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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
As the year draws in, we often sit and ponder what we would like to achieve, happen in 2017 and for some of you the thought of dating and love might be one of them...
So I've decided to do an end of year Dating Thread...As always it's open to everyone BUT my threads are aimed at those who are genuinely single and would like to consider dating and possibly find love in this "world"
We all deserve love and happiness and possibly with another dirty sod that you can share life's adventures with..
I wish you all the best 2017 that life could possibly bring you...
Well now it's the new year  |
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I'm in. I'd like a cuckold relationship with someone London based.
Most folk who contact me regarding this only have a porny idea about what cuckolding entails, wanting to watch me getting ploughed by a bunch of bulls. Nah. I want pleasure, not ploughing. |
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I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot! |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot! "
Sounds like what I need too but you've probably said it far better than I could of! |
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*walks in and takes off hat*
I would love to have someone to spend time doing nothing/something/anything..long walks,cozy nights, jumping around to music, bed picnics, laughing in the rain and everything in between.
house trained(fairly), had all my own hair(still have it only lower on body), sightly athletic(i run for the bus a lot), cook a mean omelette...oh and award winning baker(Church November Fair Apple Pie winner 3 years running..believe me competition was fierce!) seeks someone to make me smile, play wildly and slay dragons for (small size ones)...send applications to usual address along with current photo that will be returned if stamped address envelope included.
wishing everyone bon chance |
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over a year ago
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Wonderful idea as we ponder our hopes for 2017. Would love to meet a passionate spirited classy lady who enjoys conversation, sharing and exploring the many wonders of the world and has a wild side for sexual play. Someone equally happy to be sharing a fine soulful jazz performance, a lovely hike with lovely vistas, and creative wild kink.  |
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I'm looking for something more than just 'fun times'. Someone to spend time doing other things with, to break the single string and have some quality times together and see what happens, may be 2017 could be the year that changes for us both xx |
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"*walks in and takes off hat*
I would love to have someone to spend time doing nothing/something/anything..long walks,cozy nights, jumping around to music, bed picnics, laughing in the rain and everything in between.
house trained(fairly), had all my own hair(still have it only lower on body), sightly athletic(i run for the bus a lot), cook a mean omelette...oh and award winning baker(Church November Fair Apple Pie winner 3 years running..believe me competition was fierce!) seeks someone to make me smile, play wildly and slay dragons for (small size ones)...send applications to usual address along with current photo that will be returned if stamped address envelope included.
wishing everyone bon chance "
 loved your profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes please!! Would love to meet someone who's fun, caring and attentive with a great sense of humour who I can enjoy a very active adventurous sex life with but who will also cuddle and love me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes please!! Would love to meet someone who's fun, caring and attentive with a great sense of humour who I can enjoy a very active adventurous sex life with but who will also cuddle and love me!! "
I am too far, but just want to compliment you on a fabulous profile. Definitely intriguing. Wish I were closer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey guys I'd love to take a lovely lady out on a date and meet someone, lots of beautiful ladies commented already, although I'm not sure how you ladies are single as your stunning! If my profile interests you let me know and we can definitely go to the opera together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to give it a go. I rejoined POF to see if it had cleaned up its act. I've said nothing sexual in any conversation. Guys are straight into sexual so it's not got any better. So I'm giving up already there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd like to give it a go. I rejoined POF to see if it had cleaned up its act. I've said nothing sexual in any conversation. Guys are straight into sexual so it's not got any better. So I'm giving up already there. "
It's the same guys on here and pof most of the time! Well it is in my local area! |
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"I'd like to give it a go. I rejoined POF to see if it had cleaned up its act. I've said nothing sexual in any conversation. Guys are straight into sexual so it's not got any better. So I'm giving up already there.
It's the same guys on here and pof most of the time! Well it is in my local area! "
Ive found that pof women delight in telling you how bad it is there before youve even finished saying hello
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"Go on...someone make me smile."
Well , I decided this will be my year .
I need someone who will make me smile a lot .
Someone who would take me out and show me off , wine me and dine me , but equally just join me for a walk or take me paint balling .
Someone who would take time to get to know me and make an effort with me .
Possible a younger man .
Someone who is actually a single guy ! |
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"Go on...someone make me smile.
Well , I decided this will be my year .
