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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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... obviously you all love and respect your partners dearly however during your swinging experiences have you had amazingly better sex with someone else and gone back for more?
also... do you tell your partner that it was better?
and another slant.. how would you feel if your other half said 'he/she was the best sex ive ever had'
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ooo dont think meny couples are goin to comment on this. If they did there would be trouble"
its a good few questions though.. bound to cause a little controversy if not make people think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh and would jay tell me someone else is better in bed than me. Never"
is that because he respects and loves you too much and would be afraid to hurt you even if it was the truth?
for the record im not doubting your sexual abilities im sure your fab.. just being hypothetical here xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... obviously you all love and respect your partners dearly however during your swinging experiences have you had amazingly better sex with someone else and gone back for more?
also... do you tell your partner that it was better?
and another slant.. how would you feel if your other half said 'he/she was the best sex ive ever had'
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I always tell Tiger if someone is a particularly good fuck. He's happy for me. It's different with your own partner though, isn't it? So much more than just sex. |
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"Yes ive gone back for more thats why i have some regular meets. Have i had mind blowing sex with them yes. Do i love them no i dont. Good sex is good sex but love is far more"
i agree with this, iv had better mind blowing sex but i love my man. sex is sex  |
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"Oh and would jay tell me someone else is better in bed than me. Never
is that because he respects and loves you too much and would be afraid to hurt you even if it was the truth?
for the record im not doubting your sexual abilities im sure your fab.. just being hypothetical here xx"
Jay is bi and hes played with woman but hes never had full sex with a woman since hes been with me, hes quite free to but he doesnt want to |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"... obviously you all love and respect your partners dearly however during your swinging experiences have you had amazingly better sex with someone else and gone back for more?
also... do you tell your partner that it was better?
and another slant.. how would you feel if your other half said 'he/she was the best sex ive ever had'
I always tell Tiger if someone is a particularly good fuck. He's happy for me. It's different with your own partner though, isn't it? So much more than just sex."
I would imagine more intimate ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes i would tell my partner if it was amazing sex ... not sure if it would be better though probably just different. Having been together for 20 years the sex we have together is intimate, loving, and we know exactly what turns each other on....sex with strangers turns you on in different ways xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had some AMAZING sex with other guys since swinging and have always invited them back for more - however, the reason it has been so amazing is because my OT has been there, watching me and enjoying every minute of it - different people have different techniques and when he sees a particular thing is driving me wild, asks me what it was so that he can learn from it - same for me - once I learnt that deep throating really turned him on - I practised and practised on him til I became and expert!! (Thank you to that other lady is what I say!) LOL xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the experience that we all have together that makes a meet incredible and the sex mindblowing,and we do meet up with guys again if its like that
The sex we have together is very different as we love each other and know each other inside out,I don't think it can be compared  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... obviously you all love and respect your partners dearly however during your swinging experiences have you had amazingly better sex with someone else and gone back for more?
also... do you tell your partner that it was better?
and another slant.. how would you feel if your other half said 'he/she was the best sex ive ever had'
I always tell Tiger if someone is a particularly good fuck. He's happy for me. It's different with your own partner though, isn't it? So much more than just sex.
I would imagine more intimate ?
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hmmm difficult to describe but perhaps because it is a seamless body and mind experience senses are heightened? good questions and a good one to ponder on whilst watching insects in the grass going about their business on a fine summers day. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If I didn't enjoy the sex in our MFM then we wouldn't do it, so yes, I have enjoyed the sex...some of it has been repeat meets so it must be good enough to go back for more.
The more I enjoy the sex with others, the more it turns Mr R on, so I think it would be less enjoyable for him if I didn't enjoy it.
But the sex between me and the OH is totally different level as we are in love. With other people there isn't that connection.
So although it might be great sex with someone else, it still wouldn't be better than what we have together.
