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Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks? |
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over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....  "
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original  |
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Usually I will look at a picture and see if there is any attraction. If not a profile isn't going to change it. I'm not here for dating.
The exception being maybe a for us user who's personality is attractive. |
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over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original "
Sorry shan't send them again  |
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original "
I get a lot of dick in my inbox... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox..."
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all .... |
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"Usually I will look at a picture and see if there is any attraction. If not a profile isn't going to change it. I'm not here for dating.
The exception being maybe a for us user who's personality is attractive. "
I see... but if you were to hang out with somebody wouldn't you want them to have a personality to go with what they bring to the table sexually.... I personally can't stand a person who is easy on the eyes but you start talking to them only to realize they are arrogant ignorant or otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all .... "
Oh feck that.drives me nuts |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original "
I've not started messaging you yet but now I see an overload of quim isn't welcome, there's little point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
Sorry shan't send them again "
Well well, let's not rush to conclusions now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks?"
I always look at a profile before passing judgement. I look at the pictures, too.
If they do not suit what I am looking for, then no, I do not chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all .... "
Oh you are just the worst, lol.
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"Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks?
I always look at a profile before passing judgement. I look at the pictures, too.
If they do not suit what I am looking for, then no, I do not chat."
That, to me, makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all ....
Oh you are just the worst, lol.
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Arrrrrr it was a forum shuffle thingy ...I have a good excuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all ....
Oh you are just the worst, lol.
Arrrrrr it was a forum shuffle thingy ...I have a good excuse "
that bum is excuse enough...  |
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all .... "
See as a woman I think it's easier for people to want to talk to you, even ugly gals get looked at. But as a man if you're not hung like a bull or if you don't have the body of Michaelangelo. .. you're brushed aside like rubbish... but I guess you really can't make everybody happy |
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"Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks?"
Honestly, we always look at the pics first, but we still read profiles.
It's more to see if they come across as a bit of a dick. And to see if they have any preferences that make them incompatible to us. |
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"Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks?"
I look at the pictures
Then read the profile
Then I make up my mind |
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"Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks?"
If I'm approaching someone with an initial message I would always read their profile
Must admit I do not read the profiles of people that have made the initial approach to us when it's obvious they haven't read ours I just hit delete & block |
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all ....
See as a woman I think it's easier for people to want to talk to you, even ugly gals get looked at. But as a man if you're not hung like a bull or if you don't have the body of Michaelangelo. .. you're brushed aside like rubbish... but I guess you really can't make everybody happy"
Aaannd I was not trying to imply anything about you being ugly jo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I judge people by the tidiness of thier bathrooms.
But yeah pictures first profile second.
If i dont find you sexually attractive doesnt matter how awesome a profile you have I'm not going to sleep with you.
However if you do have smoking hot pics and i do find you sexually attractive but your profile makes your personality seem awful im still not going to try and sleep with you.
So both, but generally the hotter you are the more leway you get when it comes to your writing skills |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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I read the profile and look at the pics but I'm a fussy bugger.
I like to get to know someone a little... That's why I like the forums you get a feel of what ppl are like.
Some of you are sexy as but come across personality wise as total wankers.
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"I read the profile and look at the pics but I'm a fussy bugger.
I like to get to know someone a little... That's why I like the forums you get a feel of what ppl are like.
Some of you are sexy as but come across personality wise as total wankers.
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I couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all ....
See as a woman I think it's easier for people to want to talk to you, even ugly gals get looked at. But as a man if you're not hung like a bull or if you don't have the body of Michaelangelo. .. you're brushed aside like rubbish... but I guess you really can't make everybody happy"
But every guy can get a muscular body, so its a bs thing to complain about tbh.
Ok getting ultra lean/shredded is just way to big of a lifestyle change for most people and is understandably rare, but just having a decent amount of muscle and reasonable body fat is very achievable.
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"Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks?"
I always read a profile before entering into any conversation with anyone on here, usually I don't bother if they aren't what I'm looking for as what's the point in that |
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As a woman there are a lot of messages to get through and I can't waste time giving everyone 'a chance'.
First look is the message. We can tell an awful lot about a guy who just says "Hi". From that message it's a no.
Then the face pic, assuming he sends one. If he looks grumpy and/or like a psycho killer then it's a no.
If he looks like he might be attractive to me then I read the profile. If it then transpires he is "looking to meet women and couples" and is obsessed with his cock then it's a no.
If by any chance he seems interesting after a message a face pic and a profile then I will chat. But only to establish if we are going to meet for a coffee social.
And face to face is the only way to really find out if there is true attraction of any kind, in my opinion.
