Definitely not, then neither would I include a close friend in play.
Whilst I'm lucky enough to be out in the open socially and family wise and run my own business so do not care who knows what, I still wouldn't want to risk ruining relationships like that with sex and all the emotional complications it can bring due to our brain chemistry being what it is. |
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If you think there's a risk of it getting out, I wouldn't risk it if I were you OP. Your other half could get some mud slinging. Not everyone understands this lifestyle. |
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"My wife really fancies him tho"
Oh well in that case it 9s totally worth having your job or reputation ruined.... Go for it.... Why not do it in the boardroom for good measure as well?
This place makes me piss myself sometimes. |
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"My wife really fancies him tho
Oh well in that case it 9s totally worth having your job or reputation ruined.... Go for it.... Why not do it in the boardroom for good measure as well?
This place makes me piss myself sometimes. "
jeez relax girl.. maybe u shouldn't be checking in to "this place"
If it's going to upset u so much |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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Initial instinct, no because I hardly ever meet locally.
But I wouldn't say never. If you think you can trust them and click it could be a lot of fun.
I wouldn't worry about the gossip so much because they would be in exactly the same position!
Do ya feel lucky punk....
Well do ya? Lol
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"My wife really fancies him tho
Oh well in that case it 9s totally worth having your job or reputation ruined.... Go for it.... Why not do it in the boardroom for good measure as well?
This place makes me piss myself sometimes. jeez relax girl.. maybe u shouldn't be checking in to "this place"
If it's going to upset u so much"
I'm not upset just amazed at how many y people think with their genitals |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Would ye leave a workmate join ye for threesome... knowing that he could potentially blab in work and ruin u there???"
This is a tricky one. Ordinarily i'd say no as the possible complications aren't, in my opinion, worth the pleasure & i use to have a golden rule of not playing with work mates.
However i have a FWB who is my work colleague, completely broke my own rules  we have hit it off and meet regularly. We have our ups and downs but keep it professional at work no matter what.
Difficult one guys, it comes down to the risk of complications, the trust in the other person not blabbing to all at work & being able to respect you still if it broke down. |
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"Would ye leave a workmate join ye for threesome... knowing that he could potentially blab in work and ruin u there???"
Do you work very closely with this guy? |
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"My advice is a definite NO! Sure your wife fancies him but there'll be other men on here that she will? X too risky for me, like others have said previously you don't shit on your own doorstep x  "
I agree 100% but the reality is that the ice is broken with this guy and it's not with people on here... I'm exasperated with bringing guys to her from this site only to be turned down.. (we have had threesomes but not with people from this site just yet... tho we have met a few for drinks) |
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I had been invited to a threesome with a hot workmate and her husband.
We had loads of fun for few years. We are still in touch but I moved countries with work so no longer play with them.
If you can trust them then you will have loads of fun
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All three of my ffms so far have involved at least one person I worked with or had worked with.
All from the same workplace too, come to think of it.