Great question btw. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question actually
The difference is the feelings that ya have fa ya partner
Ya cannot replicate that kind of sex with others
I ain't saying that ya can't have utterly mind-blowing sex with others ya can
But the difference is obvious when ya love someone xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmmmmm I wonder how this forum post wouldve been taken if a man had asked it....sorry just think i remember some guy being slated for possibly suggesting the same question...of course his replies werent that good hahahhaa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had better sex with anyone more than I have had with Siren. We're not prolific swingers and we've had some horny times but the best sex we've had is on our own. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Hmmmmmmm I wonder how this forum post wouldve been taken if a man had asked it....sorry just think i remember some guy being slated for possibly suggesting the same question...of course his replies werent that good hahahhaa"
Actually, I think you will find the man asked a question and then put a list of negative possible answers to his question. He also said sorry after he realised what he had done.
This post wasn't negative and didn't offer any negative reasons.
Please don't start any unrest when there isn't any here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok here's my slant on it (doesnt really count for much as im not in a relationship but will base it if i was still in love with my ex)
id agree the sex with strangers would be different, wouldnt be half as personal or intimate.. feelings would be just detatched despite probably experiencing the same motions and activities.
if he told me he had better sex with a stranger i would be gutted and a little jealous because i love my other half and dissapointed in myself that i couldnt sexually do it for him like others could,,HOWEVER thats why we'd be swingers and id see past my underlying jealousy because by him getting his kicks from others i know it makes him happy and in return that makes me happy.
Think thats why i love giving oral more than anything,, giving someone else pleasure turns me on (kinda selfish really lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmmmmmm I wonder how this forum post wouldve been taken if a man had asked it....sorry just think i remember some guy being slated for possibly suggesting the same question...of course his replies werent that good hahahhaa
Actually, I think you will find the man asked a question and then put a list of negative possible answers to his question. He also said sorry after he realised what he had done.
This post wasn't negative and didn't offer any negative reasons.
Please don't start any unrest when there isn't any here."
quite honestly did not notice if it was a man or woman (he he despite the pic) but yes it's a great questions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmmmmmm I wonder how this forum post wouldve been taken if a man had asked it....sorry just think i remember some guy being slated for possibly suggesting the same question...of course his replies werent that good hahahhaa
Actually, I think you will find the man asked a question and then put a list of negative possible answers to his question. He also said sorry after he realised what he had done.
This post wasn't negative and didn't offer any negative reasons.
Please don't start any unrest when there isn't any here."
apologies, no intent to cause unrest at all, merely an observation thats all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmmmmmm I wonder how this forum post wouldve been taken if a man had asked it....sorry just think i remember some guy being slated for possibly suggesting the same question...of course his replies werent that good hahahhaa"
oh must have missed it when it was asked before, sorry x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive had great sex with guys but it is never better than my OH. I cant see how sex with a stranger can be better than sex with someone who knows your body and how you react to different things. Its exciting sex with strangers because its taboo and my OH is there taking part.
We have no problem in telling each other if its great sex with others we've had. Chris has amazing oral skills, he is talented, but he knows that I once received oral sex from a woman and it was mind blowing, she was absolutely amazing. Not better than Chris, but she was the best out of the stranger sex ive had.
I got upset early on in our swinging adventures because Chris rarely comes with a blow job. He loves sensual licking, but only fast and hard and for a long time will make him come. We were at Chams when a woman gave him a blow job and made him come and it did hurt me, I have to admit. It was a shame really cos he looked at me with incredible guilt on his face and he knew I was affected by it.
By the same token last week was a first for me. Ive never gushed before, and last week I was being touched by the single guy we were playing with a little rougher than I usually go for and it felt really good. I then felt a pop inside and fluid came out. I clamped my pelvic floors and so it was a trickle basically. My firt thought was oh my god I think I might have gushed and my OH might see. But I know that he would have been upset if I was holding back. It didnt happen again and I told him as soon as I was able to talk (his cock was in my mouth at the time). He was really happy and know tells me that I mustnt tighten muscles and hold back, I must go with the flow, literally.
You can certainly have great sex and others do have amazing skills, you cant pretend that they dont, but I dont think it ever compares to the sex you have with a regular partner.