I need someone who will make me smile a lot .
Someone who would take me out and show me off , wine me and dine me , but equally just join me for a walk or take me paint balling .
Someone who would take time to get to know me and make an effort with me .
Possible a younger man .
Someone who is actually a single guy ! "
You had me right up until you said younger   |
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"*walks in and takes off hat*
I would love to have someone to spend time doing nothing/something/anything..long walks,cozy nights, jumping around to music, bed picnics, laughing in the rain and everything in between.
house trained(fairly), had all my own hair(still have it only lower on body), sightly athletic(i run for the bus a lot), cook a mean omelette...oh and award winning baker(Church November Fair Apple Pie winner 3 years running..believe me competition was fierce!) seeks someone to make me smile, play wildly and slay dragons for (small size ones)...send applications to usual address along with current photo that will be returned if stamped address envelope included.
wishing everyone bon chance "
Beautiful pics, shame yr so far away xx |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've made no secret I'd like a lady to be a feature in my life, someone who will complement and at times complicate things..
I could lots of good things about me I'm not short of words, however some of my bad points..
1. My tea making is inconsistent, great at times shocking at others. My coffee is good though..
2. I often run late.. 
If you'd like to find out about my good points message away
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"*walks in and takes off hat*
I would love to have someone to spend time doing nothing/something/anything..long walks,cozy nights, jumping around to music, bed picnics, laughing in the rain and everything in between.
house trained(fairly), had all my own hair(still have it only lower on body), sightly athletic(i run for the bus a lot), cook a mean omelette...oh and award winning baker(Church November Fair Apple Pie winner 3 years running..believe me competition was fierce!) seeks someone to make me smile, play wildly and slay dragons for (small size ones)...send applications to usual address along with current photo that will be returned if stamped address envelope included.
wishing everyone bon chance
Beautiful pics, shame yr so far away xx"
until i can drive there is always public transport |
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By *urvyKattWoman
over a year ago
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Add me to the list as well please.
Would like someone sort of local to me. I'm partial to reading, listening to music, going for walks, cooking, gin and smelly cheese. This list is not exhaustive and as I'm a woman is subject to change with no notice whatsoever |
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"Go on...someone make me smile.
Well , I decided this will be my year .
I need someone who will make me smile a lot .
Someone who would take me out and show me off , wine me and dine me , but equally just join me for a walk or take me paint balling .
Someone who would take time to get to know me and make an effort with me .
Possible a younger man .
Someone who is actually a single guy ! "
This sounds like what I am after too |
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I'd love to feel the butt relies in the stomach again.
Maybe I've been on my own too long now that my outlook on life is different making me too independent.
I think the reality of it is my heart says yes let's love again. My head say food off you know it'll turn out the same and you'll end up thinking why did I even try.
Having an introvert personality probably doesn't help but it's so easy to do things online nowadays that laziness kicks in.
20 years ago, if you wanted love you had to get out there chuck the grease on the floor and slide on over to the side of a lady with a "why hello there" and see what happens.
Maybe I just err on the side of caution too much to protect myself thinking when my daughters older that's when I'll properly start looking for love.
It's an excuse. I know it's an excuse. It's an automated excuse to get out of accepting reality.
Never say never though
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"I'd love to feel the butterflies in the stomach again.
Maybe I've been on my own too long now that my outlook on life is different making me too independent.
I think the reality of it is my heart says yes let's love again. My head say food off you know it'll turn out the same and you'll end up thinking why did I even try.
Having an introvert personality probably doesn't help but it's so easy to do things online nowadays that laziness kicks in.
20 years ago, if you wanted love you had to get out there chuck the grease on the floor and slide on over to the side of a lady with a "why hello there" and see what happens.
Maybe I just err on the side of caution too much to protect myself thinking when my daughters older that's when I'll properly start looking for love.
It's an excuse. I know it's an excuse. It's an automated excuse to get out of accepting reality.
Never say never though
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lol butterflies
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot! "
This is totally the same as me |
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By *man91Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Go on...someone make me smile.
Well , I decided this will be my year .
I need someone who will make me smile a lot .
Someone who would take me out and show me off , wine me and dine me , but equally just join me for a walk or take me paint balling .
Someone who would take time to get to know me and make an effort with me .
Possible a younger man .
