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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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on really at the moment i do not understand feeders i know some men like big girls but to fatten his wife up to a truly dangerous weight cos it turns him on !!!!
also to flaunt her on the internet well!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember watching a documentary on feeders before, British guy said British women didn't get fat enough so he moved to America and met a woman so fat she couldn't sleep on her back without her weight crushing her and needed a tube in her neck for oxygen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember watching a documentary on feeders before, British guy said British women didn't get fat enough so he moved to America and met a woman so fat she couldn't sleep on her back without her weight crushing her and needed a tube in her neck for oxygen "
Living the dream! |
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"I don't think it is a kink, I think it's a form of control "
It is and it's a recognised form of abuse now. I teach manual handling on larger people and the lady I work with has recently had a case where the woman was admitted to hospital with breathing issues. She was also put on a strict diet. They discovered her partner sneaking in food and when he visited he hugged her belly not her. She's now under a DOLs and her partner can only visit her under supervision and is searched each time. Drastic but it's saving her life in the long run |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it is a kink, I think it's a form of control
It is and it's a recognised form of abuse now. I teach manual handling on larger people and the lady I work with has recently had a case where the woman was admitted to hospital with breathing issues. She was also put on a strict diet. They discovered her partner sneaking in food and when he visited he hugged her belly not her. She's now under a DOLs and her partner can only visit her under supervision and is searched each time. Drastic but it's saving her life in the long run"
This guy should be arrested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately abuse comes in many forms...can't understand why or how someone would want to feed someone they supposedly care for to the point where it could possibly kill them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately abuse comes in many forms...can't understand why or how someone would want to feed someone they supposedly care for to the point where it could possibly kill them..."
basically it's like the spoiling of a child and giving them everything they want.
i watched a docu years ago and some of the people in hospital beg for food, just like a drug addict begs for their drugs.
it is sad. i do think some of them can't stand to see their partner 'starving'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people fall into the role of enabler easily, mostly out of some misplaced sense of loyalty, and will say or do anything to keep someone happy, even though their behavior is killing the person they love, its sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it is a kink, I think it's a form of control
It is and it's a recognised form of abuse now. I teach manual handling on larger people and the lady I work with has recently had a case where the woman was admitted to hospital with breathing issues. She was also put on a strict diet. They discovered her partner sneaking in food and when he visited he hugged her belly not her. She's now under a DOLs and her partner can only visit her under supervision and is searched each time. Drastic but it's saving her life in the long run"
Glad that she is being protected from him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who has been in that type of relationship I can say it's a control thing. It's done slowly over time until you don't even know it's being done to you. I was strong enough to do something about it, lost lots of weight and the abusive husband as well. Much better off with my sexy man now. |
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It's not really about the 'fat' person starving it's the feeder wanting to make the person fat. Usually they have a fantasy with fat and/or to stop them being attractive to others.
In some African villages the women deliberate fatten themselves up to get a husband. The men won't look at skinny women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not really about the 'fat' person starving it's the feeder wanting to make the person fat. Usually they have a fantasy with fat and/or to stop them being attractive to others.
In some African villages the women deliberate fatten themselves up to get a husband. The men won't look at skinny women"
'Hops on a plane to Africa'  |
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"It's not really about the 'fat' person starving it's the feeder wanting to make the person fat. Usually they have a fantasy with fat and/or to stop them being attractive to others.
In some African villages the women deliberate fatten themselves up to get a husband. The men won't look at skinny women
'Hops on a plane to Africa' "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can work both ways i can be the feeder being controlled to supply the food or face abuse verbal and physical or it can be the feeder trying to keep their weight up to limit what the other person can do to keep control over them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not really about the 'fat' person starving it's the feeder wanting to make the person fat. Usually they have a fantasy with fat and/or to stop them being attractive to others.
In some African villages the women deliberate fatten themselves up to get a husband. The men won't look at skinny women"
An African lady I know told me this too.
She said I would be made to feel like a goddess in her village.
Also a man with a very fat wife would be held in high esteem too, as it proved he had the means to keep her that well fed. |
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I know a couple that do it the other way. He carefully controls her calorie intake to maintain her figure and also controls what she wears. He calls it “bimbofication”.
This and feeders are something I will never get my head around but as long as it’s safe sane and consensual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know a couple that do it the other way. He carefully controls her calorie intake to maintain her figure and also controls what she wears. He calls it “bimbofication”.
This and feeders are something I will never get my head around but as long as it’s safe sane and consensual. "
I reckon both are exploitative and not indicative of a healthy relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you are geoff from corrie and i claim my five pounds "
It shouldn’t have ended the way did , they were trying to show how it really happens but now Geoff will get away with it . |
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But what if the feedee is into it? There's lot of sub behaviour that seems unpalatable to some but if they enjoy it.
Like findom, I just can't fathom giving all your money to some random, but some people like to do it. |
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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago
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I'm very accepting of most kinks and fetishes etc but I can't get my head around this, I can't imagine someone encouraging me to gain fat/weight to a point where its detrimental to my health and could do irreversible damage. Seems like more of a control thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what if the feedee is into it? There's lot of sub behaviour that seems unpalatable to some but if they enjoy it.
Like findom, I just can't fathom giving all your money to some random, but some people like to do it. "
I’m single and 100% into this.
Loads of guys want to send me £s so I can buy food (I don’t accept it) or watch me online / YouTube eating. I don’t do mind that but.
Some men have loved taking me out, having a meal and enjoying it. No calorie counting, I love what I eat. I equally love being on the receiving end - wined, dined.
It’s not a control thing at all. At least not for everyone
Some people take drugs, others smoke, some have very weird fetishes. I can’t be doing with men who want to worship my feet, or send it pics of their hands/feet.
But for some people, food is the language of love. |
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"I don't think it is a kink, I think it's a form of control
I think that too but I'm not sure who is controlling who."
Exactly. Lots of women on the net who get guys to buy them food and send money for food. Who's in control there?
I like larger women but don't necessarily want to feed them excessive amounts unless they want me to. |
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