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What has changed for you this year ?

By *ecretpassion100 OP Couple over a year ago

Walsall

So female here.... this time last year I was single living in a totally different town with a different job .....now I'm living with the love of my life....new town ....new county even .....new job and a totally new life which I love .....what's changed for you in 2016 and what do you wish to change in 2017 xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This time last year I was unfit, not a swinger and trapped within myself.

Now I'm fit, pursuing a career in which to help others get fit, I am a swinger, I love women and I am free of my inner fears. I am liberated and happy.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This time last year I was unfit, not a swinger and trapped within myself.

Now I'm fit, pursuing a career in which to help others get fit, I am a swinger, I love women and I am free of my inner fears. I am liberated and happy.

Eve. X"

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have a puppy.

Illness has knocked me for six this year and played havoc with my body confidence and my body.

We have made some wonderful swinging friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm nearly another year older but other than that nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This time last year I was in a totally different county. Now I've moved, new life, new job. Exploring my inner naughty thing and have tried things that a year ago I would have laughed at!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lost 2 and a bit stone and cut a shed load of visceral fat in the process.

Also completed my first ultra marathon.

Same house, same job etc etc just much fitter than I have been for years

Also ventured on the forums here and feel far better about myself than I ever have.

Also discovered I like flirting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Obtained a degree. Find I get taken more seriously now in my career. Life is pretty good.

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By *on and TammyCouple over a year ago

Manchester

I won't go into specifics but...

3 years ago my C and I found ourselves trapped in a dark corner where people decided throw shit at us and our children for 3 years, all set against a backdrop of poor health for some of our family. This lasted until around may this year when the shit throwers, realising they were very wrong (though unapologetic) stopped throwing shit.

C and I emerged into the light, realising that not only had the shit throwers not put a dent in our relationship, but they had helped us to realise that together we are invincible and they only served to completely reaffirm our trust in, and commitment to, each other. It did take its toll on our love life but tbh, we had bigger fish to fry at the time.

2 months ago we got married and in the build up to that fell more crazily in love/lust than we ever have been in our 7 1/2 years together and are now enjoying getting to know each other all over again

not only is my wife the most incredibly beautiful person I've ever known, inside and out, she's the toughest, most resilient badass I've ever met.

And now we're on here (which would have been unthinkable, even 6 months ago) and putting ourselves first for the first time ever, on an exciting journey together.

So yeah, compared to last year (or any other year for that matter) its been fucking magical.

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By *anes HubbyCouple over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

What's changed for us is our appetite for living in the UK much longer, so we will bring forward our retirement and endeavour to spend a great deal longer elsewhere.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My hair colour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A new job a complete career change.

And just a s splendidly happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I caught a train for the first time this year.

I'm pretty happy with what i got, I'm not really looking to change any thing

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple over a year ago

home sweet home

We started swinging. Best thing ever

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By *elnkazCouple over a year ago

cheshire

"So female here.... this time last year I was single living in a totally different town with a different job .....now I'm living with the love of my life....new town ....new county even .....new job and a totally new life which I love .....what's changed for you in 2016 and what do you wish to change in 2017 xx"
this time last yr I was just starting out with my relationship with del after being widowed and on my own for 5yrs.. not knowing what the year would bring was happy with anything. But 2016 saw me on a fantastic holiday to dubai and to tenerife.del moving from scotland to move in with me and a new grandchild and I am at my happiest I have been In a good few yrs( but dont tell del some of it down to him )2017 will see us planning a weddi g and honeymoon and hopefully gtandchild number 4 .

What ever we all wish for I. 2017'i hope it comes true and all the very best to you all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My under pants have changed on the odd occasion

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

This time last year I was doing exactly the same as I am now

Another year older that's all

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

two of my inner circle died, one from suicide...

i feel 2017 is all about shifts and changes. i just hope i can glide smoothly through them all x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sort of, just about, starting to take myself seriously as a grown up...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

End of last year: Just secured a new job after gruelling and hardship-filled Uni experiences. Excited to start, but knew little of the specific field and what to expect.

Fast forward a year and I'm flying out to Australia for the second time (same firm, for business). Everything's going fabulously. A lot change in a year!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i joined fab

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A lot...joining this site (initially as a couple and now with added single profiles too) and starting swinging (at the tender age of 50 no less!!) was one of the biggest changes. Have also learned a lot about myself and how others perceive me.

A big year that has shown me you CAN teach an old dog new tricks!!

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By *otwife8690Couple over a year ago

Doncaster

We had a baby this year. Now 4 months later so far i have lost 2 stone 8lbs with a bit more to go. I feel healthier and im so proud of myself for sticking to my diet as i never have done before. This has resulted in a new found self confidence

We are looking forward to start meeting again in the new year and having some fun with new friends.

K x

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Actually forgot a couple of other major changes...after 34 years of being friends with Mr Lambert and Mr Butler and various others I finally left them behind me 7 months ago and don't currently envisage inviting them back into my life.

