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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anybody like to meet normal guys here?
Been trying to meet someone fun and up for a good time and it's near enough impossible unless your deemed gym fit or have a bloody side parting,I'm wondering whether anyone actually likes normal guys??lol
Is anyone else having similar problems with regards to meeting or am I alone in this? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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i dislike the gym fit and side parting smooth hair look. i prefer not to see abs, a casual dresser (i laugh at suits) with a bed head...someone who doesn't mind getting 'creased', if you know what i mean...  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It's about time and patience and not being pushy and a good healthy dose of luck as much as anything. Perhaps consider getting along to a club, or being more active on the forums or chat rooms and getting to know people that way.
You've not asked for profile advice, so can't give any (per site rules) but consider whether yours sells you well and includes decent pics (body shots, bum, thighs that kind of thing) and not just a series of cock shots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anybody like to meet normal guys here?
Been trying to meet someone fun and up for a good time and it's near enough impossible unless your deemed gym fit or have a bloody side parting,I'm wondering whether anyone actually likes normal guys??lol
Is anyone else having similar problems with regards to meeting or am I alone in this?"
I find it hard to meet women here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Suzy you are a beautiful woman and a rare breed it seems lol...
This gym fit thing does do my head in though as if I freely posted must have a body like a model I'd be labelled as shallow..
I've just don't my profile as honest as I could to reflect my personality really,I'm very laid back and will speak to anyone really as I think don't judge a book by its cover and also how do you know if you'd have a good time with someone just because they've got a six pack? |
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"It's about time and patience and not being pushy and a good healthy dose of luck as much as anything. Perhaps consider getting along to a club, or being more active on the forums or chat rooms and getting to know people that way.
You've not asked for profile advice, so can't give any (per site rules) but consider whether yours sells you well and includes decent pics (body shots, bum, thighs that kind of thing) and not just a series of cock shots."
Agree we had abit of trouble with people not wanting to meet because we didn't really have any verification so they thought we would be time wasters but then we plucked up the courage to go to the attic and spoke to a few nice couples who found us on here and verified us... To our surprise... Now we can't stay away from the club and find its a great place to arrange social meets with the possibility of more  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought about maybe going to a club but they sometimes sound like a close nit kind of place,don't want to be the guy in the corner doing sit ups to try and get a conversation out of people ?? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I thought about maybe going to a club but they sometimes sound like a close nit kind of place,don't want to be the guy in the corner doing sit ups to try and get a conversation out of people ??"
go..so many shapes and sizes it can only do you good..clubs are reality, full of real people. looking for and at other real people..youll have a blast xx
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I thought about maybe going to a club but they sometimes sound like a close nit kind of place,don't want to be the guy in the corner doing sit ups to try and get a conversation out of people ??"
I have never in my life, in any social situation, seen anyone do a sit up as a means of enticing conversation. Where does your club research come from????  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I thought about maybe going to a club but they sometimes sound like a close nit kind of place,don't want to be the guy in the corner doing sit ups to try and get a conversation out of people ??"
Again, same as here, yiu get out of clubs what you put in - if you sit in a corner and just look at people without going and chatting to them politely or worse still do the "single guy prowl" on a circuit of the club, you'll come home frustrated.
Go along with no expectations, looking your best and prepared to talk to people and socialise with them, whilst being ready to accept a polite no thanks, and your experience may be entirely different. |
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"I thought about maybe going to a club but they sometimes sound like a close nit kind of place,don't want to be the guy in the corner doing sit ups to try and get a conversation out of people ??"
We have only ever been to the attic but from the minute you walk through the door your made to feel welcome by the staff but also the people who attend. We have found most of the single guys are polite, non pushy and very respectful so are happy to chat to them as does it seems to be the case with others too |
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"Suzy you are a beautiful woman and a rare breed it seems lol...
This gym fit thing does do my head in though as if I freely posted must have a body like a model I'd be labelled as shallow..
I've just don't my profile as honest as I could to reflect my personality really,I'm very laid back and will speak to anyone really as I think don't judge a book by its cover and also how do you know if you'd have a good time with someone just because they've got a six pack?"
I don't go for the six pack, I go with personality and that shows by the way you come across on your profile.
I've noticed that some guys have a trying too hard, desperate profile because we are Queens and request an almost perfect description of yourselves. Some go around our profiles, read through it and try to build theirs around it. To me, that a put off.
( Yes, I'm the weird one ).
I mostly go for an original profile, a care free, if he comes with a free six pack... bonus but not a must.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anybody like to meet normal guys here?
Been trying to meet someone fun and up for a good time and it's near enough impossible unless your deemed gym fit or have a bloody side parting,I'm wondering whether anyone actually likes normal guys??lol
Is anyone else having similar problems with regards to meeting or am I alone in this?"
Just you |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Suzy you are a beautiful woman and a rare breed it seems lol...
This gym fit thing does do my head in though as if I freely posted must have a body like a model I'd be labelled as shallow..
I've just don't my profile as honest as I could to reflect my personality really,I'm very laid back and will speak to anyone really as I think don't judge a book by its cover and also how do you know if you'd have a good time with someone just because they've got a six pack?"
i dont think i am a rarity, but i am out and about a good deal meeting face to face..that's what works for me, socially or otherwise. for me thats what its all about, but then i started off going to clubs before i was on here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very surprised you're finding it difficult to meet women on here... the women on Fab are not superficial at all. They prefer a personality and good manners over ... arrogant gym fit guys... So do a forum search for gym fit guys threads and message every women and couples that say they like a dad body in that thread... that might be a good place to start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anybody like to meet normal guys here?
