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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you tell them if it was a bloke I'd keep quiet but if it was a woman think I'd have to try and drop little hints well as long as we were not related !!! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Nope, regardless of their gender I'd not mention it and show them the kind of respect for their privacy and discretion and I would hope they'd show me.
Best policy is block and forget you ever saw their profile. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Even dropping little hints that may not (in your view) be "blatantly obvious" would not only be disrespectful, but could cause embarassment and annoyance. As I said blocking and forgetting you ever saw it would be the best policy. |
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"I wouldn't be blatantly obvious just little hints lol but kind of horny to know lol I'd respect the privacy"
Little hints ?
Creepy for a female.
Sometimes blokes should think of the effect on another before they do something.
Horny for you maybe. Bit stalkerish for the 'victim' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy messaged me, with a face pic attached, I know him, quite well in fact, we are in the same social circle, and I do find him very attractive but he is married. I have said nothing to him about it, and unlikely to, but I do keep dropping the word fab into conversations in the hope that it'll dawn on him.   |
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"I wouldn't be blatantly obvious just little hints lol but kind of horny to know lol I'd respect the privacy
Little hints ?
Creepy for a female.
Sometimes blokes should think of the effect on another before they do something.
Horny for you maybe. Bit stalkerish for the 'victim'"
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was a couple that we recognised immediately, at the time we hadn't found the block button Lol, we just ignored them and then they started looking at us Every 10 mins or so I think the penny dropped who we were after we set a picture to public that was obviously me, they stopped looking after that.
Another time I was here idly perving... I mean minding my own business  in the forum when I noticed we had a message, it was from a couple who we know really well in the vanilla world that had recognised us, we didn't mind either of the couples knowing we were on here but not everyone is as laid back as us so I guess it depends on the individuals involved as to whether it's appropriate to mention you know each other or not.
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"Nope, regardless of their gender I'd not mention it and show them the kind of respect for their privacy and discretion and I would hope they'd show me.
Best policy is block and forget you ever saw their profile."
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"Would you tell them if it was a bloke I'd keep quiet but if it was a woman think I'd have to try and drop little hints well as long as we were not related !!!"
So you'd respect a man but act like a creep to a woman? 
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I saw a couple on here ages ago that used to be our neighbours and close friends. So I sent them a wotcha doing on here - message. We had a good giggle and met up with them for our first visit to VA. |
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"I saw a couple on here ages ago that used to be our neighbours and close friends. So I sent them a wotcha doing on here - message. We had a good giggle and met up with them for our first visit to VA."
Very different approaching directly and revealing yourself, opposed to anonymously dropping little hints. |
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"Would you tell them if it was a bloke I'd keep quiet but if it was a woman think I'd have to try and drop little hints well as long as we were not related !!!"
Don't drop little hints, women find it scary and intimidating. Every so often women post saying someone has been in contact saying they know them and giving random hints as to how. They're usually advised to block and keep any messages in case the police need to become involved.
This might seem a bit extreme when your intentions were honourable and you were just teasing but that isn't how many women see it.
In my opinion you're best bet is to declare yourself from the start or block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got messaged by a bloke who sits on the next bank of desks at work and I've known him years which was a shock and he is bloody fit always fancied him! So told him I knew him well... Asked him if he was sure he wanted to know who I was? He then guessed....
It all worked out well (not that well) and we still talk at work |
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