Forumites are different because you can gauge a lot more about their personality before the coffee social  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"See as a woman I think it's easier for people to want to talk to you, even ugly gals get looked at. But as a man if you're not hung like a bull or if you don't have the body of Michaelangelo. .. you're brushed aside like rubbish... but I guess you really can't make everybody happy"
You see that's where you're wrong OP, I'm neither hung like a bull nor do I have the body of Michaelangelo but generally do ok for chatting to different people, some of which are on this very thread So have certainly not been "brushed aside". Can't speak for my own profile, and what people think of it, but do think it comes down to having an interesting profile and a set of pics that aren't ALL cock pics, as much as it does body shape though.
You also have going against you that you're overseas, which isn't going to help you with mainly UK based ladies looking to meet. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
P.S. To answer the original question, yes I am one of those rare beasts that does read a profile, and won't just go on pics - now which I look at first varies, but definitely look at both before contacting anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read the profile and look at the pics but I'm a fussy bugger.
I like to get to know someone a little... That's why I like the forums you get a feel of what ppl are like.
Some of you are sexy as but come across personality wise as total wankers.
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Yeah, sorry about that  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
My regular squeeze has no pics on his profile and only about two lines actually written on it. We clicked instantly via message and have been fucking for years ever since. Everyone I've met from here I've met as a result of what they said, how they said it and whether or not we were compatible as a result. The visual aspect is the least important. I may be in the minority with that opinion but that's how fab works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read the profile, then look at pictures. If that intrigues me enough then I will chat.
I can usually tell after a few messages whether I like them or not. Personality is the 1st deciding factor, followed by physical attraction at a close 2nd.
If people message with a simple "hi" or similar, then I don't even bother checking out their profile, I simply delete.
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"My regular squeeze has no pics on his profile and only about two lines actually written on it. We clicked instantly via message and have been fucking for years ever since. Everyone I've met from here I've met as a result of what they said, how they said it and whether or not we were compatible as a result. The visual aspect is the least important. I may be in the minority with that opinion but that's how fab works for me."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Usually I will look at a picture and see if there is any attraction. If not a profile isn't going to change it. I'm not here for dating.
The exception being maybe a for us user who's personality is attractive.
I see... but if you were to hang out with somebody wouldn't you want them to have a personality to go with what they bring to the table sexually.... I personally can't stand a person who is easy on the eyes but you start talking to them only to realize they are arrogant ignorant or otherwise"
Yes but you need the physical attraction too or your friend zoned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't pass judgement on anyone OP
You do. And quite right, too. Pics and no illegal substances. So you are judgemental. As we all are."
I disagree. I'm not judging someone, merely specifying personal preference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well an all original FAF message with multiple cock shots doesn't even get a profile view ...
Passing That phase I am a rare one who reads a profile ...
And as beautiful as they are if they have a one line profile I judge and don't respond... but that's just me and my weird ass!! |
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"Well an all original FAF message with multiple cock shots doesn't even get a profile view ...
Passing That phase I am a rare one who reads a profile ...
And as beautiful as they are if they have a one line profile I judge and don't respond... but that's just me and my weird ass!! "
It is a very cute ass though |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Do people actually read a profile before passing judgement, or do they look at a profile pic and pass judgement then?
Or do you actually chat with somebody to figure out if they are worth speaking to. Or again... is it all based on looks?"
Nice c*ck(s) |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura |
"Well an all original FAF message with multiple cock shots doesn't even get a profile view ...
Passing That phase I am a rare one who reads a profile ...
And as beautiful as they are if they have a one line profile I judge and don't respond... but that's just me and my weird ass!! "
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Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Visual aspect is important in sexual attraction but that doesn't always come across in a photograph - how their smile lights their face, a sparkle in their eyes, the way they hold their posture....all these things cannot be detected easily from many of the photos shared on fabs.
Personality is also important for me to want to get sexual with someone - personality is impossible to judge from internet profiles but there are certain things that disinterest me totally so if those things are noticeable in the profile I take note and decline further contact.
Personality and physical attractiveness are much easier to gauge once you are face to face with the other person - this is why meeting in a swingers club works best for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Noone reads profiles did you not know
They go straight in for the kill ...from just seeing the pics
And that's the honest truth ....
This, I keep getting FAF messages with vagina pics attached, how original
I get a lot of dick in my inbox...
I had 60 in my inbox last night
Didn't even have a sneaky peak and deleted them all .... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always read profiles before messaging, guess it's respect for the recipient, it means if I'm not right for them or they I, that I don't waste anyone's time.
Doesn't always work out that way, but at least it's a start. |
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"I don't pass judgement on anyone OP
You do. And quite right, too. Pics and no illegal substances. So you are judgemental. As we all are.
I disagree. I'm not judging someone, merely specifying personal preference.
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Judge: "To form, give, or have as an opinion, or to decide about something or someone, especially after thinking carefully."
We all judge people. |
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"I don't pass judgement on anyone OP
You do. And quite right, too. Pics and no illegal substances. So you are judgemental. As we all are.
I disagree. I'm not judging someone, merely specifying personal preference.
Judge: "To form, give, or have as an opinion, or to decide about something or someone, especially after thinking carefully."
We all judge people."
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