I also continued to lose weight and am now at a point where I can buy medium/large again instead of XL or XXL and fit a 30" waist trouser not a 36"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I lost my father

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Moved back to my parents and almost built up enough savings to buy my own home.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

My life is awesome, I wouldn't want it to change..

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I lost my father

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I lost my father

Sorry to hear that

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've found out a lot about myself sexual.

I've had my first ever threesome fmf and it was my first encounter with another woman.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What hasn't!!

Moved home to a new area, major house renovations, left my job behind which I loved, got myself a new job which I'm going to love.

Now my rant!!! Bloody broke my elbow in two places on Wednesday in agony and now can't start work for at least 6 weeks which means no money

Mind you least I can drink tomorrow and it won't hurt

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

broke my elbow in two places on Wednesday "

Two places to avoid next year

Only kidding... hope it mends quickly

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've managed to avoid SAD for the first time in three years, and my home environment is a lot more comfortable and healthy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

broke my elbow in two places on Wednesday

Two places to avoid next year

Only kidding... hope it mends quickly

Cal"

Ha ha ha cheeky and funny happy new year x

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By *errysMan over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Started with 1 love and 1 fwb then

2 loves then 1 love then 0 then 1love and 1 fwb then 1 love (are you keeping up with this) now 0

All this and only me and two women.

It's blown my mind but not the sort of blow job I want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have less organs than I started the year with. And no, it's not my giblets...

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I took on a second job which I love so considering doing full time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have less organs than I started the year with. And no, it's not my giblets..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have less organs than I started the year with. And no, it's not my giblets..."

I do love your breasts

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By *r SelectiveMan over a year ago

newcastle

"This time last year I was unfit, not a swinger and trapped within myself.

Now I'm fit, pursuing a career in which to help others get fit, I am a swinger, I love women and I am free of my inner fears. I am liberated and happy.

Eve. X"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single this time last year. Now met a beautiful girl.. we got engaged recently. Bought a house and talking about having a baby.. Love each other so much. She turned to me and says. I'd love to see you fuck another girl.. I said well if I do your joining In to make it fair.. She said DEAL. What more does a bloke want. here we are haha.

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By *ust TallMan over a year ago

weston-super-mare

The most amazing year of my life!

After 5 years in the wilderness and with every expectation of remaining single and celibate for the rest of my life, I suddenly discovered that some women can still find me attractive (not many but.. Lol!).

In the last 3 months I've joined fab amongst others, met some great - and sexy - people, and done things I had never dreamt of. Roll on 2017!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have less organs than I started the year with. And no, it's not my giblets...

I do love your breasts

your face

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

The only thing I can think of is it will be my last year in my 30s

I'm hoping my 40s will be more fulfilling in work, My personal life and sex life

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By *obwithkiltMan over a year ago

Belton

Was in a job which I moved areas for... Changed slightly middle of the year to become freelance... Winter doing anything and everything... Not good

driving course planned, more work opportunities once passed

Am now single after 4yrs..finally had enough of all the family drama.. Know bugger all in my area but loads of good people on fab.. Some great meets so far and lots of planning for the coming year

onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loads has changed since this time last year. After seeing MrWho for a couple of months I fell massively in love with him over new year. I got the best job ever in March. My ex and his partner moved in together which meant he could have the kids 50/50, which has resulted in happier children. I asked my eldest before this happened how he felt about eventually having step-parents and he said "good, because it's more people to love!"

Life is pretty good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Split with my ex and lost a friend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

New house,garden n workshop,all of which need doing up bit,started cycling seriously again,better work life balance,had four months off,good year all round,need to get finger out with old house in new year,some great story's on here,people doing good!

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By *urvyKattWoman over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

Came to my senses about a relationship that was ever so slightly toxic, lost a stone in weight with more to come off in 2017 and had my 50th birthday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Met Mr

New job ( same job title but completely different type of company)

Got a car

First three some, gangbang and club visit .

Definitely lots of new stuff !!

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By *heOwlMan over a year ago

Altrincham

Competed in my first World Rowing Coastal Championships, representing GB in Monaco. Ok didnt do as well as wanted, but didn't come near last and learnt a lot,so will be back next October in France, stronger and faster.

Owl

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By *elloIntrigueMan over a year ago

North West UK

12 months ago I was unhappy in my job and was waiting to hear about a voluntary redundancy.

Left in June and have tried a complete career change. Not managed that fully but I am happy.

I've also got to do a bit of travelling, had a great time on Iceland and in the Canaries.

I also got on here again having previously had a profile about 18 months earlier.

Just taking my time though.

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

The date changed for me this year, it was 2015, then it became 2016 and gonna happen again.....17 i think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad things - lost my uncle. Diagnosed with fibro. Registered disabled.

Good things - given up booze. Mental health improved. Finances improved. Over all happiness improved.

Tbh 2016 has been a good year for me.

I'm looking forward to 2017.

xxx

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