Oh hes never told me someone else was better than me, I would be upset if he did. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"... obviously you all love and respect your partners dearly however during your swinging experiences have you had amazingly better sex with someone else and gone back for more?
also... do you tell your partner that it was better?
and another slant.. how would you feel if your other half said 'he/she was the best sex ive ever had'
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Best with my partner as we know each other really well ans are very well matched. No comparison really... and sex with others is just what it is... sex .. not close intimacy. Hence swinging is a briliant way of being playful in an exploring way. |
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It sounds corny but i make love with kev,when it is just the two of us,i fuck meets.
It's comparing apples and oranges.
He does know how happy certain thingss make me,particually meeting my Master,it makes him happy to see.He knows it sexually satisfies me in a way he cannot,but we as a couple choose this.
As for him meeting a better fuck,hasn't happened yet.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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in a vanilla relationship (which is all ive experienced before) i think sex would have to be a massive part of the attraction. If it was rubbish then i couldn't see any future between me and that person.
I know that this site isnt a dating website (men please do not panic) however i think there could be a market for sites like this that encourage other singles like myself to meet amazing men who can too appreciate more than one woman and explore other boundries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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the idea of my past/current/futuure partner getting a better seeing to than me really doesnt bother me, I know cpls that consent to play away from eachother...they end up back with eachother as soon as thats over...id maybe be worried my parter then wants a fortnights break in the maldives with Mrbigcokalingus(i made that name up) |
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"in a vanilla relationship (which is all ive experienced before) i think sex would have to be a massive part of the attraction. If it was rubbish then i couldn't see any future between me and that person.
I know that this site isnt a dating website (men please do not panic) however i think there could be a market for sites like this that encourage other singles like myself to meet amazing men who can too appreciate more than one woman and explore other boundries."
Who says that this can't be a dating site its about what both parties want.. I think you would have such a amazing relationship with someone from here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in a vanilla relationship (which is all ive experienced before) i think sex would have to be a massive part of the attraction. If it was rubbish then i couldn't see any future between me and that person.
I know that this site isnt a dating website (men please do not panic) however i think there could be a market for sites like this that encourage other singles like myself to meet amazing men who can too appreciate more than one woman and explore other boundries.
Who says that this can't be a dating site its about what both parties want.. I think you would have such a amazing relationship with someone from here.. "
Well i fa one second that completely xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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yeah can see what your saying diamondgurly & soapy but its not its primary purpose..
i get pissed off on another well known fishy website when blokes message me asking for sex... im just a hypocrite lol |
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"yeah can see what your saying diamondgurly & soapy but its not its primary purpose..
i get pissed off on another well known fishy website when blokes message me asking for sex... im just a hypocrite lol"
Because you are on there for a different reason to find someone to date to do stuff with away from swinging. I have my swinging brain and my personal brain so when I know its a meet my swinging brain kicks in but when its a date my personal brain kicks in. half of here is on plenty of cod roe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yeah can see what your saying diamondgurly & soapy but its not its primary purpose..
i get pissed off on another well known fishy website when blokes message me asking for sex... im just a hypocrite lol
Because you are on there for a different reason to find someone to date to do stuff with away from swinging. I have my swinging brain and my personal brain so when I know its a meet my swinging brain kicks in but when its a date my personal brain kicks in. half of here is on plenty of cod roe "
well previously discussed i suppose, but am happy shagging anythinng else that happens could be a bonus, but its still gonna be swingwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yeah can see what your saying diamondgurly & soapy but its not its primary purpose..
i get pissed off on another well known fishy website when blokes message me asking for sex... im just a hypocrite lol
Because you are on there for a different reason to find someone to date to do stuff with away from swinging. I have my swinging brain and my personal brain so when I know its a meet my swinging brain kicks in but when its a date my personal brain kicks in. half of here is on plenty of cod roe
well previously discussed i suppose, but am happy shagging anythinng else that happens could be a bonus, but its still gonna be swingwise."