Been trying to meet someone fun and up for a good time and it's near enough impossible unless your deemed gym fit or have a bloody side parting,I'm wondering whether anyone actually likes normal guys??lol
Is anyone else having similar problems with regards to meeting or am I alone in this?"
Define normal? 
I meet men who meet my requirements..
Unfortunately OP we women can afford to be picky as there are so many of you out there |
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Everyone here's normal
Many of us aren't fixed phone particular type, it's about the person and what they have to offer overall. Are you looking for swinging op or just casual sex? It's competitive amongst you dingle guys for casual sex in most places. If you can sell yourself as meeting others' needs well then make the effort that way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I thought about maybe going to a club but they sometimes sound like a close nit kind of place,don't want to be the guy in the corner doing sit ups to try and get a conversation out of people ??
I have never in my life, in any social situation, seen anyone do a sit up as a means of enticing conversation. Where does your club research come from???? "
Neither have I ,that was my point out across with a hint of sarcasm lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Define normal?
I meet men who meet my requirements..
Unfortunately OP we women can afford to be picky as there are so many of you out there "
Yeah I've seen you have requirements like you like your men tall,which is cool and if that's what you mean by picky that's fine we all have a type,but some people on here just come across as shallow to me.
I am relieved to see the people commenting on the post are sound though, as the general feeling I've got from the sight so far is that if your a single guy on here ,that doesn't meet a specific criteria ,then it's assumed you must be some kind of stalker or something.When I joined the site I thought more people would be abit more approachable and laid back and treat the site as abit of lighthearted fun.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anybody like to meet normal guys here?
Been trying to meet someone fun and up for a good time and it's near enough impossible unless your deemed gym fit or have a bloody side parting,I'm wondering whether anyone actually likes normal guys??lol
Is anyone else having similar problems with regards to meeting or am I alone in this?"
Not all women like gym bods, I fear it's the same myth perpetuated that all men like skinny women. I've found most men here like curves, which is very refreshing
I've met some lovely men. Be patient, my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I think a lot of these posts are perception meets reality. We start swinging believing that it's a case of dropping your keys in a hat and driving home with the girl of your dreams. In reality there's a lot more keys in the hat than there are girls to go home with.
If you want to set your self apart from the minions then all you need to do is be a gentleman, treat women with respect and focus on enjoying their company not on the sexual aspect of a meet. That on its own will set you aside. I started on this site with a pot belly and no hair. Most of the women I've been with will tell you I'm not "their type" but I'm an acquired taste... |
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"Suzy you are a beautiful woman and a rare breed it seems lol...
This gym fit thing does do my head in though as if I freely posted must have a body like a model I'd be labelled as shallow..
I've just don't my profile as honest as I could to reflect my personality really,I'm very laid back and will speak to anyone really as I think don't judge a book by its cover and also how do you know if you'd have a good time with someone just because they've got a six pack?
I don't go for the six pack, I go with personality and that shows by the way you come across on your profile.
I've noticed that some guys have a trying too hard, desperate profile because we are Queens and request an almost perfect description of yourselves. Some go around our profiles, read through it and try to build theirs around it. To me, that a put off.
( Yes, I'm the weird one ).
I mostly go for an original profile, a care free, if he comes with a free six pack... bonus but not a must.
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 hey I have a six pack but also down to earth tho for laugh kind of guy ,easy going to just some people on here don't even give you a chance ! |
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"Suzy you are a beautiful woman and a rare breed it seems lol...
This gym fit thing does do my head in though as if I freely posted must have a body like a model I'd be labelled as shallow..
I've just don't my profile as honest as I could to reflect my personality really,I'm very laid back and will speak to anyone really as I think don't judge a book by its cover and also how do you know if you'd have a good time with someone just because they've got a six pack?
I don't go for the six pack, I go with personality and that shows by the way you come across on your profile.
I've noticed that some guys have a trying too hard, desperate profile because we are Queens and request an almost perfect description of yourselves. Some go around our profiles, read through it and try to build theirs around it. To me, that a put off.
( Yes, I'm the weird one ).
I mostly go for an original profile, a care free, if he comes with a free six pack... bonus but not a must.
hey I have a six pack but also down to earth tho for laugh kind of guy ,easy going to just some people on here don't even give you a chance !"
What do you mean by 'give you a chance'? People want to meet you or they don't, nobody has to give you a chance just because you think they would change their mind once they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in my 40s, grey, grumpy have a very plain face and am absolutely average-at-best at sex. Oh and I'm married. And I rarely travel. And I can't accommodate.
However, I'm smiley, relaxed, intelligent, confident and do not have the slightest hint of entitlement or neediness.
I think, in my experience, ladies appreciate those qualities.
And I do have killer thighs, which helps
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normal means different things to different people.
I've had the pleasure to meet my 'normal' man here. It's not impossible, although we both had certain qualities we were looking for.
Her x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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change of mindset...
don't think of yourself as "normal".... think of yourself as "unique"...
see the fact that you can give sell the one thing that no one else can... YOU!!!
just be the best "you" you can be... why should people meet "you"
be that sparkly shop front amongst a sea of drab and bland.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"change of mindset...
don't think of yourself as "normal".... think of yourself as "unique"...
see the fact that you can give sell the one thing that no one else can... YOU!!!
just be the best "you" you can be... why should people meet "you"
be that sparkly shop front amongst a sea of drab and bland...."
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