Someone who is actually a single guy ! "
I don't know if I am the type of guy you are looking for but I would be willing to meet up for a coffee/drink sometime and see if we get along.  |
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"As the year draws in, we often sit and ponder what we would like to achieve, happen in 2017 and for some of you the thought of dating and love might be one of them...
So I've decided to do an end of year Dating Thread...As always it's open to everyone BUT my threads are aimed at those who are genuinely single and would like to consider dating and possibly find love in this "world"
We all deserve love and happiness and possibly with another dirty sod that you can share life's adventures with..
I wish you all the best 2017 that life could possibly bring you...
Well now it's the new year "
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over a year ago
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"An actual date would be nice ...
Let's see what 2017 brings
Someone localish, who likes walking, hiking and isn't pretending to be single "
A woman after my own heart! Alas, I am way too far and a bit short to meet your preferences. Sigh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go on...someone make me smile.
Well , I decided this will be my year .
I need someone who will make me smile a lot .
Someone who would take me out and show me off , wine me and dine me , but equally just join me for a walk or take me paint balling .
Someone who would take time to get to know me and make an effort with me .
Possible a younger man .
Someone who is actually a single guy !
You had me right up until you said younger "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"An actual date would be nice ...
Let's see what 2017 brings
Someone localish, who likes walking, hiking and isn't pretending to be single
A woman after my own heart! Alas, I am way too far and a bit short to meet your preferences. Sigh "
well you are deffo not my type but hopefully someone is ...for me that is |
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"Go on...someone make me smile.
Well , I decided this will be my year .
I need someone who will make me smile a lot .
Someone who would take me out and show me off , wine me and dine me , but equally just join me for a walk or take me paint balling .
Someone who would take time to get to know me and make an effort with me .
Possible a younger man .
Someone who is actually a single guy !
You had me right up until you said younger
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over a year ago
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot! "
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change. |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change."
Shame I'm not in your age range as we are pretty close too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It seems hard to meet someone who wants a relationship and to still be part of this lifestyle. I have met people in the past through vanilla who weren't interested in trying, but also single men on the scene who then say when it comes to relationships they don't want to swing. They are happy to get a quick fuck for fun but that kind of woman isn't good enough for a relationship. I'm sure its not just men lol. It makes it much harder to fall in love and be contented once Pandora jox has been opened. I don't think I could do monogamous or vanilla again. |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change."
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx"
That's so lovely! |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
That's so lovely! "
It is - but the other side of the coin is that since dad died mum couldn't even contemplate having another man in her life - so she got a dog instead! |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
That's so lovely!
It is - but the other side of the coin is that since dad died mum couldn't even contemplate having another man in her life - so she got a dog instead! "
Which is way better than a rubbish man.... |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx"
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them. |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
That's so lovely!
It is - but the other side of the coin is that since dad died mum couldn't even contemplate having another man in her life - so she got a dog instead! "
Dogs are underrated. They are faithful and loving, always there for you. I love my furry boy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Playful-minx..it still won't let me reply to your message
Oh dear, sorry, I'm afraid I'm not girlfriend material anyway, shame "
Don't have to be girlfriend material |
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"Playful-minx..it still won't let me reply to your message
Oh dear, sorry, I'm afraid I'm not girlfriend material anyway, shame
Don't have to be girlfriend material "
It's a dating thread |
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"Playful-minx..it still won't let me reply to your message
Oh dear, sorry, I'm afraid I'm not girlfriend material anyway, shame
Don't have to be girlfriend material
It's a dating thread "
Yeah I know I've already stated I love dating older women but I'm looking for an older playmate more |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them. "
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love! |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx"
Very sweet and fully agree. My parents were the same way. My ideal would be a modern version with a kinky wild side |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them.
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love! "
That actually made me cry a little. |
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"Playful-minx..it still won't let me reply to your message
Oh dear, sorry, I'm afraid I'm not girlfriend material anyway, shame
Don't have to be girlfriend material "
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them.
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love! "
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"Playful-minx..it still won't let me reply to your message
Oh dear, sorry, I'm afraid I'm not girlfriend material anyway, shame
Don't have to be girlfriend material
you re on the wrong thread then "
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them.
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love!
Just beautiful "
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them.
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love!
