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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.
What are your insecurities?? |
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My hairline and my height only because a lot of women tend to ask guys to be a minimum 5"10 usually 6ft is the entry requirement so I'm constantly overlooked which annoys me 
But I have begun to own the height thing as of late. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would't reveal them on here. You only have to look at some of the other threads to find folk keen to use things they perceive as being someone's insecurity against them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is my bum, and a couple of others that I don't reveal unless I'm meeting someone.
However, no one I've met have ever had an issue with them, so I try not to let them bother me too much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would't reveal them on here. You only have to look at some of the other threads to find folk keen to use things they perceive as being someone's insecurity against them."
They can say what they want. Don't care.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My insecurities, how long have you got? My bottom is a flabby, southern leaning disaster. My nose is squishier than Shrek's. My eyes are a pretty colour, yet sadly can't see more than about 20 centimetres. I've chopped my fringe so much that even the very kind hairdresser I called on for mercy laughed in my face. I have icky stretch marks on my thighs. It doesn't matter how many sit ups I do, my tum is determined to hang like an ugly sack.
However, I'm finally learning to maybe not love my imperfections, but to at least accept that they're the badges of my life and I'm stuck with the buggers. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"My insecurities, how long have you got? My bottom is a flabby, southern leaning disaster. My nose is squishier than Shrek's. My eyes are a pretty colour, yet sadly can't see more than about 20 centimetres. I've chopped my fringe so much that even the very kind hairdresser I called on for mercy laughed in my face. I have icky stretch marks on my thighs. It doesn't matter how many sit ups I do, my tum is determined to hang like an ugly sack.
However, I'm finally learning to maybe not love my imperfections, but to at least accept that they're the badges of my life and I'm stuck with the buggers. "
Omg heels!!! I've seen you wearing next to nothing and you have a gorgeous body.
Can't see more than 20cm?? Well hellloooo!! haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate my tummy.after 4 kids it's not what it used to be.I'm not confident person with folk when I first meet them"
I was the same ... crunches while watching TV... Russian twists with weights ( wine bottle ) .. |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.
What are your insecurities?? "
lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.
What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol"
Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I've found the things I am most insecure about regarding my body are not even noticed by the men I meet. Or if they are, the guys are far too polite to mention them. 
I am still insecure about my body, but I would never draw attention to it.
I just work as hard as possible to make sure I look as good as possible for me. If I tried to fulfil all blokes fantasies I would fail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My insecurities, how long have you got? My bottom is a flabby, southern leaning disaster. My nose is squishier than Shrek's. My eyes are a pretty colour, yet sadly can't see more than about 20 centimetres. I've chopped my fringe so much that even the very kind hairdresser I called on for mercy laughed in my face. I have icky stretch marks on my thighs. It doesn't matter how many sit ups I do, my tum is determined to hang like an ugly sack.
Well id just like to you are beautiful
However, I'm finally learning to maybe not love my imperfections, but to at least accept that they're the badges of my life and I'm stuck with the buggers. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Insecurities yes ....my tum need to get my arse in gear and start exercising ...sex helps but can't have sex 24/7 ...
Other than that very happy with my body  |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.
What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol
Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out "
I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.
What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol
Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain... "
I know what you mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had insecurities before fab, and I'll have them after fab. Fab has made me less shy, but it hasn't changed how I feel about my body, for better or worse.
To answer your question, I'm most insecure about my legs, my thighs in particular. They are out of proportion with the rest of my body and I don't like them. They were great when I played sports but they are shit in lingerie. But they are what they are, I suppose.  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I have loads. The physical ones are surmountable since I can apply logic and common sense to how I feel about those, which are myriad. Currently my size is a big one but it's dealable with so I'm dealing with it. The emotional ones are harder but I can rationalise and share those with people I am close to when necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have loads. The physical ones are surmountable since I can apply logic and common sense to how I feel about those, which are myriad. Currently my size is a big one but it's dealable with so I'm dealing with it. The emotional ones are harder but I can rationalise and share those with people I am close to when necessary."
We all have issues. We have to learn to deal with them.
I am. Feel much happier. |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.
What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol
Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain...
I know what you mean "
never envisaged a redunicorn understanding me..wondering of I took the right pills earlier...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Since joining fab I have started to overcome some of my insecurities. One of them being not liking my ass. So I squat as much as I can.
What are your insecurities?? lost 6 stone over the last 2 years... my life is full of insecurities and at the same time massive confidence. .. it's a strange world... lol
Yes it is. Have to be happy with yourself first then the sexiness will come out I'm happy... guess not used to being happy with the way I look... difficult to explain...
I know what you mean never envisaged a redunicorn understanding me..wondering of I took the right pills earlier... "
Blue pills or white small round ones ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the things I am most insecure about regarding my body are not even noticed by the men I meet. Or if they are, the guys are far too polite to mention them.
I am still insecure about my body, but I would never draw attention to it.
I just work as hard as possible to make sure I look as good as possible for me. If I tried to fulfil all blokes fantasies I would fail."
Excellent attitude to have |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I think I have a fat belly - which I do. I have scars on my legs which I don't like but hey ho.
My bum and eyes are my best asset and I have been told my cock is nice.
I have a big nose that kind bends to one side which I don't like.
I suppose that's why I am not that direct in asking people to play |
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it's amazing 
5 inches ish downhill backwind
Although not had any complaints as plenty of other skills apparently.