*didnt mean happy shagging anything lol |
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"Yes ive gone back for more thats why i have some regular meets. Have i had mind blowing sex with them yes. Do i love them no i dont. Good sex is good sex but love is far more
Ya saved me typing it   "
welcome back lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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*didnt mean happy shagging anything lol
Bugger fancy buildin me hopes up xx  "
I'd rip yer arse apart lol-im a considerate shagger soapy so sorry...i like u being able to run from wendys batterings lol-its like a benny hill sketch in my mind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes ive gone back for more thats why i have some regular meets. Have i had mind blowing sex with them yes. Do i love them no i dont. Good sex is good sex but love is far more
Ya saved me typing it "
Aye well tiny mind dont take much blowin Fock xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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*didnt mean happy shagging anything lol
Bugger fancy buildin me hopes up xx
I'd rip yer arse apart lol-im a considerate shagger soapy so sorry...i like u being able to run from wendys batterings lol-its like a benny hill sketch in my mind!"
I know that one well pmsl xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"sits back, diet with ice and nibbles..
ding round 1 "
Lordy, Lordy...think I'll need a haz mat suit for this thread and it's too hot for one, so I'm off...play nice! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"sits back, diet with ice and nibbles..
ding round 1
Lordy, Lordy...think I'll need a haz mat suit for this thread and it's too hot for one, so I'm off...play nice!"
was a good thread actually |
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We have had some fantastic sex and of course gone back for lots more. Mr S loves it if a guy is really good and I am lost in enjoyment. Of course for me, it is only so because he participates too and thats what makes it so kinky. To be honest it would never occur to me to compare it to making love with Mr S and its apples and oranges and we dont swap we add one. We only meet guys so would be worrying if he enjoyed the guys more than me lol.
Mistress x |
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interesting question,
we have been with other people and have watched each other have really great sex with those people yes.
its pretty hard not to notice when you know someone intimately, (the same way you can suss each others body language when things are not quite right)and for us its part of seeing each other like that which is part of the buzz of 'swinging'.
Surely if any partner felt uneasy or even insecure by seeing their OH have great sex with some one else then thats maybe the road to trouble.
in a four with some good friends recently i and the other lady watched her partner playing with Lynn and she squirted prolifically for the first time, was awesome to see and absolutely fine with me.
she did not need to tell me that she had just had a great time!
and ditto what diamond says, spot on.. |
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"sits back, diet with ice and nibbles..
ding round 1
Lordy, Lordy...think I'll need a haz mat suit for this thread and it's too hot for one, so I'm off...play nice!
was a good thread actually"
it still is and seeing as ive been on both sides of the fence starting out as a married swinging cpl now being single ,and having met many cpls as single male and been told by the wife of the cpls that was the best not pm on here but text message but when that happens time to say should you really be doing this im not for you ,love your hubby its just sex im here just to help nothing more and not to wreck peeps lifes |
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"sits back, diet with ice and nibbles..
ding round 1
Lordy, Lordy...think I'll need a haz mat suit for this thread and it's too hot for one, so I'm off...play nice!
was a good thread actually
it still is and seeing as ive been on both sides of the fence starting out as a married swinging cpl now being single ,and having met many cpls as single male and been told by the wife of the cpls that was the best not pm on here but text message but when that happens time to say should you really be doing this im not for you ,love your hubby its just sex im here just to help nothing more and not to wreck peeps lifes "
you must be good then |
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"sits back, diet with ice and nibbles..
ding round 1
Lordy, Lordy...think I'll need a haz mat suit for this thread and it's too hot for one, so I'm off...play nice!
was a good thread actually
it still is and seeing as ive been on both sides of the fence starting out as a married swinging cpl now being single ,and having met many cpls as single male and been told by the wife of the cpls that was the best not pm on here but text message but when that happens time to say should you really be doing this im not for you ,love your hubby its just sex im here just to help nothing more and not to wreck peeps lifes
you must be good then "
you are only as good as your last meet |
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