That actually made me cry a little. "
Yeah - still has me in tears! I don't want to hijack the thread (because we all want to find someone lovely on here!) but I'll say one last thing!
Dad wanted to die in his own bed but he knew mum was terrified of being alone when he died!
One Monday night my brother and I got a call. 'Your dad's convinced he's going to die tonight and wants you both to come round - humour him will you?'
We went and said our goodbyes. He asked me to massage his feet (I bloody hate feet!) and I stayed over just in case he was right. The next day he was still sleeping/breathing so I went home to take the kids to nursery. Mum called to say she couldn't wake dad up. The McMillan nurses came round and confirmed he was close to the end.
Only when I'd got there, and my brother, and my daughter were all in his room with mum and holding his hand, did he take his last breath!
I've never known anything like it before or since - and I really wish everyone could choose to go this way!
Now I'm going to bigger off and cry a bit!
I hope we all find at least half why they had! Xxx |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them.
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love!
That actually made me cry a little.
Yeah - still has me in tears! I don't want to hijack the thread (because we all want to find someone lovely on here!) but I'll say one last thing!
Dad wanted to die in his own bed but he knew mum was terrified of being alone when he died!
One Monday night my brother and I got a call. 'Your dad's convinced he's going to die tonight and wants you both to come round - humour him will you?'
We went and said our goodbyes. He asked me to massage his feet (I bloody hate feet!) and I stayed over just in case he was right. The next day he was still sleeping/breathing so I went home to take the kids to nursery. Mum called to say she couldn't wake dad up. The McMillan nurses came round and confirmed he was close to the end.
Only when I'd got there, and my brother, and my daughter were all in his room with mum and holding his hand, did he take his last breath!
I've never known anything like it before or since - and I really wish everyone could choose to go this way!
Now I'm going to bigger off and cry a bit!
I hope we all find at least half why they had! Xxx"
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them.
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love!
That actually made me cry a little.
Yeah - still has me in tears! I don't want to hijack the thread (because we all want to find someone lovely on here!) but I'll say one last thing!
Dad wanted to die in his own bed but he knew mum was terrified of being alone when he died!
One Monday night my brother and I got a call. 'Your dad's convinced he's going to die tonight and wants you both to come round - humour him will you?'
We went and said our goodbyes. He asked me to massage his feet (I bloody hate feet!) and I stayed over just in case he was right. The next day he was still sleeping/breathing so I went home to take the kids to nursery. Mum called to say she couldn't wake dad up. The McMillan nurses came round and confirmed he was close to the end.
Only when I'd got there, and my brother, and my daughter were all in his room with mum and holding his hand, did he take his last breath!
I've never known anything like it before or since - and I really wish everyone could choose to go this way!
Now I'm going to bigger off and cry a bit!
I hope we all find at least half why they had! Xxx"
Honestly sweetie, that story has truly touched me. I thank you for sharing such a personal experience. Absolutely beautiful and poignant. Can't stop bloody blubbering now though! Kisses and hugs to you gorgeous. I hope you find that and more xxx |
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My great gran and grandad got married at the outbreak of world war 2..he then did his duty for 6 years as pilot fighting over Britain and France then the war ended he came home to his sweetheart then had my grandad they had been together since they left school in the early 1930's, she died in 2009 they were that much in love it broke his heart that much he ended up dying 3 months after I don't think his mind body and soul was ever the same since she departed it was absolutely horrible but for me that defines true love |
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"My great gran and grandad got married at the outbreak of world war 2..he then did his duty for 6 years as pilot fighting over Britain and France then the war ended he came home to his sweetheart then had my grandad they had been together since they left school in the early 1930's, she died in 2009 they were that much in love it broke his heart that much he ended up dying 3 months after I don't think his mind body and soul was ever the same since she departed it was absolutely horrible but for me that defines true love "
Awwww.....that is love, but I think true love like that is rare. I also think that these days people are different to the older generation, in that we want more, expect more, and there are more pressures on us all in life these days. |
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"I'd like someone really special who's a soft shite like I am! Someone highly sexed but also loving, affectionate, caring, friendly and fun! Someone I fancy the pants off (even if not everyone else does) who gives me butterflies in my tummy when I look at him - and who gets butterflies when he looks at me!
And if I find that - all the other things I currently don't have will matter not a jot!
Does someone like that really exist?
