves .
in my experience if you want more your going to have to give more as well as take more like the old saying goes if you put more in something you get more out of it sex is like that in my experience the more effort you put in the more you get out .
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It's because I put in so much effort than men are lazy. You seem to have cast me in some disparaging light. I need physical and mental stimulation not a quickie with no effort. |
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"Having thought on it when you're really horny but then when you make the effort and you're with the person less time than it took you to drive to them.....is it just easier with a wank? "
This is why I only talk to people within a 5 min walk. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"If I flip this and say would you be disappointed if the guy didn't orgasm yet you'd had a good time.?
Just for balance the guy might be really disappointed as well..
Difference is I would have tried everything possible to make the guy cum rather than just say bye once I'd orgasmed - chance be a fine thing. "
Wasn't having a go, I was trying to get folk to look at it from a different perspective...
it's nearly always from the ladies point of view... guy Wasn't , single guy didn't do this guy didn't perform, guy this guy that the forums are full of threads saying as such.. guys jump on here saying not me never happens with mee I'm a ....
I'd put a £ to a pinch of poo if a guy had posted this with roles reversed he'd ha e had very different responses. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"If I flip this and say would you be disappointed if the guy didn't orgasm yet you'd had a good time.?
Just for balance the guy might be really disappointed as well..
Difference is I would have tried everything possible to make the guy cum rather than just say bye once I'd orgasmed - chance be a fine thing.
Wasn't having a go, I was trying to get folk to look at it from a different perspective...
it's nearly always from the ladies point of view... guy Wasn't , single guy didn't do this guy didn't perform, guy this guy that the forums are full of threads saying as such.. guys jump on here saying not me never happens with mee I'm a ....
I'd put a £ to a pinch of poo if a guy had posted this with roles reversed he'd ha e had very different responses. " you actually have to show up to cum... huh? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"If I flip this and say would you be disappointed if the guy didn't orgasm yet you'd had a good time.?
Just for balance the guy might be really disappointed as well..
Difference is I would have tried everything possible to make the guy cum rather than just say bye once I'd orgasmed - chance be a fine thing.
Wasn't having a go, I was trying to get folk to look at it from a different perspective...
it's nearly always from the ladies point of view... guy Wasn't , single guy didn't do this guy didn't perform, guy this guy that the forums are full of threads saying as such.. guys jump on here saying not me never happens with mee I'm a ....
I'd put a £ to a pinch of poo if a guy had posted this with roles reversed he'd ha e had very different responses. you actually have to show up to cum... huh?"
No shows ... Now That's a thread that s been done lots of times |
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It's because I put in so much effort than men are lazy. You seem to have cast me in some disparaging light. I need physical and mental stimulation not a quickie with no effort. "
Hey! No sweeping generalisations! Okay?! Some of us lazy fellas break sweat twice sometimes, y'know?! |
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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago
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It's because I put in so much effort than men are lazy. You seem to have cast me in some disparaging light. I need physical and mental stimulation not a quickie with no effort.
Hey! No sweeping generalisations! Okay?! Some of us lazy fellas break sweat twice sometimes, y'know?! "
Haha can't beat breaking sweat I dunno why guys don't like it. |
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