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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Have you ever said something that was outrageous and unthinkable because you were over tired and stressed and therefore cost you a friendship? How did you feel afterwards? |
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Ahhh a lot of things have been said in the heat of the moment very terrible things I wish not to repeat...as a person I review what I have said and how that person may feel. I usually feel sympathetic towards the victim as they probably didn't deserve it. I would like to apologise if the person contacts me however usually I let it go as I deserve the treatment i will receive after |
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"Have you ever said something that was outrageous and unthinkable because you were over tired and stressed and therefore cost you a friendship? How did you feel afterwards?"
Yes, but it's not because I was tired or stressed.
I just do it as a matter of course, it seems.
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"Have you ever said something that was outrageous and unthinkable because you were over tired and stressed and therefore cost you a friendship? How did you feel afterwards?
Yes, but it's not because I was tired or stressed.
I just do it as a matter of course, it seems.
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Which is why you will never never never never see me again! I was outraged. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thank you for your inputs. I don't like to live with regrets but this time I have a regret that I wish I could have been more sensitive and sensible. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Thank you for your inputs. I don't like to live with regrets but this time I have a regret that I wish I could have been more sensitive and sensible. "
maybe your 'friend' neds a lesson in forgiving people and being more in tune with their friends needs. friendship is a two way street and if a pebble knocks it of course, one could wonder if they werent there purely for their own benefit x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank you for your inputs. I don't like to live with regrets but this time I have a regret that I wish I could have been more sensitive and sensible. maybe your 'friend' neds a lesson in forgiving people and being more in tune with their friends needs. friendship is a two way street and if a pebble knocks it of course, one could wonder if they werent there purely for their own benefit x
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Suzy you have hit the nail on the head as there's alot of truth in your remarks (even though I haven't divulged). Thanks for your insight! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I did say something to a friend, like you have said, I would question my own mind and why I said it. They probably deserve a better friend. "
Without divulging...what I suggested was lateral thinking so there was no malice, no bad feelings. So yes I have questioned and did question my own mind...obviously I wasn't thinking right as I was over tired, stressed and in need of tender loving care which I had not conveyed prior to our talking. |
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I only ever say something if I mean it which makes it difficult for me to distinguish between things that are said because someone is angry, tired or stressed and genuinely meant comments. This results in me being hurt and the person saying it being misunderstood.
Human interactions require understanding from both sides, maybe a calm talk with your friend will help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I only ever say something if I mean it which makes it difficult for me to distinguish between things that are said because someone is angry, tired or stressed and genuinely meant comments. This results in me being hurt and the person saying it being misunderstood.
Human interactions require understanding from both sides, maybe a calm talk with your friend will help."
I was very calm at the time. If only I could talk with him again. Messaging on whatsapp, emailing and text is a terrible way to communicate at the best of times as one does not hear tonation or see the persons face which all adds to proper comms. |
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