Relationships start out like that, but unfortunately it settles down and things change.
My dad died 9 years ago after being with mum for 45 years. He told me not long before he died that he still got butterflies when he saw mum. I'd walk into the kitchen throughout my childhood and adult life and catch them 'sneaking' a kiss and a cuddle! Don't get me wrong - they weren't the waltons and they argued too - but they adored each other!
If I can find half what they had I'll be very, very happy! Xx
Did your Mum feel the same way? If so, what they had is something extremely special and unique, great respect to them.
Yeah she did! And yes - they were very lucky indeed!
She's disabled - and the day he died she made me help her climb on to his bed so she could hold and cuddle him before he went cold. She hadn't been able to cuddle him for weeks before his death because it was too painful for him. It was a single bed so I had to hold her so she wouldn't fall off (she's pretty frail) for an hour! That's love!
That actually made me cry a little.
Yeah - still has me in tears! I don't want to hijack the thread (because we all want to find someone lovely on here!) but I'll say one last thing!
Dad wanted to die in his own bed but he knew mum was terrified of being alone when he died!
One Monday night my brother and I got a call. 'Your dad's convinced he's going to die tonight and wants you both to come round - humour him will you?'
We went and said our goodbyes. He asked me to massage his feet (I bloody hate feet!) and I stayed over just in case he was right. The next day he was still sleeping/breathing so I went home to take the kids to nursery. Mum called to say she couldn't wake dad up. The McMillan nurses came round and confirmed he was close to the end.
Only when I'd got there, and my brother, and my daughter were all in his room with mum and holding his hand, did he take his last breath!
I've never known anything like it before or since - and I really wish everyone could choose to go this way!
Now I'm going to bigger off and cry a bit!
I hope we all find at least half why they had! Xxx"
What your Mum and Dad had was true love. They were blessed in life and lucky to of found each other. Such a heartwarming story, but sadness too. I was there when my Dad died too, I know how you feel. Remember the good times xxx |
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"My great gran and grandad got married at the outbreak of world war 2..he then did his duty for 6 years as pilot fighting over Britain and France then the war ended he came home to his sweetheart then had my grandad they had been together since they left school in the early 1930's, she died in 2009 they were that much in love it broke his heart that much he ended up dying 3 months after I don't think his mind body and soul was ever the same since she departed it was absolutely horrible but for me that defines true love
Awwww.....that is love, but I think true love like that is rare. I also think that these days people are different to the older generation, in that we want more, expect more, and there are more pressures on us all in life these days."
Totally agree and I think because it's a material world now people obsess over inanimate objects and forget we are on a rock travelling at 10000's mph around a bigger hot rock but a new iPhone is more important that something as universal like love and compassion...but you gunna unblock your age range so I can reply |
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"My great gran and grandad got married at the outbreak of world war 2..he then did his duty for 6 years as pilot fighting over Britain and France then the war ended he came home to his sweetheart then had my grandad they had been together since they left school in the early 1930's, she died in 2009 they were that much in love it broke his heart that much he ended up dying 3 months after I don't think his mind body and soul was ever the same since she departed it was absolutely horrible but for me that defines true love "
Such an emotive story. I agree, it does define true love. Thank you for sharing lovely xxx |
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"My great gran and grandad got married at the outbreak of world war 2..he then did his duty for 6 years as pilot fighting over Britain and France then the war ended he came home to his sweetheart then had my grandad they had been together since they left school in the early 1930's, she died in 2009 they were that much in love it broke his heart that much he ended up dying 3 months after I don't think his mind body and soul was ever the same since she departed it was absolutely horrible but for me that defines true love
Such an emotive story. I agree, it does define true love. Thank you for sharing lovely xxx"
It's the reason I'm such a world war 2 buff got to see his medals and told me stories but knowing that all he wanted was his sweetheart was the best and all she wanted was her man back alive but no worries it does show how humans can get through the worst of times x |
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"My great gran and grandad got married at the outbreak of world war 2..he then did his duty for 6 years as pilot fighting over Britain and France then the war ended he came home to his sweetheart then had my grandad they had been together since they left school in the early 1930's, she died in 2009 they were that much in love it broke his heart that much he ended up dying 3 months after I don't think his mind body and soul was ever the same since she departed it was absolutely horrible but for me that defines true love
Awwww.....that is love, but I think true love like that is rare. I also think that these days people are different to the older generation, in that we want more, expect more, and there are more pressures on us all in life these days.
Totally agree and I think because it's a material world now people obsess over inanimate objects and forget we are on a rock travelling at 10000's mph around a bigger hot rock but a new iPhone is more important that something as universal like love and compassion...but you gunna unblock your age range so I can reply "
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"My great gran and grandad got married at the outbreak of world war 2..he then did his duty for 6 years as pilot fighting over Britain and France then the war ended he came home to his sweetheart then had my grandad they had been together since they left school in the early 1930's, she died in 2009 they were that much in love it broke his heart that much he ended up dying 3 months after I don't think his mind body and soul was ever the same since she departed it was absolutely horrible but for me that defines true love
Awwww.....that is love, but I think true love like that is rare. I also think that these days people are different to the older generation, in that we want more, expect more, and there are more pressures on us all in life these days.
Totally agree and I think because it's a material world now people obsess over inanimate objects and forget we are on a rock travelling at 10000's mph around a bigger hot rock but a new iPhone is more important that something as universal like love and compassion...but you gunna unblock your age range so I can reply
Have you read my profile ?"
Yeah but fair enough then, just wanted to reply to your message |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days 
It is a common condition. "
Cynicism is cool I'm probably the most cynical in my group |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
That's 2 of us then "
4 of us cynics so far.....I wonder how many we willl get up to ! |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
It is a common condition.
Cynicism is cool I'm probably the most cynical in my group "
You're too young to be cynical about life. |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
It is a common condition.
Cynicism is cool I'm probably the most cynical in my group
You're too young to be cynical about life. "
Why you think that..I'm obviously too young for you though |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
That's 2 of us then
4 of us cynics so far.....I wonder how many we willl get up to !"
But you've a young pup at your heels surely that will shake your cynicism |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
That's 2 of us then
4 of us cynics so far.....I wonder how many we willl get up to !
But you've a young pup at your heels surely that will shake your cynicism "
I wish mate |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
That's 2 of us then
4 of us cynics so far.....I wonder how many we willl get up to !
But you've a young pup at your heels surely that will shake your cynicism "
Probably makes me more cynical |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
That's 2 of us then
4 of us cynics so far.....I wonder how many we willl get up to !
But you've a young pup at your heels surely that will shake your cynicism
Probably makes me more cynical "
You not wanting a cub to be at your disposal you get all cynical on me |
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
It is a common condition.
Cynicism is cool I'm probably the most cynical in my group
You're too young to be cynical about life.
Why you think that..I'm obviously too young for you though "
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
It is a common condition.
Cynicism is cool I'm probably the most cynical in my group
You're too young to be cynical about life.
Why you think that..I'm obviously too young for you though
I'll change my filters and answer you on pm"
It still won't let me it's say I can't change my age to reply |
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"Oh I'd like to find someone to cook for possibly even a movie or two some nice wine and munchies
You cook ?
For a living and for others at times yes "
Well what are the sumgle ladies messing about at ??! |
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"Oh I'd like to find someone to cook for possibly even a movie or two some nice wine and munchies
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For a living and for others at times yes
Well what are the sumgle ladies messing about at ??!"
Single ladies |
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"Oh I'd like to find someone to cook for possibly even a movie or two some nice wine and munchies
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For a living and for others at times yes
Well what are the sumgle ladies messing about at ??!
Single ladies "
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"I'm not ready to date but I do these threads for those who still have hope and love in their hearts and we all deserve love no matter where we all meet.... "
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"Some great love stories in this world, but I'm afraid I'm rather synical these days
It is a common condition.
Cynicism is cool I'm probably the most cynical in my group "
I'm very cynical. You're hot btw |
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Yep, I feel that. My life is great and I am happy. But it would be really nice to find someone who really gets and understands me and likewise me them. Therefore obviously someone who enjoys this lifestyle too is important. Who understans that liberty and freedom is part of truly loving someone, not caging them in. Someone to truly share all of me (body, mind and heart) with and be completely open with. Life is great and I really would like to share it with someone special. Someone who is in my corner come thick or thin no matter the storm. But we are all individuals. I have connected with people on many different levels. But there is very few people on this earth that truly get me. |
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